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What qualifies me to give advice?...well I guess because I have had a pretty hard time and have learned a lot in my lifetime.
Divorce, teenage kids, money worries, relationship worries...all manner of things I have coped with and I am still here to tell the tale.
My answers will be pretty hard hitting. This is because I will tell you what you NEED to hear and not what you WANT to hear. This isn't always popular but I would rather get to the heart of the matter and tell it like I see it rather than give someone false hope or a misleading answer that could make them even more confused.
God Bless all who take time to give precious advice here, it has restored my faith in human kindness :-) xxxxx |
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I've been branded as a "person of suspicion" and have been banned from seeing my husband at his work. Is his boss crazy?!
Q. As if my life was not weird enough my boyfriends boss is singling me out for harassment. He is a teacher at a local school. She is the principal. I am not at all sure how to deal with this. I noticed about 2 years ago when she started working ...
A. 9 March 2013: Hooray!!! I am glad she is out of your hair for good!! and probably best to just avoid talking about her ever again to your husband...he's on the wrong side of the fence for not supporting you, but I am sure it will die down x... (read in full...)
Can I forgive my girlfriend for not supporting me when I was at the lowest point in my life?
Q. I was bereaved 15 weeks ago. My son died in a fatal car crash. My girlfriend and i had a petty row and she walked out on me. I asked her not to go because i had shouted at her. I was bang out of order. My emotions were all over and i was dreading my ...
A. 7 December 2012: Aww bless your heart. Your story and update has brought a tear to my eye.
I think that what is amazing is that despite your grief you have had the strength to face up to the fact that your relationship was damaging, so many other people would ha... (read in full...)
My married lover is putting up barriers to me seeing her. And she wants to hide me from her children when her divorce goes through. What should I do?
Q. Hello, I'm going to give the whole story of my situation. I know it's morally wrong but no one is perfect. So please don't respond if you want to talk about morals. I just need some honest opinions with my situation. I have been in a relationshi...
A. 21 October 2012: Nobody is asking you to discuss your finances on here. I know of people who won't split until the money is sorted out but it does not change the fact that your supposed GF is now single and if she is a smart woman, she won't wait forever...but who ... (read in full...)
I want to have sex with my married ex
Q. My ex-girlfriend has come back into my life after a four year absence. After she broke off our engagement she had a baby with another man, who she broke up with afterwards. She is now married and has a second child. I have gotten over the ...
A. 21 October 2012: In four years this woman has been involved with 3 men and had kids by two of them... now she has itchy feet again!!
You are unnaturally hanging round her new family and this is kinda creepy, especially since you state you want to just have sex... (read in full...)
He's never pushed for sex. So is he just not into me? Or is he not over his ex yet? How do I respond?
Q. Hello, So I know the answer really... He's just not that into you, move on, but as a lady in my mid 30's I still feel the need to ask Pathetic really So I meet this guy in a bar, he's funny, smart, sexy I like him a lot. We see each oth...
A. 21 October 2012: This is what I think you should do.
Text him back 'Oh that's a shame, well if you ever change your mind, let me know'
and then back off completely.
He has stated clearly where he is at and you need to NOT hang around and be nice to him like ... (read in full...)
Break it off? Or should I continue to date this guy? He is Mr RightNow to me but that's all.
Q. I met this man this past summer and have since gone on several dates with him. I am not attracted to him physically AT ALL but thought he was a nice guy so decided to get to know him more and see if there's something.............. He is crazy ab...
A. 21 October 2012: What a shame that you don't feel anything for him.
Let him go, because he very obviously is ready to meet someone for a serious relationship, and there arn't many of those guys around. He deserves the chance to go find his Miss Right.
You also ... (read in full...)
My married lover is putting up barriers to me seeing her. And she wants to hide me from her children when her divorce goes through. What should I do?
Q. Hello, I'm going to give the whole story of my situation. I know it's morally wrong but no one is perfect. So please don't respond if you want to talk about morals. I just need some honest opinions with my situation. I have been in a relationshi...
A. 21 October 2012: Agree 100% with YOUWISH...brilliant answer...and the correct one.
Until you move out and file for divorce, everything you say (because words are cheap)to your girlfriend means zilch.
You need to stay away from her and give her space to sort ou... (read in full...)
