Any tips on how to let the guy at work know I like him?
Q. I like this guy at work. How can I let him know without being too foward or unprofessional? Any tip? I'm super shy around guys. (I've been turned down several times before) ...
A. 14 May 2008: be honest to him and be yourself dont' be shy around him and just flirt a lil bit with him to see how far he goes.... (read in full...)
I'd like to take things a bit further but don't really know how to ask him!
Q. Hi. I have been with my boyfriend for six months and we are very happy together. I want to take things a little bit further with him but I'm not sure if he wants to and I don't really know how to ask him. Any help would be appreciated. Thanks in ...
A. 12 May 2008: further as in what relationship or commitment or sex, please explain.... (read in full...)
Being single and how not to be it...advice appreciated!
Q. Well, to put it simply, I have been single but, oh around 6 months and now I'm kinda ready to start out again. But I have no idea what the heck to do. Its not like I havent really avoided relationships, I just haven't really tried. The issue...
A. 12 May 2008: Here's my honest advice. Number one you need to take care of yourself before you bring all this emotional baggaged into a relationship. And if you are desperated to find a girl to have sex with they sense that and if you are also desperated to go ... (read in full...)
Where does your confidence come from? Any tips on improving my self-confidence?
Q. Hi, I know this is going to seem like a really random question but it would really help to have some ideas. I have always suffered from confidence issues and have low self esteem, though I have no reason to feel underconfident or inadeq...
A. 12 May 2008: your confidences is based upon your self image and how you see yourself compared to the world. You, yourself would make it better. Go to barnes and noble and there a book how to improve your self-esteem it's a good book. ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is obsessed with me - or is it real love?
Q. my bf is starting to be obsessed with me i think. seems like he only wants me for himself. is this really a good thing and if he really loves me like he always say....should i just accept his behaviour or does that mean he's love for me is actua...
A. 12 May 2008: he's selfish if he wants you to himself you also have to spend time with your friends, family coworkers and life around you that being very selfish and let him know that your life and his do not revolve around each other only there other influence ... (read in full...)
Why can't I say I love them?
Q. Hi, It’s not a major problem as such. I can’t tell my boyfriend I love him and I also have issues telling my parents I love them as well. I don’t know why, I can’t explain it (I imagine my life without them and obviously its unbearable), it up...
A. 12 May 2008: in my culture and i'm vietnamese we do the same thing we usually don't say I love you we just show it :) it's normal.... (read in full...)
I think part of the problem is that she doesn't realize that I'm in love with her, or why
Q. My girlfriend seems to have control of the relationship. Lately I've been impatiently waiting on her to call, and anxious all day until that point, while on the other hand, she seems fine without talking as often as we used to. I feel like we're ...
A. 7 May 2008: i've been there and done that. you need to solve the problem and the only way to solve this problem would be to 1. live closer to her and 2. break it off cause she is drifting away due to space and she might see someone else she feels interested ... (read in full...)
He says he needs space once in a while-or is it me?
Q. My boyfriend said he doesnt want to see me 24-7. He says he needs space once in a while. Have I done something wrong? is this a bad sign? ...
A. 7 May 2008: as a guy we truly need some time for ourselfs and our boys if you smoother him with all your love and affection and don't give him time to miss you in due time he will get angry and frustated... :) just give him his space but tell him you will be ... (read in full...)
She said she loved me, then dumped me! How to get rid of this horrible feeling of loss?
Q. Hey. I am wondering how do i get rid of this horrible feeling of loss......my girlfriend dumped me Saturday at a Christian camp out.....the same day as prom. she just came up to me after like not even talking to me or hanging around with me for like ...
A. 5 May 2008: dont' dread over her just move on if she dont' want to be with you then go ahead and move on with your life be focus she's young she probably wants to "EXPLORE THE FIELD" most females do that so let them go if you hold onto her there no feeligns ... (read in full...)
I plan to write him a heartfelt note to show I love him and how sorry I am for my past mistakes, any suggestions?
Q. i want to write my bf a heartfelt note that will make him realize how much i love him and how sorry i am for all of the stupid crap ive done and that ill do anything to get his trust back! i dont know what to say to him to get my point across its ...
A. 5 May 2008: if he hasn't broke up with you then he loves you very much and he's still there for you so don't worry about it would be nice to tell him just tell him you love him and learn from your past mistakes but if you tricked him twice shame on him and he ... (read in full...)
