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writes:My ex boyfriend who I still love and well am still in love with, I can't stop thinking bout him. He recently was with this girl who he claimed HE was in love with but yet he was still sleeping with me at this time. I think we slept together almost every day they were together. And well I told her everything cause she had asked me do we still talk and I told her because of the fact I wanted him to somehow come back to me. That was a mistake because now he doesn't want to talk to me at all. He told me he wanted me out of his life because I ruined his and I am so miserable.. sad and sorry. I just don't know what to do? What should Ii do?.. I do not want to let go. Should I? Was Ii in the wrong for everything I did?
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reader, mskate  +, writes (16 March 2008):
Let's forget the fact that he's a slut for cheating on some girl with you.The most ruthless thing he did was blaming you and shutting you out when he got caught. We all know how it feels to be betrayed and broken-hearted. And you have ever right to cry in your room and deal with the pain as best you can. BUT, DO NOT LET HIM KNOW! and don't let that other girl know! he thinks he's so hot, having two girls all over him well, as far as they should know, you are totally fine. This has two effects:1) the more you ACT like you're ok, the sooner you WILL really be ok.2) to redeem your reputation and kinda lower his. think about it, if you act like nothing is wrong, people will think, "oh, he's probably still in love with her, and that's why he kept sleeping with her." BUT, if you are noticeably sad, then everyone will know that you're the one who was throwing yourself at him.
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (15 March 2008):
 Would you love a man with a cheating heart and who played you out?
What do you see in him that you cannot give him up?
Guys like him cannot have relationships .
They only use women for their own sexual pleasures and then discard them when they have no more use of them or gets tired of them.
Wise up and be glad that he left you .
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reader, thatgothgirl20 +, writes (14 March 2008):
 You were not in the wrong, and you've got to stop blaming yourself for things that were not your fault. The ass ruined his own life by seeing two women at one time, and thinking he would not get burned.
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reader, Gena Bullock +, writes (14 March 2008):
 You allowed this guy to sleep with you knowing he was with another girl and said he loved her? That's sad that you would put yourself in this position. Get out and find someone who will be true to you. He is just using you and it is very obvious since he's made it clear. Don't put yourself through the agony. There's more out there who would be true to you. That's what you need.
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