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Why is this girl such a bully to me?

Q.   basically this girl who is also my friend keeps debating with me on every single issue i say and will always take the opposite side. she keeps hitting and poking me even when i tell her to stop. and takes my stuff and puts it in her jeans pocket ...

A.   8 May 2010: I agree I think she may fancy you :). X but that's no reason to hit or make someone feel small :@ ... (read in full...)

Was told, I talk to much and I am annoying.

Q.   today i was told straight up to my face that i talk to much and that i am annnoying. this really hurt me a lot because this is one of my biggest problems and whenever someone says anything about it it really hurts me. i dont no how to stop and i ...

A.   8 May 2010: Darling I was in this boat about a fort night ago. My best friend told me over facebook! That I was annoying and talked to much. All i said was,why are u my best friend if u don't like me for me? It's not my fault I like making a convosation ... (read in full...)

He had sex with another girl! will he hurt me again?

Q.   Hi, i was with this boy for around a year and a bit, when i discovered that he had had sex with another girl. I was devastated and he was heartbroken that i had found out and that i was hurting inside. he tried everything he could to make things ...

A.   4 May 2010: my reply to this is "if he can do it once he'll do it again." thats probably not what you want to hear but if he loved you why would he have sex with another girl in the first place? xx... (read in full...)

How do I stand out from the crowd and attract boys?

Q.   Well im nearly 14 but everyone says im so mature for my age. At the moment, all the boys in my year seem like idiots and i wouldn't be seen dead with any of them... all the girls seem really prettier than me and get all the boys attention. But then ...

A.   10 April 2010: i am in your boots hun so im gonna watch this question but chances are your prettier than those giirls, outside and in x... (read in full...)

Agony aunts forever!

Q.   I was wondering how I can get paid to become an agony aunt, I love helping others and answering questions, its one of my passions. thankyhuu x...

A.   9 April 2010: if you find out please let me know too thanks x... (read in full...)

Pregnant with twins! Thank god it was only a dream but why do I keep dreaming this?

Q.   I know that this really has nothing to do with relationship advice, but I need help anyway! I'm a good girl, 18, and never even dated. But lately I've been dreaming that I'm pregnant! These are becoming very frequent, like 3 in the past week! T...

A.   8 April 2010: maybe its what your heart desires to have 2 adorable twins in your life at some point. maybe its your life ambition to have twins. and you keep having this repeated dream becuase of that! ... (read in full...)

Unsure if I should go meet this guy! Help!

Q.   hi this 19 yr old guy (and im 13) likes me and i like him back and he is planning for me to go to america to meet him when im 18 and im unsure whether to go coz of age differences and that ive never met him before, Sounds like a really sweet, ...

A.   8 April 2010: thanks for the advice guys,it has gone thru my head hes a pheadophile,but he doesnt sound it at all :/ x... (read in full...)

What do girls think when hugging a friend and feeling he has an erection?

Q.   Hey all just wanted to ask a question. I have a cute and really hot female friend, we talk, go out as friends and stuff like that. but every time i hug her, first of - the hug is quit long, second i get an erection. I'm a really NICE GUY, not the ...

A.   7 April 2010: if i hugged a guy and that happened,it would jump across that he liked me :/ ... (read in full...)

Ready to lose virginity at 13, everyone else has!

Q.   MOD NOTE: Age posted is not right, poster says they are 13, NOT 19) hi. im greenpink, im 13 years old (i'll be 14 in may) and i think that i am ready to loose my virginty. we just offically met a few days ago (through mutual friends) but i have bee...

A.   7 April 2010: you should be proud that you havnt lost your virginity,those who have,havn't got there head screwed on properly,if he said he wouldnt do anything you wern't compfterable with,id give a few more years until your ready,this might just be the 'fancy ... (read in full...)

Unsure if I should go meet this guy! Help!

Q.   hi this 19 yr old guy (and im 13) likes me and i like him back and he is planning for me to go to america to meet him when im 18 and im unsure whether to go coz of age differences and that ive never met him before, Sounds like a really sweet, ...

A.   7 April 2010: Thanks but he sounds like he really means it and that he's counting down the days? :'s... (read in full...)

I'm 15 and pregnant

Q.   I am 15 and pregnant with my boyfriend of 3 years. Yes I know I'm silly please don't bring that up, all I'm asking is for help. Anyway, I have been to the clinic as it is half term, I am getting an abortion, both me and my boyfriend are 50/50 about ...

