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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

How Do I Get My Boyfriend To Kiss With A Little More Passion?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4160 days ago

30 June 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - How I get my boyfriend to kiss me a little rougher? Don't get me wrong he is a good kisser and he's nice and soft and gentle but sometimes I just want him to get a little rough and passionate and make me feel breathless. Any ideas as to how I can initiate this?... (54 words)

Should I call my "friend" or write to her and tell her off..or should I just leave it?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4158 days ago

30 June 2013 (F)

- Hello Folks, A few months ago my best friend and I stopped speaking to each by my decision. She started her own busines a few years ago and I was there for her helping her all hours in the night and morning. Assisted her with her kids etc. She and I became even closer so much ... (596 words)

I need fun things that we could do that doesn't involve sex but that would turn my B/f on when we are getting intimate

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4160 days ago

30 June 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I have been dating my boyfriend for over 2 months now..we have decided there won't be any sex(I believe in sex after marriage and he's ok with that) So I need fun things that we could do that doesn't involve sex but that would turn him on when we we are getting intimate... (56 words)

I want to make sure I get a good night of fun and then never have to see him again.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4160 days ago

30 June 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey I am looking for some advice on how to play this situation I am in so I can snag this guy in my work before I leave next week. I started a new job like a couple of months ago but something else has come up with better money so i can leaving and my last day is next sat or ... (395 words)

How much time do I need to get over my ex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4160 days ago

30 June 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - My ex of three years dumped me. I'm trying to move on. I know I shouldn't miss him but sometimes I just can't help thinking about him.How much time do I need to get rid of him?... (37 words)

My friend thinks he likes me and that I can change him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4159 days ago

30 June 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - My close friend introduced me to her friend on a night out about six months ago and ever since then we've been flirting, texting, meeting up and sharing kisses and at first I didn't like him but now I really do and I'm worried the feelings aren't mutual. He tells me he likes ... (269 words)

What do you think -- should I stay in this relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4160 days ago

30 June 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi. So anyone care to help me out, and tell me wheather to leave or stay in my relationship? Been together almost two years (9th july) I cheated first two weeks in, lied for months. My now fiance (23 almost) proposed to me (20) three months into our relationship, orgi... (641 words)

Worried about his making eye contact with women

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4160 days ago

30 June 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - hii...i am married with a guy for 3 yrs... as far as he is a gud person,takes care of me as well... but only thing am uncomfortable is he makes continous eye contact with other women.. he doesnot start it... if others start the play he responds for it...he knew i dont... (185 words)

How to bounce back and move on after lots of disappointment?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4160 days ago

30 June 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - In late October/early November 2012, I ended things with my boyfriend of nearly 4 years. To be honest it was an up and down 4 years where he cheated on me and I worked to forgive him only after I did and fell in love with him again he still withheld the one thing he said he ... (397 words)

Should I put spyware on boyfriends phone?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4160 days ago

30 June 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi Agony Aunties and Uncles, Thank you for taking the time to read this. I am aware that I am being extreme and have crossed some privacy boundaries, but before I take it to another extreme I thought I would check in with the community. I have been dating a guy for about... (596 words)

Is he overreacting? What can I do to calm him down?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4155 days ago

30 June 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together for three years, but the past year we have been in a long distance relationship since I had to move a few states away for school. The long distance has been hard on us, but we've managed to make it through and stay together. We are both ... (297 words)

Do you think we could ever be friends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4161 days ago

30 June 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I left my boyfriend on Monday. It wasn't a good relationship and I couldn't handle his temper anymore, but I did love the times with him when he wasn't mad. He has a great sense of humor and I'd like to still be on pleasant terms, be able to catch up from time to time. I met up ... (253 words)

We're going to be long-distance and I'm afraid of it ending badly

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4160 days ago

30 June 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - I have been in relationship with my girlfriend for nearly four months. She knew I would be moving away (1hour drive) yet she continued to meet me. I told her it's getting too strong and we shouldn't if I am going to move away. She says she has never met anyone like me a... (115 words)

