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... Send *eaches83 a private message | | | *eaches83's profile:Im 24 and married. I have one little boy that is 5 and a stepson that is 6.
Im currently in my second year at uni doing a degree in pschology. Hard but keeps my mind going.
Im from the uk which as everyone knows is cold and wet lol.
Hmmm what makes me tick.
I think the main thing would be anyone who thinks they are better than anyone else and tries to belittle others to make them selves look better.
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Should I try and show him I care or wait until he next texts me??
Q. hello...i've been talking to this guy that I met online.One day we were talking about relationships online.Then he just wrote a message that said that him and his girlfrirnd broke up and he gave me his number. I texted his phone to let him know I h...
A. 15 September 2008: Not a problem, depending on how long you have been speaking to this guy then thats what you should go on of when you should meet, do it in a public place in daylight and maybe take a friend with you.
Only you will know when the time feels righ... (read in full...)
I want to get pleasure myself but don't want to make her do anything she doesn't want too.
Q. Okay me and my girl friend have been going out for two months. I have started to finger her more often but I never get pleasure myself. I want to but I don't want to make her do anything she doesn't want. I talked to her and she doesn't know and...
A. 14 September 2008: You've made one step towards it, as you said she doesnt know what to do really and not many people really do, god i didnt when i first ever. It kinda come natuarlly when you are ready.
It sounds more like you are both scared, not that you arnt rea... (read in full...)
Should I try and show him I care or wait until he next texts me??
Q. hello...i've been talking to this guy that I met online.One day we were talking about relationships online.Then he just wrote a message that said that him and his girlfrirnd broke up and he gave me his number. I texted his phone to let him know I h...
A. 14 September 2008: Just remeber taht he hs recently broke up from his gf so it will be a case of maybe he doesnt want to make it seem like a rebound thing. Take things slowly and get to know each other more. Maybe actually meet him. Its ok to say that he is nice and ... (read in full...)
Ex staring at me! Does he still like me or was he just sizing me up?
Q. i met my ex at a club about two weeks ago. it had been a long time since we saw or spoke to each other. We said hi and hugged, but everytime we came across each other, he would stare at me. When i'd look back he wouldn't turn his eyes away. I caught ...
A. 14 September 2008: It sounds like he is contemplating on whether he should give it ago. As you said he is an ex so in a way knows what to expect adn may be thinking is it going to end the same way whether it was on good or bad terms. Maybe you should make the first ... (read in full...)
I'm waiting for something bad to happen in my (seemingly) perfect life and it's agonising, please help!
Q. Right here it go's, sorry if its long! Im 16, a model for elite modelling, and ive always been lucky in life, my life has always been very comfortable money wise and ive never had to worry about anything. Im considered very good looking and have...
A. 14 September 2008: Its a natural to think things like that when everything seems so hunky dory, However if you continue with this things will go wrong because you will simply get so stressed and paronoid about it that you will be convinced that he is cheating on you ... (read in full...)
I'm falling for someone who is Transgendered....from female to male...
Q. Hi! So...this is complicated. I will try to condense it some to make it more readable. I was engaged to a guy, who after 3 years told me he wanted to be a woman. I cut off the relationship as I just couldn't deal with him wearing my clothes and such...
A. 28 June 2008: The difference is that when you got with the guy you were engaged to he was a male it was while he was with you that he wanted to be a female. With your new partner he was what he is now and so there is no hard barrier you have to cross of him going ... (read in full...)
I get really nervous in sexual situations...should I continue to feel this way...or make a change???
Q. I never really had a bad sexual experience but I am still really nervous in sexual situation. Sometimes I dread the idea of being sexual. I've never masturbated and have always preferred just kissing to other acts. I would rather give than receive ...
A. 28 June 2008: Changes can be both good and bad. The fact that you went to a male from a femlae could maybe some of the problem. There are different ways of making love with each.
Masturbation is one way of becoming comfterble with sexual things and getting o know... (read in full...)