A.   7 April 2010: i think it would be a good idea to tell the school nurse,what i would normally recomendd is telling your mam but if she has just recently gotten shingles,im not recomending that in this case,but deffinatley tell someone. ... (read in full...)

Is being on top less like to get a girl pregnant?

Q.   Hey my friend told me if a girl is on top during sex its less likely to get pregnit with out a condom is that true?...

A.   6 April 2010: thats false,you can get pregnant,both ways,if anything this way is more accurate to get you pregnant! ALWAYS WEAR A CONDOM!! ... (read in full...)

My girlfriends dad does not like me at all and is trying to get her to come home to be with someone else!

Q.   Hi I have been dating my girlfriend for almost 4years now, we have a 11months baby girl and we are staying together. But her parents wants her to come back home because her dad don't like me at all, there is someone that her dad wants her t...

A.   6 April 2010: here's the thing,what girlfriend's dad likes who there daughter is seeing,girl's dads are very protective of there little girls just like you will be with your baby daughter when she's older,all i can say is reveal to the girls father that you are ... (read in full...)

Would he want to date me knowing that I've slept with his best friend?

Q.   omg...ive like my brothers best Friend for 4years now:( i think about him all the time. hes soo sweet, charming, caring and very sexy. the way he looks at me..you know sometime i think he feels the same way,. when we hug he squeeze me and ...

A.   6 April 2010: you should not feel guilty that you slept with his bestfriend,as you said you where young and stupid,we all have those moments in life. the way you've described this man,he seems to have strong feelings for you too,maybe you should try telling him ... (read in full...)

Questioning my phone calls and texts

Q.   *Op's own title* My boyfriend wants to know who "I" am texting and who is texting me all the time. Most of the time it is between my kids and I. I resent telling him what I am doing all the time. I get annoyed and feel that he is being too nosy...

A.   6 April 2010: because his ex wife cheated on him he might feel insecure with you,thinking you would do the same. he might just be curious who is texting you but that gives him no right to want to know whos texting you,or who you are texting,i think you neeed to r... (read in full...)

Boyfriend is bothered by our gap in ages

Q.   my boyfriend and i have been together for nearly 6 months, not long admittedly but its been a pretty intence 6 months. we met in uni halls so weve lived together longer than weve been in a relationship and we plan to move in together when we have ...

A.   6 April 2010: sorry about your break up but if you's are gonna stay close friends thats really good luck,well done :) xx ... (read in full...)

She seems to like me but I am not sure

Q.   I already asked a question is she a lesbian. well I'm getting the vibe that she is gay..my friend who is bi talks to her sometimes and thinks she is too. well this woman I like has short carrot top hair and wears guy clothes. I want to kno...

A.   6 April 2010: yes she comes across to me to be a lezbian,theres only one way you can find out,talk to her more,good luck :D xx... (read in full...)

How can I tell if she's a lesbian?

Q.   Im a lesbian.I discovered i was a lesbian when i was 13.im 18 now.I have fallen for this woman.i think she is about 32.I want to know how do you to tell if a woman is a lesbian.I know how to tell if a girl is a lesbain but not a woman. I applied...

A.   6 April 2010: there is no way of knowing shes a lesbian,all yu can do is maybe ask her workers,or try and find some info out about her then see where things go from there :) good luck x... (read in full...)

Does my boyfriend want to kiss me?

Q.   im 14, and my boyfriends 17.. we've been going out for a week, but it wasnt expected cos he doesnt usually have girlfriends, and i didnt think he liked me. we used to hold and hands and stuff, and now were together its just the same. he acts ...

A.   6 April 2010: hes 17 and your 14,age doesnt matter to me but because he's older he could be scared,coz he doesnt know how to deal with you,he might think if he makes the wrong move you'd end it,and thats probably why he acts weird around his friends,he's not ... (read in full...)

Boyfriend is bothered by our gap in ages

Q.   my boyfriend and i have been together for nearly 6 months, not long admittedly but its been a pretty intence 6 months. we met in uni halls so weve lived together longer than weve been in a relationship and we plan to move in together when we have ...

A.   6 April 2010: Age doesn't matter!!! age is just a number to me,if 2 human beings love each other then why let age get in the way? hes admitted to you he loves you,so you tell him you love him and say age doesnt matter,its a number,i love you,you love me,... (read in full...)

Should I call ex and wish her a happy birthday?

Q.   Well this is my second attempt at this question. It was rejected because there wasn't enough detail. I didn't want it to have detail. It was a simple question should I or should I not call my ex and wish her a happy birthday. Now because of this I ...