Was it wrong for me to finally object? His binge drinking and his obstinant attitude to trying to address his eczema has me fed up.
Q. Hi, I need a bit of advice regarding my ex partner and his skin condition please - he had very bad exzema that flares up when he binge drinks. Despite the fact that this guy treated me really, really badly for nearly two decades - after more tha...
A. 20 October 2012: I do not understand the need to stay friends...in your situation I really don't.
Forgive me but you are acting like his mother, worrying about his drinking and skin condition, still getting upset because he does nothing abou it....
HE'S A ... (read in full...)
What does this master manipulator want now?
Q. My ex boyfriend went to detox and then rehab for alcohol. He lived with me for two months without paying any rent. When he went back to work, he got apartment secretly while he was living with me. All along he was making a thousands excuses ...
A. 20 October 2012: You are welcome xx
Remember that unless he is showing up at your door, asks you to be his girlfriend, shows you evidence that he can make a commitment, then he cannot come back into your life (because you want commitment, love and to be treated ... (read in full...)
I've been branded as a "person of suspicion" and have been banned from seeing my husband at his work. Is his boss crazy?!
Q. As if my life was not weird enough my boyfriends boss is singling me out for harassment. He is a teacher at a local school. She is the principal. I am not at all sure how to deal with this. I noticed about 2 years ago when she started working ...
A. 20 October 2012: I'd say she definitely has a personal issue with you and is exerting her power to 'punish' you.
I have seen lots of petty issues in schools, the worst is the PTA...made me shudder to see such bitchiness and snobbery (my kids went to a church s... (read in full...)
What if you never meet the right person?
Q. It's struck me. What if you never meet the right person. We all dream of meeting someone we love, who we're attracted to and and who makes us happy but what if that just doesn't happen. What if we never meet the right person? What if we meet...
A. 19 October 2012: I was married for almost 20 years, but after my children were born, things dissolved into a disaster and I discovered my husband was living a double life.
We divorced 8 years ago and I have had only 2 relationships since...both failed because of c... (read in full...)
How do I get hope back into my life?
Q. I am 30 years old and have achieved nothing in my life that is worthwhile. I am a serial procrastinator, I cannot be bothered to do anything - I have no motivation at all and just feel like what is the point?. I make lists saying I'll do this, thi...
A. 19 October 2012: I think everyone get like that from time to time...some people just get stuck in the rut and one thing leads to another and your whole world caves in.
People can suggest all kinds of things to help shift you, lie counselling, fining a part tim... (read in full...)
How can marriage be so special if people just move on and pretty much forget the past?
Q. OK, this is a little deep but I know some will understand where I'm coming from. My wife and I have been happily married for 14 years, but she said a couple things that have always stuck with me. She casually said one day " well if we hadn't married ...
A. 19 October 2012: I divorced 8 years ago and despite only a couple of semi serious relationships since, I am single.
My marriage wasn't a good one, my husband was living a double life, so after 19 years we split, it has left huge scars in me but despite the pain... (read in full...)
I am confused by his actions. Can a man concurrently and happily live with his wife, make love to his wife, and care about his children while occasionally having sexual affairs with men?
Q. My husband of 16 years of marriage has admitted to a gay affair and numerous indiscretions with men for the last 6 years. I was devastated and even though 8 weeks have passed I feel a little bit stronger. I have been receiving counselling to come ...
A. 19 October 2012: I really hope you find some peace, you seem such a nice person and I am sure with the right support that you can find a way back to happiness.
We live in a society where homosexuality/lesbianism is still vilified and this does lead people to live ... (read in full...)
What does this master manipulator want now?
Q. My ex boyfriend went to detox and then rehab for alcohol. He lived with me for two months without paying any rent. When he went back to work, he got apartment secretly while he was living with me. All along he was making a thousands excuses ...
A. 19 October 2012: Sorry I realised it was POF and not facebook....Isn't POF hook up site?...If he's on a hook up site doesn't that mean he's looking for no strings sex...
Guys a nightmare!!!!!... (read in full...)
What does this master manipulator want now?
Q. My ex boyfriend went to detox and then rehab for alcohol. He lived with me for two months without paying any rent. When he went back to work, he got apartment secretly while he was living with me. All along he was making a thousands excuses ...
