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*athleeenie
writes:Im 16 and so is my boyfriend. We've been together just over two months. He's very paranoid and i've had to stop talking to a few guy mates as he's got so worked up about it and its caused arguements.Anyway a few days ago he came to me in tears and told me he'd met his mate mel and they ended up kissing. I was shocked and didnt know what to say. We ended up breaking up but still wanna be with eachother.But i can only be with him if he stops being so paranoid and jumping to conclusions.I told him this, he said he wants to stop but doesnt know how.I dunno if to try again or call it a day. I dont want an on and off relationship. help please.
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reader, Collaroy  +, writes (11 March 2008):
 Hi,
what this is called is controlling behaviour. Unfortunately a lot of guys ( and girls for that matter ) need to control the actions of their loved ones. It makes for a terrible life for the partner as they lose all their friends ( controlling people hate it when you confide in someone else ) and lose contact with their family.
I'm surprised he didnt find a way of blaming you for his infidelity. Do yourself a favour stay the hell away from this guy, you are so young relationships are about togetherness and trust and respect, this boy will bleed you dry until you have no confidence in yourself and everything that goes wrong will be your fault.
dont go back to him, let him be someone else's problem.
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (11 March 2008):
 You will be like sitting on the roller coaster.
It stopped and you get off .
Then you get on board again and way it goes again , up then down.....
If you like the fun and the thrill,
go back to your roller coaster.
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reader, starfairy +, writes (11 March 2008):
 I wouldn't bother with him. A leopard doesn't change his spots, in 2 months he's put a stop to friendships, been all jealous and insecure, AND kissed someone else!!
Hello, wake up, get out of that relationship!! If he's like this so early on...Think about what he'd be like a year down the line. You can do better.
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