Am I doing something wrong?? What should I do next time??
Q. my girl and I wanted to try something new and that was giving her a orgasm by massaging her clit. I got her in the mood and I started to massage her clit, after a few minutes she started to shake and breath hard but she said she didnt get there. She ...
A. 28 June 2008: You not doing anything wrong it just sometimes happenes,some times it can go on the speed that you do it. For exmple starting slow and the closer she get the faster you pick up your speed. Try using a vibrater or something along those lines.... (read in full...)
I think I have committment problems, I really need advice!!!
Q. Hi I think I have commitment problems but really need advice as it could be something else. I was very unhappily married for 10 years with a man who used to be emotionally abusive but felt really stuck and trapped in that marriage - I married young ...
A. 28 June 2008: i think the problem is you became use to the way you lived your life before, always feeling like you were not good enough and unhappy.
Your mind nd your heart are just waiting for it to start again.
I know many ppl will say this but it will jus... (read in full...)
My friend has biopolar disease...what shoud I do?
Q. my former best friend has the bipolar disease and it really affects her becuz one min. she's happy then next thing u kno shes going crazy we both want to be best friends again but i cant because i dont know wats gonna happen this time. wat should i ...
A. 27 June 2008: Having this condition will be just as hard for her too and i suspect she will need all the help and friends she can. Find out about the condition and see if you cant help with the matter. Last thing this girl is going to want is for her friends to ... (read in full...)
I am so confused! please help guys! surely it is wrong for us to like each other?
Q. hey. random question that occurs all the time in pretty much everbody! basically, i am mid teens and i think i like this guy, even though he is not instinctivly fit or any thing, but he has a really nice personbality an di find it really easy t...
A. 16 June 2008: Whether you make a fool out of youself or not you need to question him on his intentions with you.
Its not wrong for you to like each other at all though.
If he is flirting with other people like your friend at the same time it does sound like he ... (read in full...)
I am so confused! please help guys! surely it is wrong for us to like each other?
Q. hey. random question that occurs all the time in pretty much everbody! basically, i am mid teens and i think i like this guy, even though he is not instinctivly fit or any thing, but he has a really nice personbality an di find it really easy t...
A. 16 June 2008: Whether you make a fool out of youself or not you need to question him on his intentions with you.
Its not wrong for you to like each other at all though.
If he is flirting with other people like you friend at the same time it does sound like he ... (read in full...)
I am so confused! please help guys! surely it is wrong for us to like each other?
Q. hey. random question that occurs all the time in pretty much everbody! basically, i am mid teens and i think i like this guy, even though he is not instinctivly fit or any thing, but he has a really nice personbality an di find it really easy t...
A. 16 June 2008: Whether you make a fool out of youself or not you need to question him on his intentions with you.
Its not wrong for you to like each other at all though.
If he is flirting with other people like you friend at the same time it does sound like he ... (read in full...)
I am so confused! please help guys! surely it is wrong for us to like each other?
Q. hey. random question that occurs all the time in pretty much everbody! basically, i am mid teens and i think i like this guy, even though he is not instinctivly fit or any thing, but he has a really nice personbality an di find it really easy t...
A. 16 June 2008: Whether you make a fool out of youself or not you need to question him on his intentions with you.
Its not wrong for you to like each other at all though.
If he is flirting with other people like you friend at the same time it does sound like he ... (read in full...)
I don't believe that I'm pretty, is there something wrong with me?
Q. im a slim light skinned girl,and everyone comments on how pretty i am but although i know they arent lying i myself dont believe i am.my boyfriend also says that im gorgeous and pretty but i still dont fink i am.is there somethibg wrong with me?...
A. 16 June 2008: No not at all you just have very little confidence in yourself.
Think about the things that you think may be wrong with yourself and address the problems.
Trust the people that say you are pretty and learn to love yourself for who you are.... (read in full...)
How many people actually stay with their high school lovers?
