I proposed and he said "no" and now I don't know what to do!
Q. I'm not sure what to do. I've been with my boyfriend for over 3 years. We don't live together. I proposed to him on the 29/2 and he said no. First he said he wasn't ready yet and needed more time. I don't really believe that and asked what more ...
A. 7 April 2008:
Words without works is useless. Just saying is not enough .
He needs to prove his love and commitments to you and 4 months is a long time to prove his love for you.
If within this 4 months and you don't see any concrete
actions, you wil... (read in full...)
I proposed and he said "no" and now I don't know what to do!
Q. I'm not sure what to do. I've been with my boyfriend for over 3 years. We don't live together. I proposed to him on the 29/2 and he said no. First he said he wasn't ready yet and needed more time. I don't really believe that and asked what more ...
A. 7 April 2008: Yup! I agree with your actions.
This would tell him that you mean business and he better take notice or else .
You need to have a time frame because you cannot be in a
timeless black hole forever.... (read in full...)
I proposed and he said "no" and now I don't know what to do!
Q. I'm not sure what to do. I've been with my boyfriend for over 3 years. We don't live together. I proposed to him on the 29/2 and he said no. First he said he wasn't ready yet and needed more time. I don't really believe that and asked what more ...
A. 6 April 2008: That's all lousy excuses....
If he really loves you , he would jumped at your suggestion of marriage.
In love , you can do anything for your partner.
You are not asking for the sky .
I do not see why he should not accept your proposal ... (read in full...)
I proposed and he said "no" and now I don't know what to do!
Q. I'm not sure what to do. I've been with my boyfriend for over 3 years. We don't live together. I proposed to him on the 29/2 and he said no. First he said he wasn't ready yet and needed more time. I don't really believe that and asked what more ...
A. 6 April 2008: When a thing is there, it will never be appreciated.
When it is gone , then they only realized the significance and the value of another person.
You need to knock some sense into him or you leave him and make him feel the loss.... (read in full...)
We went on a few dates, and talk regularly...but she just told me she has a boyfriend! Help!
Q. Hello, There's this girl I like and I think she knows it. We been on a couple of dates and talk regularly. However, she recently told me that she has a boyfriend. I still haven't told her how I feel. What should I do? Thanks for your responses....
A. 5 March 2008: If you like her and enjoy the time with her, continue doing it whether she has a b/f or not.
It is better that you have loved her and failed than not to love her at all.
Of course, many aunts will tell you to go find other single and unatt... (read in full...)
Sexually inhibited...
Q. Can some one please help, I am sexually inhibited, my husband is the best lover, he knows me well, but when it comes to talking to him about sex, my wants, desires, fantasies, I clam up and my brain goes into shut down. I do have fantasies in m...
A. 5 March 2008: I think this is a very good site to read up on sex topics;-
http://www.the-clitoris.com/n_html/nfr_index.htm... (read in full...)
Normally the guys I go out with give distinctive signals but I really don't have a clue with this one.
Q. I know this sounds like a really simple question, but how can you tell that a guy likes you? Usually the guys I have been out with have given really distinctive signs, however in this case i really have no idea at all. For example, the guy...
A. 5 March 2008: For example, the guy does spend loads of time with me, and does playfully flirt, however other times he can be really distant, or hangs round with my other friend who is a girl also.
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The guy is interested in you or he would not have spe... (read in full...)
Sexually inhibited...
Q. Can some one please help, I am sexually inhibited, my husband is the best lover, he knows me well, but when it comes to talking to him about sex, my wants, desires, fantasies, I clam up and my brain goes into shut down. I do have fantasies in m...
A. 5 March 2008: Alcohol can loosen your sexual inhibitions. One has to be quite open minded when it comes to sex.
Just let yourself go and try what he wants...
You can Google that word online and fine more materials to read on.... (read in full...)
She is highly attracted to muscular guys with six packs!
