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After debating this for a while, I sat down at my desk this morning and wrote this to my probably soon to be ex. Can anyone advise if this is the right way to go?

Q.   After debating this for a while, I sat down at my desk this morning and wrote this to my probably soon to be ex. Can anyone advise if this is the right way to go. I know email is not the way to go, but I'm tending to descend into floods of tears ...

A.   5 April 2008: End of one chapter in your life and the new dawn of another era. When the love is gone, it is very hard to rekindle the sparks again. You were not meant for each other. Now that you have come to the end of this road , another journey begins... (read in full...)

Is my "internet guy" just after sex? Help!

Q.   hiya i need help ppl... i met this boy through the internet and he seems reali nice and i know this might sound crazy but i think i might have feelings for him... but the only problem is that my mates are telling me that he is only after sex..but i...

A.   2 April 2008: He is 16 and not someone who is 30 something or a paedophile. That is why you need to find out the truth and not just listen to people whose intentions are good but who wrongly applied their knowledge. ... (read in full...)

After debating this for a while, I sat down at my desk this morning and wrote this to my probably soon to be ex. Can anyone advise if this is the right way to go?

Q.   After debating this for a while, I sat down at my desk this morning and wrote this to my probably soon to be ex. Can anyone advise if this is the right way to go. I know email is not the way to go, but I'm tending to descend into floods of tears ...

A.   31 March 2008: Life is like a fortune's wheel. It goes up and then down and will go up again. It is like the four seasons. Things cannot get any worse and will get better from now. Be more positive and stop thinking in a negative way. You will find someone who ... (read in full...)

How is an abortion done?

Q.   I need an abortion, but words can't explain how worried I am.. Could anyone explain what happens when you first step into the hospital/clinic and onwards? Thank you so much....

A.   26 March 2008: Dr.Pete, That is not relevant here and it is simply not the same.Period! Are you a real Dr?... (read in full...)

How is an abortion done?

Q.   I need an abortion, but words can't explain how worried I am.. Could anyone explain what happens when you first step into the hospital/clinic and onwards? Thank you so much....

A.   26 March 2008: A reader, anonymous, writes (22 March 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the question Laura1318, I'm not heartless. This is why I asked this question - I need opinions, medical and non-medical. I don't know whether you... (read in full...)

How is an abortion done?

Q.   I need an abortion, but words can't explain how worried I am.. Could anyone explain what happens when you first step into the hospital/clinic and onwards? Thank you so much....

A.   26 March 2008: [Post removed by Andrew]... (read in full...)

How is an abortion done?

Q.   I need an abortion, but words can't explain how worried I am.. Could anyone explain what happens when you first step into the hospital/clinic and onwards? Thank you so much....

A.   26 March 2008: Does a private GP gives you good advise? If anybody thinks a private clinic will advise you against abortion,then the GP will have to close shop There will be a conflict of interest. Those abortion clinics are opened for business to perform ... (read in full...)

I'm eighteen and my breasts are really small! What can I do?

Q.   i am an 18 year old female, with small breasts, im still wearing a 32 a. It is really embarasing when i c other women or girls even younger than me with bigger breast than i. I really need help will my breasts ever grow? i am even self consious when ...

A.   24 March 2008: You can also take these herbs ,fenugreek, fennel, saw palmeto and dandelion roots. You can read more from this site. http://www.selfgrowth.com/articles/Breast_Enlargement_Without_The_Blood_And_Horror_Stories.html... (read in full...)

I'm eighteen and my breasts are really small! What can I do?

Q.   i am an 18 year old female, with small breasts, im still wearing a 32 a. It is really embarasing when i c other women or girls even younger than me with bigger breast than i. I really need help will my breasts ever grow? i am even self consious when ...

A.   24 March 2008: Here is another article I found in the net. Lipstick Boosts Boob Size! - Due to xenoestrogens From;- http://news.softpedia.com/news/Lipstick-Can-Grow-the-Boob-Size-76851.shtml ... (read in full...)

I'm eighteen and my breasts are really small! What can I do?

Q.   i am an 18 year old female, with small breasts, im still wearing a 32 a. It is really embarasing when i c other women or girls even younger than me with bigger breast than i. I really need help will my breasts ever grow? i am even self consious when ...

A.   24 March 2008:  You could exercise your breast perkiness by taking up weight lifting which can improves your pectoral muscles. You can also use the vibrator and other electronic massaging machines to massage the boobs to stimulate breast tissue growth... (read in full...)

