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After debating this for a while, I sat down at my desk this morning and wrote this to my probably soon to be ex. Can anyone advise if this is the right way to go?

Q.   After debating this for a while, I sat down at my desk this morning and wrote this to my probably soon to be ex. Can anyone advise if this is the right way to go. I know email is not the way to go, but I'm tending to descend into floods of tears ...

A.   5 April 2008: End of one chapter in your life and the new dawn of another era. When the love is gone, it is very hard to rekindle the sparks again. You were not meant for each other. Now that you have come to the end of this road , another journey begins... (read in full...)

My boyfriend prefers masturbation/porn to sex???

Q.   My boyfriend and I live together and have what others consider a perfect relationship. This is going to be a bit long winded, but I feel I need to start at the beginning so that it is all properly understood. When I first moved in, I quickly re...

A.   2 April 2008: If you are not satisfied with the sex problem, then you need to express to him and tell him directly what you want or expect from him.He cannot read your mind. You should not bring up the subject of his porn viewing. You allow hi... (read in full...)

After debating this for a while, I sat down at my desk this morning and wrote this to my probably soon to be ex. Can anyone advise if this is the right way to go?

Q.   After debating this for a while, I sat down at my desk this morning and wrote this to my probably soon to be ex. Can anyone advise if this is the right way to go. I know email is not the way to go, but I'm tending to descend into floods of tears ...

A.   31 March 2008: Life is like a fortune's wheel. It goes up and then down and will go up again. It is like the four seasons. Things cannot get any worse and will get better from now. Be more positive and stop thinking in a negative way. You will find someone who ... (read in full...)

How is an abortion done?

Q.   I need an abortion, but words can't explain how worried I am.. Could anyone explain what happens when you first step into the hospital/clinic and onwards? Thank you so much....

A.   26 March 2008: Dr.Pete, That is not relevant here and it is simply not the same.Period! Are you a real Dr?... (read in full...)

How is an abortion done?

Q.   I need an abortion, but words can't explain how worried I am.. Could anyone explain what happens when you first step into the hospital/clinic and onwards? Thank you so much....

A.   26 March 2008: A reader, anonymous, writes (22 March 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the question Laura1318, I'm not heartless. This is why I asked this question - I need opinions, medical and non-medical. I don't know whether you... (read in full...)

How is an abortion done?

Q.   I need an abortion, but words can't explain how worried I am.. Could anyone explain what happens when you first step into the hospital/clinic and onwards? Thank you so much....

A.   26 March 2008: [Post removed by Andrew]... (read in full...)

How is an abortion done?

Q.   I need an abortion, but words can't explain how worried I am.. Could anyone explain what happens when you first step into the hospital/clinic and onwards? Thank you so much....

A.   26 March 2008: Does a private GP gives you good advise? If anybody thinks a private clinic will advise you against abortion,then the GP will have to close shop There will be a conflict of interest. Those abortion clinics are opened for business to perform ... (read in full...)

How is an abortion done?

Q.   I need an abortion, but words can't explain how worried I am.. Could anyone explain what happens when you first step into the hospital/clinic and onwards? Thank you so much....

A.   24 March 2008:  http://www.dailymail.co.uk/pages/live/articles/health/womenfamily.html?in_article_id=299146&in_page_id=1799 (Copy and paste the link in another window if clicking on the link does not work.) The above link does not work in here. h... (read in full...)

How is an abortion done?

Q.   I need an abortion, but words can't explain how worried I am.. Could anyone explain what happens when you first step into the hospital/clinic and onwards? Thank you so much....

A.   24 March 2008: An Eye witness account of an abortion from a mother. We often hear of the children wanting about an abortion disregarding the mother's wishes. The child is so young and takes the major decision without considering the mother's views. H... (read in full...)

How is an abortion done?

Q.   I need an abortion, but words can't explain how worried I am.. Could anyone explain what happens when you first step into the hospital/clinic and onwards? Thank you so much....

A.   23 March 2008: PREGNANCY and ABORTION What is it? If you are facing a pregnancy with a sense of fear, rather than wonder, there is help for you. Trained counsellors can help you deal with what being pregnant means for you and how it will affect your life... (read in full...)

