I'm addicted to porn and I'm female!
Q. ok I am really starting to worry. I am a girl(16) and i have a boyfriend etc. I am like addicted to porn! seeing what people have wrote on this site, there so not as addicted as iam. i watch it like every single day!! i use to masterbate all the ...
A. 31 March 2008: When the time is right, everything will fall into place.
It is the natural thing to do.
When you are ready and he is ready...... (read in full...)
I'm 17 with a 27 year old...
Q. I have a really good friend that is a guy and he invited me to a party at his place where he rooms with his two cousins. This guy has liked me for a long time and he would give anything to be with me. When I went to this party he had every ...
A. 26 March 2008: You will need to sugar coat your words first.
Tell him how good he is but you are sorry ,
you prefer his cousin.
It would be more diplomatic this way.
... (read in full...)
I'm 17 with a 27 year old...
Q. I have a really good friend that is a guy and he invited me to a party at his place where he rooms with his two cousins. This guy has liked me for a long time and he would give anything to be with me. When I went to this party he had every ...
A. 23 March 2008: Just tell him straight and in simple English.
It will be up to him if he still wants to be your friend or cut you off.
There is nothing much you can do about him if he withdraws from you.... (read in full...)
If a guy cheats on you once, will he cheat on you again?
Q. If a guy cheats on you once, will he cheat on you again?...
A. 19 March 2008: Leave the past behind and live in the present.
Do not worry about the future because no one knows what will happen .
You cannot control the future and neither can you change it.
Whatever will happen , will happen!
It is God's will.
Th... (read in full...)
Should I apologise or is it a lost cause?
Q. Hi... I was seeing this guy over the summer who is at an Ivy league business school and I'm in art school so we're opposites. Anyway over the summer he took me out to some really nice dinners but I didn't act too interested. Then I realized I ...
A. 18 March 2008: You are welcome!
I don't see blueykisses response too.
Try looking in your account, your question ,most discussed or under Questions.
Maybe it will surface later.
... (read in full...)
Should I apologise or is it a lost cause?
Q. Hi... I was seeing this guy over the summer who is at an Ivy league business school and I'm in art school so we're opposites. Anyway over the summer he took me out to some really nice dinners but I didn't act too interested. Then I realized I ...
A. 18 March 2008: Absence makes the heart grows fonder.
Sometimes we don't know what we miss until they are gone.
I am glad that you took the initiative to write and bridge back the connection with him.
Nothing venture , nothing gained.
I wish you al... (read in full...)
My husband's affair...
Q. I've been married for 13 years but been with my husband for 16 years in total. A few months ago I discovered he had been having an affair with a 13 years younger woman with 6 children, we had no children together but he had 4 from his previous ...
A. 16 March 2008: Just get up and walk away from all his lies and deceits.
Harden your heart and cut him off completely.
Better to be alone for now than to live in a deceitful world .
He cannot give you happiness.
Embrace your future without him.
He i... (read in full...)
I'm scared maybe he is useing me for sex.
Q. I've been seeing this guy for 3 months and we have had sex. I asked him if I was the only one he was sleeping with and he said yes he can't afford anymore women and we laughed. He picks me up almost every weekend and I sleep over he told me he realy ...
A. 16 March 2008: You gave him sex and everything and what did you get in return?
If this is not using you , what is it?
Even a hooker gets paid for her services.
Stop the sex and see how he treats you.... (read in full...)
He is interested in me physically but not in any other way, what do you think?
Q. I'm having a bit of a crisis of conscience. There's a guy who I've known for a good few years who I've recently developed a bit of a thing for. He has on numerous occasions let me know that he would be interested in me physically but not necessarily ...
A. 16 March 2008: He has said he is in it for the physical side only and you cannot expect him to change or think you can change his mind.
If you like the idea, then go ahead, a FWB.
If you expect more than that ,you will be terribly disappointed.
... (read in full...)
My boyfriend has "slutty" posters on his wall, why do I feel insecure?
Q. I feel really insecure in my relationship with my bf. I dont know if its me that is the problem or him? I have never felt secure in a relationship (besides for the beguining, that feeling of secuirty soon fades away) so it makes me think maybe im ...
A. 16 March 2008: This relationship is incompatible as there are so many areas where you don't see eye to eye.
It could be opposite attracts but he is leading you away from all your principles.
There will be alot of wear and tear in your relationship.
... (read in full...)
Risk of pregnancy in 4-5 days after her period?