I'm eighteen and my breasts are really small! What can I do?

Q.   i am an 18 year old female, with small breasts, im still wearing a 32 a. It is really embarasing when i c other women or girls even younger than me with bigger breast than i. I really need help will my breasts ever grow? i am even self consious when ...

A.   24 March 2008:  Boob boosters might be the answer. Department stores sell gel-filled breast enhancers that you tuck into your bra, which feel like real breasts. Or look for gel-filled bras. ‘Natural’ pills to boost breast size are available in some health f... (read in full...)

My BF suggests that I get an abortion but I disagree, please advise!

Q.   i think i might be pregnant but my boyfriend says i should get an abortion what should i do???i don't want him to leave me alone with the baby but i don't believe in abortion, some out there please help....

A.   24 March 2008: Something inside me just said "no", that it wasn't the right choice for me. The day she was born, I changed. My life had a purpose that I had never known and I felt fulfilled. I honestly believe that she saved my life, I was lost before her. - kit... (read in full...)

I'm eighteen and my breasts are really small! What can I do?

Q.   i am an 18 year old female, with small breasts, im still wearing a 32 a. It is really embarasing when i c other women or girls even younger than me with bigger breast than i. I really need help will my breasts ever grow? i am even self consious when ...

A.   24 March 2008: Uncle Phil, Your observation is correct. Majority of Chinese and Japanese have smaller breast while Indians and Malays have well endowed breast. A research found that Indian and Malay women consumed lots of curries in their diets. Currie... (read in full...)

How is an abortion done?

Q.   I need an abortion, but words can't explain how worried I am.. Could anyone explain what happens when you first step into the hospital/clinic and onwards? Thank you so much....

A.   24 March 2008:  http://www.dailymail.co.uk/pages/live/articles/health/womenfamily.html?in_article_id=299146&in_page_id=1799 (Copy and paste the link in another window if clicking on the link does not work.) The above link does not work in here. h... (read in full...)

How is an abortion done?

Q.   I need an abortion, but words can't explain how worried I am.. Could anyone explain what happens when you first step into the hospital/clinic and onwards? Thank you so much....

A.   24 March 2008: An Eye witness account of an abortion from a mother. We often hear of the children wanting about an abortion disregarding the mother's wishes. The child is so young and takes the major decision without considering the mother's views. H... (read in full...)

How is an abortion done?

Q.   I need an abortion, but words can't explain how worried I am.. Could anyone explain what happens when you first step into the hospital/clinic and onwards? Thank you so much....

A.   23 March 2008: PREGNANCY and ABORTION What is it? If you are facing a pregnancy with a sense of fear, rather than wonder, there is help for you. Trained counsellors can help you deal with what being pregnant means for you and how it will affect your life... (read in full...)

How is an abortion done?

Q.   I need an abortion, but words can't explain how worried I am.. Could anyone explain what happens when you first step into the hospital/clinic and onwards? Thank you so much....

A.   23 March 2008: In the UK , single and unmarried woman with child can qualify for child benefits. Some help is available to pay for the costs of accommodation, living expenses, childcare and even free NHS prescriptions. You might like to take an interest on t... (read in full...)

He's told me that oral sex is something that he looks at as degrading and I've never had someone that loves me as he does - other guys feel this way?

Q.   I'm in a relationship with a very wonderful guy. We compliment each other very well and have a very healthy relationship and can talk freely about any issues we have or feelings that need to be resolved. But there's one problem -- I can't understand ...

A.   23 March 2008: Some guys have that inhibitions. In their culture , it is derogatory to suck his dick. Only bad girls do that. Anyone can suck his except his g/f . It is a kind of respect for his g/f in his culture .... (read in full...)

If I love my girlfriend more than she loves me, is this bad?

Q.   If i love girlfreind more than she loves me what do i do? I get this earie feeling that i care for my girlfreind much more than she cares for me. I'm constantly asking her whats going on in her life, she tells me this and that i listen and i giv...

A.   23 March 2008: If you are after a girl , then you gotta love her more than she loves you. If she is after you , then she loves you more than you love her. If you want a girl to love you more, then look for that girl who is interested in you. That is ... (read in full...)

My hanging out with my friends makes him jealous...what can I do?

Q.   Im in love with my boyfriend, but he gets so jealous when I hang out with my friends. What can I do?...

A.   23 March 2008: You can either stop hanging with your friends or you bring him along with you . Will you be able to accommodate your friend's wish ? ... (read in full...)

Is it wrong to love someone you've never meet in person ?