How is an abortion done?

Q.   I need an abortion, but words can't explain how worried I am.. Could anyone explain what happens when you first step into the hospital/clinic and onwards? Thank you so much....

A.   23 March 2008: In the UK , single and unmarried woman with child can qualify for child benefits. Some help is available to pay for the costs of accommodation, living expenses, childcare and even free NHS prescriptions. You might like to take an interest on t... (read in full...)

How is an abortion done?

Q.   I need an abortion, but words can't explain how worried I am.. Could anyone explain what happens when you first step into the hospital/clinic and onwards? Thank you so much....

A.   23 March 2008: I think the Daily mail site have tons of info on abortion and the poster can go there and after reading can form her own opinions. That said , it is useless to say anymore on this topic. Whatever she chooses, I will wish her all the best. ... (read in full...)

How is an abortion done?

Q.   I need an abortion, but words can't explain how worried I am.. Could anyone explain what happens when you first step into the hospital/clinic and onwards? Thank you so much....

A.   23 March 2008: No one not even YOU can tell if this poster is goiong to suffer mental health problems, you are preaching against abortion plain and simple scaremongering, being influenced by the catholic church it a bloody disgrace. I am not a catholic (thank god) ... (read in full...)

How is an abortion done?

Q.   I need an abortion, but words can't explain how worried I am.. Could anyone explain what happens when you first step into the hospital/clinic and onwards? Thank you so much....

A.   22 March 2008: What REALLY happens during an abortion: One surgeon finally tells the truth. From the Daily mail http://www.dailymail.co.uk/pages/live/femail/article.html?in_article_id=487377&in_page_id=1879 Please do not click on this link ... (read in full...)

How is an abortion done?

Q.   I need an abortion, but words can't explain how worried I am.. Could anyone explain what happens when you first step into the hospital/clinic and onwards? Thank you so much....

A.   22 March 2008: What REALLY happens during an abortion: One surgeon finally tells the truth. From the Daily mail http://www.dailymail.co.uk/pages/live/femail/article.html?in_article_id=487377&in_page_id=1879... (read in full...)

How is an abortion done?

Q.   I need an abortion, but words can't explain how worried I am.. Could anyone explain what happens when you first step into the hospital/clinic and onwards? Thank you so much....

A.   22 March 2008: Women who have abortions are three times as likely to suffer depression and other mental illness. "Surely those who support a woman's right to abortion must also support her right to know the risks associated with that choice. Choice is onl... (read in full...)

How is an abortion done?

Q.   I need an abortion, but words can't explain how worried I am.. Could anyone explain what happens when you first step into the hospital/clinic and onwards? Thank you so much....

A.   22 March 2008: Abortion is just too easy in the UK. Anyone wanting an abortion can just walk in and have it done. Some women who resisted the urge to abort realised what a world of difference their baby made in their life. If only those young people go... (read in full...)

How is an abortion done?

Q.   I need an abortion, but words can't explain how worried I am.. Could anyone explain what happens when you first step into the hospital/clinic and onwards? Thank you so much....

A.   22 March 2008: WHOA! I did not say it was you and I did not mention you . You got me wrong. Some one said she had no regrets. She asked you to do like her and don't feel guilty about it. In your original question, you only asked about the t... (read in full...)

How is an abortion done?

Q.   I need an abortion, but words can't explain how worried I am.. Could anyone explain what happens when you first step into the hospital/clinic and onwards? Thank you so much....

A.   22 March 2008: Abortion is legal in your country . In some countries it is illegal except in rape cases and you can be persecuted where you live there. If your law does not persecute you , there is God's laws , Universal laws and Karma. If you do not b... (read in full...)

How is an abortion done?

Q.   I need an abortion, but words can't explain how worried I am.. Could anyone explain what happens when you first step into the hospital/clinic and onwards? Thank you so much....

A.   21 March 2008: Here is an inspiring story for you ;- http://laura1318.wordpress.com/2007/12/20/the-best-christmas-present-from-god/ Do not think of the present but think for your future. Fast forward to 20 years in the future.... Whatever decision you m... (read in full...)

After debating this for a while, I sat down at my desk this morning and wrote this to my probably soon to be ex. Can anyone advise if this is the right way to go?

