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My ex was using me for sex and I broke it off, but how do I get over him?

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Question - (12 July 2007) 2 Answers - (Newest, 13 July 2007)
A female , anonymous writes:

hi, i have a problem. i broke up with my first boyfriend seven years ago. i started seeing someone else and was with him for six years then broke up with him. my first boyfriend came back though he was seeing someone else and we used to sleep together and he said he loved us both. i realised that he was just playing around with me and decided to tell him that we stop seeing each other and said a few harsh words. now, i miss him and regret my decision though i know it was for the best. how do i get over him and move on with my life as i think about him all the time?

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A male reader, Dunregi Kenya +, writes (13 July 2007):

Hallo babe.

Its great whatever the decision you made.Your ex boyfriend lied to you when he said he love you and the girl he sees as well,it cant work that way.He was only using you to comfort his sex life.

You might think you really want him but no you dont,you are only desparate because you broke up with your second boyfriend and the ex also does not give you full attention.

My girl take your time to socialise and choose wisely the man you want to date,do not rush into this,let the wound heal first,am sure you will find the right guy who will give you full attention and satisfaction in the name of love,just have faith my dear.

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A female reader, BEEN THERE DONE IT United Kingdom +, writes (13 July 2007):

BEEN THERE DONE IT agony auntHi honey,

Don't ya just hate loving the bad boys!!!!!

Us girlies fall for them hook line and sinker don't we????

First of all WELL DONE YOU!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Don't you dare regret your decision babes, you did the right thing other wise he would still be using you now, is that what you want for the rest of your life, NO, you deserve much much much better than that.....

He will end up regretting it one day, once a cheat always a cheat, so they say....

You hold your head up high, I know its hard but show him you can survive he is the looser here babes not you.....

Find your self a nice guy one who will show you the love you deserve and as time passes I promise the pain will ease and you'll look back and thank your lucky stars you did the right thing I promise ya that....

You take care honey and remember well done you girl!!!!!!

Love Donna xx

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