Feeling guilty I missed hen do
Q. Hi everyone. I'm having a friendship dilemma. A close friend is no longer speaking to me because I didn't attend her hen do. I declined months prior due to the dates not being good for me - it's a month of birthdays and prior planned trips. ...
A. 14 December 2017: Thanks for the advice - she still isn't speaking to me and doesn't want to hear what I have to say.
Wondering if I'm still invited to the wedding or not, the anxiety isn't great ??... (read in full...)
My brother's wedding showed me how regretable mine was
Q. Jealous of Sister In Laws Family Hi community. I just attended my brothers wedding and it was amazing! Such a great day with lovely speeches and an amazing vibe. I got married two months ago and looking at both I'm so jealous of my sister in l...
A. 16 October 2017: Thanks for all the responses.
You are all right, this is irrational thinking and I'm being selfish.
I wasn't thinking of my husband, who is the best human on this earth, I wasn't thinking of my friends who travelled 3 hours to see me, and I wa... (read in full...)
Does forgiving and staying indicate that a person is a fool, or weak?
Q. Hi Dear Cupid Community, You've helped me out so much in the past so here goes. A few months ago my relationship broke down, we both lost respect, started dreading coming home to each other and started to avoid each other. We both had disgustin...
A. 6 August 2015: Thanks for all the responses guys. It's strange but hearing that it doesn't make me weak to forgive but rather quite strong is liberating! I'm going to give this a good try and focus on the positive, and whatever happens I can say I gave it ... (read in full...)
After 4 years together, why does he need time away from me?
Q. Hi DC community, My bf and I are going through some problems in the relationship and have decided to work through them. The main issue is that he is working on himself so he can be better for me, but in the mean time he doesn't want to sleep in...
A. 19 March 2015: Thanks for the responses.
Do you really think that's what's happening? I said I wanted to move out before but he said no and to give it more time.
I'm not sure that he wants to end it because he would have ended it weeks ago.
I do agree th... (read in full...)
I'm the only one trying in this relationship so why doesn't he just break up with me?
Q. Dear Cupid I'm with my current bf for past 4 years , had our ups and downs. But for past few weeks our relationship is going downhill. He stopped even trying to be nice, just stopped putting any effort in the relationship, no fights and no ta...
A. 15 March 2015: He won't end it - he's ignoring you and being petty, so how exactly do you expect him to be mature enough to end it?
Are you giving him mobey when he asks for it? If so then you are just his ATM. I'm sorry but once the respect is gone, the enti... (read in full...)
We can't stop arguing, do I give this relationship up?
Q. Hi, I have been dating my boyfriend for over 2 years now and few months into the relationship we began having arguments,they are just getting out of hand.we tend to argue on Petty things although my boyfriend does try and make up in the next 5 m...
A. 15 March 2015: Communicate.
Sit with him and say exactlt what you have said here:
You are tired of the arguing
It is constant
You do not like who you are becoming
You will be surprised of what this can do, not just to help him see your side from a cal... (read in full...)
He accuses me of cheating, yet I wonder if he's cheating. What can I do about this relationship?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been dating almost a year. We finally met each others parents. We don't hangout that much cause he works al the time the only day we WOULD have to ourselves is Sunday. But when he has free time he rather spend it with hi...
A. 15 March 2015: Are you even happy in this relationship?
Have you thought about that?
Forget about his accusations for a moment and think about you. Only you are responsible for your own happiness and enjoying yourself.
If he is not adding to it, either... (read in full...)
I have a huge secret crush on a woman who has become friends with my own fiancee. Do I reveal my crush, or not?
Q. I'm engaged to a wonderful woman that I have been with for 8 years (since I was 18). She is a beautiful person, inside and out, and I feel terrible guilt about asking this. She has become friends with a girl (let's call her Jane) over the past two ...
A. 15 March 2015: Do NOT speak to Jane, it is your fiance you should be speaking with as she is your priority. Lusting after another woman is a sign that whilst you love your fiance, you are no longer as attracted.
Maybe things have become stagnant, maybe not, but ... (read in full...)
Worried about moving away from my parents with my partner. Should I wait or should I go?
Q. Hi there, I'm 27 and I've not moved out of my parents house. At the moment i'm facing the prospect of moving over an hours drive away with my partner to be closer to my work, but I have a lot of concerns about it. I've never moved out or l...
A. 3 March 2015: It seems that you are not only doubting moving but doubting your relationship a little bit. Remember if you are bored now, it will only be you two in the house. Never do anything because you think you should do it. Go with your gut and do it be... (read in full...)
Are we prolonging a break-up, or is it possible that this can work?
Q. Hi community, I need your help. I've been with my bf for 3 years now and in the past few months we've become stagnant and too comfortable. I didn't know he was unhappy and in the past few weeks we have been going back and forth over it. 2 ...
A. 3 March 2015: Thanks for the responses!
I completely understand what you are both saying - my only fear is a premature breakup.
I am going to address this with him tomorrow, I have written down what I want to say which is ultimately to break up and let mu s... (read in full...)
My boyfriend keeps pushing me away and then wanting me back, I am tired of the drama! What can I do?