Q.   After debating this for a while, I sat down at my desk this morning and wrote this to my probably soon to be ex. Can anyone advise if this is the right way to go. I know email is not the way to go, but I'm tending to descend into floods of tears ...

A.   21 March 2008: If you want a quick response to your problem, better to send that mail because it will provoked him into actions. That way you will know the results quickly and not let your relationship be hanging in the air or in a timeless space. If ... (read in full...)

After debating this for a while, I sat down at my desk this morning and wrote this to my probably soon to be ex. Can anyone advise if this is the right way to go?

Q.   After debating this for a while, I sat down at my desk this morning and wrote this to my probably soon to be ex. Can anyone advise if this is the right way to go. I know email is not the way to go, but I'm tending to descend into floods of tears ...

A.   20 March 2008: In your letter you can say all your careful thoughts in an uninterrupted and calm way. If you were to talk face to face, you may not be able to get though all those points because you could be emotional and irrational. Furthermore, he... (read in full...)

I think that it is a fear of commitment... what do you guys think?

Q.   My boyfriend of 2 1/2 is joining the navy, and at first I did not encourage him because I did not believe in it. He broke up with me about 2 weeks ago, and I wrote him a letter apologizing, and he confronts me and says that "friends do not do this ...

A.   20 March 2008: He is bent on leaving and going sailing the high sea's. There is nothing you can do or say to change his mind. The best you can do is to let him leave and allow him the luxury of time to think about your relationship . A peri... (read in full...)

I've been with my boyfriend for 7 months, it started off great but over time it's got worse, he just doesn't seem interested anymore.

Q.   Hi everyone, I really need some advice. I've been with my boyfriend for 7 months, it started off great (as it normally does) but over time it's got worse, he just doesn't seem interested anymore. I told him a few weeks ago that I couldn't carry o...

A.   20 March 2008: The spark and fire in your relationship is gone. You need to add more fuel and fireworks or this relationship will be doomed. It will need to to start the fire again.. If he is unwilling, then only God can help you. Loving someone w... (read in full...)

How is an abortion done?

Q.   I need an abortion, but words can't explain how worried I am.. Could anyone explain what happens when you first step into the hospital/clinic and onwards? Thank you so much....

A.   20 March 2008: No one is pointing a gun to her head and asking her to believe anything here. She is very intelligent judging from her replies . It is only someone who thinks that she should listen to her only and belittling others and the poster. The p... (read in full...)

It's slowly becoming apparent that the more into someone you are, the less likely they are to be into you. Can someone please explain?

Q.   It's slowly becoming apparent that the more into someone you are, the less likely they are to be into you. Can someone please explain?...

A.   20 March 2008: When you give, someone has to take. When he is taking , he cannot give. Thats why , when you are into him , you tend to give off yourself a lot, but since he is receiving your attentions, he tends to bask in it without giving it ba... (read in full...)

I want him to chase me

Q.   "Men want to chase not be chased" So how do I get the acquaintance from class to chase me? What do you do in order to increase a guys interest? He is sweet, quiet, and thoughtful man in one of my classes and I feel strongly attracted to him but I ...

A.   20 March 2008: Be highly visual to him and get inside his world. Be involved with what he is doing , his activities or his hobbies. Try talking to him more often.... (read in full...)

My boyfriend prefers masturbation/porn to sex???

Q.   My boyfriend and I live together and have what others consider a perfect relationship. This is going to be a bit long winded, but I feel I need to start at the beginning so that it is all properly understood. When I first moved in, I quickly re...

A.   20 March 2008: You can either accept this way of life or you leave. If you have tried all the ways and he still does not change, then there is nothing that can be done about him except to find another partner. Give yourself a time period. ... (read in full...)

Upset that my ex boyfriend is sleeping with his new girl in OUR house!

Q.   Hi guys, I'm new here. I have a question. A few months ago my boyfriend broke up with me. We had a relationship for almost 10 years. A few years ago we bought a house. After he broke up with me I left (He asked me to leave). I'm staying at my be...

A.   20 March 2008: You have patronized your ex. You should not have agreed to move out. It is time you need to accept that your situation is beyond hope. There is no more going back. The only thing left is to deal with the house. Discuss with him about... (read in full...)

