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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I have been speaking to this girl online. she's 17 and i'm 19 and we got on well. we met up as friends and i met 3 of her other friends and it was great we got to know more about each other and things were fine. we carried on talking over facebook and got on really well. I told her that I liked her and we arranged to go out this afternoon. I tried speaking to her last night but she didn't respond. I sent a message just hi "blank" then how are you? still nothing so i left her to it and still nothing before i went to bed so i sent her another message about hope your ok? if you still want to meet tomorrow let me know in the morning etc. etc. also sorry if ive been annoying you with messages (on the night. she got the messages as it said seen and she was online all the time. i really like her and im not going to message her again until she messages me first which i think is right but i don't know.what is wrong with her? or me? and what should i do?
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reader, Daisy_Daisy +, writes (15 October 2012):
 Nothing is wrong with you. Sounds as if she has cooled off and isn't interested. It happens all the time with dating, unfortunately. I'm sure there have been girls who've liked you and you've not been very keen. Certainly it's not nice to be ignored or stood up, and I suspect she has taken the easy option to get the message across rather than just tell you out right.
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reader, human_male  +, writes (15 October 2012):
 She's just gone off you, or decided she can't be bothered. It happens. Just write her off and move on. When something like this happens messaging her again and again won't help. You might think it's simply courtesy to reply and just say she's not interested, but it's easier for her to just ignore you and hope you get the message. So in future if a girl has ignored one or two messages that's it, forget it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 October 2012): If she's making this more complicated than it needs to be, then she's obviously not that keen to meet you, and maybe doesn't want to hurt your feelings by telling you directly.
Just move on, she's not worth the effort, and you may never get a reply from her so I wouldn't hold my breath.
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reader, AuntyEm +, writes (15 October 2012):
 Seems like she has just changed her mind about meeting you.
Ignore her and move on. If she doesn't have the decency to give you a valid reason then she probably not worth chasing.
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