Is there something wrong with me? I feel as if I have been left behind!
Q. Heya, I'm actually a little embarressed to put this up on here but... I'm 18 years old, I am a female, but I am still a virgin :/ I also havent been in a relationship with a guy before, which is actually my bigger problem... I only had my f...
A. 1 August 2011: Dont worry im the same i am 25 nearly 26 never had a bf or relationship i not even had my first kiss yet. I very very quiet and have no self esteem or self confidence. I also have no friends at all and i am a total social recluse and never go on ... (read in full...)
How do I get my teacher out of my head and make sure this doesn't happen again?
Q. so I've liked my teacher for about 2 1/2 years since grade 8 something like that. Anyways i'm done jr.high now and even though I've only been off for a day or two i miss him terribly,last day of school i gave him a hug and that felt like closer but ...
A. 2 July 2011: Your gonna have to try move on i do know how difficult it is as i have not managed to move on from my teacher either and i know where you are coming from as i feel exactly same and have never had a proper bf. Just try your best and occupy yourself ... (read in full...)
How do I get my teacher out of my head and make sure this doesn't happen again?
Q. so I've liked my teacher for about 2 1/2 years since grade 8 something like that. Anyways i'm done jr.high now and even though I've only been off for a day or two i miss him terribly,last day of school i gave him a hug and that felt like closer but ...
A. 1 July 2011: I know how you feel try occupy yourself with friends hobbies etc to take ur mind of him as for preventin it happenin again i dont think there is anything you can do cos with hormonoes and all it could easily happen. I fell for one teacher during my ... (read in full...)
I kept my love for my teacher a secret all through high school; now that I'm in university I learn he has a girlfriend
Q. Hello there, I fell in love with a young man, who unfortunately happened to be my high school teacher. Although he was not involved with anyone during my high school years, I knew the implications of being in love with a teacher so I kept silent...
A. 18 June 2011: This is not so much advice but support I am still in love with a teacher i had yrs ago. Ive tried everything to get over him and move on but cant i never told him how i felt not even spoken to him in nearly 13yrs. So i really know and understand how ... (read in full...)
My friend doesn't use facebook or her phone. How does she do it?
Q. I find it very strange that my best friend doesn't have facebook and hardly uses her mobile!? She's 18 so it's werid enough she doesn't have facebook, but the other day i realized she isn't a fan of using her phone either!?? It just is VERY rare of ...
A. 4 June 2011: im 25 and dont have facebook or any social network accounts and rarely use my phone. i ave no friends at all and no social life at all. if ur worried about her talk to herbut if she has good social life and is outgong she should be ok. as long as ... (read in full...)
Recently graduated from school.....should I tell my former teacher that I'm attracted to him?
Q. Hi, guys! I'm just a little torn on what to do here. I've been attracted to my teacher since roughly January. I recently graduated, and since then I've been debating on whether or not I should tell him that I'm attracted to him. I really do want to, ...
A. 3 June 2011: Well as you are no longer a student it is not illegal but would be frowned opon if anything was to happen. But my guess is he will reject you and by telling him you will feel worse if that happens so dont tell him. Pm me if u wanna chat (i still ... (read in full...)
How do I get over my crush on my teacher?
Q. help!!! i need help getting over my teacher.... right well hes my music teacher and i have had a huge crush since he came my school 4 years ago. i know nothing can ever happen because hes my teacher and i am his pupil and hes 29 years old, i am ...
A. 3 June 2011: Im still in same suitation only i not seen my teacher in nearly 13yrs and dont get me wrong i know and ave always known nothin could ever happen but when he left school my feelings never went i am still broken hearted. Try your best to get over this ... (read in full...)
I want to tell my professor how I feel but I don't want to make her never talk to me again!
Q. heeeelp please!!! I have a huge crush on my female professor. I am also female. She actually is no longer my profesor because I have now graduated. She told me to keep in touch with her and we always got along very well. I know she is married but ...
