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*hadowre
writes:Right, iam a girl and some of my friends thinks its weird to watch porn! I watch it like everyday and i always masturbate!! I think i should be a boy. My boyfriend doesnt think its weird; he loves it that i am open about myself but its the girls that think i am a slut. Am i normal??
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 March 2008): no one is normal. everyone likes different things, and watching porn is what you like. i like it too. im as normal as you are. i love it aswell. it makes me feel good. but i dont speak of it with anyone. its not safe. you shouldnt have either. you and your bf should keep it for just you and him and you do what you want.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 March 2008): You told your friends?! This really surprises me. Also, you think you should be a boy! That made me giggle a bit, how everyone thinks men watch so much more porn and masturbate more often :] they're just seemingly strangely more open about it, or brag more about it. You're totally normal, and definitely not a slut. But honey, don't go discussing it with your friends! Good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 March 2008): You are completely normal! I watch porn with my boyfriend regularly and there's no harm in it at all.Alot of girls are shy about it and probably get embarrassed that you talk about it.Just save the porn for you and your boyfriend to enjoy and dont discuss it with your friends!
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (13 March 2008):
 You are normal alright .
It is those girls which are hypocritical..
Who cares if you or they are normal?
As long as you enjoy looking.
It is your own pleasure.
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reader, shadowre +, writes (13 March 2008):
shadowre is verified as being by the original poster of the question thanks for the comments and advice. firstly i was only tellin my close friends cause the subject came up and i am not going to lie!!and iam so not addicted
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 March 2008): A lot of females view pornography, hun. But many of these females likely don't broadcast their personal porn habits to their social group at school. So a note of caution. I would suggest you show some self-control and restraint in who you tell because you do run the risk of gaining unwanted, disrespectful attention from the other guys and a unjustified, unfair reputation if the information leaks out. Use your head. And some teens are not concerned about reputation but they should be. A bad rep can make life in school, sheer misery for an adolescent with all the gossip and innuendo, that float around. A fairly decent, good reputation is important to uphold in school where one's behaviors can make or break long lasting friendships. Having the respect of others and maintaining a good standing among friends is very, very important to teen females. So if you want quality, nice friends in females, just keep this personal tidbit to yourself. If your bf is cool about it, make sure he understands it's not something you want him to tell his buddies. And Leiren brings up a real good point...if you find you need to watch it everyday, you may be on the edge of acting out compulsively. Watch you don't take it too far. I suggest breaks from it, if you can. Take care of yourself, hun.
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reader, thatgothgirl20  +, writes (13 March 2008):
 By definition a slut is someone that sleeps around with different people they barely know. They just basically sleep around with a lot of people. I don't think you are lose for watching something.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 March 2008): Why are you telling everyone what you do in private?
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 March 2008): Those people are weird for not liking it.
As long as its not disrupting your studies, then I see no harm.
Flynn 24
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reader, LIERIN +, writes (13 March 2008):
 watching porn its not wrong or wierd .. but watching porn every day its an addiction!
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