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writes:What can you all use to have your guy go down on you? Guys what do you like? Reply to this Question
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reader, DJ8433 +, writes (14 July 2007):
 First, have you talked to him about it? You're question leads me to a more fundamental issue concerning people and sex. Some people are naturally more passionate than others, I call them givers. They get pleasure from pleasing their partners and that is their priority in the bedroom, not pleasing themselves. If he's not a selfish lover, then there may be another reason. I have "gone down" on almost all of the women I have been with, but there are a few that I had to back away from. I don't even know if a bath or a douche would have helped the odor. If it's not an odor problem, then it's a mental block for him that prevents him from pleasing you in this way. I have had friends tell me that it's only inches away from the butt, and there's no way they're getting that close to a butt. If he's not giving you what you need, then you have to decide if it's that big of a compromise for you, enough so that you might resent him later. Only you know how much you're willing to compromise. If you can't live without the oral sex, then move on and find a man that will please you in the way you want. Don't settle, and don't wait, life's to short.
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reader, Andy00  +, writes (13 July 2007):
 Well, usually you just leave that up to the guy. Failing that, you could always ask him. Don't pressure him, if you meerly ask if he can go down on you, atleast you've mentioned it, and he'll either feel like it or he won't.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 July 2007): im a girl but im also bisexual and i love to use toys when i go down on a girl, fingers or tounge, but if im using my tounge i also use some flavoured lube tastes great
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 July 2007): A few questions ago a guy asked the same thing. I'll give you the same answer he was given: Be patient! He'll do it when he is ready. Don't try to force him. As for what a guy would like maybe a warning before you climax? Many women ejaculate when they orgasm and a sudden spray can really kill the mood. Just as many women don't like getting that stuff all over neither do men.
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reader, eddie  +, writes (12 July 2007):
 Put the TV between your knees, tuned to the sports channel and a cold beer within reach. He'll stay down there for a while, at least until the beer's gone or half time.
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reader, JustJames +, writes (12 July 2007):
I love going down on women, but some guys seem to have a problem with it. But if you make it clear how much it turns you on, and is likely to lead to you rewarding him appropriately with whatever he likes, you should be fine.
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reader, Jamer70 +, writes (12 July 2007):
 Hey. Just ask him. Doubt he will say no!
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 July 2007): Asking is good advice, most guys don't have to be asked twice. However, i have met men who just don't like doing it and i never asked why.... i just assumed they were insane. Anyway, the obvious thing is just to make sure your hygiene is very good, and perhaps create a tempting package by wearing sexy panties.
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reader, flower girl +, writes (12 July 2007):
 I tend to just ask that does it for us.
Take care.xx.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (12 July 2007):
 Well you could use a 45 but that might be a bit drastic ;o
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