Cheating casual relationship goes wrong.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4159 days ago

30 June 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - OK I'm not innocent and I know this, but I have been seeing a guy off and on for about 3 years who has a girlfriend. At first he didn't tell me about her and I soon found out and ended the casual relationship. Last year he got back in contact with me promising me he had changed ... (395 words)

I thought the dating was going well but he said he didn't want to commit

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4161 days ago

30 June 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone, just hoping for a bit of advice on this one. Was dating a guy a few months back, who I got on really well with. He was quite hard to read at first, I wasn't sure whether he liked me as he would often look kind of awkward in my company, almost like he wanted to get ... (343 words)

All seemed OK, so why did she say: "'I want to be alone and have no feelings for you.' "

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4159 days ago

30 June 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - Say you're seeing a woman for two months and everything is clicking, sex chemistry, views etc and suddenly she says 'I want to be alone and have no feelings for you.' And the time we spend together is amazing and fun. And she feels the same. In fact she states it. What would ... (61 words)

Dating a co-worker... should I avoid it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4161 days ago

30 June 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I am VERY attracted to one of my coworkers. We do not work directly together but do work in the same company at the same location. After a party we found we have a lot in common and he asked if I were interested in getting together sometime. YES! But... I don't know if I ... (238 words)

Is my mechanic taking me for a ride or was I rude to cancel?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4161 days ago

30 June 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - To the point.....I've know my mechanic for 5 years and I make an effort to have my car inspected and maintenance when he's there. We've met up twice outside of his job at a bookstore nothing serious. I consider him a honest reputable mechanic. We haven't gone out in maybe 2 ... (416 words)

I am frustrated with waiting for the woman I gave a promise ring too!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4161 days ago

30 June 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - I gave a promise ring to a woman that I haven't heard from her for 2 months before that we were seeing each other at least twice a week for three months. And but now i have been dating other women during that time cause we didn't talk for two months and then she texts me a ... (212 words)

My ex is stalking my Facebook, does he miss me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4161 days ago

30 June 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband and I have been married for six months. we bicker a lot and this is the 4th time we have split up. I am 4 months pregnant. when we broke up three weeks ago we were still talking, but when he told me he doesn't want to reconcile I changed my number and told him to ... (129 words)

I cant trust anything he says and am running on fumes!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4161 days ago

30 June 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - This is a long story, but please help me. My guy and I have been together for a year, we’ve known each other and have had an on and off relationship for the past 5 years. After a year of separation, we got back together and it’s been hell for me since. He disappeared from... (1137 words)

Is this a legitimate stance to be in regarding a relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4162 days ago

30 June 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - (I am 22) I was discussing my lack of physical or romantic relationships of any kind with girls with a friend of mine who started dating at 14. She was saying I am a commitment phoebe, I disagree: my argument is that I need a relationship that is like a high school one, ... (159 words)

Why are my siblings turning their backs on our mother now that she is sick?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4160 days ago

30 June 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - DearCupid,I am a middle aged young woman who put her life aside because I have one living parent and now she is slightly sick she's a diabetic and had to have her legs taken off she also have other health issues going on.I am not the only child I have four other siblings and ... (193 words)

Ex with benefits, is there more into this than I am realising or not?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4161 days ago

30 June 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I am confused. My ex boyfriend who dumped me 3 months ago has phoned me once a week why? no idea. Anyway he invited me around to his place for lunch and he cooked me up a lovely roast and we had a chat etc then ended up having sex. We did have a quick chat that this wasn't ... (183 words)

Why do I find "softer" guys much more attractive?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4159 days ago

29 June 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm a girl, and while I'm stereotypically feminine in a lot of ways (am always wearing dresses or skirts, into fashion and beauty, have a really girly voice), I also have a strong personality and am "masculine" in other ways. I love sports, lift, am straight-talking... (313 words)

Boyfriend took pictures of women on his cell phone. What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4161 days ago