A.   6 April 2010: maybii get her a card too,send it for her birrthday then ring her on the night,maybe ask her if she still cares for yu,and see her answer,then maybe it could be the best birthday of her life,and you's could start going out again :) then that wuld... (read in full...)

First time sex and he couldn't cum, is this common?

Q.   i have only been going out with my boyfriend for a couple of weeks and yesterday we had sex for the first time together. it was ordinary sex apart from the fact that he didnt (or maybe couldn't?) come. afterwards he apologised for this and ...

A.   6 April 2010: deffinatly nerves,next time try and make him more relaxed,then he should be able too :) ... (read in full...)

Mom found out about b/f & I having sex and now we have no contact at all!

Q.   my very strict mother found out that me and the love of my life hes 17 and im 16 have been having sex. and now we are banned from seeing eachother. we used to text eachother like every second and now i dont have a cellphone anymore, and the house ...

A.   6 April 2010: ok,all mams are very sttrict,but you have been having protected sex,yu and your boyfriend love eachother dearly by the soounds of it so there is no problem. you have been sensible enough to wait untill you where 16,you mam has gone way over... (read in full...)

How do we get to know each other better?

Q.   I have a crush on a new guy at my school I have talked to him a few times to get to know him but he is kinda quiet so he doesn't really make conversation my friends told me to ask him out but i don't want to because I'm afraid he will say no because ...

A.   5 April 2010: you could ask him to go out with you one weekend or talk to him more at skool,and try get him involved more in a convo where he has to answer with more than one word. he may just be very shy,most boys are,try calm him abit and then see where thin... (read in full...)

I think he's lying to me.

Q.   I've been going out with my boyfriend for a year and 3 months now and I think he keeps lying to me. First of all (this was about 8 months ago) i found some messages on his phone from and to another girl. She kept asking loads of times if she cou...

A.   5 April 2010: you need to talk to him about these lies then dont you?? :/ x... (read in full...)

The condom split! How do I tell Mum I want to keep it?

Q.   Hey, I've recently had sex with my boyfriend but the condom ripped i'm only 13 an yes I know I am under-age an silly, but I think I want too keep the baby if I am pregnant, I know there is a-lot more to it than just having a baby! But I will look ...

A.   5 April 2010: i dont agree with abortions at all and its not my decision for what you do,but your mams your mam,its your choice and whatever choice you make,she shoould support you,all i got to say is,you make your bed,you lie in it,it was your choice to have sex ... (read in full...)

How do I touch her without her thinking I want sex?

Q.   With my girlfriend, we talk, hold hands, hug (sometimes hug on the bed), kiss (also hug and kiss on my bed) but we've never done anything like hmm how to say.. like sexually. I know this sounds like I want to have sex with her but that's not the ...

A.   5 April 2010: i like this because you seem to be concerned about what your girlfriend thinks when you touch her,wich means you respect her,what you should do is talk to her and jst ask if she minds,thats all you got to do,and just because you want to touch her ... (read in full...)

How do I get a good guy?

Q.   Hi, I'm a 14 year old girl, just started high school and turning 15 in 2 months. So I've been thinking lately that i would like to have a boyfriend. Ive had many relationships before but obviously they didn't. my longest was 3 years , 9 months, ...

A.   5 April 2010: getting a good guy could take years,you have to date many jerks untill you find your prince,if getting a good guy was easy,it would be alot more simple for us girls but unfortunatly its not easy,there are so many boys in this generation that ... (read in full...)

How can I find out if she wants me for more than a friend?

Q.   Ok so I've known this girl for a few years. She is frighteningly gorgeous but I don't think she knows it because she doesn't like looking at pictures of her self. She comes across as bossy and smart, but I've known her long enough to know she ...

A.   5 April 2010: you are friends and thats a very good start (: by the sounds of it,you have a good chance of her liking you back,i would say you's need to meet up and discuss your friendship and even if its a no,you's sound so close that it wouldnt even get in the ... (read in full...)

He wants to have sex, part of me wants to, but I've got some questions!

Q.   ok im 16 and my boyfriend is 19 and he wants to have sex and part of me wants to but then im always scared about getting pregnant also he wont use a condom because he likes the feeling of one off im on the shot but please help me and give me options ...

A.   5 April 2010: if you dont want to gt pregnant you need to wear a condom wether he likes it or not,and if he want to have sex but your not ready then if he loves you,he'll wait because he should respect you as your boyfriend,but ALWAYS WEAR A CONDOM!!!! ... (read in full...)

He said he might ask me out soon, but I'm afraid my friends don't like him!