Q. i have a very straight foward question. Basically does anybody here think that somebody my age (18)can actually keep with their bf from school? im out of school both of us are at uni....what are the chances of it happening? how many people do u know ...
A. 16 June 2008: I think if two people are compatable it can happen. My parents were together for 12 yrs and they were high school lovers. My grandparents are still married and they met at school.
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Help! I Just Dont Trust Him!
Q. I found out after marrying my husband that he had lied to me about why his first marrage ended,he told me his ex wife had cheated,i found out it was him.He knew before we actually met that i cannot stand people who cheat.Since i have found out i ...
A. 16 June 2008: Hiya
Its an hard one, the fact that he not only lied but he cheated is a bad thing. However i know some people and i my self have said it before once a cheat always a cheat, well in some cases it not like that. He may turn out to be faithful... (read in full...)
Should I get out of this habit of having sex with my sexpartner?
Q. its me!! earlier i've told yall about the guy i love is getting married. Now he's not the babymomma got mad because he don't spend enough time with her. So she leaves and go back to her town for days and take the son with her.(she has her ass on her ...
A. 13 June 2008: You dont feel the same because he isnt attatched to anyone else any more. Put your self in this other girls shoes.
Its comming up to you weding day and you think everything is great you love each other so so much, lol mean while you guy is out slee... (read in full...)
Any tips on first kiss?
Q. So I went on a date with my girlfriend last night and I ws thinking about kissing her. But I havent had my first kiss yet and I dont know how to kiss? So I thought I need some adviceonhow to kiss a girl....
A. 13 June 2008: If unsure let the girl lead. Go with the flow and you should be ok.... (read in full...)
My fiancee wants me to forgive him and accept his baby with another girl!
Q. Ive been with my boyfriend for 2 years, we are engaged and he is with me everyday, never spent a night away apart from 3 times in the whole 2 years to work. The last time he went away was January and I have just found out he got a girl pregnant. ...
A. 28 April 2008: You have been together for two years and yu have only just found out.... how many more are there.
When he proposed that is supposed to be a commitment to you and you alone he obvisiouly isnt. The choice is yours but if it has been going on for six ... (read in full...)
Two Q's..Why do people have sex changes?-Why are teacher/pupil relationships against the law?
Q. Just out of interest, I have 2 questions which i'd like answers to; Why do people have sex changes? - I know it isn't exactly common, but why can't a person just accept the gender they are! I thought maybe it's because they have feelings for t...
A. 18 April 2008: As for the sex change i think its down to how you feel. As many transexuals will say i had it because even though i had the body of a male i felt very female or vice versa. The teacher pupil thing, well in schools where the pupils range from 4-16 of ... (read in full...)
Why doesn't he say the three magic words I want to hear?
Q. Okay, my boyfriend and I have been together for 6 months. We are so loving towards each other......looking into each others eyes......kissing my eye lids........etc...... But, he hasn't said the 3 words.....I love you. I keep wanting to say it s...
A. 18 April 2008: Simple tell him you love him, your friends are probably right he may be as scared as you. If you say it then you will know your answer by the responce he gives... (read in full...)
How can I get hubby to pay a little attention to me and not spend as much time on the computer?
Q. When my husband gets home from work he goes right to his computer and I would like him to spend a little time with me but he says I am being selfish. Am I being Selfish?...
A. 18 April 2008: The question is what does he do on the pc???
My hubby was the same. Always playing world of warcraft. So i got my own account and that way we interact.
If its something that you can join in or maybe disscuss then give it a go. If not then just tak... (read in full...)
I bottled out of our date and made her feelo bad, but I do really like her!
Q. Hi all i hope you can help me with your advice i was meant to be meeting up with a girl the other week when we went out in rite ( i was out with my mates she was out with hers) she textd me and said were she was so later on we went to this club...
A. 17 April 2008: You gotta think of why you bottled out. That way you can then sort it out. Mybe sort out a time for a coffee or something.... (read in full...)
How do I keep my man and control my emotions?