29 June 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I needed my boyfriends cell phone to make a call. On his cell was a picture of a woman in a bikini. I remembered her because we went to a local beach the other day and she was sleeping on a lounge chair next to my boyfriend. I was on a lounge chair on the other side of my ... (233 words)

Should I ask him out or wait for him to ask me out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4161 days ago

29 June 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so I have the biggest crush on this guy ! And I really want to ask him out ! But I'm really nervous ! His best friend is one of my really good friends and he told me he likes me but I don't know ! How do I ask him out without it being really awkward ? We've been really ... (112 words)

Am I a backstabber?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4160 days ago

29 June 2013 (F)

age 22-25 - Me and my friend were good friends. But im a positive person most of the time, im quite shy and my self esteem is quite low, but I try. Well my friend is quite and only we used to hang out and no one else. She always used to badmouth people behind their backs and be so rude; ... (914 words)

How can I look out for my foster son?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4160 days ago

29 June 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I fostered a child three years ago, and the child is now 6. He was abandoned by his parents when he was a baby. I got him before I got married. Am now married and my husband has had a hard time accepting the boy. He is just plain cold towards him, though he does not verbally or ... (305 words)

What is a very horny, very faithful girl with a not-so horny boyfriend to do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4125 days ago

29 June 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with a boyfriend for three years and at this point, I just don't know what to do anymore. First off, my boyfriend is a very good guy. He's respectful towards me and my family and friends, doesn't "kiss and tell", supports my goals and dreams, and wants to spend the ... (551 words)

Why do I have to be this game he wants to play?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4160 days ago

29 June 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok 5 years ago I fell in love with aman 12 yr older than me I am 27 and over the years he took my love as a game I feel he has no care at all. Till I get his total attention him in love or at least acting to be when we are alone. We broke up I lived went out and just had a la... (259 words)

Is she being overtly friendly or does she really like me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4162 days ago

29 June 2013 (M)

age 51-59 - We have a new person at work, she is very friendly and has mixed in well with our small group. Over the last month we have started to flirt with each other quite a bit. For instance, i've touched her arm and the small of her back in conversation several times without any obvi... (294 words)

Whay makes a guy want to have a relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4160 days ago

29 June 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - What really attracts a guy to a girl to where he wants a relationship with her? I am an upbeat, down to earth, nice and understanding person. I am affectionate and loyal. I maybe a bit busy with work sometimes and have to cancel a date or two, but I make up for it. I just can't ... (185 words)

She's interested or just friendly?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4162 days ago

29 June 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - She's interested or just friendly? I hope someone can give me some advice. I know I sound pretty inept about it, but i been single for over 5 years now. There's a girl who started working where I do recently, our work is such that we only see each other every couple of w... (200 words)

I'm trying to figure out if there are signs or not, because at times it seems like it, other times she seems indifferent.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4162 days ago

29 June 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello all, So I'm trying to figure out what is going on with this girl that I'm starting to have a thing for, I can't tell if she likes me at times or not, because there seem like signs for both. About a month ago, she asks me out to dinner with her room-mates before we we... (257 words)

I know I've done wrong, but will he give me another chance?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4162 days ago

29 June 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hoping someone can help me.. Year and a half live in boyfriend broke up with me because he said he was scarred from how mean I had been in the relationship We had so many good times but when we argued I was just very cruel and he was very sensitive and couldn't take it. I... (217 words)

It used to be the closest friendship, now I can't count on her

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4161 days ago

29 June 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I dont know what to do with my best friend. I known her 4 10 years,and we ve been best friends ever since.We were also roommates first year of faculty,and that was one of the best years ever. But since we dont live together she ve changed so much. We used to share everything... (524 words)

Should I plan my birthday without my boyfriend. He only celebrated one out of four birthdays.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4162 days ago

29 June 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi!! I have a question about my birthday and my boyfriend. This is going to be my fourth birthday in the relation, and out of the other 3 birthdays, my boyfriend has spent 1 of those birthdays with me. We actually attend to the same university and the birthday he spent wi... (116 words)