A. 16 May 2011: id say keep in contact with her and lether know howmuch you appriciate her and care for her but nothin else as it may scare her and you will lose contact which you would not like! i know when i find my teacher i wont tell him how i feel eventhough i ... (read in full...)
I don't have any friends!
Q. This may sound a bit pathetic to people reading this but I don't have any friends. I live at home, with my sick mother and so don't have housemates to hang out with. I have tried to go to social events with different interest groups, etc b...
A. 2 May 2011: Just let you know you not alone with havin no friends i have none either. My social life is non existent. Never had a bf ever. So if u wanna chat im here... (read in full...)
A little girl accidentally got hurt while I was babysitting and I cannot get over the guilt!
Q. During the day I look after two little girls aged 3 and 5 (I'll call them J and K respectively); I collect J from nursery at lunchtime and K from school a few hours later. When I brought K home this afternoon there was nobody else around, as her ...
A. 28 April 2011: It was only an accident i work in a creche and i can tell you children are always havin accidents. I had a little fella bust his nose today and few yr ago the worst accident ever i had a child fall and break his thigh bone he just collapsed nothin ... (read in full...)
My teacher kissed me! I don't know what to do or how to handle this!
Q. I KNOW ITS KIND OF LONG BUT PLEASE I NEED ANSWERS. Ok well i get along great with my maths teacher. hes funny, easygoing and a great teacher! We always have a laugh in class as well as getting the work done, but one day some of my friends started ...
A. 26 April 2011: Report him to another teacher or your parents or someone you trust. You did not lead him on. Anyway He is meant to be able to resist a student he is a teacher and he kissed you so it will be his fault if he loses everything not yours you did ... (read in full...)
He was once my prof, I don't want to lose him from my life
Q. I have feelings for my former lecturer, we are not friends and I am no longer his student, I do not see him often, it has been 3 years and my feelings for him have grown stronger, I cannot stop thinking about him, I hav never felt this way about an...
A. 24 April 2011: I know how you feel i still feel the same about my teacher its been a whole lot longer that you and my feelins still growin ive not seen or heard from him in a good few years. All i have are a few old battered pics of him. He is everythin to me. He ... (read in full...)
HELP!!! Unhealthy Obsession with my Former Lecturer
Q. I have very deep feelings for my former lecturer, I think about her all the time and can't get her out of my mind, I miss her when I haven't seen her for a long time and continuously read information on her just to know more about her. I know that ...
A. 24 April 2011: I do know how you feel as i still feel same way about my teacher only i feel this way a WHOLE lot longer. I miss him so much and ave not seen him in few years. I have tried everything to get over him but i cant my feelings keep gettin stronger. Id ... (read in full...)
Am I relating to my teacher appropriately or am I being too personal?
Q. Hey guys, I have a question regarding my teacher. No I'm not going to go on about the fact that I fancy him, cause yeah I do, but that's part of life. I'd never try anything. Anyway, I often do duty out in the playground and every Tuesday and...
A. 19 April 2011: Sounds to me like you are doing nothing wrong. He is prob just tryin to stay professional without being too open. He could also have picked up on your feelings for him so is tryin not to over step the mark as u are still a student. Try talkin about ... (read in full...)
Should I tell my teacher how I feel about him?
Q. Hello right, could you please help me I'm a 13 year old girl and I have the biggest ever crush on my 40 year old teacher and I know nothing will ever happen because there is a 27 year age difference and he is married and his wife resently had a ...
A. 19 April 2011: I truely understand how you are feelin i still feel the same about my teacher he means the world and more to me i never told him how i felt. I have tried my best to forget him and move on but its impossible to do even after all this time. Id ... (read in full...)
My 5 year old son is jealous over the attention given to his younger sister and has changed dramatically from being a happy child to a miserable one!
Q. So recently my 5yr old sons personality has changed dramatically from being a happy child to being miserable....i know that since my daughter turned 1 thats when his attitude changed..i try to divide my time equally between the 2 of them but its ...