I wonder if I should jump ship before I get too attached, as I am skeptical about LD relations?
Q. I've been seeing a guy for a few weeks now, and we're not serious yet, but I think we're headed in that direction. He's really starting to grow on me, and I think he's feeling the same way. But the thing is, he's going to be leaving to go to ...
A. 5 May 2008: my true thoughts on it don't even try, break it off and preserve whatever feelings you have for him and later on in life you guys were meant to be it will come back. Save yourself the heartache and let it go. LD is too hard to maintain especially ... (read in full...)
I want to convince my ex I have changed, that I am no longer "clingy." Any tips?
Q. Ok, so I have a huge problem. I'm deeply in love with this girl who happens to be my ex from about two years ago. She's dated several different guys since our break up, and all of those relationships failed horribly due to them treating her badly. ...
A. 1 May 2008: clingy can be a good or a bad thing you are showing her attention but she's the type that doesn't want attention that much you don't need to show her you change for her to truly love you just say okay let's give it another shot but here's my tip ... (read in full...)
I've cheated on him, but how can I prove to him that I really want him?
Q. How can I prove to my boyfriend of 1 year and 5 months that i really want to be with him if I have cheated and lied to him?...
A. 25 April 2008: sometime its too late on a guys mind if you cheat once you will do it again and they go through this cycle of not trusting the same girl that hurt them if you want to work it out be honest to him and lay everything out on the table.... (read in full...)
First time sex, how will I perform? Please help!!
Q. My girlfriend and I are ready for sex. This weekend is best as we'll be alone, but I'm nervous, will I get it up? What position? Will I get my penis in and orgasm? (with a condom on) I also want my girl to be happy. I know it's our 1st time, but tr...
A. 25 April 2008: first time is always the best time but remember if you dont' want to save it for someone special who am i to stop you . Make the moment right and just enjoy don't be nervous make sure you take time to take care of her and not just yourself. When ... (read in full...)
I really like my friend's boyfriend and he feels the same, what should I do?
Q. I don't know what to do, my friend's boyfriend really likes me and i like him. My friend and i don't speak that much now. I now speak to him everyday and really like spending time with him, but he still really likes his girlfriend. What should i...
A. 25 April 2008: nope don't do cause he still has feelings for her and then you still are his rebound don't do it move on.... (read in full...)
I don't feel anything during sex, help me out please.
Q. I always give my boyfriend handjobs and blowjobs. And he really wants to please me by fingering me and 'eating out' but everytime he tries I don't really feel anything. Anyone have any tips I could send his way?...
A. 25 April 2008: a website would do or you tell him how you like it hints him.... (read in full...)
How do we communicate?
Q. i love my boyfriend verry much but i feel like we are falling apart. I work long hours and he is studying for college, i understand that it is very important that he dose this and it takes up alot of his time. The problem is... when he's not ...
A. 25 April 2008: game is a guy way of relieving stress it gives him an away like for females you guys go to the salon fix your hair do your nails for a guy it's play video so give him what he wants or ask him can u play along or learn he would be shocked show some ... (read in full...)
I like this guy, but he reminds me of my abusive ex.
Q. My ex bf was emotionally abusive and very narrcissistic. He was a very sarcastic person and would never show any sympathy, he would just be sarcastic. I have met a new guy and I like him but part of me feels like he reminds me of my abusive ex. He ...
A. 25 April 2008: watch his behavior and see how he is don't judge every book the same by it's color give it time and if it repeats leave him and move on don't stay and get hurt.... (read in full...)
I just give and give. It is so one sided. Is it worth it?
Q. Ive been with my boyfriend for a year and a half now. i love him soo much. i do anything he wants, he hasnt got a job or a license so i drive him everywhere and buy stuff for him. he doesnt invite me out, blames me on our problems and makes me chose ...
A. 25 April 2008: not worth your time find a man who compliments you and grows with you not a man that brings you down... (read in full...)
I gave her space. she's still ignoring me. Advice on how to talk to her one last time?
Q. I really like my friend. She found out, I gave her space because she didnt like me. Its been 2 months, yet were still not talking. She's rejected my calls. Can anyone advice me on how to talk to her one last time-attempt before I give up? Thanks...
