Am I too young to have sex?
Q. I have a dilemma. I have a boyfriend for the first time and I really like him. I'm pretty crazy about him actually. I'm a junior in high school and I'm pretty new to the whole boyfriend thing. However, he has asked if I want to have sex and I don't ...
A. 11 January 2009: I think that if your unsure at all, then its best to wait until your certain that having sex is what you want to do. I don't know about the age thing, I think it is more to do with whether or not your sure.
anyway, hope that helped!... (read in full...)
I have not met my dad thus feel weird among men, my friends suddenly changed and I feel overwhelmed by my problems. Help!
Q. lately everyone seems to be falling out with each other, and i think its because of our exams looming ahead. but my two best friends have gone. with no reason at all. theyve both changed so much and that itself has been getting me down. as well as t...
A. 1 May 2008: It sounds like your having a really hard time at the moment. Well, you say one of your problems is your mum, I think if you sit her down and maybe tell her how you feel and that you know she has been throwing up and how much its worrying you then... (read in full...)
How can I change her mind about going on the pill?
Q. Hi all! me and my gf have been together for and 3 months now. We are very much in love and the sex is amazing. there is however, just one problem, my gf always forces me to wear a condom. She says that she can't risk getting pregnant and says tha...
A. 21 April 2008: I understand that you may not want to use a condom-but you need to respect your girlfriends desision. The pill can cause sickness etc, and be quite nasty, and also it is less reliable than a condom, there are a lot more side effects. i know it... (read in full...)
If he accepts to go together to the cinema, does he implicitly accept to be my BF???...
Q. I was wondering...If you ask a guy out to the movies and he's 13,will he then(once he's said yes) accept you as a gf. Because i could pluck up the courage to try it,but he might not think of me as his gf and simply GET ANOTHER GF. Are guys rea...
A. 13 April 2008: a guy i know asked a girl to the cinema, and thought they were going out, but she didnt think so, she thought it was just an invite to the cinemas.
so maybe you should invite him to the cinema, and make sure it is devinatly seen as a date.
im su... (read in full...)
I am single I'm finding it really hard to be in a relationship with someone close to home, I can't seem to get used to it as I was so used to all the space I got in the previous relationship.
Q. I recently finished with a boy I had been seeing for a year, we had been in a long distance relationship and we had been getting through it okay. But now that I am single I'm finding it really hard to be in a relationship with someone close to home, ...
A. 2 April 2008: Tree, What you need to do, is keep attemtping to make a relationship close to home work. It doesn't need to be serious, but the more time you spend with a guy, the more used to it you will get. This is all part of the life process I suppose, but y... (read in full...)
Two guys are fighting over me but I don't want to ruin our friendship, help!
Q. i have a new amazing group of friends but two guys fancy me, they are fighting between each other and threatening each other, I don't like either of them more than a friend and I have made that clear so I don't know what else I can do butI don't ...
A. 16 March 2008: I think what you should do is just have a word with them-tell them outright and then who knows? imagine you are a tree and you have many branches..yeah i forgot my point there but I can see what you mean, obviously your friends must be pretty ... (read in full...)
I'm 13 and need suggestions on how to have more confidence and be more outgoing?
Q. Hi! I'm 13 years old and people will describe me as shy or quiet. I'd really like to be more outgoing but no matter how hard I try I get scared. I try to have more confidence, and picture myself talking with confidence, but it doesn't seem to ...
A. 6 March 2008: I think that maybe you should join a drama group if there are any at your school. Although this may not appeal to you, it should help to build your confidence as well as giving you a chance to make some more friends.
I'm 15 and when I was 13, I wa... (read in full...)
I'm 13 and need suggestions on how to have more confidence and be more outgoing?
Q. Hi! I'm 13 years old and people will describe me as shy or quiet. I'd really like to be more outgoing but no matter how hard I try I get scared. I try to have more confidence, and picture myself talking with confidence, but it doesn't seem to ...
A. 6 March 2008: I suggest that if your school has a drama club then you should join that. It may not appeal to you but it will definatly build your confidence-it has helped me in the past.
This will help you to make new friend, and learn how to talk to people etc,... (read in full...)
I am in love with her after cheating on her. How can I win her back?
Q. So here's the deal: I had a best friend and we'll call her "Valerie". Val and i came out to one another. We flirted for a year. I became to develope an insane crush on her, and she only fancied me a little. one night we confessed our feelings...
A. 21 December 2007: maybe you should just start again?
I think shes not helping you much tbh..shes obv messed up about her ex and stuff..so maybe you should just take a break from her?
she might just need some time to sort out her head.
xxx... (read in full...)
I told my best friend she hurt my feelings when she mentioned her love and even forbade them to kiss in front of me. Now I feel guilty for all that happened and need advice about how to react in the future.
Q. I'm a 21 year old guy in a 3 way relationship gone from bad to hell. I have had trouble with friends in the past..who betrayed me..or just used me..things like that, so i never wanted many friends just a few good ones. That's how things were a year ...
A. 21 December 2007: ok first of all, cheer up. im sure you have loads to live for.
no matter how you feel about this girl, you need her out of your life, asap. shes obviously causing you problems, and isnt a good friend at all.
its not good to be friends with peo... (read in full...)
I am in love with her after cheating on her. How can I win her back?
Q. So here's the deal: I had a best friend and we'll call her "Valerie". Val and i came out to one another. We flirted for a year. I became to develope an insane crush on her, and she only fancied me a little. one night we confessed our feelings...
A. 20 December 2007: I think you need to sit down and talk with her.
explain how you feel, why you cheated on her and how sorry you are.
but also make sure she knows you appreciate it if she doesnt want to go out with you because i think this may make her think of... (read in full...)
My boyfriend's sisters are quite cold and distant towards me, do I steer clear of them or make an effort?
Q. I've been with my boyfriend a year. I've known him and his family for 10 years. I've always got on very well with his parents, they are very warm and welcoming people. His sisters however are a different story. One is a stroppy teenage...
A. 20 December 2007: well. I think that maybe you should try and make an effort at first-maybe you could invite them out for a drink or a meal sometime, or a girly night out without your boyfriend?
Maybe things will get better if you have spent some quality time with... (read in full...)
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