A. 18 April 2011: Its prob just a phase then is there any problems in you home life and family ie someone sick, rows etc if so that could the reason as some kids do completely change when there is the smallest problem in their home life. Hope this helps... (read in full...)
My 5 year old son is jealous over the attention given to his younger sister and has changed dramatically from being a happy child to a miserable one!
Q. So recently my 5yr old sons personality has changed dramatically from being a happy child to being miserable....i know that since my daughter turned 1 thats when his attitude changed..i try to divide my time equally between the 2 of them but its ...
A. 17 April 2011: involve him with the baby for example when changing her nappy ask him to fetch the nappy, cream etc. same at bath time and all other activities with her. keep praising him and encouraging him. as well as splitting your time equally between them try ... (read in full...)
Hot for teacher! What to do?
Q. Hello right I have a mega mega problem. I am 1000000000000000000000% in love with my teacher and have been for 2 and a half years but I'm 13 he's 40 he's married and has a kid. So there is no way on earth that we will ever be together. And I'm only ...
A. 16 April 2011: Its ok to ask for picture with him as i have pics of me with my teacher, taken on my last day with him. I dont think your teacher would mind havin his pic taken with you but you could say its for you memories as he is your fave teacher. I would ... (read in full...)
I want/need to tell my teacher how I feel about him
Q. I recently posted a question about being in love with my teacher. I don't need anybody to tell me that it isn't love because I have never felt like this with any male before. Friends are telling me that they can see chemistry with us both, they way ...
A. 10 April 2011: I do understand how you feel as i still feel the same way 13yrs on and cant move on no matter how hard i try i used to be distraught leaving him after a day and not seeing him for night or weekend it was hell its now been 13yrs since i seen him and ... (read in full...)
How can I help someone when I'm so shy and don't speak?
Q. Hi, I think one thing holds me back in life, from being myself, and that is I am painfully shy. I am acutly aware of how awkward I am in many social situations, any involving people I do not know, always in groups, even with my best friends,...
A. 7 April 2011: I am the same except i have no friends or social life. Spent my school and college days alone only speaking when i really had to. I have been workin in a creche for 6 yrs now and only recently am i getting real confidence there i could hardly talk ... (read in full...)
I have loved my Science teacher for years. I need to find a way to tell him (discretely).
Q. just to give you a brief overview of the situation i was in year 8, young and naive, when i started to like my science teacher. he is rather attractive, i could go on for ages, but generally charming and funny. so naturally, i started to like ...
A. 4 April 2011: I really do understand how you feel i still feel the same and i have really tried to get over my teacher but cant i have loved him since i was 8. I have no idea where he is and i never told him how i feel. All i can say is dont tell as you will be ... (read in full...)
I love my teacher, and I understand nothing can happen
Q. Hello. I know that quite a few people have this problem now, which is nice to know- as I'm not totally alone, but the thing is.. I'm in 'love' with my teacher from school. I'm turning 15, and my teacher's 3O. Yeah, big age gap.. I know. I met ...
A. 2 April 2011: @jenl excatly, some people cant move on and forget. cant get over there teacher crush i know i would do absoulty anything just to see him again, catch a glimpse of him or just hear his voice. i have tried all i can think off to move on but nothing ... (read in full...)
Is it ok to ask to take a picture of my professor?
Q. Ok,please don't say anything like "don't be stupid" or "get it over with" or whatsoever. i just have this feeling that I can no longer hold and really need to share it with someone~ So this is my last semester in my college and there is this pro...
A. 28 March 2011: Yeah i dont see any problem with that cos id say few more people will also be takin pics he wont mind gettin in a pic i know i have one of me and my teacher and one of our class with him which were taken on last day of school you never know he may ... (read in full...)
Is it ok to ask to take a picture of my professor?
Q. Ok,please don't say anything like "don't be stupid" or "get it over with" or whatsoever. i just have this feeling that I can no longer hold and really need to share it with someone~ So this is my last semester in my college and there is this pro...
A. 27 March 2011: Maybe just on graduation day go up and just ask to have a pic of the two of you for memories as alot of pics will be taken that day and id say a few others will also get pics with other teachers you could even get one or two sneaky ones of just him!... (read in full...)