Q. My new girlfriend used to be VERY flirty when we liked each other years ago, and after each of us going through relationships we decided to try dating. She said that she has changed, but I'm afraid that when I'm not around she flirts like craz...
A. 5 March 2008: Muscular guys are only good for flirting and not marriage.
You cannot fault the females.
You would also be attracted to very beautiful women.
You should feel secure if they do not cross the line.... (read in full...)
Betrayal - from my boyfriend and my sister!
Q. Okay SO! I dated this guy 2 years ago and we had a rocky relationship but we both seemed to care about each other a lot so we worked through it. At one point during our relationship he was really close with my sister, but I trusted him. Finally, I ...
A. 5 March 2008: Can you blame others for what went wrong in your life?
What good does it do now when he is no more in your life?
Pick up those broken pieces and move on.
Don't wallow in your self pity.... (read in full...)
Am I Nuts?
Q. My wife and I have a male friend (Mark) who's been very close to us for about 4 years. The 3 of us spend a lot of time together, going to the movies, dinner, weekend trips, etc and my wife and I enjoy his company, respect him and appreciate his ...
A. 5 March 2008: As long as the three of you are present,you can control the situation.
But leaving your wife with him alone is not advisable unless it is once in a blue moon.
If you allow them together more often, it becomes more tempting and the situation ma... (read in full...)
Why have I not heard from him since our weekend together?
Q. I've known my Boyfriend for about 12 years actually he was my first sexual partner, we recently started talking to each other and started dating. He did tell me when he feels like he's getting too close to a person he pulls away because he has been ...
A. 5 March 2008: I don't think you did any wrong and you should not go soul searching why he did not answer your phone or text.
You need to be more patient and if you still cannot contact him and if it is urgent, you should make another trip to see him soon.
... (read in full...)
Why would she cheat on me? We had been dating for 7 months at the time.
Q. Earlier today I went on my girlfriend's myspace and started checking her messages because a guy from her past had been talking to her so then I went back to the last time they had talked and I saw her posting shit about me and then out of suspicion ...
A. 5 March 2008: It is not you did wrong but she was tempted...Maybe , she wanted some excitements.... (read in full...)
Why is he keeping me a secret?
Q. Been dating this guy for a while. He's not willing to introduce me to any of his friends or family. He's been divorced for the last 4 years or so and still talks a lot about his ex and what has happened and still doing things for her. The sex is g...
A. 5 March 2008: If you separated in an amicable way , a man would buy presents for his ex..
If it was a vicious and dirty break, then he would not give a damned.... (read in full...)
How do I clarify his feelings towards me?
Q. I really like this guy and he and i are friends( I think) Well my friend tells him the truth and he doesn't react. Everything seems completely normal between. Let me define normal he stares at me as i walk past and we dont talk at all since meeting ...
A. 5 March 2008: Both of you are introverts. Get to know his friends or buddies and go out with them.
You will get more chances to see him and can talk to him.
... (read in full...)
We went on a few dates, and talk regularly...but she just told me she has a boyfriend! Help!
Q. Hello, There's this girl I like and I think she knows it. We been on a couple of dates and talk regularly. However, she recently told me that she has a boyfriend. I still haven't told her how I feel. What should I do? Thanks for your responses....
A. 5 March 2008: If she has a b/f , she should not be going out with you .
If she is going out with you ,
it means she is bored with life or her b/f
and is giving you a chance.
It is your choice.
Many women have b/f's and they keep changing them l... (read in full...)
My ex ran off with another girl, but he still loves me, what should I do?
Q. I was in a relationship with someone for 3 years. Things didn't work out and I didn't think I loved him. When we broke up, about 2 months later, I started feeling really bad. I love this person. I was told that he was cheating on me while we ...
A. 5 March 2008: It is better to keep the door shut and locked tightly.
Answering him would be like opening the door ajar.
Giving him some false hopes
and the enemy may creep inside by hook or crook.
Just ignore all his phone calls and text.
Just d... (read in full...)
In love with my half brother? We plan to disappear as I reach 18, and expect the general disagreeance - but would anyone understand?
