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I agreed to an open relationship but I'm not happy and need advice on how to handle it or break off?
Q. I've been seeing this guy for about 6 months now and we're in an open relationship. I'm his main girl but he is going around dating and sleeping with other girls. Although he hasn't slept with any other girls yet b/c if he did he'd have told me and ...
A. 31 March 2008: You will be fine you know you have done the right thing for you.... (read in full...)
I'm scared I will lose my boyfriend because of my small breasts-help!
Q. I'm 17 and I have A cup breasts, and I'm worried my boyfriend thinks my body's ugly. He has said that he doesn't need me to have bigger breasts because he enjoys my legs and butt more. I think he's lying just to make me feel better. I'm scared that ...
A. 28 March 2008: if he is telling you that he likes your butt and legs more then he proberly does. and if he leaves you because you have small breasts then he is shallow and is not really worth your time..... (read in full...)
I've had phone sex with 3 different guys....is that disgusting?
Q. Hi I need some opinions on this . I'm 15 years old and I've had phone sex with 3 different guys in the last two years . ( not at the same time or around the same time....) Two of them it was text sex and the other one ( my boyfriend now)was actually ...
A. 27 March 2008: No its not disgusting its the safest sex you can have maybe you should keep it to yourself though dont tell your friends if you were sleeping around then her comment would be justified but your not so dont worry about the things she has said. ... (read in full...)
Does he still love his ex? He keeps comparing me to her, what do you think?
Q. I'm so heartbroken right now. I love my boyfriend so much and i know he loves me.. but why does he love me? He just brought up his ex and he always gets so mad at her and i asked him if he got mad at her because he hated her for hurting him or i...
A. 27 March 2008: He loves you because YOUR NOT HER! The answer to does he still love his ex ? I can tell you from experience that he will always have feelings for her that are not love. Me and my husband of 11 years just got our divorce finalised on the 1st of this ... (read in full...)
How do I overcome the fear of him leaving me? It's always in the back of my mind!
Q. hi .. i have been seeing my boyfriend for nearly 4months . and i love himm soooo muchhh !! i have never felt this way over anyone ! but when he says he loves me and when we argue sometimes and when we are ok againn and he tells me he loves me somet...
A. 27 March 2008: arguments are a natural part of a relationship as long as they dont get violent.. seems to me that you feel a little insecure im sure your worrying is not needed and you may create a problem in the relationship that in turn might make him leave. ... (read in full...)
I agreed to an open relationship but I'm not happy and need advice on how to handle it or break off?
Q. I've been seeing this guy for about 6 months now and we're in an open relationship. I'm his main girl but he is going around dating and sleeping with other girls. Although he hasn't slept with any other girls yet b/c if he did he'd have told me and ...
A. 26 March 2008: Hi my way of thinking when I read this is that your BF has no respect for you at all saying to you that he wants to see what he wants in his life tells me that he is not sure if your the one for him!! I cant tell you to dump him thats your choice ... (read in full...)
I'm hoping there's something I can do to help clean myself up a bit and get the foreskin retracting properly again.
Q. Ok, I've got quite a problem... I tend to be a bit of a health and hygiene freak in general and that's the irony of this situation. Basically when I was younger I'd bathe all the time and everything was cool, but about 5 or 6 years ago we got...
A. 21 March 2008: Ive done my own little bit of reserch for you on the net and I found this web site that might help you. This could provide you with some ideas you and your doctor could talk about and maybe give a try. This product has a cost not sure how much ... (read in full...)
I'm hoping there's something I can do to help clean myself up a bit and get the foreskin retracting properly again.
Q. Ok, I've got quite a problem... I tend to be a bit of a health and hygiene freak in general and that's the irony of this situation. Basically when I was younger I'd bathe all the time and everything was cool, but about 5 or 6 years ago we got...
A. 21 March 2008: Hi again I cant remember the name of the cream neither could my sister but we can remember that it was some sort of steroid cream ill have a look on the net and see what i can find out of you..
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I'm hoping there's something I can do to help clean myself up a bit and get the foreskin retracting properly again.