Q. my condom broke and my girlfriends period ended five days ago what are the chances that she'll get pregnant?...
A. 16 March 2008: 7 days before the first day of period and 7 days after is a fertile period.
A women's period lasts from 3 to 7 days....
Your chances of pregnancy is slim but to be 100% safe, take the morning after pill.
... (read in full...)
If a guy cheats on you once, will he cheat on you again?
Q. If a guy cheats on you once, will he cheat on you again?...
A. 16 March 2008: Nobody knows that answer unless He is God.
Once a cheat always a cheat is a stereotype answer.
Not everyone is the same and the conditions why they cheat are different.
You can give him 2 or 3 chances depending on your generosity.
Once... (read in full...)
I'm scared I'm pregnant...
Q. I had sex a little while ago, unprotected. I'm 16 years old. He did not cum inside of me, and we are both sure of that but I'm scared I'm pregnant.. I worry alot. what can I do?...
A. 16 March 2008: Use condoms next time or go on the pills if you are sexually active.
Don't tempt with fate.
Did not cum inside does not mean cannot get pregnant.
There is no 100%.
... (read in full...)
I'm addicted to porn and I'm female!
Q. ok I am really starting to worry. I am a girl(16) and i have a boyfriend etc. I am like addicted to porn! seeing what people have wrote on this site, there so not as addicted as iam. i watch it like every single day!! i use to masterbate all the ...
A. 16 March 2008:
If you have a balance life, then it is normal .
If it is just porn all the time , then you have OCD.... (read in full...)
Desperate and confused...
Q. I have been with my partner for 10 years, he already has a partner an 2 kids, we have son together and have just brought a house together, even though he still lives at home with his family. I can't stand this double life any more he calls me his ...
A. 16 March 2008: You are going to force him to make a stand and the outcome may not be in your favour.
Can you give up what you have now and walk away from all this?
You need to be prepared for the worst scenario.... (read in full...)
Advice and thoughts on my girlfriend of 4 years breaking up with me for someone else.
Q. Ok well here is another break-up story. I never thought I would ever be writing this, but here it goes. I've been dating this girl for 4 years. She is 21 and I'm 26 so we've been dating since she was a senior in high school. we fell in love within a ...
A. 16 March 2008: Give her some space to help her decide what she wants.
If she has decided, then just accept it and let her go.
If you love her, let her go.... (read in full...)
Is a younger man taboo?
Q. I met my son-in-laws brother a year ago, he is 16 years younger than me, he is the most intelligent, loving, amazing man I have ever met, he said age is nothing but a number, and just because my daughter and his brother are married does not make he ...
A. 15 March 2008:
Others may not feel it is taboo, but you still have to win your daughter and SIL to your side.
Other's thoughts may not be important but these two important person can make your life miserable.
... (read in full...)
I need some advice about my ex boyfriend.
Q. My ex boyfriend who I still love and well am still in love with, I can't stop thinking bout him. He recently was with this girl who he claimed HE was in love with but yet he was still sleeping with me at this time. I think we slept together almost ...
A. 15 March 2008: Would you love a man with a cheating heart and who played you out?
What do you see in him that you cannot give him up?
Guys like him cannot have relationships .
They only use women for their own sexual pleasures and then discard them when t... (read in full...)
He says he loves me but would never marry me!
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for 6 years, we have 4 kids together and he has been married before and engaged before. The other day I was talking to him and he said that he would never marry me. So I got very angry I am not talking to him ...
A. 15 March 2008: He is married before and maybe , he is still legally married and not divorced yet.
This could probably be the reason he could not marry you.
A marriage that is registered with the proper authorities is a legal entity and in the yes of the law ,... (read in full...)
I am stuck between my boyfriend and my ex. Please Help.
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for two years. I do love him. He's a good guy but I'm afraid that I may still love my ex boyfriend from three years ago. I thought I let go of him but everytime we talk or bump into each other we fall back in love. He ...
A. 15 March 2008: Don't be like a dog that goes back to eat it's own vomit.
There is a reason why you vomited him out.
If you don't have a b/f , then you can reconsider.
You should eat fresh food and not vomit.
... (read in full...)
He has a thing about trying to see my panties all the time!
Q. Whenever I'm alone at home with my boyfriend (whether his home or mine), he constantly tries to see my panties from under my skirt or by tugging down the side of my pants. When he just started doing it, it was fine, but he does it literally almost ...
A. 15 March 2008: Looking upskirt is wrong .It is an offense in some countries.
I don't think it is normal and and if done frequently is wrong as he does not respect your modesty.
... (read in full...)
Is this relationship salvageable?
