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writes:I have a really basic question. How do you make love? I'm a virgin, and I've learned from health classes and such in schools about sex. I understand biologically what is supposed to happen, but that's not quite what I want to know. How do you make it about love? What are some positions? How do you make it pleasurable? Any info would be helpful, thanks! Reply to this Question
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reader, O Connor  +, writes (13 July 2007):
 first of all you need to be in love with the person and this will make sex so much better for you! if you are a virgin then the most comfortable position for you would be the missionary (him on top). this is really enjoyable and is the easiest for you as a first time. make sure you use a condom and are completely comfortable with the person. make sure he goes slowly and softly, and a little foreplay doesnt hurt!! as it will also help you produce natural lubricant which will make sex easier and you will be more excited for sex!! if you want to talk more email me anything you need to know about sex and relationships!!xxx
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reader, Straight Up  +, writes (13 July 2007):
 sex is a natural thing so theres no way of me tell you want to do. for the first time your going to be uptight and nervous but try not to be. try to relax as much as possible. make sure that you take it slow so it last langer and guided your partner to the places were you lied to be touched
good luck
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reader, 88jane +, writes (12 July 2007):
 firstly, i know it sounds cheesy but if you want it to be more than just sex then you need to make sure you do it with someone you love and trust. someone who respects you and you need to feel completely ready before you decide to do it. dont rush in to full sex, start with gentle kissing and touching, take it slow. get to know each others bodys until you feel completely comfortable with each other. you can try many positions that will be pleasurable--intimate positions could be the missionary position where you can look into each others eyes, or you on top facing him with your legs wrapped round his waist and arms round his neck---this will allow you to look at each other and feel very close. It will be pleasurable if you are ready to do it and comfortable with your partner---talking to each other and saying what you want could mean that you get what you want from the experience. The first time can often be painful so take it slow.
Enjoy yourself, take care and i hope my advice helped
xxx
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