What can a pregnant women do to keep her husband to pay more attention on her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4162 days ago

29 June 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I am pregnant for twelve weeks now, my husband is chatting on the internet with a married women who have a baby already. They talk about everything which makes me really jealous. No matter is day or night, my husband will wait for this women on line. It looks like talking with ... (105 words)

Was my girlfriend cheating with another guy over Skype?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4126 days ago

29 June 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - I've been skeptical of my girlfriend's fidelity to me for a while and have reason to suspect that she may be deceiving me and cheating. Recently, I returned home to visit family and I decided to Skype with her to see how she was doing. When we connected her expression seeme... (580 words)

I'm open to more suggestions in getting over him! Help?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4161 days ago

29 June 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I know the answer is yes, but I'm just hurting right now. I guess I'm just wanting to get this out. I left him on Monday, he got cranky too often over things that didn't matter, couldn't accept responsibility for it, and in all honesty, showed signs of an emotional abuser... (302 words)

I think I am interested in women, how do I tell my boyfriend I want a break?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4162 days ago

29 June 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I think I like women. I masturbate to them. I find them attractive. I feel like I understand them better. How do I tell my boyfriend that in the nicest way possible?... (32 words)

I want to make it clear that there will be no sex on the first date

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4162 days ago

29 June 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Basically, I am in a bit of a situation with this guy. I met him in a student bar and we hit it off. We had a bit to drink and ended up making out throughout the night. After this, we ended up exchanging numbers. He text me last week asking to meet but I have moved from my ... (288 words)

I'm engaged but my guy friend who's interested in me just wont take no for an answer

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4161 days ago

29 June 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi there, I have a question about one of my guy friends.He is a sweet guy that would do anything for me.We hang out get along great but are just friends. he has been hinting around that he wants more, but I have a fiance and just want to remain friends. he has been flirting ... (226 words)

How can I be the love of her life one day, then absolutely nothing the next day?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4161 days ago

29 June 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I've posted on here a couple of times recently. I had some great feedback. Basically, it was about my ex. She's been so on again-off again with me. One minute I'm the love of her life and she wants to live with me, marry me and have a family with me. The next she says she can't ... (280 words)

How should I handle this situation at work?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4162 days ago

28 June 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - How should I handle this situation with these girls? So I recently got a new job and the girls I started with dont really talk to me and aren't friends with me like they are with each other. Today one of them started talking to me about relationships and she wanted t... (146 words)

I'm tempted to have an affair with my hot co-worker to get back at my husband for the pain he put me through 3 years ago

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4160 days ago

28 June 2013 (?) age 41-50 - I am currently married for 3 yrs now. However, my husband and i had many issues in the beginning of our relationship when we were dating. he didnt tell me that he was still emailing his exgirlfriend because he told me she wanted to end her life so he emailed her everday in ... (351 words)

Long distance love… After meeting this amazing woman everything has gone to shit. She imagined everything to be a fairytale

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4159 days ago

28 June 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - I've been talking to this girl for 2 years online. Skype and FaceBook. I've honestly never found anyone who was as amazing as this. So, last month I went to visit her. Everything was perfect. We are very far apart. I only get 2-3 weeks of vacation a year and within a year or ... (171 words)

Is it just me of has anyone else noticed the same assumptions and consolations that people make when someone says that they've never had a girlfriend and are having difficulty finding one?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4161 days ago

28 June 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - Is it just me of has anyone else noticed the same assumptions and consolations that people make when someone says that they've never had a girlfriend and are having difficulty finding one? 1) You have to be happy alone before you can be with someone. My first question to t... (569 words)

He is a good man, but he is totally lost his sexual function for unknown reasons. He is unable to keep his erections, and he has zero sex drive.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4162 days ago

28 June 2013 (F)

age - I m so disappointed . My husband and me , might be unable to make it much longer together., after 26 years of marriage. I know sex is not everything, but affection is... I really need some understanding and some advice. He is a good man, but he is totally lost his sexual ... (191 words)