Q. im 18 with a 35 year old boy friend, we have lots in comon and get along great i'm about 6 weeks pregnant we're both happy about it, it's both our frist child and really he doesn't know what to expect and i'm trying to help him but it seems he ...
A. 17 April 2008: Ok congrads on teh pregnancy. Even though you are still only early into teh preg your hormones are going into overdrive. You will feel weepy alone etc even when you are not. I was the opposite when i was preg with my son. I pushed ppl away and was ... (read in full...)
I have a boyfriend but I'm still not over my previous crush
Q. Hi, I had a crush on this guy called Paul, so i asked him out and he said no, then i got over him. Now i have a boyfriend called Josh and now i have started to like Paul again... I dont know what to do! Please help me!...
A. 17 April 2008: Hunny you are so young and i suppose you will hear it a lot. Dont worry about boyfriends etc at this age, there is plenty of time for that.
Be friedns with both by all means but boyfriends sweetie will come and go and its justthe same for the male... (read in full...)
Depressed recently as the babys father, my boyfriend, has been sent to jail!
Q. wel i dont no wer 2 start! im 16 and 7 months pregnant but thats not the hard bit i feel really depressed recently as the babys father my boyfriend has been sent 2 jail on remand but hes not coming out for a while! but it is for the best in a way bc...
A. 17 April 2008: I know it can be hard to stay with someone because they have seemed to be there when you needed someone and because you feel loved. Ok lets hit it hard.
Your baby is born, while the father is in jail so, one you are on ya own there. When he come... (read in full...)
What is the correct way to give a hand job?
Q. How do you give a hand job? Are you supposed to go up and down fast or slow? How tight should your hand be around his penis? I am afraid if you hold it too tight you maght yank it and that would be very painful! ...
A. 15 April 2008: Hiya
I dont think there are any tricks to the trade. As my husband says yeah giving himself a handjob is good but it always feels better if someone else is doing it for you.
Its a hard one really and in a way can seem boring after all your j... (read in full...)
My boyfriend has a low sex drive because of an accident. What can I do?
Q. I've been with my boyfriend for about six months and he's had an accident a few years ago and is on constant medication - loads of it and he says it affects his sex drive it always has done since we got together and I know it's not his fault but we ...
A. 12 April 2008: Think of other ways to introduce sex. Try pleasing yourself infront of him. This generally turns them on. Try out things that you would usually try. By doing this you will release more sexuality and this should turn him on and get him aroused.... (read in full...)
What is the correct way to give a hand job?
Q. How do you give a hand job? Are you supposed to go up and down fast or slow? How tight should your hand be around his penis? I am afraid if you hold it too tight you maght yank it and that would be very painful! ...
A. 12 April 2008: There is no right and wrong way to give a hand job. Its a case of trying out somthings and seeing how your partner reacts to them. Holding to tight can be a problem. I generally find it best to hold it so that it can move up and down the shaft with ... (read in full...)
I want to give up university for a modelling career
Q. hey everyone here is the thing..i am in university right now pursiuing a highly qualified profession which takes nearly 6 years to finish studying but i am not happy in this field..i was interested initially and now i have lost interest..i think i ...
A. 12 April 2008: I modeled from the age of 16 to 19 and stopped due to been preganant with my son. I continued to do a little after. Its really not an easy buissness. If possible i would try to still study at the same time. Modeling doesnt last forever and so then ... (read in full...)
He's not a flirty guy so how do I tell if he likes me or not?
Q. I am wondering if this guy who is in one of my university classes likes me or not. It could be nice to hear eveyrones point of views on whether or not they think he likes me and what I can do about the situation... In class he is always volun...
A. 12 April 2008: It sounds as if its quiet possible. Ways to get to know him better asking about the future and what his goals are. Take or invite him out for a drink something that is nothing to do with uni. Or you can be straight forward and ask him out on a ... (read in full...)
I have fallen in love with this guy but it's awkward!