I love my teacher, and I understand nothing can happen
Q. Hello. I know that quite a few people have this problem now, which is nice to know- as I'm not totally alone, but the thing is.. I'm in 'love' with my teacher from school. I'm turning 15, and my teacher's 3O. Yeah, big age gap.. I know. I met ...
A. 25 March 2011: i am still feeling the same way as you are and no matter what i do i cannot get over this man (my old teacher). he is livin in a different part of country and is married so i know and always have known that nothin can happen but it doesnt stop the ... (read in full...)
I love my teacher, and I understand nothing can happen
Q. Hello. I know that quite a few people have this problem now, which is nice to know- as I'm not totally alone, but the thing is.. I'm in 'love' with my teacher from school. I'm turning 15, and my teacher's 3O. Yeah, big age gap.. I know. I met ...
A. 25 March 2011: i am still feeling the same way as you are and no matter what i do i cannot get over this man (my old teacher). he is livin in a different part of country and is married so i know and always have known that nothin can happen but it doesnt stop the ... (read in full...)
I'm obsessed with my femaly P.E. teacher and I need to get rid of these feelings! Any advice?
Q. Hi people. I'm obsessed with my female P.E teacher and I don't know how to get out of it. I don’t want to, but I have to, or else I’ll go off the rails. Does anybody who share the same problem or have any advice? Please reply. ...
A. 25 March 2011: I know exactly how you feel but regarding how to get over it i am in the same boat as you and need advice my teacher is male though and it has already ruined my life so dont let it affect your life too much cos its no fun feeling the way i do... (read in full...)
Is it ok to ask to take a picture of my professor?
Q. Ok,please don't say anything like "don't be stupid" or "get it over with" or whatsoever. i just have this feeling that I can no longer hold and really need to share it with someone~ So this is my last semester in my college and there is this pro...
A. 25 March 2011: No i dont see any problem you would just be asking to take photo for memories of your time there but just ask to get a picture of you taken with him. There should be no problem with that. I know i got a pic taken of me with my teacher before i left ... (read in full...)
I'm an introvert so I actually like being alone a lot of the time. But not this kind of alone.
Q. I'm a 16 year old girl. I'm not happy. I haven't been happy for a while, everyday it feels like I'm on the verge of tears or I just was to scream or punch something. I hate going to school because their's so many people. I have friends but I don't ...
A. 13 February 2011: You're not alone. I'm 25 now and went through the whole of my school and college life feeling the exact same way. I still feel the same and have NO friends at all. I got called out of class numerous times by teachers asking if I was ok and the ... (read in full...)
What's the right thing to do? Tell someone I think I might be depressed? Or keep it a secret. I keep wanting to sleep all the time.
Q. I have begun to sleep all of the time. I wake up at 8 and then go to school. I come back home, and go to sleep around 4 and wake up at 8 and over and over and over again. Also I started to stop eating very much. it's not like i just want to los...
A. 2 February 2011: Talk to someone and dont bottle up your feelings i have many problems and one of them is depression as same as you im tired all time no energy sad unhappy and no appiate at all i have never spoke to anyone i joined here few months ago and that was ... (read in full...)
In love with my principal...
Q. I am in high school and I'm in love with my principal. Over the past summer i started messaging him on fbook and after about 2 months of no replys i decided to tell him how i really felt. So the messages went from "hey hows it goin?" to "I Love ...
A. 1 February 2011: pleae dont let this effect ur life anymore than it already is as believe me it is very very painfull i know from experience. dont pursue hin anymore as nothing can ever happen between you please take heed and move on try forget him dont allow this ... (read in full...)
Nearly 20 and never had a boyfriend!
Q. I will be turning 20 years old soon. And I have never had a boyfriend. I am kind of shy in showing my feelings towards guys, and I don't really have any guy friends. Actually, I have none at all. The first and only time I have ever made out with a g...
