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... Send *t4rfish a private message | | | *t4rfish's profile:I'm a 3rd year university student and part-time waitress. I'm Asian American and was born and raised in Los Angeles, California. I'm currently single which is a refreshing change for me. Although I find myself longing for a relationship from time to time, I keep busy with family, friends, school, and work.
What qualifies you to help people? I've dated all kinds of personalities, and have friends from many cultures and backgrounds. Friends tend to come to me for relationship and general life advice. I specialize in teenage love advice, having been a teenager not too long ago. It's amazing how much you grow from/and experience in a few years!
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The only way to know what he/she is thinking is to ASK.
If you're unsure of a relationship, you probably shouldn't be in it. If you're unsure of an action, you probably shouldn't do it.
After you post a question on DearCupid, consider the dominant response. Chances are you already know what's best for you and/or you've already planned what you're going to do. Even if you dislike the general consensus, see the reasoning behind the (possibly) hurtful words. It's the general consensus for a reason - Consider it. You'll be glad you did. :)
Listen to those here who are older and/or more experience than you. They've either been in your shoes or watched it happen. At age 21, I'm still young but I've come to realize that they're usually right even if I didn't want to admit it at the time. But usually doesn't mean always! |
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How do I tell my wife I want to watch her have sex with other men?
Q. Behind The Green Door I want to watch my wife have sex with other men. And I don't know how to tell her. It's a Turn On I would love to experience. How can I tell her to bring home the boys and men?...
A. 31 March 2013: I'd be offended if my significant other asked me to have sex with other men. Fantasies are fantasies for a reason. They don't work in the real world or have disastrous consquences when attempted. You only mention your pleasure but how would your ... (read in full...)
How can I make sex easier for my virgin girlfriend?
Q. Hi, me and my new girlfriend (since last night) just had our first sexual encounter last night. We played with each other, no actual sex. I've noticed that she's extremely tight. As in, one finger only, two hurts. I asked her if this is normal f...
A. 31 March 2013: I think sex can be discussed later in your relationship. Even though you've known one another for months, becoming official opens a whole new door of emotions for her. She needs plenty of time to become comfortable. Sex is only enjoyable if both ... (read in full...)
What do I do about this ring intended for my ex?
Q. Hey all, I have what I think is an unusual question. For Christmas 2012 I bought my then girlfriend a ring. Not an engagement ring, but a little bit of an expensive ring that has a heart made out of rubies filled in with diamonds. Well her and I ...
A. 28 March 2013: I think giving it to her would make you feel better in the short run, but keeping it would be smarter in the long run. If you choose to give it to her, let her know it was meant for her and you thought she should have it, as anonymous stated... (read in full...)
Do I have a baby because that is what me and my fiancee want, or do I not because of what people will think and say?
Q. I have been in a long term relationship with my fiance over three years, we have had a very happy relationship and got engages almost a year ago. like all relationships, we have had our usual arguments and obstacles (other interfering people) but ...
A. 27 March 2013: I strongly believe you two should be married before considering a baby. The title "fiance" is meaningless. Even with a child, a fiance has no legal ties to you or your child, and can walk away anytime just like a "friend" or "boyfriend." If you and ... (read in full...)
My girlfiriend is going to prom with another guy
Q. We argue about this all the time because I don't want her to go with him but since I found out I might be able to go to prom she told me no that since she already made plans with him she won't go with me her BOYFRIEND and this kills me inside I don'...
A. 25 March 2013: If the both of you knew all along that you can't go to prom, then she has every right to take another date. It's not fair to ask her to go stag because YOU can't go to prom. Prom is a once-in-a-lifetime experience and it's only natural that she ... (read in full...)
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