Q.   i've been seeing this lad for like 7 months now and we have a strong relationship, the thing is he said he might ask me out anytime soon. i want to go out with him, but my friends dont like him and im worried they'll fall out with me or call me ...

A.   5 April 2010: if there yur real frriends they will understand you really like this boy and that if it makes you happy they sgould be happy for you,or if they dont tell them to put it in there perspective, your mate starts seein this lad you dont part... (read in full...)

I think he's lying to me.

Q.   I've been going out with my boyfriend for a year and 3 months now and I think he keeps lying to me. First of all (this was about 8 months ago) i found some messages on his phone from and to another girl. She kept asking loads of times if she cou...

A.   5 April 2010: right,this boy has issues,there should be NO LYING!!! in a RELATIONSHIP. bad or good relationship,there should be no lying you seriously need to confront this man about his lies... (read in full...)

I'm beside myself now that he's away -- should I break it off?

Q.   me and my boyfriend been friends for four years. we started dating after high school and fell in love shorthy after that. when i left for college i was five hours away still our love stay strong but, now he just left for the army and i dont know ...

A.   5 April 2010: no you's bothlove each other,so why spoil that? when he returns,you'll feel that love for him,and you'll want to just hug him and kiss him when he gets back,show each other your love but tlk to him saying you cant focus in class,see what hesa... (read in full...)

I've been in love with the same guy all my teen years. Help

Q.   hey guys. so I'm 18 and have liked the same guy since I was 13 lets call him Tim. when I was 15 I moved to a new town and since then we have mainly talked by text messages and msn but have grown closer non the less. I have tried to have other re...

A.   5 April 2010: i think he does like you,when yu said you's whern't even going out and he said damn,that comes across to me as if to say,i'd love to go out with you,but dont know how to ask,many boys are shy when it comes to relationship any you said he never ... (read in full...)

My guy is around 24/7 and I'm finding it hard to breathe!

Q.   been with my partner for more than a year now, he is nice to me, gives me everything, has respect for me and i guess im lucky to have him as he is with me. he loves me very much, im his first serious relationship, his first love. he is my first ...

A.   5 April 2010: i think what YOU should do,is tell him if you trust me ( wich he should be able too) you will let me get a job as a bartender,waitress etc. coz you know i would never cheat! and if he still thinks you would maybe you should tell him sometimes you ... (read in full...)

Why am I sleeping with my boyfriend's Dad?

Q.   Hi. I really need some advice here. I've gotten myself into a bad situation. I've been dating my boyfriend for awhile (we are both 18), and when I first met his parents there was a spark between his father and I. Now here we are six months later, ...

A.   5 April 2010: you need to sort this out,SURELY YOU CAN NOT SLEEP WITH YOUR BOYFRIEND'S DAD!! although you may not want to do this,you have to tell his dad,i am seeing your son,this needs to stop,if your booyfriend ever found out.what would happen? think... (read in full...)

Difference of opinion on who are acceptable as friends.

Q.   My boyfriend has women who work at nightclubs as his friends on facebook. For two years, he controlled my friends, told me who I had to delete who I was allowed to accept and it's finally getting to me. He told his sister-in-law to remove me fro...

A.   5 April 2010: if i found out my boyfriend had friends on facebook who where women working in night clubs in sexy lingery,i would be very happy :/ but you can not accuse him of anything if he is innoocent,however him taking off that he is in a relationship with... (read in full...)

Was he nervous because he fancies me?

Q.   Ok one of my brothers mates came to my parents house to do a price on some plumbing that needs doing, I was the only one in so obviously had 2 talk 2 him, I have always liked theis guy and although have never said it to him would love to, ...

A.   5 April 2010: this is very normal behaviour when a guy likes you,he will be nervous,you probably wernt making him feel uncompfterable but just incase the next time you see him,try and calm him down x ... (read in full...)

13, we just met and he wants to have sex!

Q.   ummm this guy i just met wants to have sex and i want to but i am scared because he will be my first and i dont no how bad it hurts? ...

A.   5 April 2010: hunny you have a long life ahead of you,dont rush into things when youve just met him,your boyfriend should respect you for that! x... (read in full...)

I want him to 'want' to please me, not do things just coz I ask.

Q.   My boyfriend is always asking of things he can do to keep me happy, and one day I told him i'd like it if he kissed me on my neck. He said he would, then he kept asking why, and saying that we should just kiss on the lips. /: I only wanted to do it...

A.   4 April 2010: wear to die for perfume :) always works x... (read in full...)

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