Q. i just met my half brother 2 years ago. we've always had this connection, and a lot of unspoken sexual tension. we have been real close for a long time, and i would do a few [illegal] things with him and if it got to bad to calm me down he would ...
A. 5 March 2008: I agree with you
the heart is only a small place
but you don't clutter your heart
with unhappy things.
For then it will have no place for joys and happiness.
... (read in full...)
My workmate and I were sleeping with the same man, only I have found out, should I tell her?
Q. Last year after ending a 20 year marriage i started seeing a guy from work who had been flirting with me for several months, although it had nothing to do with my marriage breakup. He's 20 yrs older and has a partner who he isn't that happy with,...
A. 5 March 2008: It is better to let sleeping dogs lie
for if you wake them up
you will get their fleas.
What you don't know won't hurt
but what you let out
will change the world.
Do you enjoy the present?
Or are you not satisfied with it?
... (read in full...)
I'm a little neurotic, but he called out another girls name, so I think he may be having an affair, what should I do?
Q. My boyfriend and I spent an evening with friends last weekend. We each had a fair amount to drink during the evening. Anyway, my bf was talking to his mate about a trip we were arranging with some of my mates, and my bf called me by another girl’s ...
A. 5 March 2008: If the waters in the lake are calm ,
do not throw pebbles into it.
For the ripples it caused ,
can rock your boat.
If yours is a leaky boat,
it may cause it to sink.... (read in full...)
I am very lucky, but I feel very sad and unhappy. I don't want to talk to anyone about it...Any advice?
Q. Okay, please, I really think, well I have no idea what to think. I have a great life, I mean terrific friends, good family, but im not happy. I was just outside one day, and I felt so small and so sad, about my life, that it was going nowhere and I ...
A. 4 March 2008: If you think negative, negative things will come to you ,
You need to start thinking of the positive things in your life.It will attract the positive things to you.
You take many things in your life for granted .
Remember everything c... (read in full...)
Can we still work if our personalities clash?
Q. wel me and my bf have been together for 5months and we are really happy 2getha!!! But we had a argument the otha nite and we said some things in the moment and he said that our personalities clash and it has made me think whether this is true, an...
A. 4 March 2008: No two people are alike and when it is a man and a woman , the differences is even wider.
There will always be differences. It is a matter of how you handle them correctly which will make or break your relationship.
Do not be stubborn or adam... (read in full...)
I proposed and he said "no" and now I don't know what to do!
Q. I'm not sure what to do. I've been with my boyfriend for over 3 years. We don't live together. I proposed to him on the 29/2 and he said no. First he said he wasn't ready yet and needed more time. I don't really believe that and asked what more ...
A. 4 March 2008: He is not in the marriage market. I am afraid, there is nothing much you can do except if you want to wait by the seashore and turned into a stone.
The choice is yours.
Keep him until someone better comes along, then you jump ship or live a s... (read in full...)
Am I being used just for comfort?
Q. I feel very lost and lonely in my relationship of 16 months right now. I do believe my boyfriend has commitment problems and sometimes It really does hurt me, considering weve been together for so long and yet I dont think hes over it. Ive never ...
A. 4 March 2008: Talking may not achieve anything.
Maybe , you need to leave to make your relationship better.
He needs a shocker to jolt him up from his stupor.
Your leaving would make him reassess his love for you.
... (read in full...)
We got on well but now he's calling me psyco! What's that about?
Q. i met some afew weeks ago and met up with them on friday i really like him before but i was with someone at the time we spoke on MSN and he said that he would c how it went if i wernt with my bf in the end in dumped my boyfriend and that was wen i ...
A. 4 March 2008: Your behaviour is like someone with a nut or wire loose in the head.
Your actions are viewed as abnormal. What ever you did I don't know.
Maybe you ex may have a part in this.... (read in full...)
He wants space to sort things out. Is there any hope?