A. 24 April 2008: don't try to contact her let her be show her that you are not a wuss girls hate wuss so be a man and don't contact her she will contact you when she's ready if not just move on but dont' wait around for her.... (read in full...)
He obviously no longer trusts me, and has yet to forgive me for contacting my friend
Q. This is going to be a doozy... A few months ago, in February, I thought it would be cute to let my boyfriend go through my e-mail account. My boyfriend and I have been going out for a year and a bit now. We both are fairly jealous and I thought it...
A. 22 April 2008: there is a trust issue and you guys need to get past that issue to keep the relationship going but trust involves not putting each other into private stuff like email accounts you can trust him but still have your life and deal with it. ... (read in full...)
I have a boyfriend but I'm still not over my previous crush
Q. Hi, I had a crush on this guy called Paul, so i asked him out and he said no, then i got over him. Now i have a boyfriend called Josh and now i have started to like Paul again... I dont know what to do! Please help me!...
A. 18 April 2008: your bf loves you the other guy is just a crush.... (read in full...)
How frequently is it healthy for a guy to have sex?
Q. hope all is well for whoever visits this site as much as i do. Pliz ladies and gentle men i have one hell of a dielma! How frequently is it healthy for a guy like between 24-30yrs to have sex, as in with a chic? Even then is it possible for a g...
A. 18 April 2008: it depends on her mood your mood and the timing of the month etc. But dont' go all out sex cause sometimes she will think it's just the sex in the relationship and there's more then sex in a relationship.... (read in full...)
How do I make my teacher kiss me?
Q. how can i get my teacher to kiss me or like be in a relationship with me as im in love with him and i would love to share a kiss with him. im 16 and im leaving in june and i want to share a kiss or more with him at the last day. ...
A. 18 April 2008: nope sorry think about his career if you do care about him don't go and do something that will jeopardize his career. IF you truly say you care about him think twice about it.... (read in full...)
My boyfriend always wants to have sex, what should I do?
Q. What should i do?? My boyfriend always wants 2 have sex... And i dont wat should i do??...
A. 18 April 2008: just tell him no and you need to respect my decision if he doesn't obviously the relationship is just lust... (read in full...)
How do I approach this girl and make small talk? I've liked her for several years!
Q. Well there is this girl that I've had a crush on since about 7th grade... and I'm now a Senior in high school. The reason I haven't made any advances with her is because I never really came out and became more outgoing until about a year ago, along ...
A. 18 April 2008: taht is nice go and approach her be charming but honest look at her eyes when you talk to her and just say Hi what's your day like be honest dont' try to hit on her and dont' think about hooking up with her females sense when a guy is genuine so be ... (read in full...)
Will I be healed enough to have intercourse again so soon?
Q. Hey guys, this is kind of personal but i need to know some opinions as i have got loads of different accounts about this of the internet. Ok so monday night i had intercourse for the first time and i bled quite a bit and just finished today.i ...
A. 18 April 2008: yes it show be better dont' worry about it but be safe k ... (read in full...)
Why has he not called after the great time we had together?
Q. Hi,i met this fella through a friend,we arranged to meet up and seemed to both get on really great, so much so he stayed with me for nearly 4 days,took a day off work and also cancelled a previous arrangement.Anyway he has gone home now and although ...
A. 18 April 2008: to be honest it's a one night stand to him from a guy point of view you are being way to clingy and most of us guys hate that we stay there for 4 days not 4 months it was just a fling. So if doesn't call it's because he's not your husband or ... (read in full...)
I heard "she just doesn't like me that way". What do I do now?
Q. Rite...one my best friends is this girl I like recently weve been pretty close and everyone thinks that were headed for a relationship the thing is that 2day a mutual friend came up 2 me and asked me if I liked her...i truthfully said yes...then ...
A. 18 April 2008: dont' avoid and your best friend might be jealous when it comes to relationship no matter who it is don't believe he said she said stuff go to your girl best friend tell her how you feel and then ask her how she feels then move on from there if you ... (read in full...)
I want her back even though she's moved on. How can I regain her love?
Q. I was in a year and a half long relationship with someone i absolutly love with all my heart. I inevitably drove her out of my life because i was scared of being hurt. she did'nt want to break up but i insisted i needed time to figure out what i w...