A. 19 October 2012: Read your previous post about the girl he cheated on you with, the one he told lies about you..do you seriously want to go back to that?
Come on...facebook message fr YOU to call HIM??? It's a shabby lazy attempt to get some attentio... (read in full...)
He's a good guy but soooo boring!
Q. I ve met this really nice guy, who I date now for 6 months. He is everything any woman can wish for: handsome, has a good job, good natured, we managed not to have a single fight, gentleman. But, I can't believe I m actually saying it, he i...
A. 18 October 2012: I don't think it's possible to have it all, he does sound great though, maybe you should let him go so you can find someone more stimulating.... (read in full...)
I've been branded as a "person of suspicion" and have been banned from seeing my husband at his work. Is his boss crazy?!
Q. As if my life was not weird enough my boyfriends boss is singling me out for harassment. He is a teacher at a local school. She is the principal. I am not at all sure how to deal with this. I noticed about 2 years ago when she started working ...
A. 18 October 2012: Sounds like your guy doesn't want o make waves because maybe he fears for his job.
As you have previously had access to volunteer and there has been no incident to raise suspicion, I think you should contact the school governers or the educatio... (read in full...)
Married six weeks and now he has left me to live in another country? What can I do? No warning. No idea why.
Q. I've just got married, and been married for 6 weeks now. We haven't even had our honeymoon yet, it's been busy with work etc. Our wedding was lovely - cost about $25,000 - at HIS request, not mine, so I can't really be called a bridezilla for t...
A. 18 October 2012: Is he Canadian? It seems really weird. How long did you know him before you guys married? Have you given him any money during your relationshp.
It could be that he has had a massive break down or it could be that it's a scam.... (read in full...)
Friend's obsession with her b/f and their problems is really getting to me!
Q. i have a friend who is dating an raf man. all she ever talks about is him. if he dosent text, she analyses evrything and her moods go from up to down. one minute shes crying, then if he texts shes back to normal. as i live with her, i get it all the ...
A. 18 October 2012: It's probably not so easy for you to up sticks and move out (I know how hard it is to find a place in the uk at the moment)
What you need to do is start walking away from her when she begins to mention him. Pretend your phone is ringing, or you n... (read in full...)
How can I get my family and friends to accept my 25 year old pregnant Gf / future wife and all understand all that she means to me?
Q. my family and friends will not accept that my 25 year old girlfriend soon to be wife is in love with me and wants to be with me. they call her horrible insulting names. yea i cheated on my wife of many many years, and left her for this girl. i...
A. 17 October 2012: I agree, you should not be forcing your new life on your family and friends. They probably still have empathy for the wife you left behind....some sh*t just sticks forever.
None of them should really be judging your life now, but who can blame th... (read in full...)
I caught my fiance in white lies. Should I be concerned?
Q. Once my fiance had to go to a late emergency meeting at his work. He runs the place. I told him I was going to bed early since I was tired. Before I went to bed I looked out the window and I noticed he was back, outside in front of the house ...
A. 17 October 2012: I agree with Eddie, I think he is telling lies because he doesn't feel you would accept some of the things he is doing. It doesn't mean he doesn't love or care about you, he probably just has a few things he'd rather keep to himself.
As much as ... (read in full...)
I feel like we're constantly playing a game and I just want to know, am I winning him over or losing?
Q. Desperately need help! He's charming, witty, social,an excellent conversationalist, intelligent, extremely, extremely charismatic.. There's something about him and no matter how hard I try I can't stop thinking about him. I've dated a fair few...
A. 17 October 2012: Does seem a bit odd that he's so friendly and tactile with you,but has never asked you out (even to hang as a friend in the evening)
Does he date other girls?
It is possible that maybe he enjoys flirting but isn't quite ready to date seriously or... (read in full...)
Why is he texting me again and how should I approach him?
Q. My ex and I dated for around seven months. We spent a lot of time together and traveled together. Basically, he broke it off because he was hurt badly before by an ex-wife who cheated on him, and he’s been scared of relationships since then—until he ...
A. 17 October 2012: If he wanted to be in a relationship with you again, he'd tell you, since he has been in a relationship with you before.
Flirting?...maybe, or could be that he just needs an ego boost. One thing is for sure...he isn't sure about you but he's com... (read in full...)
Why is he texting me again and how should I approach him?