Q. Ok, I've got quite a problem... I tend to be a bit of a health and hygiene freak in general and that's the irony of this situation. Basically when I was younger I'd bathe all the time and everything was cool, but about 5 or 6 years ago we got...
A. 20 March 2008: My son had this problem I took him to the doctors and they gave me a cream that I had to apply 3 times a day this has worked a treat my nefew had this problem to so I gave the cream to my sister she did the same thing and the problem was solved my ... (read in full...)
He is getting "cold-hearted" towards me and I'm getting angrier but obsessed, what do you think?
Q. Hi, Just a little long but I am very tormented.... I had a coworker (John)that started helping me out at my farm. He is recently divorced very christian, kind person. For the last year we have done things together -antiqueing, play dates ...
A. 17 March 2008: wow !! well its sounds like he may have been falling in love with you too sweetness, maybe he has feelings for you that frighten him as you said he is still hurt over his last relationship maybe he thinks if he distance himself from you for a while ... (read in full...)
Is it possible to adjust my pill-taking?
Q. Hi Im on the pill and wanting to bring my period forward by a few days. I have two pills left in the pack at the moment. Is it ok to not take these 2 pills and then start the next pack after the 7 day break?? Will i still be protected agains...
A. 15 March 2008: It really depends on how long you have been taking the pill I have been on it for 6 years and stopped taking it 3 months ago as my fiance and I are trying for a baby but no pragnancy yet!!! so I dont think 2 days is going to make a big difference ... (read in full...)
Concerned about stretch marks...what do they mean??
Q. I'm 13 years old(girl) and I really has some concerns about my body. I have stretch marks everywhere on my body. I have some on my stomach, my waist, my legs, and my breasts. I'm scared because I don't know what they mean. Can you help me?...
A. 3 March 2008: strech marks are caused because the skin has streched further than it can so if you put on weight and your skin has streched then it will slightly tear and thats what strech marks are most pregnant women get them on their stomach when they are ... (read in full...)
How can I tell my mum I don't want to take "the pill"?
Q. hi I'm 13 and my mum recently put me on the pill but I don't want to take it. I was wondering does anyone know how I could tell my mum I don't want to take it without shouting or fighting please???...
A. 2 March 2008: Why has your mum put you on the pill???
its very hard to answer this question without knowing the reason behind why you are on it.. When I was 13 my mum put me on the pill but it was not for birth control it was to regulate my periods I used to get ... (read in full...)
My dad's ex is blackmailing me into bringing my mates round for sex...what can I do??
Q. This is serious whether you want to believe it or not. I'm having sex with my dads exgirlfriend but now she is demanding for me to bring my friends round to fuck her or she'll tell my dad and it would really be bad for me and my dads relation...
A. 27 February 2008: I think you already know the answer to that or you wouldnt be asking it.... STOP WHAT YOUR DOING WITH HER NOW !!!! it will end up being to late remember the old saying you only get one family friends come and go all the time...blood is thicker than ... (read in full...)
He jacked off earlier and told me during sex why he was taking so long. It made me angry!
Q. Recently my bf and i were having sex and he was taking a really long time... so I started to feel self-concsious that I was doing something wrong. Then he said "Don't worry... it's not your fault... I "jacked off" today." I was so mad and hurt by...
A. 26 February 2008: I think you have every right to be a little upset I would feel the same way if my man told me that during sex.. it does make us feel a bit grossed out!! It makes us ask questions like.. why couldnt he just wait for me ? am I not good enough for him ... (read in full...)
He jacked off earlier and told me during sex why he was taking so long. It made me angry!
Q. Recently my bf and i were having sex and he was taking a really long time... so I started to feel self-concsious that I was doing something wrong. Then he said "Don't worry... it's not your fault... I "jacked off" today." I was so mad and hurt by...
A. 26 February 2008: I think Martini hit the nail on the head its not the masterbation that upsets us its the doing it on their own that does!!!
my man used to do it all the time in front of me and it used to turn me on we have both done it together and it is a grea... (read in full...)
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