Q. My partner has asked for space to sort out his life, his business and his children. he wants to learn how to love himself and get his foundations right before he comes back to me, if he does. This was 6 weeks ago. We are both in our forties and have ...
A. 4 March 2008: His system is allergic to you and you need to allow him to get rid of them before he can come back to you.
When he is ready , he will call you .
If you call him , his allergic will never get cured.
His allergic may kill him or maim him and... (read in full...)
Am I lying to myself by being in this relationship?
Q. Hi I posted a question here sometime back. I am 27, dating S 32 for 7 months already. We are happy together but somehow I feel that we want different things. For one, I want to get married and have kids. I'm willing to sacrifice my career to be a ...
A. 4 March 2008: If a man wants to concentrate on his career, he is over.
You can forget about him .
Even if you marry him ,you will be a lonely wife.
If you want this kind of life, fine.
If not , don't waste your time. You could be on a non stop merry... (read in full...)
My family is religious, what excuse will I have for sex before marriage in case I break up with my first sexual partner?
Q. hi.I been thinking lately if i ever break up with my boyfriend what would happen to me.I've been with my bf for a while and our relationship is serious. i have lost my virginity to my boyfriend. my family is quite religious and if i ever get marr...
A. 4 March 2008: Your family will forgive you and move on. Do you have to declare that you are a non virgin?... (read in full...)
Is Sex in a relationship important?
Q. I was wondering this because recently my girlfriend said she wanted to wait until marriage (which is fine by me I guess) I just didn't know if that included all types of sex or sexual contact....
A. 4 March 2008: Sex is the highest form of love. It is the culmination of your love and when you have sex, the two of you become one in body, soul and spirit.
By abstaining from sex before marriage, it means no sexual intercourse.But kissing or light petting ... (read in full...)
I felt sexual tension between me and my husband's friend, who is also my best friend, now however he is avoiding me. Why?
Q. i am a married woman.recently i was with my husbands friend alone at home.he is actually my best friend now cos i used to talk to him everything and he used to talk to me everything.we have been mates for last 2 years.we used to talk for ...
A. 4 March 2008: He relized that he has crossed the thin red line and he is afraid that he may not be able to control his urges the next time.
Thus , he is avoiding you at all cost.... (read in full...)
Could a doctor prescribe hormones for breasts growth?
Q. Hi guys, I have a question that I didn't know the answer to so I thought I would share it with you and see if anyone can help me with answers. My cousin came to me the other day, very upset and unhappy with her body. Her main issue is that sh...
A. 4 March 2008: Those transvestite took those birth control pills for breast growth,but it may not work properly in women .
It may make the women fatter in their butts or thighs.
In China , some parents fed those pills to their 12 year old daughters to hav... (read in full...)
He said he had too much respect for me to accept oral, while I don't find this form of sex insulting, only his comment!
Q. I started to give my bf a blowjob and he stopped me before i'd barely touched him. Later i confronted him on it and he said that he had too much respect for me to have me do it. I told him i was genuinly willing to do it for him and that i wouldn't ...
A. 4 March 2008: Some guys have this sexual inhibitions or hangups about their g/f doing it.
That is the way they were brought up or they had formed that opinion that nice girls don't do orals.
I don't think there is something wrong with him . It is just his p... (read in full...)
We both suggest we go out sometime, but she never calls me back! What gives ?
Q. So basically I met this girl in my college class and we hit it off and talked every class but nothing more then that because I was under the impression she had a boyfriend. Late in the semester I found out she didn't so I got her number and we went ...
A. 4 March 2008: She does that because she wanted to leave the decision at the last minute. She cannot trust herself to make a quick decision.
The way she told you ,leave her some room for maneuver.... (read in full...)
I recently noticed a change in the anatomy of my vagina...is this normal?!
Q. I just started having sex about a year ago. However, I have recently noticed a change to my anatomy. A large piece of skill now hangs down, it almost looks like a penis. I've been embarrased to be with anyone ever since. Does anyone know what ...