Q.   I have the most amazing boyfriend. He's a year older then me . I'm 15 and he's 16. He says he loves me and I love him so much . The only problem is that we don't go to the same school. I met him through a friend and I've never seen him in person . ...

A.   23 March 2008: In the normal circumstance , you meet a man and then fall in love. But in this internet age, you fall in love and later meet the man. Are there any differences? I don't think it is wrong. This is the new world order. As long as you a... (read in full...)

I know it's for the best, but help me find closure and seal the deal to stay apart!

Q.   Me and My boyfriend of 3 years just broke up recently we always used to break up on n off but this time i know it's for real because this time he's said that he doesn't love me anymore but mayb we'll meet in the future, that i'm his first love and ...

A.   23 March 2008: It ain't real until someone is dead. Love never ends. There is always a hope and the hope never dies. Breaking up is just a separation . Some day your path will cross again. Nobody knows... Parting is such sweet sorrow. If you... (read in full...)

What is happening here? I feel my husband is no longer in love with me!

Q.   Hello, I would like if you all could just give me some advice.Next month will make it 16yrs of marriage.My husband is a good provider and I know that he cares for me but I am not sure that he is inlove with me.We have 2 kids by the way. one 14 and ...

A.   23 March 2008: Your husband love you in his own way. Otherwise , he would have left you if he does not love you. After so many years , your life has become routine and he has taken you for granted. You could spice up your life. If you want change, you... (read in full...)

Girlfriend gets really pissed about my ex!! What can I do?

Q.   Hello all. My girlfriend of about 6 months has some amazing notions and has me a little upset. She gets pissed at the min I'm at my ex's, i.e. picking up my kids, driving by if I didn't get a chance to see them for a while,etc. She basically says ...

A.   23 March 2008: Let her rant all she wants and you do whatever you will have to do. If she cannot take it , then let her go.... (read in full...)

My man recently accused me of messing around with his brother! Should I stay with him after this?!!

Q.   My man recently accused me of messing around with his brother! Should I stay with him or let him go? I find the accusation very disrespectful!!! Then he tells me his family told him about me- these are the very same people who smile to my face ...

A.   23 March 2008: Many people have masks. Now you know their true faces. You certainly have a right to feel that way if you are wrongly accused of that. Since your b/f do not trust you , what is the point of staying on ?... (read in full...)

My BF suggests that I get an abortion but I disagree, please advise!

Q.   i think i might be pregnant but my boyfriend says i should get an abortion what should i do???i don't want him to leave me alone with the baby but i don't believe in abortion, some out there please help....

A.   23 March 2008: Children are a joy forever. You do not know what it is like having them until you have them. Many women would pay anything to have children . Being pregnant is the most beautiful moments in your life. Your figure is not RUINED! My daug... (read in full...)

My BF suggests that I get an abortion but I disagree, please advise!

Q.   i think i might be pregnant but my boyfriend says i should get an abortion what should i do???i don't want him to leave me alone with the baby but i don't believe in abortion, some out there please help....

A.   23 March 2008: selene21682 Yours is a good testimony and I am glad that you see the truth and it set you free. Too many people are just told to have an abortion and treat it like a contraceptive . Life is a miracle. When the sperm enters the egg... (read in full...)

Can you get pregnant on the last day of you period?

Q.   can you get pregnant on the last day of you period? i have read several different colums saying u can im trying to conceive and wondering if i'll be pregnant this month. my last period was 2/28/2008 and ended on 3/4/2008 so if i had sex on 3/4/2008 ...

A.   23 March 2008: 3 days before your first day of period and three days after is your most fertile period. 7 days before your first day of period and 7 days after is a fertile period. The guys must be in place waiting for the lady to come to have the highes... (read in full...)

I need your help about a guy who dumped me!

Q.   ok...im seing this guy i used to like, well what i mean is that i wanted him as my man but he did dump me...we kept on talking on the phone like good friends really good friends at the point were we are sleeping together...he be acting like he ...

A.   23 March 2008: If a man dumps you , get up and walk away from him. It never pays to go back to wallow in his pool. Don't be clingy to him. He is the parasite and not you.... (read in full...)

All day boring and all night snoring! Is he a loser or is this just a phase?

Q.   I have been married for over a year and I feel like I married a loser. I earn more money than him, I have a better social life and I do all the home improvements also! He is incapable of doing any plumbing or anything! And the sex is just medi...