Q. I have fallen in love with this guy but it's awkward! We have been really good friends for 5 years and I have felt something for him over the past two years but never thought much about it or told anyone that is until my best friend got off w...
A. 8 April 2008: Well thats good to hear. Hope it all works out for you both :)... (read in full...)
Is it worth maintaining this friendship to see how it rides?
Q. I've been keeping in touch with a military guy whose stationed in Kansas. I met him on a deployment a year ago. When we met, he flirted with me, but only met on 2 occations for a business deal then he left. I decided to write to him 2 months a...
A. 7 April 2008: I think it possibly could. Of course you mentioned that he was with someone. Does he ever discuss his relationship with you. Try looking over his emails and see if there is any evidence of anything that isnt platonic. If there is a int of anything ... (read in full...)
Thinking of going to a club tonight - alone. Should I?
Q. Hi, quik question. A club in town that I like to go to apparently does well (gets lots of people to come) on monday nights. I'm considering going, but none of my friends can make it. I guess I would be going out in the hope of finding a girl a...
A. 7 April 2008: No go on your own. by doing this you ooze of confidence.... (read in full...)
How can I trust him again? What can I do?
Q. Hey guys, Ive got myself into s suituation and now i cant see any light at the end of the tunnel. Ive been with my boyfriend for just over 2 year and now im living with him. in the beginning of our relation i was happy until i read a message...
A. 7 April 2008: The saying a leopard never changes his spots is true. I found this out. My boyfriend cheated on me and i let him off with it however because i had not done anything about ie ie- leaveing him he felt he could do it again becasue i wasnt going to do ... (read in full...)
Why does it feel as if my ex, is rubbing it in my face that she's happy now?
Q. My girlfriend of 3 years broke up with me about 2 months ago, saying she felt like we'd grown apart and the relationship had run its course. We tried for two weeks before the final breakup to sort it out, having alot of fun but it only ever deep ...
A. 7 April 2008: Shes probably finding the best way for her to get over this. So by going out and acting free and single etc and making everything seem like she is totally happy is her way or dealing with it. I wouldnt read anything into it. Maybe you should try the ... (read in full...)
How can I get my sex life back?
Q. My wife and I have been married since October last year. We had been living together from January last year though. Up until we got married our sex life was good, but since we have been married we haven't had sex once. I just don't feel like it ...
A. 7 April 2008: Ok there are maybe a number of wasy in which you can do this. You could try the good old viagra for a start.
You say the problem has only been accuring since you were married. So how about some role playing. Maybe your wife go into a bar and you ... (read in full...)
Help! I am seriously clueless when it comes to dating?
Q. Hello! I am seriously clueless when it comes to dating. Just got out of a long term relationship. I'm gonna make This as short as possible. So I saw the guy I like on Fri. A bunch of us went out to dinner for his brothers bday. I am close to his ...
A. 1 April 2008: Honestly i would tx him even if its just to check he is ok after he didnt tx you back. Strike up a conversation maybe make a joke that his sister gave you him number when he was with friends and you are a little puzzeld as to why.
Be straight with... (read in full...)
I love my wife, but I like the idea of her with another guy. Anyone else have this fantasy?
Q. Hi Are there any other guys out there who would like to see thier wife have sex with another guy. i dream about it and when we have sex talk to my wife about her doinging it with other. i have showed a friend nude pic of her. i love my wife ...
A. 1 April 2008: Hiya my husband has the same thoughts but knows taht he could never let it happen.
For this to happen you must look at the pros and cons all the way
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I have fallen in love with this guy but it's awkward!
Q. I have fallen in love with this guy but it's awkward! We have been really good friends for 5 years and I have felt something for him over the past two years but never thought much about it or told anyone that is until my best friend got off w...
A. 11 March 2008: Tell him, if he decided taht he doesnt want any relations with you and decideds to also break the friendship off then to be honest it wasnt a true friendship.
Honesty and trust are major issues in any relationship.
You may be surprised at the out ... (read in full...)
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