Q. Okay, so it's kind of a complex situation. My boyfriend (on and off) of more than 5 years and I have decided we want to get married. I have just recently finished college and am currently looking for a decent job. He has just decided he doesn...
A. 15 March 2008: Love is beautiful and happiness.
If you cannot satisfy those criteria, there is no way I want to stay in a relationship.
I will treat him as a friend only .... (read in full...)
35 and single, what do I do?
Q. I'm 35 and not married. I feel like Bridget Jones. I'm tall, slim, attractive with blond hair and intelligent - have an amazing job, well paid and lots of friends. I have no idea what the secret to finding a man and having a long lasting ...
A. 15 March 2008: Men are afraid of women high flyer...
http://www.pinksuzie.com/2007/10/08/why-men-dont-prefer-women-high-flyers/
and modern day women need to have the Mirinda complex to hook their partners...
http://www.pinksuzie.... (read in full...)
I'm 17 with a 27 year old...
Q. I have a really good friend that is a guy and he invited me to a party at his place where he rooms with his two cousins. This guy has liked me for a long time and he would give anything to be with me. When I went to this party he had every ...
A. 14 March 2008: It is better to be truthful than to lead him on.
The choice is yours.... (read in full...)
How do I stay strong when I feel like he messed up my life and no one knows the real him?
Q. I was keeping the message in my inbox on myspace from my ex in case i would ever need to report him for stalking, and today i noticed he changed his profile picture to one with 2 girls kissing him. So, stupidly I checked out his page and in almos...
A. 14 March 2008: Forgive him and bless him.
You can let him go after you do that .
You can then rebuilt your life and stop thinking or remind you of him.
You will soon forget him and enjoy your new life.
Don't keep on blaming him for it does not serv... (read in full...)
Her religion holds her back, but I want her so much! Help!
Q. I'm 22 years old and i like a girl who is 18 years old lives in my neighbourhood.we both are very good firends.she always asks about me to all my friends whenever i am not around hanging out with them. I told her that i like her many times but she ...
A. 14 March 2008: Do not have too high an expectations from her.
You will be terribly disappointed.
Learn to love her by giving her space and allowing her ,her freedom.
Don't choke or suffocate her.
For your obsession will either stunt your growth or wil... (read in full...)
My friends think I am a slut for loving porn...am I normal??
Q. Right, iam a girl and some of my friends thinks its weird to watch porn! I watch it like everyday and i always masturbate!! I think i should be a boy. My boyfriend doesnt think its weird; he loves it that i am open about myself but its the girls ...
A. 13 March 2008: You are normal alright .
It is those girls which are hypocritical..
Who cares if you or they are normal?
As long as you enjoy looking.
It is your own pleasure.... (read in full...)
Help me choose between my boyfriend and my best friend!
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for 8 years, we split for about a year and I dated my best friend. I love them both but differently. I think that there is more passion and compassion with my best friend but I feel guilty if I leave my boyfriend and ...
A. 13 March 2008: Whoever can gives you the most happiness and meaning,
he is the one for you.
There will be a winner and a loser.
There is nothing much you can do for the loser.
If you cannot decide, wait until one drop off..
Then fate will decide ... (read in full...)
I'm 17 with a 27 year old...
Q. I have a really good friend that is a guy and he invited me to a party at his place where he rooms with his two cousins. This guy has liked me for a long time and he would give anything to be with me. When I went to this party he had every ...
A. 13 March 2008: What is legal is not wrong.
Whether it is morally right or wrong ,
only you can decide for yourself.
Each of us have different opinions.
What is important is your happiness
and only you can decide that.... (read in full...)
Does she want out or still love me??
Q. If my wife (when she has been drinking) says "we have grown apart" when in fact nothing has changed, or uses the "we should split now so that we can stay friends". But also staunchly maintains that she loves you. Which is more likely?...
A. 12 March 2008: She wants you to pay more attentions to her.
You are not giving her enough of your attentions.
Once you do , those words will cease coming out of her.... (read in full...)
Should I worry that my girlfriend stays in contact with her ex?
Q. I met my girlfriend about 6 months ago. She just got out of a realtionship then about 2 months. She left the guy because of a disease. Ever since then she is been in contact with him. He calls her all the time and she likes talking to him. If she d...
A. 12 March 2008: It is easier to see the saw dust in your eyes than to see the plank in one's eye.
A camel cannot see its own hump.
One can see other's mistakes but cannot see their own.
You can mirror back her actions and let her feel what it is like.
... (read in full...)
His phone porn clips make me want to give my number to other men!