A.   23 March 2008: Women don't like to be told that they have made a mistake. Most couples enjoy a 2 year honeymoon period after their marriage. After 1 year , your marriage is like 10 years old. How can it be a phase? It is in the rut and the deep end of i... (read in full...)

I really don't want to flirt with him! How do I react to co-worker's staring, yet still be friendly?

Q.   Hey guys, I've been reading the questions/replies from this site for a while. It's only now that I've felt like I've had a situation for which I could use this service. There's a guy at my work who has been staring at me. I'm not imagining it at ...

A.   23 March 2008: Just be straight faced and unemotional as ice and he will give up seeing this kind of reactions from you.... (read in full...)

How is an abortion done?

Q.   I need an abortion, but words can't explain how worried I am.. Could anyone explain what happens when you first step into the hospital/clinic and onwards? Thank you so much....

A.   23 March 2008: I think the Daily mail site have tons of info on abortion and the poster can go there and after reading can form her own opinions. That said , it is useless to say anymore on this topic. Whatever she chooses, I will wish her all the best. ... (read in full...)

How is an abortion done?

Q.   I need an abortion, but words can't explain how worried I am.. Could anyone explain what happens when you first step into the hospital/clinic and onwards? Thank you so much....

A.   23 March 2008: No one not even YOU can tell if this poster is goiong to suffer mental health problems, you are preaching against abortion plain and simple scaremongering, being influenced by the catholic church it a bloody disgrace. I am not a catholic (thank god) ... (read in full...)

How is an abortion done?

Q.   I need an abortion, but words can't explain how worried I am.. Could anyone explain what happens when you first step into the hospital/clinic and onwards? Thank you so much....

A.   22 March 2008: What REALLY happens during an abortion: One surgeon finally tells the truth. From the Daily mail http://www.dailymail.co.uk/pages/live/femail/article.html?in_article_id=487377&in_page_id=1879 Please do not click on this link ... (read in full...)

How is an abortion done?

Q.   I need an abortion, but words can't explain how worried I am.. Could anyone explain what happens when you first step into the hospital/clinic and onwards? Thank you so much....

A.   22 March 2008: What REALLY happens during an abortion: One surgeon finally tells the truth. From the Daily mail http://www.dailymail.co.uk/pages/live/femail/article.html?in_article_id=487377&in_page_id=1879... (read in full...)

How is an abortion done?

Q.   I need an abortion, but words can't explain how worried I am.. Could anyone explain what happens when you first step into the hospital/clinic and onwards? Thank you so much....

A.   22 March 2008: Women who have abortions are three times as likely to suffer depression and other mental illness. "Surely those who support a woman's right to abortion must also support her right to know the risks associated with that choice. Choice is onl... (read in full...)

How is an abortion done?

Q.   I need an abortion, but words can't explain how worried I am.. Could anyone explain what happens when you first step into the hospital/clinic and onwards? Thank you so much....

A.   22 March 2008: Abortion is just too easy in the UK. Anyone wanting an abortion can just walk in and have it done. Some women who resisted the urge to abort realised what a world of difference their baby made in their life. If only those young people go... (read in full...)

How is an abortion done?

Q.   I need an abortion, but words can't explain how worried I am.. Could anyone explain what happens when you first step into the hospital/clinic and onwards? Thank you so much....

A.   22 March 2008: WHOA! I did not say it was you and I did not mention you . You got me wrong. Some one said she had no regrets. She asked you to do like her and don't feel guilty about it. In your original question, you only asked about the t... (read in full...)

How can I stop being jealous over stupid things?

Q.   how can i stop being jealous over the dumbest reasons, like when my bf just talks to a girl?...

A.   22 March 2008: There are so many girls out there. How can you possibly control him ? If he wants to stray , he will stray and you cannot be there watching him 24/7. Better to resign to this fact and not be jealous.... (read in full...)

My best friend loves my boyfriend. What should I do?

Q.   hey my bestfriend loves my boyfriend. should i confrount her? what should i do?...

A.   22 March 2008: You need to guard your territories and even best friends , don't get any favored treatments. Anyone that comes near, you bark at them and if they intrude into your space, you bare your fangs and bite if you have. Don't let your enemies ... (read in full...)

What can I do to move on???

Q.   My fiancee of 3 years broke up with me last october, and i cant get him off my mind. He broke up with me for someone else and is still with her. I know i should move on, but i cant!! Basically i suppose i am saying that i am still in love with ...

A.   22 March 2008: Tell yourself that you are the master of your own happiness. You do not have to depend on him for your happiness. Without him , you can still lead a happy life. Before he came into your life, you were happy and you can be happy as you w... (read in full...)

