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*lownprince
writes:My girlfriend and I been together going on 3 years this month. She is a very active girl in bed. She seems to want activity every night. Me on the other hand I don't get active once or maybe twice a week. We also turn it into arguments. I use to be such active as she is but I wish i could say how it went away. Our relationship is separating because such topic. My question is, what can I do. Is there a secret. Please help me out!!!
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reader, 07221987  +, writes (12 March 2008):
It's crazy because I am on the other spectrum as you...I am just like your girlfriend and I am having the same problem with my boyfriend of almost 3years. I think that if your girlfriend is anything like me then she would be able to understand that you are not as into it as she is, but you could try fingering her or pleasing her sexually without actually having intercourse. I think that she just wants to feel pleased and it does not matter how she gets it from you. So you could try being intimate and pleasing without intercourse
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 March 2008): Hi Hunny
Do you find yourself getting tired or bored of the same thing? Spice things up a little think of things that will turn you on, Sex toys, sexy outfits, roleplay, Im sending you a link hunny I hope it helps...
http://ezinearticles.com/?Secret-Tips-for-Men-to-Boost-Sexual-Desire&id=542297
The reason the arguments are caused is she probably thinks you dont want and desire her, Women just as men love to be desired and wanted sexually, Try to think of how things used to be for you and think what went wrong and then talk so you avoid the arguments as if your arguing about sex then its not going to be a pleasure its going to feel like a chore hunny I hope this helps TAKE CARE WITH LOVE N HUGS MANDY XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (12 March 2008):
 Get her some sex toys to compliment your sexual games.
She could use them when you are not around.
This would satisfy some of her needs and would not be too demanding for you when her needs are met.
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