What should I do about this guy?
Q. I really like this guy. I could of swore he liked me. he would flirt with me all the time.He would sit by me in class.Sometimes he would put his arm around touch my hand.Then one day he asked me to ask out one of my friends for him.I was so ...
A. 14 April 2011: i think you gave him the wrong impression when you asked about his friend. why dont you just tell him after you have asked your friend how she feels because you dont want to lose a friend and then see how it develops.... (read in full...)
Been with my g/f for 13 years but developing feelings for someone else
Q. Im 32 and ve been going out with my girlfriend for about 13 years, the problem is that ive started getting involved with someone else who i met through a friend of her family, we started out just holding hands then we started kissing, now she ...
A. 14 April 2011: you shouldn't lead on or be unfaithful to a girl you have spent 13 years with and who probably loves you. if you truly dont love her then end it and get with this new girl but dont string your girlfriend along.... (read in full...)
Best boy-friend into boyfriend? How?
Q. There is this best friend I have since I was a little girl. He acts really cute when hes with me, but when somebody talks about being in a relationship we say "no way!" anyway, I want to take the next big step. How do I tell him without ruining our ...
A. 14 April 2011: As your good friends there is a small chance that it will ruin your relationship. just tell him that you have feelings for him and its o.k if he just wants to stay friends so then he wont feel trapped and therefore feels uncomfortable just being ... (read in full...)
Copy of my ex and his new girl's conversations... can I get some opinions?
Q. Ok so this is a copy of what my boyfriend said to his new girlfriend just 2 months into there relationship. AND it is all the things he said to me but it took us time to build to these things and thats how they came to have such meaning. Anyw...
A. 8 February 2010: he sounds like a complete player.. he is using everything he said to you with her. how do you know that he didn't say it to someone before you? if shes stupid enough to fall for his lines then she is dumb. its been 2 months! ever thought he may be ... (read in full...)
Am I paranoid? Am I overreacting? I feel trapped!
Q. Hi, yet another issue of trust Iv had a long discussion with my gf about her talking to her ex and this guy she lied about a couple of times and also kissed, told her it unsettles me and i dont really feel secure because of it. she- however - ...
A. 8 February 2010: you are not over reacting. you know what she is doing is wrong so why aren't you confronting her? if she was to leave she would have done it by now. there is no such thing as being friends with an ex and especially when he is sending i love you ... (read in full...)
What to do with the engagement ring after breaking up?
Q. Hi! I was engaged 5 years back, and he got me a diamond engagement ring. Things didn't go well and we split up, but I kept the ring when we moved apart. We did have a small discussion about it, but he said he wanted to wear it and I didn't like the ...
A. 8 February 2010: sell it!! you split up and havent spoken for 5 years so would he even want it or the money? sell it and spend the money on something nice. he gave the ring to you so its yours.... (read in full...)
I've tried everything for 2 years and I STILL can't get over my ex!
Q. ok, so let me start off by saying what i've already tried. and this isn't to bash anyone's ideas or advice because trust me i really need them. I've tried hanging out with friends, visiting family. i even moved back in with my mother and am going ...
A. 8 February 2010: i have been in the same situation as you so i know how you feel. firstly block him on facebook you are doing yourself no favours. you need time to process the break up and accept the fact that you are not getting back together and he has made that ... (read in full...)
He admits that he occasionally wishes he were single!
Q. I've been with my boyfriend for a year and a half and I love him very much. It may seem fast, but I feel that he's the one and I would like to spend the rest of my life with him. However he has admitted that he occassionally wishes he was si...
A. 8 February 2010: it seems to me that your boyfriend doesnt share the same feelings for you. yes he loves you but being single would mean being with someone else, and would you ever wish you was with someone else?
ask him what he really wants, and if he would want... (read in full...)
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