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anonymous
writes: What are signs that he wants to be more than friends, or signs he wants to be JUST friends? Does it mean anything if he keeps texting you late at night? What if he talks to you on and off throughout the day?If he keeps asking about your life, and often gets involved and mentions things about your life that you don't even realize he would remember?
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reader, freeman5 +, writes (4 April 2008):
Do you want to be more than friends? I was just in this situation - made friends (at church none-the-less) with a guy - even though we are both married with children (though he's older) it didn't take but a few months before he was leaving me voicemails in the middle of the night, writing me poetry, etc. It was all under a facade of friendship - but it didn't take a rocket scientist to figure out this guy was becoming obsessed with me. Finally when I told him I was moving to another state he started crying uncontrollably and telling me meeting me must have been some sort of punishment for me ... that's when I told him buh-bye for good. So if you only want friendship - be cautious!!!
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reader, Laura1318 +, writes (12 March 2008):
Just friends would not go out of the way like him.
If you are just friends, you will have normal conversations when you meet.
If you don't see each other, there will be no communications whatsoever.
That is if you are just friends.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 March 2008): i agree with emily thats a great idea!but it really does sound like you two have a connection.i do the same thing to this one girl and im very interested so it sounds to me like he likes you
-michael
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (12 March 2008):
It sounds like you two are really close and have a connection.Whether you want to take it further or just enjoy having a really close male friend is up to you.The best way to find out if he wants to take it further is to make yourself available.I'm guessing you two see each other quite a bit, so take him out just the 2 of you and have fun and make it a little romantic. Take in the sunset, look into his eyes etc etc etc. If he wants to be more than friends, something will happen.Good Luck!
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