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My BF wakes up with an erection. What's up with that?

Q.   My b/f sometimes wakes up with a huge erection but insists that he's "not in the mood" for sex and though it puts me in the mood, I really can't get him interested so we just end up cuddling and talking and eventually his erection goes away. But I ...

A.   13 February 2008: This is normal for guys. What is not normal is that he is not in the mood. He may want to have his testosterone checked with his Dr. But men waking up erect is normal. even baby boys do this.... (read in full...)

Does she resent me for disciplining her child? Are we 'pulling in different directions'?

Q.   I have a simple question that I would really love to have some responses on. If I punish my soon to be step son, by taking his cell phone off him for a week, for mocking and back talking me, and his mother agrees with me that he needs to learn a ...

A.   2 November 2007: He is 13 years old, he does not spend much time with his father at all who only lives 12 houses down the street. This is not an attention getter.. he is so consumed with the computer, but when he sees something he wants, he acts like a little baby ... (read in full...)

Does she resent me for disciplining her child? Are we 'pulling in different directions'?

Q.   I have a simple question that I would really love to have some responses on. If I punish my soon to be step son, by taking his cell phone off him for a week, for mocking and back talking me, and his mother agrees with me that he needs to learn a ...

A.   2 November 2007: I fully understand what everyone is saying. But, when the child doesn't get his way and disrespects adults in a way that is verbally abusive, slamming doors, pouts and throws fits when he don't get his way.... nothing is done as far as punishment. ... (read in full...)

Her 13 year-old son is disrespectful. What can be done?

Q.   I know I have asked this before, but I would really like some input on this issue. I just got engaged a month ago. My fiance' has 2 boys. One 13 one 15. At the begining of the school year, the 13 year old was told if his grades failed, no computer...

A.   23 October 2007: thanks for all input... (read in full...)

Her 13 year-old son is disrespectful. What can be done?

Q.   I know I have asked this before, but I would really like some input on this issue. I just got engaged a month ago. My fiance' has 2 boys. One 13 one 15. At the begining of the school year, the 13 year old was told if his grades failed, no computer...

A.   10 October 2007: Thank you for your input. ... (read in full...)

True love at any age

Q.   Hello I'm 15 and I have known a man for a bout 2 years now and we are in love. We have talked about things and decided that we do need to wait until im of age to have sex or anything. When we were created God made us souls. Our soul's don't age. You ...

A.   16 August 2007: How old is he? I myself am 40 yrs old. At 15 I moved out with a 24 yr old. At the time, I "thought" I was in true love. I did love her, and was in love with her. But you will miss out on being a teenager. I missed out on school dances,proms, ... (read in full...)

Should I let the past go in order to experience the best relationship I have ever had, or do I have a right to be worried?

Q.   Should I stay or go?? I have been with boyfriend for a year now and it is the greatest relationship I have ever had. To me, he is a caring, beautiful person who generally always considers me. However, we have been honest with each other about our ...

A.   16 August 2007: You should be concerned. What makes you think he won't do this to you? By leaving and not telling her and she had to go to that extreme is very disrespectful and unthoughtful. IF he can do that to his wife, he can do that to you. He may play the ... (read in full...)

How do I get him to realise the consequences of his actions??

Q.   My girlfriends son is 13yrs old and talks to his mother like she is dirt. He always wants and wants but never shows appreciation for what she provides for him. He throws temper tantrums and slams his door to his bedroom, or pouts and won't talk to ...

A.   16 August 2007: Thanks to all who responded. I thought i was the one that was being crazy about my concerns. ... (read in full...)

Why do they talk to their ex's when they are supposed to be happy?

Q.   Would anyone tell me(especially the guys out there), why would a guy that's dating someone else and is supposedly serious about her, be still talking to his ex? This is happening to me and its been going on now for four months. Plus, he's asking ...

A.   14 August 2007: I guess i am still kind of confused on your clarification. He broke up with you, and is seeing someone else correct? So is he still calling you and talking to you? I guess that is my question. If this is the case, if he is seeing someone but still ... (read in full...)

Why do they talk to their ex's when they are supposed to be happy?

Q.   Would anyone tell me(especially the guys out there), why would a guy that's dating someone else and is supposedly serious about her, be still talking to his ex? This is happening to me and its been going on now for four months. Plus, he's asking ...

A.   13 August 2007: Do they have kids together? If so then it should only be about the kids. Otherwise, he is trying to have his cake and eat it to so to speak. I went through this with my girlfriend recently. But, she felt guilty because he didn't want the divorce. ... (read in full...)

My girlfriend allows her ex and her kids to talk to her like she is a dog

Q.   My girlfriend has been divorced since 1998 and has two boys. She still pays his bills for him (ex husbands), cleans his pool, and allows him to talk to her like she is a dog. If he calls her and she don't answer, he will call until she does. He lies ...

A.   3 August 2007: I just wanted to say thanks for your input. My girlfriend and I got into a heated discussion over this issue. I explained to her that her friends and family all say to break the ties with him because she is giving him feelings there is still a ... (read in full...)

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