A. 4 March 2008: You can read more info here ;-
http://www.the-clitoris.com/n_html/c_size.htm... (read in full...)
My ex found out she is HIV positive. If I am infected, how do I tell my girlfriend?
Q. A few days ago, I got a series of rather disturbing test messages on my cell phone from a number I didn't recognize. After a little searching around, I found out that it was an ex-girlfriend whom I was on bad terms with. Long story short, the ...
A. 4 March 2008: The incubation period for the aids virus is 6 months.
If you are in the best of health and have not been sick , then it could be a cruel joke.
There are some cases where the person is a carrier only but they do not exhibit any symptoms of aids... (read in full...)
He says he has a personal demon. What's that mean?
Q. Iv been seeing this guy for a few months now but iv known him for almost 3yrs. Everything was great he was always playful and all over me. He never showed like anything was wrong. I was suppose to stay the nite wit him tommrow for the first time. We ...
A. 4 March 2008: When you talk of personal demons, it usually means woman or money.
In other places it could be drugs, alcohols, gamblings ,video games or any compulsive and obsessive activities.
A man has 5 vices or demons , womanizing , gambling, smokin... (read in full...)
Married, but in love with my best friend, what do I do?
Q. I am a 24 year old married man, who has a terible conundrum before him. I have been married to my wife for about a year and a half know (known her for about 5 years), and things are kind of going downhill. We're really starting to find the things ...
A. 4 March 2008: Marriage is not a bed of roses. There are plenty of thorns and you need to work at it.
No marriage is perfect, for each of us have our own idiosyncrasies.
We need to adjust and accept our partners different habits and co exist under the framew... (read in full...)
We had sex but she says she loves her husband too much!
Q. I'm in love with a married woman. She has 7 months of marriage. We had sex one night. She loves me but says she will not leave her husband because she does not want to make him hurt. I can't really let go. What should i do ?...
A. 4 March 2008: You ventured into the Forbidden land and you do not know what to do.
You can stay and taste the forbidden fruit and if you are caught , you will have to pay a penalty.
Maybe , you lose an arm or a leg or you may lose your life.
You cou... (read in full...)
She cheated on me and now she won't forgive my insecurities...
Q. hi im a 22yr old male with a 3yr old son by my ex girlfriend. who i still love like crazy. story goes we have been together just over 4 years on and off and after about 2yrs we split up because i found out she cheated on me 2 weeks into the ...
A. 4 March 2008: If you want to get her back , you need to woo her and make her fall in love with you again.
Your chance is brighter because you have a child with her and there is no way she can forget that.
Your persistence may wear her resistance down.... (read in full...)
He doesn't like me to go out, but he goes out with his friends all the time!
Q. my boyfriend gets mad at me alot because i always like go out with the girls and have a blast .. i never invite him because its like the girls niqht lol ladyz u understand wen i say girlsss Night!=].. but now ive stoped going almost completeing just ...
A. 4 March 2008: Tell him , you need your fun too.
It is like recharging your batteries .
If your batteries are low , it won't be fun for him too.
If you cannot go out , then he has to accompany you all the time and he should not go out with his friends.... (read in full...)
What are some little things that I can do to keep things interesting?
Q. okay so me and my boyfriends relationship is good. but sometimes i wish there were unexpected things i could do to make him want me more. Maybe little things i could say to lead him on..but idk what! i dont even want to get the the point of feeling ...
A. 4 March 2008: If he wants you , you don't have to do anything.
If he does not want you , all you do will come to naught or zero.
Don't try too hard. Just be yourself and he likes you because of who you are.
If he does not like you ,even if you give him yo... (read in full...)
How can I tell if he enjoyed it?
Q. I gave my first handjob yesterday and I'm not sure if I pleased him or not, I honestly don't feel as if I did. He did bust and he was breathing heavy afterwards, but I'm still not sure. Does anyone know how to tell if he liked it or not without ...
A. 4 March 2008: If he does not complain or say anything about you , it means you are average or good .
If you are bad, he would have complained.
