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writes: I broke up with my boyfriend a month ago and now I miss him. I don't know if I'm (or ever was) in love with him. Sometimes I feel I love him and want to get back with him but then I think about the things that make me broke up with him and I feel bad and say to myself that I deserve better. This was the longest relationship I've had in my life (2yrs.) and also I gave him my virginity. We were egnaged and everything. A month ago my mother called him so he would bring her my sunglasses and he told her that he hoped that everything (between us) could get back to "normal". He had since never called, emailed or nothing. But that's the way he has always been with me, if he 'smells' trouble he keeps complete silence until I call him. I really don't miss the relationship I had with him because it had turned into something not enjoyablefor me (and maybe for him too) but I miss him. If only things could get back to what they were our first year together. Last night I saw he had a 'facebook.com' account and stupidly added him as my friend. I saw he had his account since June 22 and had no friends added. But now that he had me as his first friend he magically found 9 more friends. I know he is not a friendly person. He calls his clients friends and he knows a lot of people but he is not that friendly. He have never liked to go out, party or drink. Do you think he is trying to make me feel jealous with this or do you think that he is saying: "look you are not that special, you are there with this bunch of people you don't know". And Do you think that this feelings for him will go away soon? How long will it take? This has never happened to me before.Thanks
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reader, whataboutme  +, writes (12 July 2007):
God do I feel 100% like you.
You know it's not right but still yuo think it might be if only this that and the other was different.
I did the same but on another site for friends etc and to start he had no friends and now two weeks later he has 20 and most of them scandily clad women.
And thats my ex too...
I don't know what else to say. you say he isn't friendly, now that's not a great sign is it?
I would leave him well alone or call or contact him once and for all and have it out with him to see what he wants.
Hope that helps!
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