I miss my wife. I just do not know what to do!
Q. My wife has told me that she wants to separate and get a divorce. This came after many years of emotional abuse from my bipolar disorder. This is now no longer a problem due to accepting Jesus back into my heart and medication. During our last ...
A. 27 April 2008: It sounds like she has supported you through thick and thin and the cheating which you kept from her for 9 years, effectively lying to her for 9 years has been a blow too much. Perhaps she now needs time to herself, to heal and you are going to have ... (read in full...)
I need to go to my doctor with a good excuse for not seeing him when I first found out I had this embarassing problem!
Q. I realised i had genital warts about 8 months ago. They were tiny, but after massive research, i knew what they were. I was obviously devestated. Over the 8 months they have gotten much bigger. I'm ver embarrassed. I haven't had sex in this long...
A. 27 April 2008: hiI sympathise with you and understand how embarrassed you must be feeling, but if you are honest when you talk to your doctor and explain that you have left this so long because of your embarrassment, or whatever reason then I think he will ... (read in full...)
What can I do for our 2 years anniversary?
Q. its coming up to me and my girlfriends 2 years together and i wanted to do something for her that shows her how much i love her because last year we just went to dinner and came home and she didnt seem too impressed. any ideas? ...
A. 27 April 2008: hi
A lovely present if either of you likes music I think would be a blank cd or an ipod bought especially and downloaded with all the tracks that mean something in the relationship. I had a cd created like that for me and some of the songs we... (read in full...)
Due to my very troubled past and bad experiences with people close to me I have trouble trusting people. How can I trust my boyfriend?
Q. Wow. Where do I begin? When I was younger I was raped. Then later on in my life I was molested twice. Then at 17 a 38 year old from the church that I used to go to since middle school tried to have sex with me. My mom french kissed me when I was ...
A. 25 March 2008: wow i feel exhausted reading your question! I think you really need to talk through your worries with the therapist and try and find ways to take your mind off all your issues or ways of dealing with things. Easier said than done i am absolutely ... (read in full...)
How can you tell if someone likes you? Apart from the obvious, Is there any body language to look out for?
Q. How can you tell if someone likes you? I don't mean ovious things like asking you out on a date or physical contact but body language. Do they display signals when they are not talking to you? say, they are in the same room as you. could you ...
A. 25 March 2008: I think if you google flirting and body language separately you'l get loads of info in between all the ads for books and online courses! There are some gem of sites that give insite into body language and its very interesting once you start looking ... (read in full...)
Is it shallow to think physical attraction is important?
Q. How much weight do you put on physical attraction? I hear a lot of people say its shallow to think this is important, but is it really shallow? Don't we have to feel physical attraction for a relationship to be successful? Is it even fair to the one ...
A. 25 March 2008: Well i think if you think alot about someone because they make you feel good when you are with them, then that is what counts and you are making love to the person, not their body so much as you can get used to how someone is. You must have been ... (read in full...)
We're both 14 and she might be pregnant...
Q. im 14 and i think i made my 14 year old GF pregnant we dont know if she is or not im scared and dont know what to do is anyone in the same situation as me or has anyone been in this situation before PLEASE HELP ME PEOPLE!!!!...
A. 25 March 2008: Best thing you can do is get a pregnancy test straight away! I'm sure you can buy them over the chemist counter like we do in england. If she is pregnant she should see a doctor straight away to discuss all the options and it might be a good idea to ... (read in full...)
I wanted to give the players a taste of their own medicine so I'm dating both, is it wrong?
Q. ok im 13 but soon to be 14..i have been talking to thing guy and he's 15 but will be 16 in july..we dated once but i broke up with him because he cheated on me but he now wants me back..we've been talking about sex lately an hes Not a virgin but i ...
A. 25 March 2008: You say they are both talking dirty to you and wanting sex with you...and neither of them know the other is talking like this to you? As they are both friends with each other - if that's right, i have a strong feeling they both know what they are ... (read in full...)