After 2 years do I decide 2 split?

Q.   I have been with myboyfriend now for 2 years but recently we have been arguing a lot is it worth carrying on with? ...

A.   20 March 2008: Arguments are about issues and outlooks and it should be kept separated from love. It is not the he loves you less but it is the issues which you don't see eye to eye. How you handle those arguments can make or break your relationships. ... (read in full...)

He's not the faithful type, should I go after him anyway?

Q.   i have known *Guy* for about a year now, i've got on with him well since we first started talking. we've always flirted and joked around like that but over the last month or so hes got more serious about it, telling me he cant stop thinking of me ec...

A.   20 March 2008: Sometimes our perceptions can be wrong. We should not judge what happened in the past as people can change. I can only advise you to open both eyes when you are with him . All of us have some shortcomings. ... (read in full...)

He never answers his phone and told me to leave him alone! Still, should I give him the benefit of the doubt?

Q.   ok ive been with this guy for at least 6 months. but before i started talkin 2 him he had an ex of three years that he left becuse she was unfaithful. and he said that he would never get back with her. everything was going good with us. he would ...

A.   20 March 2008: I think sometimes there are no definite answers to every problems . From your description of events, I can only speculate that his love for you have dried up and he is behaving badly towards you. It could have been his ex. When love died,... (read in full...)

Can an affair make your marriage stronger?

Q.   I often read amongst the answers that an affair can make a marriage stronger. Is this true or just the hurt parties way of saving face. i.e its been so painful i must make out its been worth it. Question can an affair strengthen your marriage?...

A.   20 March 2008: Those marriage experts or counselors are divided into two camps. It is up to you to believe which ever is right. There is no rights or wrongs because each case is different. In some , it does strengthened the marriage while in some ,... (read in full...)

Boyfriend wrote me a threatening email! How do I respond?

Q.   Boyfriend and I are arguing.He did somethign that hurt me and all day I waited for flowers and an apology or both. When I finally received an e-mail from him it was nasty and threatening. I don't know how to respond to that. I feel I should sh...

A.   20 March 2008: Just trash it, hate mails or threatening mails. Just ignore them and don't respond to them. 90% of them are just empty threats.... (read in full...)

He never answers his phone and told me to leave him alone! Still, should I give him the benefit of the doubt?

Q.   ok ive been with this guy for at least 6 months. but before i started talkin 2 him he had an ex of three years that he left becuse she was unfaithful. and he said that he would never get back with her. everything was going good with us. he would ...

A.   20 March 2008: I think you should let things cool down a bit and wait for him to call you. If he does not call you ,then you have to accept that he has move on. I am sorry for what you are going through.... (read in full...)

What is "constructive critism"? My boyfriend doesn't believe in it...

Q.   Is there such a thing as constructive critism. My boyfriend says there isn't and that it a saying made up by business people. He says in reality its an oxymoron. Weve argued about it but he's adamant theres no such thing. Can you help?...

A.   20 March 2008: Why argue? If he believes there is none, let him believe whatever he wants. One day he will know the truth. You cannot force anyone to believe your stand by ramming it down their throats. Even though you are right, his mind is blocked and ... (read in full...)

Do I flirt back? My best friend acts like he likes me!

Q.   ok, so my best guy friend is starting to act like he likes me. The only problems are that he flirts ALOT, so i can't really tell if he's being serious or not. We have gone out before and it didnt work out, but we are still really great friends. ...

A.   20 March 2008: That is a side of his personality . Maybe you could looked at it from a hilarious angle and accept him that way. You can be friends first and have fun.... (read in full...)

She keeps snapping at me all the time... Help!

Q.   Recently got engaged but we argue a lot, she snaps at me. It makes me unhappy and I can't even tell her that I am unhappy. I don't know what to do!...

A.   19 March 2008: Ask her what is bugging her? Dig and dig until she tells you what her problem or problems is. Do not argue, just listen to her perspective . Say you disagree and let it go. She is entitled to her opinions and sometimes you need to va... (read in full...)

How are you supposed to keep a strong connection when you only see someone twice a week and no calls in between?