If you are excellent, he would have told you.... (read in full...)
Do I love him enough?
Q. Hi, i went back to my marriage after my husband had previously walked out on me (i never thought marriage was such hard work but we are working hard at it). We are both from Europe but two different countries, I am now living in Spain to be with ...
A. 3 March 2008: Are you depressed or do you have PMS or some mid life crisis.
Perhaps you may need to go see a doctor or a therapist.
You may have lost your focus in life?
What do you want in your life?
Work towards that goal.... (read in full...)
How can I get a break to stop me being so fed up with it all?
Q. How shall I open my topic? Uh … let me think … my kids are sucking the life out of me! Nice opening gambit huh? It’s true! They’re doing my head in! Now, don’t get me wrong they can be little angels when they want to be but then some kind of fog ...
A. 3 March 2008: You need to take a break or rest , recuperation and restoration or you will soon end up in the junk heap.LOL!
Take one day or one evening off per week with your buddies and go paint the town red.
One good evening is all you need to come bac... (read in full...)
I'm so shy, but I love her. Could she like me too?
Q. hi every one i am happy for this helping ahead. i love one girl nearly two years, but i never shy to talk to her because i am from unrich family and i never have girlfriend or sleep with girl before. i told myself from the childhood when i say the ...
A. 3 March 2008: No one can stop you from loving her but whether you get your love returned is another matter.
Love has to be a two way traffic.
If it is only a one way street, the love will not last long.
Before you want to love her, you need to be frie... (read in full...)
It was too complicated but now he's all I can think about!
Q. Im 19 and last year i met a guy who was 8yrs older, he had recently broken up with his girlfriend of 8 years (her little sister used to be a good friend of mine). we met up a couple of times but only ever to go out for drinks and my friends were ...
A. 3 March 2008: There will always be a first time for everything.
Life is like a learning curve.
If you don't learn or make mistakes , you will never be smart.
Just take each day as it comes and if you have problems , you can always come here for adv... (read in full...)
He doesn't understand how angry I am...but wouldnt you be??
Q. I would like to know if i am asking too much of my husband; from day one, i tried to keep things spicey in the b.room, i would lay rose petals on the bed, put candles out, dress provacativly, i made sure his meals were always there right after ...
A. 3 March 2008: Maybe , his mother does everything for him and he only knows how to take .
You have become an extension of his mother and he takes it the same way .
Not knowing that you are not his mother but a wife and have needs too.
You put him on a pede... (read in full...)
My ex ran off with another girl, but he still loves me, what should I do?
Q. I was in a relationship with someone for 3 years. Things didn't work out and I didn't think I loved him. When we broke up, about 2 months later, I started feeling really bad. I love this person. I was told that he was cheating on me while we ...
A. 3 March 2008: When you think of him , just demonise him. He is a cheater, lier, untrustworthy, cold, cruel, ugly , etc.
You will get turned off when you think of all those negative things about him.How can you be so dumb to love a guy like him?
Cut off all b... (read in full...)
Why is he keeping me a secret?
Q. Been dating this guy for a while. He's not willing to introduce me to any of his friends or family. He's been divorced for the last 4 years or so and still talks a lot about his ex and what has happened and still doing things for her. The sex is g...
A. 27 February 2008: He should cut off his ex and if he is still talking and doing things for his ex, that could spell trouble for you.
You are standing on dangerous grounds.... (read in full...)
In love with my half brother? We plan to disappear as I reach 18, and expect the general disagreeance - but would anyone understand?
Q. i just met my half brother 2 years ago. we've always had this connection, and a lot of unspoken sexual tension. we have been real close for a long time, and i would do a few [illegal] things with him and if it got to bad to calm me down he would ...
A. 16 February 2008: When you are so deeply in love, you don't know what is right from wrong. You are in a world of your own, only the two of you understands each other.
Laws are made by man and sometimes I wonder why they made such laws.Then later on , they will cha... (read in full...)
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