Q. My ex and I dated for around seven months. We spent a lot of time together and traveled together. Basically, he broke it off because he was hurt badly before by an ex-wife who cheated on him, and he’s been scared of relationships since then—until he ...
A. 16 October 2012: He is poking to see if you are still thinking about him. Doesn't mean he wants to be with you, doesn't mean he wil change, suddenly want a full on relationship and come come back to you.
It's slightly pathetic tht he had to use a half dead can... (read in full...)
I think my younger friend is trying to let me down gently. How can I expand my circle of friends?
Q. Hi I am 61 and had a crush on a fellow half my age -and we became platonic friends and e mailed occasionally and WHEN he came to the city we met for a coffee or lunch which I always paid for-he did offer though. He is a singer and no qualms abou...
A. 16 October 2012: Doesn't it just drive you crazy when people assume because you are single, you should go to night school or do voluntary work!!! Crikey is that what we singles are suppose to do!!!
Joking aside I sympathise with your plight, you seem like a very n... (read in full...)
He's not interested in providing for me if he passes away. Is he being selfish?
Q. Hi I remarried in May this year, we both have grown up kids,I have 4 he has 2, He owns our house,and is buying another house to rent out, we have no life insurance, and Im worried that if he dies before me, I will have nothing,he always said his...
A. 16 October 2012: Oh dear, if he hasn't made a will then the whole lot will go to probabte and the government can take a cut and you are gonna have to join the queue (and your kids won't be on the list)
I agree that as his now wife you should be entitled to your ... (read in full...)
I'm back in touch with b/f from 18 years ago. I want to be with him but have a boyfriend!
Q. hi ive been with my partner for ten years but recently ive been in contact with an old boyfriend from 18 years ago i loved my old boyfriend then but we were too young,now were bk in touch my feelings have returned!i want to b with him what do i do?...
A. 15 October 2012: Think carefully, weigh up all your options. Consider your partner and any children you have. Think about what you would do if it didn't work out...prepare for a difficult time.
There is no easy answer and nobody but you knows how serious you are ... (read in full...)
She's suddenly started ignoring my messages, what is wrong with her?
Q. I have been speaking to this girl online. she's 17 and i'm 19 and we got on well. we met up as friends and i met 3 of her other friends and it was great we got to know more about each other and things were fine. we carried on talking over facebook ...
A. 15 October 2012: Seems like she has just changed her mind about meeting you.
Ignore her and move on. If she doesn't have the decency to give you a valid reason then she probably not worth chasing.... (read in full...)
She ended our FWB situation because she was unsatisfied with the sex, but all the time she told me how great I was! How do I deal with this?
Q. Im shattered over here. A woman i met for intimacy is seeing another guy and is done with me because i had mental issues regarding vaginal sex. In the four times i met up with her over several months at the end of each meeting i asked if she was ...
A. 15 October 2012: Here is the news...
Women lie a LOT about how satifying sex is for them, because they usually don't want to hurt the guys feelings.
Most women deserve an award for the amount of acting that goes into faking an orgasm and women usually only bot... (read in full...)
He made a big fuss pretending to not know this woman when she only said 'hi' to him, is he hiding something?
Q. I'm not sure if my husband is hiding something from me. The other night we went to dinner and after went window shopping. A female said hi to him. I immediately said who was that. His first response was I dont know. So I said to him well think ...
A. 15 October 2012: Hard to say, maybe he was just p*ssed off that you insisted he think who this women was after he already said he didn't know.
Do you have other issues in your marriage that could lead you to be suspicious?
Does he spend a lot of time away fro... (read in full...)
I cant even find a decent guy for sex! Am I just unlucky, or is this the way its going to be now I'm getting older?
Q. I m in my early 40swith a grown child. I own a small business for many years now and did well for myself. I m not rich by any means, but deffinitely independent. All I m missing is love in my life. I m in good shape, considered to be above aver...
A. 15 October 2012: The older you get, it doesn't matter how good you look, the pool of suitable dateable men gets smaller and smaller.
You are in that pool with much younger women who older guys have the option to date, so they have the pick and women do not.
... (read in full...)
In love with the wrong guy... Is there a way out of this for me??
