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I had a baby very young and people seem to judge me. How should I handle this?

Q.   why do people always judge me when they see my in the streets, or abuse me and call me all the names under the sun when they see me with my child. im 16 now, just after my 14th birthday i was raped by a friend of my cousins in his late 20's and ...

A.   4 July 2008: I know it's difficult but just ignore them. People like that themselves have skeletons in the closet and are no better than anyone else. Let he who is without sin cast the first stone. Enjoy your baby and be thankful you have the support of lovin... (read in full...)

Help! Not a relationship issue, but it will be if my partner sees the nail varnish my daughter got all over the leather settee...

Q.   Anybody got any ideas on how to get silver nail varnish off a leather settee will nail varnish remover spoil the leather. My daughter got it all over and my partner is gonna freak when he see's it its dried all ready Thankyou....

A.   4 July 2008: Try scraping it off with a not too sharp object. And if that doesn't work, try dabbing a little bit of nail polish remover over a small area not clearly in sight and see if the leather changes colour. If not, start dabbing the affected areas with ... (read in full...)

How to be friends when you still love the person and live far away from them?

Q.   My ex and I were in a two-year long distance relationship (we met online) which ended very badly about five months ago. What ended it is that I was emotionally cheating, which I didn't know at the time, but which came out in a series of terrible ...

A.   7 May 2008: When my long distance boyfriend, who meant the world to me, broke up with me two weeks ago...I too didn't want to let go, but wanted to remain friends. I told him this and he said of course. I talked to him the other day to get rid of the ... (read in full...)

Why can't I get the truth out of him, of why we broke up?

Q.   How are you supposed to move on from a relationship that has ended when you don't even know WHY it ended??? My b/f broke up with me 1 month ago and I still have so many questions about why he ended it. I don't believe the broad/general reason he t...

A.   22 April 2008: Commitment Phobia is the term they use these days. And that is what my ex suffered from cause all the symptoms were there, just never saw it cause love is blind. Have a read through this and see if it describes your ex as well. http://www.ph... (read in full...)

Why can't I get the truth out of him, of why we broke up?

Q.   How are you supposed to move on from a relationship that has ended when you don't even know WHY it ended??? My b/f broke up with me 1 month ago and I still have so many questions about why he ended it. I don't believe the broad/general reason he t...

A.   21 April 2008: My boyfriend of 6 months broke up with me today. It was an online relationship. He said people change and his feelings towards me have changed. Like you, I want some closure on it cause I feel it's not entirely the whole story he's telling me. So ... (read in full...)

I’m starting to feel like I was born to be treated inappropriately.

Q.   I am battling to come to terms with the fact that a man who left me is now engaged to be married late this year. I still want him and I thought and prayed that he comes back to me. He hasn’t and now I feel that even though I prayed God decided to ...

A.   17 April 2008: Sometimes you have to meet the wrong ones to get to the right one. As a Christian I know how frustrating it can be when you ask for things and it gets denied. But God knows best and he's got something great in store for you. God never lets his c... (read in full...)

Love or adultery?

Q.   i m a married woman .but i have relationship with another man.i respect my husband and do all responsibeleties.but i coudnt share intimacy with my husband .what i enjoy with my lover.rumi....

A.   1 April 2008: I think she wants to know whether what she's doing is wrong cause she loves the other man more than she loves her husband. ... (read in full...)

Are there any alternatives to shaving or waxing 'down there'?

Q.   Personally, I think that it's more attractive to be totally hairless 'down there,' but I've got incredibly sensitive skin, and whenever I shave it gets red and bumpy, and ingrown hairs all the time, which is even more unattractive! Most unfortuna...

A.   28 March 2008: What type of shaver do you use? I use an electrical shaver cause I also found I got red bumps when I used the disposable ones, and now I don't get them anymore.=)... (read in full...)

My 13 yr old daughter had a disturbing dream about her teacher. How do I deal with this?

Q.   My daughter (13 years) told me something that was very embarrassing for her. what happens if your child has a dream about teacher she doesn't even like as a teacher or fancy. she told me that is was kind of creepy and she doesn't think that she c...

A.   25 March 2008: Dreams should never be taken literally since they're all about one's subconscious trying to tell you something. The fact that she dreamt about her teacher in that manner probably means that she seeks guidance on something (perhaps from yourself on a ... (read in full...)

He's not texting me as often and seems distant...how do I handle this?

Q.   I feel like my bf has been acting a bit weird lately. Like he used to ALWAYS text me non stop and he would prety much always reply straight away to mine. Now, there is usualy a long wait for a reply and he doesnt text me as often. When I see him he ...

A.   19 March 2008: mine's been acting distant this past week and i confronted him about it last night. he told me that he thinks we spend too much time together, which to me means, he wants some space. I backed off...have so far only sent him one message to tell him ... (read in full...)

Worried about sizes... and the future.

Q.   okay, im overweight, and i have a 4 and half or 5 inch penis(its hard to measure...), i'm 17 and i get made fun of by these other kids i know for being a virgin, but i have to know am i too small? will there really be someone out there who except...

A.   19 March 2008: It's not the size of the boat, but the motion of the ocean.... (read in full...)

How can I stop being so dependant and give my boyfriend the space he needs?

Q.   My name's Claire. I'm 16 and I have been in a realationship with this guy called Sam who's 18 for about 5-6 months. I met him on the internet about a year ago and we just got on so well and were best friends! I really do love him and we can spen...

A.   19 March 2008: I've been seeing this guy for 6 months now and we're in a LDR. He's on a completely different continent which makes it a bit hard but we see it through the difficult times. This past week he's been acting distant, not initiating webcam on MSN as ... (read in full...)

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