A. 18 April 2008: first of if you show a woman that you are a wuss she will be more unattrative towards that. She doesn't like it when you tell her you changed show her you changed and if she is seeing other people let her dont' dread it you need to see other people ... (read in full...)
Is she playing a game with me by avoiding me?
Q. I like this girl, she first showed an interest in me and now that I'm trying to spend time with her it feels like she's avoiding me. Did I do something wrong or is she playing a game with me?...
A. 18 April 2008: let her be if she wants you she will come back females love the chase but when u don't go running after them they will wonder then they will call if she doesn't call back whatever. But dont' sit around waiting for her call that makes you seem needy ... (read in full...)
I want him to find a girl already so he won't like her and come back! How long should I wait?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for about 14 months. Recently, he decided that he needed to break up with me to date other people. I'm sad that this has to happen but I do agree that he needs to go out there and date (as much as it would hurt ...
A. 18 April 2008: if he is the one he will come back but you must never ever wait for him it's like he has you as his second chance DO you want to be his second chance if he fails it's like he's trying all the other fishes out there and if none of them excelled what ... (read in full...)
I'm moving to another State and I don't want to lose contact, how do I go about staying in touch with him?
Q. Okay, let's keep this simple. There's this guy at school who I have a HUGE crush on. Well, here's the story: I started liking him in the beginning of the last school year (Or, that's when I started acknowledging it). He sat in front of me on t...
A. 18 April 2008: keep in touch with him and he's seems confused about his feelings talking to you but remember this if he's gonna leave his girlfriend to be with you he can leave you and be with someone else and long distance relationship don't work out alot of ... (read in full...)
How can I win her over, even thought she doesn't like me?
Q. I fancy this girl but she doesn't like me back. Does anybody have any tips to win her over....
A. 18 April 2008: there's no way you can win a girls over if within the first few minute she's not interested she probably won't be interested you might as well move on. ... (read in full...)
How do I get my self confidence back after what he said to me?
Q. i have been dating this guy for 6 months and he had a girlfriend and never told me about her in the first 3 months in our relationship.We carried on after I've found out that he made the girl pregnant. he was very much jealous of me talking to other ...
A. 17 April 2008: you will find a good guy don't worry but you must learn from your past failed relationship and learn the lesson from it and move on.... (read in full...)
It's been 2 years since this happened, he said he realised the importance of our family, but I still have trust issues!
Q. i am a 19 year old with a 2 year old baby i have been with my boyfriend since i was in 10th grade i got pregnant in 2005 and well i caught by boyfriend talking to some girl he did not tell me but i noticed that he kept his cell phone with him all ...
A. 16 April 2008: he is young he just needs some time to straigten up be there with him.... (read in full...)
I fell in love with my best friend!
Q. me and my closest friend are both living in the same house. we share the same room before. we are not just regular friends. we both have history. we came to the point of being into an intimate friends. we even have sex. i fall in love with him. i ...
A. 16 April 2008: Love is not what he's feeling for you you might love or think you love him it could be lust or infuacuation. If he's taking another female to the house you already know that he doesn't love you as a lover just as a friend respect that and tell him ... (read in full...)
Our relationship was going so well, then I got an email from a girl, and his behaviour has reverted to the bad old days...
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for exactly two years. We split up for a month last summer, as things had got extremely difficult. After some persuasion, a lot of love, and a great deal of thought, i decided to get back with him. Only to find myself ...
A. 16 April 2008: Pack up and leave don't stand around and be his lil woman he disrespect you're young and very smart about thinking about this but he doesn't deserve another chance.... (read in full...)
Me and my boyfriend have been together for 2 and half months and we already had sex.
Q. if i am on the shot and he cums in me more than once and one time the day before i get the shot is it possible that i could be pregnate?? he tells me that i am the first girl that he has never used a condum with me and that he wants me to have his ...
A. 16 April 2008: Please use protection or tell him to pull out you're too young... (read in full...)
Shaving problems please help
Q. Im 19 and have been shaving for about 3-4 years about 2 years ago i was really paranoid about my bum hair and thighs so i started shaving that aswell, the only prob is in the last year i have been having bad red lumps and spots coming up... i have ...
A. 16 April 2008: use a good soft sensitive shaving cream and after you shave put on some lotion on top of it that should do but dont' worry some guys know that happens cause us guys when we shave we have that problem sometimes too. ... (read in full...)
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