Q. I've been seeing a guy for 2 1/2 years with the the relationship being intimate for just under 2 years. We met and there was immediate attraction. We stated our goals for long term relationship at the beginning and as things progressed he changed ...
A. 15 October 2012: How do you move on?
By cutting all contact and making a concerted effort to drive your life in another direction.
This most definitely IS a FWB situation you are in and you are 100% correct when yo say it will never be a proper relationship.
... (read in full...)
Can I forgive my girlfriend for not supporting me when I was at the lowest point in my life?
Q. I was bereaved 15 weeks ago. My son died in a fatal car crash. My girlfriend and i had a petty row and she walked out on me. I asked her not to go because i had shouted at her. I was bang out of order. My emotions were all over and i was dreading my ...
A. 15 October 2012: She probably thinks that because three months have passed since the loss of your son that you are over it.
You are going through hell and she couldn't stand by you?
Even asking for an apology from you is cruel and wrong because evn though you d... (read in full...)
His sleazy behaviour around young girls disgusts me. Do I tell him how I feel? Or just walk away?
Q. My boyfriend is into every other female but me, or so it seems. He lost a good summer job, teaching science to high school students, at a local university because he was giving high school students rides in his van without permission and some...
A. 15 October 2012: Here in England there is currently a story in the press about a high profile celebrity (who is now deceased). This man always put himself in a position where he had access to young girls and although there were rumours and accusations that he abused ... (read in full...)
She is half my age and up the duff!
Q. OMG!! my husband of 21 years wants a divorce after getting his co-worker who is half his age pregnant. he says he loves me but he is in love with her and wants to marry her, and is excited about the baby. we had no children together but i had 2 from ...
A. 15 October 2012: Don't fight for him, fight for yourself!!
He isn't coming back, he has a new younger woman and a baby on the way...he has made his choice and as disgusting, painful,horrible that it all is to you...he has moved on for his own selfish reasons ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend is upset our porn movie has been posted online.
Q. My girlfriend is a sweet, amazing girl but very shy 21 year old. She was in a few very bad relationships before we met and has some trust issues from being hurt in the past. I had always wanted to make a sex tape but never did because ...
A. 15 October 2012: I agree with the other aunts, go to the police because this is a criminal matter and your rom mate needs to be prosecuted.
This girl is young and vulnerable. I can totally see how you manipulated her into making that tape, you probably threaten... (read in full...)
I got too sexual with my flirty texts, now she doesn't want to know me.
Q. hi, I really like this beautiful young lady that goes to my church and she has told me that she likes me also .The problem that I have is we have been talking to each other and texting other for the 4 or 5 months and everything has ...
A. 15 October 2012: Be honest with yourself. You don't want to be JUST friends...you want to f**k her or else you would not have sent those texts.
Just how young is she?
If she is a woman around your age, she has the experience to know you just want to have sex... (read in full...)
I dumped my married lover when I found out about another woman, I think his wife needs to be told!
Q. I am married and had an affair with a married man. We're both in our early 50's. For four years. I've been needing to end it. He ended it, after some bad behaviour on my part, and well, I just got really angry. It wasn't some soulmate thing, it ...
A. 15 October 2012: The wife already knows, by telling her, you are hurting the wrong person but it might be a nice opportunity for her to slap your face and make you feel some shame.
You are very lucky that your husband hasn't dumped you as well and I suspect ... (read in full...)
Where did I go wrong?
Q. So I've been with my boyfriend for quite a while, I'd say 3 years now. I've never done anything wrong to him I do everything and anything. I've gone out of my way sometimes to do things for him because I love him so much. I just recently found out ...
A. 14 October 2012: Even though you love him, you have to ask yourself what it is that you actually love about him.
Is it how he made you feel when you first met?
Is it th routine and how he is part of your day?
Is it the small amount of attention he gives you amo... (read in full...)
If I marry her will I have to help out her family too?
Q. i have a Filipino girlfriend who's about 13 years younger here in the US. very worried about if i marry her , will her family also expect me to help them out financially? I've read thing that Filipino love to "show off" material things and such. a...
A. 14 October 2012: I agree with Jannie. I know quite a few filipino's and they work very hard to send money home to help their families so it's probably fair to assume if you marry her, you will have to get used to that way of doing things.
Ask her what she thinks.... (read in full...)
All my friends are now in relationships. What's the answer for me? I'm consumed with jealously and weekends are the worst for me now.
