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36-40,
*urbs22
writes:I'm 22 years old and i like a girl who is 18 years old lives in my neighbourhood.we both are very good firends.she always asks about me to all my friends whenever i am not around hanging out with them. I told her that i like her many times but she denied having any feelings for me or any other guy. I'm very desperate to tell her that i love her and i think about her all day and night. I want her to have the same feelings for me as i have for her since i think she likes me. She rejected my propsal because her family is very conservative and from a different religion that what i think. I can't concentrate on any other things these days because i think about her all day. What should i do to have her same feelings as i do? She never even says no to me whenever i asked her out. She even came out for dinner on Valentines day. Please send me some suggestions on what should i do. I really love her and she does too.
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (14 March 2008):
 Do not have too high an expectations from her.
You will be terribly disappointed.
Learn to love her by giving her space and allowing her ,her freedom.
Don't choke or suffocate her.
For your obsession will either stunt your growth or wilt her.
Get your priorities right.
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reader, surbs22 +, writes (13 March 2008):
surbs22 is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni am in really great depression can't concentrate on anything the whole day i am thinking about her.i m trying to avoid her but can't get out of my mind.i haven't met her since last two weeks not even talked to her and finally when i talked to her she didin't gave me a positive response as i have expected. i thought she will ask me with great curiosity.i really don't know wahat to do now. how should i realise her that i miss her every second of my life.i wish some miracle happens and she too gets the same feeling as i have for her.please help me out.soon.
PLEASE HEPL ME OUT!!!!!!!!!
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reader, Laura1318 +, writes (29 February 2008):
Go slow and remember to have fun and don't push her that question.When the time comes, she will give you a positve answer.
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reader, surbs22 +, writes (29 February 2008):
surbs22 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks for your replies that helped me a lot to understand her.But recently when i told her that i like her and seriously asked her that she does have any feelings,her reply was no.she thinks i am crazy for her,since i call her every day without a miss.sometimes i feel that she is the girl that i dreamed to be my girlfriend,she is the kind of girl that i wanted and i think that's why i like her.i always make her feel that she is special for me.
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reader, Laura1318 +, writes (27 February 2008):
Do not rush her . Just enjoy each day with her and have fun. You need to be more patient.
A woman does not fall in love easily but when she does , she cannot stop like a runaway train without brakes.
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