Q. I'm currently stuck in a push-pull cycle with my bf. We've been together for many years. He has admitted to me, not too long ago actually, that he has a problem of pushing everyone away and then when he decides to talk it's too late. He said he has ...
A. 3 March 2015: Ugh, sounds like the kind of rubbish I used to do.
It's selfish and it makes you lose the ones you love most.
The only thing that woke me up was that eventually, he said enough was enough and ended it with me.
We are still working through our ... (read in full...)
Can't reach orgasm during sex.....
Q. Hi guys, I sort of recently started seeing someone who's made me realise that I have never been in a real relationship before. He treats me like a goddess and sometimes I can't believe I get to have someone like him. Only problem is, I've n...
A. 16 January 2012: Thanks for all the responses.
I think its more of my issue, honestly I just need to relax and stop worrying. Maybe one day it will happen.... (read in full...)
My Ex is ignoring me, I miss him and was nice, why is he being this way?
Q. Currently im trying to cope with the fact my ex is ignoring me. I broke up with him a cpl months ago because he was too busy for me and seemed to be going through a depression and being overwhelmed by work and school. So instead of listening to my ...
A. 27 May 2011: He's ignoring you because you broke up with him when he was going through a bad time and could only see yourself in the relationship. How on earth do you expect someone who had strong feelings for you but was abandoned in his time of need, to keep... (read in full...)
He's My best friend.... but I'm not his !!!
Q. He's my best friend... he knows everything about me, he knows me better than myself... and i have a little bit of a dark side and he knows everything abt it.... and he asked me to always open up to him about everything He's Mr.Popular, he h...
A. 27 May 2011: I'm really confused as to how he is your best friend if you hardly know him? You say he only talks to you because of your studies and yet you give him so much consideration. If you take a step back and look at the whole picture, you hardly know... (read in full...)
I think I'm more into my BF than he is into me. Should I just back off?
Q. I have invested my heart and fallen in love with my boyfriend of five months. He also says he loves me. But I am always anxious. He is a musician and left on tour two weeks ago. He wanted to stay together and he's been calling every day. Troub...
A. 27 May 2011: You really need to take a step back and look a the bigger picture. None of this is a big deal, and the most you are going to do is show him that the relationship is too much work. Please stop analysing every little detail, I would also suggest tha... (read in full...)
Must I spend the rest of my life alone?
Q. I have been single for some years now after the break up of a very serious relationship (eight years). Since that time I have had one short-term relationship that ended when I discovered I was being used. Prior to that I had two other serious ...
A. 22 October 2010: Wow, definitely an problem here.
The long term relationship you had ended because of the age gap BUT is that the only thing putting you off dating older women? I understand it was a very serious relationship however my experiences do not permit m... (read in full...)
Did I do something to turn him off?
Q. I'm in Boston right now, met a cool guy. We hung out for a month, then he made a move on me and we've been close since then. I'm leaving Sunday to go back to the UK, we've hung out but he's different. Not as close, he's tired from class which I ...
A. 22 October 2010: Thank you all. Great responses.
We didn't really talk about it again, however he did bring me to a party the night before my flight and we had a GREAT night together.
So it seems he was just anticipating missing me. We're still in contact now that... (read in full...)
Sad and lonely...
Q. Hi everyone, I'm here once again sorry. As some of you may no I have been having a rough few weeks with my parents and my ex boyfriend. I tried very hard not to talk to him or think of him but it got the best of me. Over the last few days I have ...
A. 12 May 2010: Wow, you definetly resonate with what happened to me recently.
I can sit here and type that you wern't compatible and you have to move but its easier said than done.
Your still hurting, and unfortunately you are still going to hurt until YOU d... (read in full...)
Independence after the breakup
Q. I've just broken up with my boyfriend of 11 months and it hurts. The breakup was coming for a while, but I put it out of my head because I thought maybe feelings would change and we would want to continue after I left university and he stayed o...
A. 29 March 2010: Wow, thanks guys. Amazing advice, I needed to hear that I didnt do anything wrong, I was worried.
But how do I deal with not hearing from him everyday, or thinking that he's with someone else?
I miss my goodnight calls :(... (read in full...)
Independence after the breakup
Q. I've just broken up with my boyfriend of 11 months and it hurts. The breakup was coming for a while, but I put it out of my head because I thought maybe feelings would change and we would want to continue after I left university and he stayed o...
A. 29 March 2010: Wow, thanks guys. Amazing advice, I needed to hear that I didnt do anything wrong, I was worried.
But how do I deal with not hearing from him everyday, or thinking that he's with someone else?
I miss my goodnight calls :(... (read in full...)
Boyfriend is selfish in bed, should I break up with him?
Q. I care about my boyfriend, but in bed there is no satisfaction. He won't do things for me and I'm beginning to think that he is very selfish. Although he asks me what I want him to do, I don't feel like he will listen so I don't bother. I'm s...
A. 4 September 2009: wow you guys really helped. We ended up really talking and he said everything you all did. Basically I need to voice my opinions more.
My problem is that one of the things I would love him to do would be to go down on me, I already do it to him b... (read in full...)
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