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Is it the 'mid-life crisis' or does he actually have feelings as it has gone on for so long?

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Question - (12 July 2007) 2 Answers - (Newest, 13 July 2007)
A female United Kingdom age 51-59, anonymous writes:

Hi,

One of my male colleagues has shown that he is interested for the last year and a half. He is married with children and in his early fifties.

I find him attractive but never wanted to pursue it as he is married. Since I have not been pursuing it, he has started to regularly talk about his wife. I think he is being a big hypocrite since he is still clearly interested. Is it the 'mid-life crisis' or does he actually have feelings as it has gone on for so long?

Your views much appreciated.

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A female reader, eyeswideopen United States +, writes (13 July 2007):

eyeswideopen agony auntWho cares if he has "feelings"? Stay away. Whether it's a mid-life crisis or whatever...it's certainly no business of yours. Let everything he says go in one ear and out the other.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (12 July 2007):

Hi hun,

I think this man is a attention seeker, and I wouldnt listen to a word he says. His poor wife if things are that bad that he openly has shown an interest in you, how many other women do you think he trys to get the sympathy vote of...He should be trying to sort out his family life and if he no longer wants one then he should be honest with his wife and talk to her. Personally I would just let him get on with it he isnt worth your worry sweetheart. TAKE CARE LOVE MANDY XXXXXXXXX

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