I'm a stressed-out mother with a disabled ill-behaved child. Any ideas how to make her behave?
Q. Does anyone have any ideas for a very stressed out mother with a very very hyper 4 year old child(who happens to also have a Disability Spina Bifida w/ a shunt)She also has very strong anger issues. My husband and I took her to a Phsycologist and ...
A. 21 March 2008: I feel for you, its very difficult to know where to turn or what to do, all i can say is sit tight and wait until your dr. comes back with results. There are drugs which can help anger and will take a while to get dosages and the right type of drugs ... (read in full...)
I just can't break up with my cheating boyfriend even though I have proof, help me....
Q. I can't break up with my cheating boyfriend. I found proof he cheated on me and yet I can't seem to bring myself to break up. I go to college and I sadly do not have any friends at all where I live. I lost them all so I could be with him! So no ...
A. 13 March 2008: my first thought was how come you've lost your friends because of him?
It sounds as if you have become dependent on him for companionship etc.
Perhaps it's time to have a bit of "me" time by putting him on the back burner while you consider... (read in full...)
Women and stretch marks.
Q. I had a baby and now I have stretch marks. Are men turned off by stretch marks?...
A. 11 March 2008: hi, i have stretchmarks which i think are really bad from pregnancy and i've lived with them now since i was 17 when i had my first child, I'm 40 now. My husband, who i was with from age 15 until a year ago, never ever put them down or said the... (read in full...)
A question regarding breast feeding.
Q. Once a woman stops breast feeding, can she start again at any time?...
A. 9 March 2008: Hi, yes a woman can bring back her milk after stopping breastfeeding. My daughter was premature and was in special care for several weeks. Before she was born i decided i didn't want to breastfeed. In her first week she was unable to take any milk... (read in full...)
My workmate and I were sleeping with the same man, only I have found out, should I tell her?
Q. Last year after ending a 20 year marriage i started seeing a guy from work who had been flirting with me for several months, although it had nothing to do with my marriage breakup. He's 20 yrs older and has a partner who he isn't that happy with,...
A. 8 March 2008: the one thing i forgot to say is that i don't think it would make any difference if she knew, she'd still carry on asking him to meet up with her. It seems although she's frendly, good company ect., she really does have a kind of cold side to her ... (read in full...)
My workmate and I were sleeping with the same man, only I have found out, should I tell her?
Q. Last year after ending a 20 year marriage i started seeing a guy from work who had been flirting with me for several months, although it had nothing to do with my marriage breakup. He's 20 yrs older and has a partner who he isn't that happy with,...
A. 8 March 2008: I appreciate all your thoughts, i have been through abit of an emotional rollercoaster this week. Older sister you gave me sound advice for the future and its something i certainly will try and keep up for the future.
My colleague is nearer to his ... (read in full...)
My workmate and I were sleeping with the same man, only I have found out, should I tell her?
Q. Last year after ending a 20 year marriage i started seeing a guy from work who had been flirting with me for several months, although it had nothing to do with my marriage breakup. He's 20 yrs older and has a partner who he isn't that happy with,...
A. 8 March 2008: I appreciate all your thoughts, i have been through abit of an emotional rollercoaster this week. Older sister you gave me sound advice for the future and its something i certainly will try and keep up for the future.
My colleague is nearer to his ... (read in full...)
My workmate and I were sleeping with the same man, only I have found out, should I tell her?
Q. Last year after ending a 20 year marriage i started seeing a guy from work who had been flirting with me for several months, although it had nothing to do with my marriage breakup. He's 20 yrs older and has a partner who he isn't that happy with,...
A. 5 March 2008: thanks for the messages so far, i haven't done anything yet but to give alittle more info ... I talked to him alot at the weekend and he seemed very remorseful as i wasn't angry just hurt, he later messaged me saying thanks for still being friends ... (read in full...)
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