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writes:My ex-girlfriend has come back into my life after a four year absence. After she broke off our engagement she had a baby with another man, who she broke up with afterwards. She is now married and has a second child. I have gotten over the bitterness and hurt, and I enjoy visiting with her husband and children. She and I text or talk on the phone several times a week. As weird as this may sound, I still consider her one of my closest friends. After all, that is why I wanted to marry her in the first place!She has told me that she is unhappy in her marriage, and talks about divorcing her husband. Though I am no longer interested in rekindling a romantic relationship with her, I am still very attracted to her. The fact is, I want to have sex with my ex. How do I tell her that?
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reader, Hennessy1989  +, writes (21 October 2012):
 I have to agree with auntyem, this woman just plays men, your just one of her toys, and your just sticking around hoping to get another chance to play. It's pretty desperate. If you really can't keep away then tell her what you want and get it over with
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reader, AuntyEm +, writes (21 October 2012):
 In four years this woman has been involved with 3 men and had kids by two of them... now she has itchy feet again!!
You are unnaturally hanging round her new family and this is kinda creepy, especially since you state you want to just have sex with her!!! It's like you are waiting to take a ride on the merry go round!!!
My advice would be to quit hanging round her, get over what you are feeling and try and meet someone else...but I don't think you will do that.
Hanging around just to screw someone is pure desperation.
MOVE ON!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 October 2012): Uhhh?.. Don't! I know you have an attraction to her but I'm quite sure you can find somebody else you can be attracted to. Right now you don't have feeling but you are opening Pandora's box! Either you or her or both will develop feeling.What struck me as odd is that you been hanging around her family and see that they are good people and not only do you want to screw his wife but you are asking for advice on how to tell her?! Seriously?! Nobody on here is going to tell you how to screw another's man wife!
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 October 2012): I'm sorry to tell you this.. But how could you even think about having sex with a woman who broke your heart for another man who is still her husband and had a baby with?Seriously? no matter how close you are with her, I still don't understand. If i were you, i will never ever entertain the thought at all. Maybe even have some conscience and ask her to work things out with her husband. After all she married him.I hope you could do something right, in your life. She maybe unhappy with her husband, but doesn't mean she could be happy if she's with you...or you with her.I think you should find another woman, single no baby and no tendency to cheat on you. If your attracted to your ex, go ahead and start having relationship with her, but i assure and guarantee you, its not for long term. You know how to tell her, probably she's just waiting for you too. Well, what i can say, have fun and enjoy the ride...Good luck..
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