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I've moved to be with my boyfriend and now I'm depressed thinking I've made a big mistake...help!

Q.   Please help! Feel like i'm losing it all :( I will try and make this short. Been together with my boyfriend 11 years we have had our ups and downs. We are compatible for the most part and sex is not an issue. But I have put up with a lot and have...

A.   12 July 2012: I feel for you. It's time you put yOur foot down. I'm not sure what his issue is..but nevertheless, you deserve more than what he is giving u. My advice: sit him down and talk about how he is treating you and how it makes you feel. Let him know you ... (read in full...)

Am I really strange and not normal in thinking she shows me no respect?

Q.   Right so here is the script. Me and my girlfriend have been together now for the best part of 6 years on and off. We have had our good and bad times. We have a baby together and currently live together. We have split up a good three times at l...

A.   11 July 2012: I agree with previous poster. You cannot expect her to be home EVERY NIGHT when you get in from wrk and I also do not think she should be available every weekend. She deserves to have alone time outside of being with you or being with you and the ... (read in full...)

My cousin and I made out but didn't have sex but now I want to!

Q.   Im 17 and my cousin is 21 . The other night we made out and rubbed up eachother but , no sex i didnt want to at the time because i dont want to go to hell . Now its all i can think abouut how should i ask him ? I no of course its wrong but i ...

A.   11 July 2012: Girlllll, let me tell you. There are plenty of guys in the world you can be intimate with if that's what you really want to do. Sexing your cousin is not only morally wrong but could cause you problems you did not bargain for. I say dont do it bc ... (read in full...)

Would you stay if your b/f cheated and said he wanted to change?

Q.   If your boyfriend cheated on you. Said he was sorry and wanted to get help becasue he felt so bad hurting you. And he started going to coucneling to talk about these issues and solve them. would you stay? would you believe he wanted to change? would ...

A.   11 July 2012: How serious is your relationship? It depends on the Level you two are on. If he is going to counseling over this situation it sounds serious. I say everybody deserves a second chance but don't be naive. Use your own good judgement to determine how ... (read in full...)

I'm interested in my friend's friend. What is a polite way of asking about her friend?

Q.   Hi I have a lady friend (A) (not too close) who has a friend (B) that I like. What is a polite way of asking her to introduce me to her girl friend? A already has a boyfriend, but the way she looks at me makes me feel that she likes me (I hav...

A.   11 July 2012: I agree with previous answer. It looks funny asking her out then asking her about her friend. Just go straight to the friend and politely ask her for her number or invite her for coffee. Good luck!... (read in full...)

Why would ex send me a message and then not reply?

Q.   My ex sent me a text message tonight asking how i was. I responded saying i was ok and asked how he was, but he hasn't replied. Should i try texting him again sometime or see if he gets intouch with me again ?. Why would he send me a message and ...

A.   11 July 2012: He sent the msg bc he is thinking about you and prolly genuinely wanted to know how you were but may not be interested in holding out what could turn into a full conversation. Not to be mean but just not wanting to go there at this time. On the ... (read in full...)

Is it possible to tame a guy who acts like player?

Q.   Is it possible to tame a guy who acts like player? I like this guy but he pretty much treats girls like s***, just using them to hook up after he's drinking.(Before I get the lecture, he's actually a very nice person otherwise and I know a lot of ...

A.   10 July 2012: The answer is a whopping NO!! YOU cannot tame nor try to change anyone be it a man or woman. He has to decide for himself if he wants to deal with his issues or continue to shrug it off and be a "player." It's nice that he seems to think highly of ... (read in full...)

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