I'm eighteen and my breasts are really small! What can I do?

Q.   i am an 18 year old female, with small breasts, im still wearing a 32 a. It is really embarasing when i c other women or girls even younger than me with bigger breast than i. I really need help will my breasts ever grow? i am even self consious when ...

A.   22 March 2008: In some races, the women have well endowed breasts. It has been found that their diets contained phytoestrogens. Phytoestrogen content varies in different foods, and may vary significantly within the same group of foods (e.g. soy beverages,... (read in full...)

My husband has cheated on me after 19 years of marriage. Should I give him another chance?

Q.   My husband has cheated on me after 19 years of marriage. Should I give him another chance?...

A.   22 March 2008: It is like man with a car, if he loves the car, he will never sell it even if someone offers him a very high price. But if the car gives him too much trouble, he will reluctantly part with it. Count your cost before you want to trade hi... (read in full...)

I'm not as comfortable with the divorces. I'm working at not being hurt or jealous, but sometimes I can't help it.

Q.   I'm 24 and my boyfriend is 42. We've only been dating for a few months, but our relationship is amazing. Both of us are completely out of our elements though. We're both surprised that we've fallen for each other, because we've never been ...

A.   22 March 2008: Just take each day as it comes. Don't worry too much. Try not to be clingy . Think more positive instead of negative. Be happy and contented with what you have.... (read in full...)

How can I keep him interested and is the age difference too much?

Q.   hey! Just need a little advice, it's not too serious though =]. I have just starting seeing this guy who is 8 years older than me, do you think this is too much? I am 18 nearly 19 and he has just turned 26. I have asked him and he said "this...

A.   22 March 2008: It means that he is willing to give it a try. Nobody has to know your age differences. It is not too big a difference anyway. If you want him to be interested in you , you will need to be interested in what he is doing. Then, there... (read in full...)

Should I tell her now or wait until they break up?

Q.   I have loved my good friend since 3rd grade. She has an idea I like her from rumours and such be she has never heard it from me. She has a boyfriend. Should I tell her now or wait until they break up....

A.   22 March 2008: Does it matter a lot to you if you tell her now or after her breakup? If you tell her now, at least she knows you love her . If you do not tell her now , you may not have the chance because anything could happen from now till eternity. ... (read in full...)

Will there be enough room?

Q.   mE and my boyfriend want to start having sex-our 1st time but we will only have a single size bed to start on.Will we have enough room to do it properly?...

A.   22 March 2008: People have sex on office tables and chairs, a bed is big enough. The worst thing is in your heat of passion , you may roll down to the floor.LOL!... (read in full...)

Is my "internet guy" just after sex? Help!

Q.   hiya i need help ppl... i met this boy through the internet and he seems reali nice and i know this might sound crazy but i think i might have feelings for him... but the only problem is that my mates are telling me that he is only after sex..but i...

A.   22 March 2008: I would agree completely with Flynn24. He has given an unbiased opinion. There are good and bad people everywhere. If people tell you not to go , then it is like , you should stay at home and never come out because there are so many ... (read in full...)

Should I tell her now or wait until they break up?

Q.   I have loved my good friend since 3rd grade. She has an idea I like her from rumours and such be she has never heard it from me. She has a boyfriend. Should I tell her now or wait until they break up....

A.   22 March 2008: You should tell her now because nobody knows what will happen tomorrow. Tomorrow, you may not be there or she would not be there to hear from you. Telling your love is one thing but whether she will respond in kind is another issue.... (read in full...)

How is an abortion done?

Q.   I need an abortion, but words can't explain how worried I am.. Could anyone explain what happens when you first step into the hospital/clinic and onwards? Thank you so much....

A.   22 March 2008: Abortion is legal in your country . In some countries it is illegal except in rape cases and you can be persecuted where you live there. If your law does not persecute you , there is God's laws , Universal laws and Karma. If you do not b... (read in full...)

How is an abortion done?

Q.   I need an abortion, but words can't explain how worried I am.. Could anyone explain what happens when you first step into the hospital/clinic and onwards? Thank you so much....

A.   21 March 2008: Here is an inspiring story for you ;- http://laura1318.wordpress.com/2007/12/20/the-best-christmas-present-from-god/ Do not think of the present but think for your future. Fast forward to 20 years in the future.... Whatever decision you m... (read in full...)

I love her. She loves my best friend. I want them both to be happy but it hurts. What should I do?