A. 31 January 2011: theres nothing wrong with you im nearly 26 and never had a bf at all i dont even go out to clubs or anything i am extremly shy i did go a disco once with my class and a massive row broke out between 2 girls so since then i just dont go out you will ... (read in full...)
I'm 22 and have never been asked out on a date? What's wrong with me?
Q. I am 22 and have never had a date or even been asked out. I feel like there's something really wrong with me. I am not outgoing like other girls and I am definetly not nearly as pretty. I just feel really down about this. What is wrong with me?...
A. 28 January 2011: There's nothing wrong with you. I'm 25 and never been out on a date or in fact I NEVER go out at all. I'm very insecure and extremely shy and have on confidence to the extent I have no friends at all. I'd suggest you ask a fella out and see what ... (read in full...)
Boy Crush, Missing a teacher, help?
Q. Alright so i've got a couple things. There's this guy i like. I've known him since last summer. i work at a store so he comes in a few days a week and always says hello but usually i am the one to start the conversation on AOL instant messange...
A. 27 January 2011: No you would not be bothering the teacher if you visited them in school they would appriciate it i miss my teacher too and would love to be able to in back and see him again but he moved away the year i left the school but i have been back and seen ... (read in full...)
I miss my teacher
Q. I miss my teacher. He has been gone for a month and i feel like i lost my best friend. How do i move on from someone who'd been like a father or brother to me? Who had encouraged and almost spent every free available time with me? He almos...
A. 27 January 2011: I know how you feel im 25 and still miss a teacher i had when i was 11 i miss him dreadfully i have not seen him since then either and he moved so i dont know where he is i would love to contact him but dont know where to look i have tried ... (read in full...)
How can I believe that I don't have a chance with him?
Q. I'm a freshman in college and I can't get over the teacher I fell in love with my senior year at high school. It's been over a year and I expected to be over him by now but I still have fantasies about him and CAN NOT believe that I wont ever have a ...
A. 27 January 2011: I cant really help but i know how you feel i still have feelings for a teacher i had when i was 11 i fell for him about 8 or 9 ive not seen him for 14 years and the pain is unbearale i know im far to old to feel this way still but cant help it i ... (read in full...)
How can I get over a teacher crush I'll never forget?
Q. I once had a crush. It felt stronger than a crush - it felt more like I was in love. At the time it was wonderful and when I saw him my heart made a jump out of my chest, or when I talked to him he would always be kind and had a wonderfully charming ...
A. 12 January 2011: hi i know you prob dont come on here anymore as last post was a while ago but i really understand how u feel. my crush started around same age as yours 9/10 i am 25 now and STILL feel same i have tried everything to get over this but nothing made ... (read in full...)
Should I tell my former teacher, who is married, how I feel?
Q. Hi there, I have a little bit of a problem. I'm 20 years old, been out of high school for almost three years now but I still have very strong, deep feelings for my high school teacher. I first had him as my teacher during my junior year, and sinc...
A. 8 January 2011: i know how you feel and how much it hurts im 25 and fell in love with a teacher i had when i was 11(i fell for him even before i was in his class so am 15 years feeling like this) ive not seen him sinceschool ended that year as he left the school ... (read in full...)
How do I stop liking my teacher?
Q. So, i know loads of teenagers get crushes on their teachers and youv probably gotten a question like this millions of times before, but i really need some advice! So, im 14 right now, and Iv had a few teacher crushes before, but they werent this...
A. 8 January 2011: i dont have any proper advice for you but i know how you feel and im 25 and still feel the same way i did at ur age i tried a number of different things to get over him but to no avail i still dream of my teacher most nights and the pain is ... (read in full...)
Still obsessed after 13 years
Q. i am 24 years or age and i really need help and advice. i have been in love with a teacher i had in my junior school since i was 11. he left the school the same year i moved to high school but even so i cannot shift my feelings for him and the pain ...
A. 8 January 2011: im orignal poster i have not had any relationships at all i have no friends and rarely go out if i do go out it is just down local with my parents for a coke as i dont smoke or drink... (read in full...)
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