Q.   Me and my guy have been seeing each other for 6 weeks now and we are great together but I have one complaint! He doesnt call me much at all I have noticed the last couple of weeks. He will call when I am supposed to come over and maybe a couple ...

A.   19 March 2008: You both have different needs and you should try to seek a compromise . Maybe , you should pull back a bit and let him do the chasing. . It seems like he has settled into a boring routine which is predictable with no surprises.... (read in full...)

I keep on faking orgasms but I love my new partner, please help!

Q.   I love my new partner. But I don't always have an orgasm with him so I fake it so as to please him. I've been doing for a while and find it tired faking it. What can I do? Please advise....

A.   19 March 2008: You can teach him and show him what to do to make you have a real orgasm. Life is about learning new things.... (read in full...)

My ex has just dumped me...

Q.   hello I'm really worried and upset, my ex boyfriend dumped me and their was rumours going around that he kissed another girl that has a boyfriend herself, I don't know if this is true, I still love him, and I've tried so many times he said he's ...

A.   19 March 2008: I am very sorry and I feel for you . No words can comfort your broken heart. Life is sometimes cruel. Even though there are dark clouds in your world, you should look at the silver linings in the clouds. You may miss the old, but anoth... (read in full...)

How do I tell him how "insensitive" he is?

Q.   Sometimes my boyfriend can be, in my opinion, very insensitive about my feelings. When i try to organize something fun and he sees a negative side about the idea he will voice his opinion without giving thought that i may have put alot of effort ...

A.   19 March 2008: There are two ways you can deal with this type of person. 1) You learn to take it in your stride. After all , you cannot expect a cup full from someone who is only half full. 2) You can teach him a lesson and he will learn for life. ... (read in full...)

My gf doesn't think its going to workout because we aren't seeing each other. I need some advice please

Q.   Hi i am recently going out with a girl who is actually older than me, we have been going out for about 2-3 months now and just today she said she wasnt sure whether it was going to work because we arent seeing each other a lot and thats because of ...

A.   19 March 2008: There is always the internet , e-mails, sms, Skype . You maybe busy but if you always keep her in your thoughts, she will not miss you. You don't have to see each other everyday.... (read in full...)

No lectures please, I'm staying with him no matter what, I just need to know what to do with my bf who's smoking weed...

Q.   I'm 14 and my boyfriend is 15. Okay so here's the stich My boyfriend has lately started on weed again and it has changed him big time, its got to a point were he doesnt care what i say or what i do anymore... Hes yelling at me like everyday now,...

A.   19 March 2008: Is there any drug rehabilitation centers in your area? You may ask him to report there to cure his drug addiction. You can try your local gov. health centers or you can go to this link ;- http://www.healthinsi... (read in full...)

How to get back to what we had and is it worth it?

Q.   My boyfriend and I have broken up - it seems like he can't give the commitment I want, but I want to be with him still. I am wanting us to live together but he isn't ready and doesn't know if he'll ever be. I love him so much I am finding it hard ...

A.   19 March 2008: You cannot go back in time. What happened is the past is gone. Only you can treasure those good memories. You cannot recreate those magical moments. You got to re evaluate your relationship and decide you want to stay on or leave. Is... (read in full...)

How do I get a really smoooooooth shave in my genital area?

Q.   Im 16 When i shave my vagina it leaves red dots and when i run my hand over my vagina it feels like i havent shaved, its all prickly and hurts.. how can i make it feel and look like there's no hairs there. Also do guys get turned off by a little bit ...

A.   19 March 2008: There is a lot of info on this site;- http://www.the-clitoris.com/n_html/shaving.htm... (read in full...)

Is it possible he doesn't masturbate to the porn on his computer??

Q.   I recently found some porn pictures of nude female models in pictures by themselves and a couple of videos of girls undressing on my boyfriend's computer. We have been dating almost 2 years, and from the time I met him he has always told me that ...

A.   19 March 2008: How can you be so presumptuous to say he masturbates to those nude pixs? Are you him or are you God? Just because you may have done it , does not mean that he also does. Your logic is like , once a thief, then everyone is a thief in y... (read in full...)

If a guy cheats on you once, will he cheat on you again?