Q. Hi aunts and uncles. Please can I have some advice as do what I should and how I can meet someone and stop feeling like this. Basically keep it short. I'm 32, female and single and I can't seem to meet anyone. I'm attractive, I have an ok...
A. 14 October 2012: Ok so you tried lots of online dating sites...what happened?
Did you get any dates and how did they go. Do you give people a chance or find fault quickly and brush them off.
Also, how ready are you for a full time relationship?
You had all... (read in full...)
Man's point of view: Do men flirt with girls they aren't into?
Q. I NEED HELP! I have had a huge crush on one of my coworkers for years, he is also one of my best guy friends (we are both in our late 20s) he is a bit of a flirt with some of the girls we work (less hands-on than he is with me and just little ...
A. 14 October 2012: I might be wrong but perhaps the flirting, slapping thing IS his 'relationship' with you. Some men do this (yes and sometimes for years) and just get a thrill out of it without having to take things further.
You have played along, because you like... (read in full...)
Being in love with a married one is hard to do
Q. I'm a 41 year old female that is in love with this married women she has children. she said that her husband is good to her and the children. she tells me that she loves him but she is i love with me. My feels for her is very strong i love her more ...
A. 14 October 2012: Unless she leaves her husband and makes a life with you, there isn't much you can do.
I think it's very unfair and very cruel to tell someone you love them if you have little chance of being with them, especially if you know that person is in lo... (read in full...)
I am confused by his actions. Can a man concurrently and happily live with his wife, make love to his wife, and care about his children while occasionally having sexual affairs with men?
Q. My husband of 16 years of marriage has admitted to a gay affair and numerous indiscretions with men for the last 6 years. I was devastated and even though 8 weeks have passed I feel a little bit stronger. I have been receiving counselling to come ...
A. 13 October 2012: Yes it's called leading a double life.
Is it sustainable?
Yes if you both choose to protect the little bit of love that exists in your marriage and be in denial about everything else that is going on.
Emotionally, it's not sustainable bec... (read in full...)
What does this master manipulator want now?
Q. My ex boyfriend went to detox and then rehab for alcohol. He lived with me for two months without paying any rent. When he went back to work, he got apartment secretly while he was living with me. All along he was making a thousands excuses ...
A. 7 October 2012: Just another test to keep you dangling on the hook.
Just another test to pass.
If he really loved you, he'd be breaking your door down to hug you and he'd have your money (every penny) in his pocket to pay you.
Think about it...you know what h... (read in full...)
What does this master manipulator want now?
Q. My ex boyfriend went to detox and then rehab for alcohol. He lived with me for two months without paying any rent. When he went back to work, he got apartment secretly while he was living with me. All along he was making a thousands excuses ...
A. 29 September 2012: Returning to work will give you a massive boost...and nobody better than kids for making you laugh and putting your life in perspective.
I have been where you are and I know how you are feeling but you have begun the journey to healing and the ... (read in full...)
What does this master manipulator want now?
Q. My ex boyfriend went to detox and then rehab for alcohol. He lived with me for two months without paying any rent. When he went back to work, he got apartment secretly while he was living with me. All along he was making a thousands excuses ...
A. 29 September 2012: Tell us some of the good things that you are experiencing since you no longer have to deal with this nightmare of a man in your life?... (read in full...)
What does this master manipulator want now?
Q. My ex boyfriend went to detox and then rehab for alcohol. He lived with me for two months without paying any rent. When he went back to work, he got apartment secretly while he was living with me. All along he was making a thousands excuses ...
A. 23 September 2012: :-) :-):-)
Hoooray!!!
You go girl!!!
Now the sun can shine on your life, because you had the courage to step out of the shadow!!!
xxxxxxxxxxxhugsxxxxxxxxxxxx... (read in full...)
What does this master manipulator want now?
Q. My ex boyfriend went to detox and then rehab for alcohol. He lived with me for two months without paying any rent. When he went back to work, he got apartment secretly while he was living with me. All along he was making a thousands excuses ...
A. 21 September 2012: I am going to get my butt kicked over this one but really I don't mind because I have to say it...
We see a lot of questions on DC about women who take bad behaviour from men (sometimes women badly treating men)over and over and over again...... (read in full...)
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