Q. Please help, i'm not sure if i'm acting the right way. well my bf is 'obsessed' with porn videos or that's what i think. Because he has a whole lot of porn clips on his phone. about 2 months ago I told him to delete these things on his phone and ...
A. 12 March 2008: If you cannot accept that, you dump him .
If you cannot accept dumping him , then you live with it.
Those guys like to show them around to their buddies.
In some countries ,it is an offense and can land you in trouble.... (read in full...)
I'm afraid we're drifting apart because of his studies!
Q. I need advice, i miss my boyfriend heaps hes year 11 and has been studying heaps i havent been seeing him at all i may see him at school for about a min or something!! lately i have been crying heaps lately coz i miss him. i think we have drifted ...
A. 12 March 2008: There is a time for everything,
A time to study and a time to play .
When you are free, you can contact him or visit him .
Use the online if you do not have the time.... (read in full...)
I want to be the person I was before I had my daughter. Any advice??
Q. I just had my daughter four months ago and ever since I got pregnant my entire personality has changed...for the worse!!! I used to be a happy go lucky get along with everyone kinda of person and now i am depressed and angry and rude an sarcasti...
A. 12 March 2008: You could be under too much stress.
Go for some exercise which will de stress you and make you feel better.
Have enough sleep and eat a balance diet.
Make sure you are not over worked.
Lastly if nothing works , look for God.
He will... (read in full...)
Should I apologise or is it a lost cause?
Q. Hi... I was seeing this guy over the summer who is at an Ivy league business school and I'm in art school so we're opposites. Anyway over the summer he took me out to some really nice dinners but I didn't act too interested. Then I realized I ...
A. 12 March 2008: You were a bit pushy and he instinctively withdrew from you . Maybe after some cooling off, he may find you back again. Keep your fingers crossed. ... (read in full...)
I want him for nothing other then pure passion, but could we remain friends?
Q. ok i need help!! i'm with my man for years now and i love him to bits don't get me wrong. but there's this guy who's in the same situation as me and we both want eachother soooo much, just for sex like! we always tell eachother that it cant happ...
A. 12 March 2008: Remove yourself from this temptation if you want to stay with your man.
You will complicate your life and bring all those pains and hurts into your relationship.
There will be regrets and remorse and what is done , cannot be undone.
Walk ... (read in full...)
How to tell if he wants to be just friends, or is interested in you?
Q. What are signs that he wants to be more than friends, or signs he wants to be JUST friends? Does it mean anything if he keeps texting you late at night? What if he talks to you on and off throughout the day? If he keeps asking about your life,...
A. 12 March 2008: Just friends would not go out of the way like him.
If you are just friends, you will have normal conversations when you meet.
If you don't see each other, there will be no communications whatsoever.
That is if you are just friends.
... (read in full...)
Can a person male or female, truly have the belief or values which consider that cheating on someone they absolutely love is totally wrong and they have always considered it that and then go to a person.
Q. Can a person male or female, truly have the belief or values which consider that cheating on someone they absolutely love is totally wrong and they have always considered it that and then go to a person; Who considers it just something which ...
A. 12 March 2008: Whether it is just sex alone or sex with emotions with another person while you are married is wrong .
This is called adultery.
God knows better.
I don't think I want to venture there for there is too high a price to pay for such extras. ... (read in full...)
I love him and want to get marry but he doesn't. What should I do?
Q. I've met this man 18 years my senior when I divorced my husband of 22 years. He helps me to go through the divorce and get my life back on track. We get on well and been together two years now. I love him and want to get marry but he doesn't. ...
A. 12 March 2008: You can wait until he changes his mind or until you meet someone who wants to marry you.
Live from day to day and enjoy life.... (read in full...)
I don't want sex as much as my horny girlfriend and it's leading to arguments!
Q. My girlfriend and I been together going on 3 years this month. She is a very active girl in bed. She seems to want activity every night. Me on the other hand I don't get active once or maybe twice a week. We also turn it into arguments. I use to be ...
A. 12 March 2008: Get her some sex toys to compliment your sexual games.
She could use them when you are not around.
This would satisfy some of her needs and would not be too demanding for you when her needs are met.... (read in full...)
How can I get my boyfriend to have sex with me?
Q. I am concerned about my sexual relationship with my boyfriend of over 2 years. For about the past year my boyfriend hardly ever in the mood to have sex with me and we only have sex when I initiate it and it makes me feel incredibly unattractive. I ...
A. 12 March 2008: Get him to exercise for a fitter and leaner person and he will find sex more interesting.
Man are virtual creatures, dress less and show more .