Q.   Hello I'm in love with a girl who allso was in love with me. I invited her over to my house while i had my best friend home for a couple of days. After the first day i felt she got less interested in me and started flirting with my best friend. ...

A.   21 March 2008: It is time to seek new friends. It is either you get over the hurt of losing your g/f or get over the hurt of losing your best friend. If you still want to be his friend, then you will have to rationalize the hurt of losin... (read in full...)

He keeps going on dating sites, why is does he keep telling lies to me?

Q.   i have been involved with a guy for 7 months and we live 2hrs apart.i met him on a dating site,and we agreed to remove ourself from all dating sites.he keeps telling me he isnt on no dating sites nor sex sites but i have been in his email and caught ...

A.   21 March 2008: It looks like he is still enjoying those activities. It is either you stay and he changed or he stays and you leave. Can your love overcome this problem?... (read in full...)

I love her. She loves my best friend. I want them both to be happy but it hurts. What should I do?

Q.   Hello I'm in love with a girl who allso was in love with me. I invited her over to my house while i had my best friend home for a couple of days. After the first day i felt she got less interested in me and started flirting with my best friend. ...

A.   21 March 2008: How can you still be friends with your best friend when he has stolen your love? As your best friend , he should not have taken your g/f from you. Best friends don't do that.... (read in full...)

After debating this for a while, I sat down at my desk this morning and wrote this to my probably soon to be ex. Can anyone advise if this is the right way to go?

Q.   After debating this for a while, I sat down at my desk this morning and wrote this to my probably soon to be ex. Can anyone advise if this is the right way to go. I know email is not the way to go, but I'm tending to descend into floods of tears ...

A.   21 March 2008: If you want a quick response to your problem, better to send that mail because it will provoked him into actions. That way you will know the results quickly and not let your relationship be hanging in the air or in a timeless space. If ... (read in full...)

Divorced and she uses the kids to hurt me...what can I do??

Q.   Hi, I have been divorced with my wife for the last 4 years. She just uses the kids to hurt me. I don't know what to do. I was seeing them before for a little while and i had to work 1 weekend and she didn't like it. From that time she stopped me...

A.   20 March 2008: If she is not letting you see the kids, you can go there every weekend and camp outside her place until she relents. Your children will make her change her mind.. ... (read in full...)

My BF suggests that I get an abortion but I disagree, please advise!

Q.   i think i might be pregnant but my boyfriend says i should get an abortion what should i do???i don't want him to leave me alone with the baby but i don't believe in abortion, some out there please help....

A.   20 March 2008: I think you need to consult your parents first and find out where they stand. You need to confirm if you are really pregnant. Have you tested yet?... (read in full...)

After debating this for a while, I sat down at my desk this morning and wrote this to my probably soon to be ex. Can anyone advise if this is the right way to go?

Q.   After debating this for a while, I sat down at my desk this morning and wrote this to my probably soon to be ex. Can anyone advise if this is the right way to go. I know email is not the way to go, but I'm tending to descend into floods of tears ...

A.   20 March 2008: In your letter you can say all your careful thoughts in an uninterrupted and calm way. If you were to talk face to face, you may not be able to get though all those points because you could be emotional and irrational. Furthermore, he... (read in full...)

How is an abortion done?

Q.   I need an abortion, but words can't explain how worried I am.. Could anyone explain what happens when you first step into the hospital/clinic and onwards? Thank you so much....

A.   20 March 2008: No one is pointing a gun to her head and asking her to believe anything here. She is very intelligent judging from her replies . It is only someone who thinks that she should listen to her only and belittling others and the poster. The p... (read in full...)

How is an abortion done?

Q.   I need an abortion, but words can't explain how worried I am.. Could anyone explain what happens when you first step into the hospital/clinic and onwards? Thank you so much....

A.   19 March 2008: You can view a picture of an embryo at 4 weeks here;- http://www.paternityangel.com/PicsAndPhotos/FoetalDevelop/1stTrimester.htm Whether you can consider it another life or not depends on you . Those doctors just suck out their brains an... (read in full...)

Divorced and she uses the kids to hurt me...what can I do??

Q.   Hi, I have been divorced with my wife for the last 4 years. She just uses the kids to hurt me. I don't know what to do. I was seeing them before for a little while and i had to work 1 weekend and she didn't like it. From that time she stopped me...

A.   17 March 2008: Make peace with her and have a friendly talk with her and discuss about the children's welfare and future together. You don't want them to grow up without a father and she knows that too. It would be better if you two can talk and settle this ... (read in full...)

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