Q.   If a guy cheats on you once, will he cheat on you again?...

A.   19 March 2008: Leave the past behind and live in the present. Do not worry about the future because no one knows what will happen . You cannot control the future and neither can you change it. Whatever will happen , will happen! It is God's will. Th... (read in full...)

My boyfriend is pressuring me to have sex. How do I stop this?

Q.   hi my name is michele and i am 15 years old. well i have been with my boyfrined for 7 months and he is rushing me into things that i dont want to do. how can i stop this from happening. thanks michele P.s please help...

A.   19 March 2008: Tell him in an assertive and emphatic ," NO Way!" If he ever force upon you , give him a tight slap on the face . Be on your guard for he can come by the stealth way...... (read in full...)

I told my mates we'd had sex, now I'm worried my gf will break up with me!

Q.   ive been going out with my gf for about 5months now. and the other night we had sex and we did use protection dont worry, but now shes avoiding me a bit and im worried she'l break up with me. but i think shes annoyed by the fact that i told all my ...

A.   19 March 2008: There is always the first time. You made a mistake and I hope you learned your lessons in life. Words once spoken out cannot be withdrawn. In future , be careful of what you say and think first before you say anything. You may den... (read in full...)

Keep the baby for me or abortion to make him happy?

Q.   I'm a 23 year old female and I am pregnant. Doesn't seem like a big deal but the guy that I'm pregnant by doesn't want me to have to baby because he says we should wait and because he's not ready. He has tried EVERYTHING to make me have a abortion: ...

A.   19 March 2008: If he wants to disappear , baby or no baby , he will be gone. What if you give up the baby and he finds another reason to be gone? What then? Life is full of uncertainties but your baby is very certain. Better you be happy and other... (read in full...)

My partner who is 10 years older treats me like a child! It ruins my day!

Q.   My boyfriend and I have lived together for a year. Everything is usually fine because my bf is very caring and we love each other. But, one thing really bothers me and it often makes me upset. He is 10 years older than me and it is true that he is ...

A.   19 March 2008: He thinks he is doing a world of good to you by bringing you up his way. He thinks his ways are right and your ways are immature. He is unaware that he is mentally and emotionally abusing you. You have to be assertive and tell him y... (read in full...)

My ex intended to keep me for sex as he wanted his own family and couldn't deal with the time I dedicate to my kids, what should I have done?

Q.   My boyfriend of 2 and a half years broke up with me 3 weeks ago and moved to Europe. He called me after three days and within 6 days he came back. I am divorced with kids and he says that although I am the greatest love of my life, he just cannot ...

A.   19 March 2008:  Do not let anyone hijacked your life and happiness. Take back control of your life and move on. Do not let anyone control your free spirit. You are a whole woman , even if you don't have a man. You can have happiness for no one can ta... (read in full...)

Anything wrong with fancying your ex's best friend?

Q.   Hi! I'd like to know if there is anything wrong with liking your ex's best friend. Of course, nothing will ever happen between us considering i dated his best friend, and I'm sure he'd find it awkward. But was I really that wrong in believing ...

A.   19 March 2008: Every male is fair game. Nobody knows what will happen in the future. No two men are alike. Your ex's best friend is not your ex. He is not his clone. He can dump his best friend when there is a woman...... It is the power of love... (read in full...)

I consider myself average in all aspects, is it a hindrance?

Q.   Hello there, i would like to know readers' honest opinions as to why i just can't get a boyfriend. People i know tell me I'm attractive, and i do get hit on by random guys, but i would like to know why i can't find someone who is genuinely ...

A.   19 March 2008: Perhaps , you may have too high an expectations from your male friends. Try lowering your standards.... (read in full...)

How is an abortion done?

Q.   I need an abortion, but words can't explain how worried I am.. Could anyone explain what happens when you first step into the hospital/clinic and onwards? Thank you so much....

A.   19 March 2008: You can view a picture of an embryo at 4 weeks here;- http://www.paternityangel.com/PicsAndPhotos/FoetalDevelop/1stTrimester.htm Whether you can consider it another life or not depends on you . Those doctors just suck out their brains an... (read in full...)