This is a good site with lots of info's here,
http://web4health.inf... (read in full...)
I'm in love with my best friend's younger brother!
Q. I have had the same best friend for 10 years, and she is one of 8 kids. Her youngest brother (of 6 years) and I have always been really close friends. Finally last summer we were drunk one night and ended up together. It happened a few times after ...
A. 12 March 2008: You are a victim of circumstances and if you want to end this, you will have to walk away from them and start a new life again. If your love for him is strong, you will have to wait if he will dump his other g/f for you. Otherwise , you need... (read in full...)
Why does he smell his fingers???
Q. I have been dating my boyfriend for over a year, and we have had sex. I have given oral but not received it, which was more of my choice because of me being worried about smelling bad (even though I don't think I do). Lately, I've noticed that after ...
A. 12 March 2008: After he washed his hands , he smells his fingers to see if those smells are gotten rid off.
He does not like to have those smells following him around.
That would gives him away.... (read in full...)
My ex wants me to meet his other ex, why?
Q. My daughter's dad and I are spending a lot of time together. I don't have the feelings I use to have for him anymore. He's cheated on me, twice, put me down...and now I see some change in him. The thing is that, it's not there for me. We have ...
A. 12 March 2008: Since you both have his kids . You are all related even if you don't wish to see her. It will be up to you to decide.... (read in full...)
My soon to be in laws want a traditional hindu wedding, we dont, what can I do?
Q. I am about to be married. My fiance' is East Indian, I am white. He was born here in America, so he has a lot of the same beliefs that I do and agrees with me on how things should go. His parents, however, are from India and expect him and me to do ...
A. 12 March 2008: You can have a Christian wedding and then a traditional Hindu weddings to appease your in laws . You can give this a thought as you will be giving grace(face) to your husband. As to your sister in law , just treat her courteously and be civil to ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is paranoid and possessive but he kissed someone else, do I stay?
Q. Im 16 and so is my boyfriend. We've been together just over two months. He's very paranoid and i've had to stop talking to a few guy mates as he's got so worked up about it and its caused arguements. Anyway a few days ago he came to me in tears an...
A. 11 March 2008: You will be like sitting on the roller coaster.
It stopped and you get off .
Then you get on board again and way it goes again , up then down.....
If you like the fun and the thrill,
go back to your roller coaster.... (read in full...)
How can I tell him to keep his comments to himself without being nasty?
Q. I get along with my new boyfriend ok but he is not religious. He says there is no point and that I have no freedom. This upsets me that he has no faith but I try to ignore the comments. He believes we came from monkeys I do not. He believes in stem ...
A. 11 March 2008: We are all unique and different.
We do not think alike sometimes.
You can just tell him straight that you do not agree with his views and you don't have to argue about it.
Agree to disagree.
When you eat a fish , you eat the meat and thro... (read in full...)
Should I apologise or is it a lost cause?
Q. Hi... I was seeing this guy over the summer who is at an Ivy league business school and I'm in art school so we're opposites. Anyway over the summer he took me out to some really nice dinners but I didn't act too interested. Then I realized I ...
A. 11 March 2008: An apology does not cost you much.
Whether he returns to your side or not , you can get closure.
There is nothing to lose but much to gain ..
That is if you like him and want him back.... (read in full...)
I'm 17 with a 27 year old...
Q. I have a really good friend that is a guy and he invited me to a party at his place where he rooms with his two cousins. This guy has liked me for a long time and he would give anything to be with me. When I went to this party he had every ...
A. 5 March 2008: Do you want a man whom you love more or do you want a man who loves your more?
Who can make you feel more happier, contented and fulfilled?
If you can answer that, then you would know who is the lucky guy for you.... (read in full...)
Her religion holds her back, but I want her so much! Help!
Q. I'm 22 years old and i like a girl who is 18 years old lives in my neighbourhood.we both are very good firends.she always asks about me to all my friends whenever i am not around hanging out with them. I told her that i like her many times but she ...
A. 29 February 2008: Go slow and remember to have fun and don't push her that question.When the time comes, she will give you a positve answer.... (read in full...)
Her religion holds her back, but I want her so much! Help!
Q. I'm 22 years old and i like a girl who is 18 years old lives in my neighbourhood.we both are very good firends.she always asks about me to all my friends whenever i am not around hanging out with them. I told her that i like her many times but she ...
A. 27 February 2008: Do not rush her . Just enjoy each day with her and have fun. You need to be more patient.
A woman does not fall in love easily but when she does , she cannot stop like a runaway train without brakes.
... (read in full...)
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