My wife and mother of my two children has been unfaithful, but has changed for me. How do I learn to ignore the past?

Q.   please tell me what to do? i am married having 2 kids after marriage i have come to know that she was phisically involved with someone but now she has changed herself a lot for me but its hard to ignore her past. please advice me how to ignore her ...

A.   19 March 2008: Each time ,you think of her past, try to focus on her good and positive side and in time your mind will accept her and move on. ... (read in full...)

My ex has always cheated and now I like his best friend! Should I go for it?

Q.   well okay so i was with this guy we were together 4 years and we have a lil girl together but the whole time we were together he cheated on me this last time it was with my sister yes my sister but thats a whole nother subject ok so i have this ...

A.   19 March 2008: You know he cheated and you know it is wrong . Will you be like him ? If you do , then you are no better than him. If you want, you should go by the proper way. Divorce your partner first.. What goes around , comes around.. Think ca... (read in full...)

Is it true one can fall pregnant from a man's pre-ejaculatory fluid?

Q.   My boyfriend and I had sex 14 days after my period we started out unprotected but then he put a condom on meaning he did not ejaculate inside of me but I've been having some cramping,lower back pains and i've noticed a change in my appetite.. I read ...

A.   19 March 2008: Only a pregnancy test will reveal the truth. Any day having unprotected sex runs the risk of getting pregnant. If you miss your next period by 3 to 7 days, get a pregnancy test. If it is negative , you need to confirm again on the 6th... (read in full...)

Why does he get so frustrated and yell at me if he says he loves me?

Q.   my boyfriend and i have been togther for 6 months now. he says he loves me and i don't do anything wrong, but he gets easily frustrated and is a bit controling. if i want to have a beer he gets irritated saying i'm not with him so why do i need a ...

A.   19 March 2008: He has taken you for granted . Ask him to cut that crap . Be assertive and tell him you don't deserve such treatments from him. Set your limits and boundaries. If he love you , he will say sorry and will not do it again. Otherwise , hi... (read in full...)

Should I believe him that he won't cheat on me?

Q.   I've been in a 7 year off and on relationship. We have 3 children. He has cheated on me before, but since we got back together this last time he swears up and down that he wont cheat on me and that he had alot of time to think about things. We even ...

A.   19 March 2008: Not all men are the same . Just because of one swallow does not make a summer. Just because your b/f cheated, you can say with authority that all men who cheat will cheat again. That is a fallacy and a wrong assumption of all men.... (read in full...)

Should I believe him that he won't cheat on me?

Q.   I've been in a 7 year off and on relationship. We have 3 children. He has cheated on me before, but since we got back together this last time he swears up and down that he wont cheat on me and that he had alot of time to think about things. We even ...

A.   19 March 2008: You can never trust anyone. Even if another person you love , promised you that, you still cannot trust him. No doubt, he has broken your trust once, but is there any difference? He is not a serial cheater, that means you should g... (read in full...)

Do I flirt back? My best friend acts like he likes me!

Q.   ok, so my best guy friend is starting to act like he likes me. The only problems are that he flirts ALOT, so i can't really tell if he's being serious or not. We have gone out before and it didnt work out, but we are still really great friends. ...

A.   18 March 2008: Do you enjoy flirting with him or his attentions? Maybe, this time it is different. You can give it another shot and see how it goes.... (read in full...)

Is it possible he doesn't masturbate to the porn on his computer??

Q.   I recently found some porn pictures of nude female models in pictures by themselves and a couple of videos of girls undressing on my boyfriend's computer. We have been dating almost 2 years, and from the time I met him he has always told me that ...

A.   16 March 2008: And, also, is it possible for a man to look at nude images and not get aroused and/or masturbate? [Unquote] Not all men are the same. It depends on a man's sexual drive. If he is highly sexed, he maybe aroused and whether he will mast... (read in full...)

If a guy cheats on you once, will he cheat on you again?

Q.   If a guy cheats on you once, will he cheat on you again?...

A.   16 March 2008: Nobody knows that answer unless He is God. Once a cheat always a cheat is a stereotype answer. Not everyone is the same and the conditions why they cheat are different. You can give him 2 or 3 chances depending on your generosity. Once... (read in full...)

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