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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

How should I handle this situation at work?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4162 days ago

28 June 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - How should I handle this situation with these girls? So I recently got a new job and the girls I started with dont really talk to me and aren't friends with me like they are with each other. Today one of them started talking to me about relationships and she wanted t... (146 words)

I'm tempted to have an affair with my hot co-worker to get back at my husband for the pain he put me through 3 years ago

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4160 days ago

28 June 2013 (?) age 41-50 - I am currently married for 3 yrs now. However, my husband and i had many issues in the beginning of our relationship when we were dating. he didnt tell me that he was still emailing his exgirlfriend because he told me she wanted to end her life so he emailed her everday in ... (351 words)

Long distance love… After meeting this amazing woman everything has gone to shit. She imagined everything to be a fairytale

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4159 days ago

28 June 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - I've been talking to this girl for 2 years online. Skype and FaceBook. I've honestly never found anyone who was as amazing as this. So, last month I went to visit her. Everything was perfect. We are very far apart. I only get 2-3 weeks of vacation a year and within a year or ... (171 words)

Is it just me of has anyone else noticed the same assumptions and consolations that people make when someone says that they've never had a girlfriend and are having difficulty finding one?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4161 days ago

28 June 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - Is it just me of has anyone else noticed the same assumptions and consolations that people make when someone says that they've never had a girlfriend and are having difficulty finding one? 1) You have to be happy alone before you can be with someone. My first question to t... (569 words)

He is a good man, but he is totally lost his sexual function for unknown reasons. He is unable to keep his erections, and he has zero sex drive.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4162 days ago

28 June 2013 (F)

age - I m so disappointed . My husband and me , might be unable to make it much longer together., after 26 years of marriage. I know sex is not everything, but affection is... I really need some understanding and some advice. He is a good man, but he is totally lost his sexual ... (191 words)

Will persistence pay off?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4163 days ago

28 June 2013 (M) age 30-35 - There's this girl I've been having "something" with for the past few months. I was the one all throughout the relationship who pushed it forward (we used to be friends before). Like... I had to go in for the first kiss, ask her out on a "date", etc. Which, I guess it's okay ... (528 words)

My husband and I fight all the time

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4163 days ago

28 June 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I cant stand my husband. I know I am lucky cause he is not a drunk or he doesnt cheat or abuse, but the problem is that we fight all the time, even more over such silly stuff or the silliest of silliest stuff. It has come to that point that I cant just stand it any more.I am ... (243 words)

We have sex 3 times a week, what can I do to boost my sex drive?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4162 days ago

28 June 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello dear cupid I have a serious issue. ..I am 22 and my fiance is 27 we have a great relationship outside of the sex department. ...we have a handsome 9 month old, truly faithful to one another, and pursuing to be successful for our family...the problem is that my sex drive ... (102 words)

What is wrong? I ejaculate too fast!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4163 days ago

28 June 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - I dont really know what is wrong. But each time i try to play with myself i usually ejaculate very fast than expected and anytime i try to penetrate any girl i usually ejaculate even before my penile draws closer to the vagina. I dont know if this is because i have never had ... (59 words)

Why is this man making me mental? After my miscarriage, now his new girlfriend, I feel awful!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4162 days ago

28 June 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I had been starting to feel so much better about this, but today was hit with a ton of bricks and I'm not even sure why it bothers me. I started "seeing" a guy I had met on vacation to a new school I was going to the next year. "Seeing" is in quotes because when I met him, ... (1288 words)

Why doesn't my boyfriend look for a job like he said he would?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4162 days ago

28 June 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, My boyfriend has asked to be left alone at the moment. However, I dont know why. Before he texted me this, we had a quick mobile conversation about him saying that he's been feeling down recently because he doesn't have much money. Which I replied by saying it shouldnt... (132 words)

Should I go back on Facebook?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4133 days ago

28 June 2013 (?) age 41-50 - I used to be on Facebook and closed my account about 3 years ago, looking back i can say i did it because I didn't feel it was my thing, but at the same time I could see the advantages of having easy access to people that you wouldn't necessarily go out of your way to have ... (194 words)

Am I the bad guy for making my girlfriend breakdown?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 4124 days ago

28 June 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - For more info on this, please read (or skim) this question: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-believe-my-girlfriend-is-lying-about-an.html. This problem of mine goes back almost a year. I haven't been able to shake this feeling of mine that the girl I've been dating for ... (796 words)

Would it be better if I broke things off and concentrate on myself?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4160 days ago

28 June 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm constantly paranoid about my new relationship and don't know if I should stay in it. Last December I broke up with a guy I'd been with for four years. He left me, to be precise. At first he said he didn't love me any more but later I found out he'd left me for someone e... (627 words)

I'm afraid that if I leave him he will hurt me or come looking for me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4163 days ago

28 June 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Need advice .... Been with this dude for 6 years and is has been HELL ... The reason I'm still in this situation is because he's abusive physically mentally and verbally and I have been scared for my life cause he threatens to kill himself and sometimes he says me to or he will ... (496 words)

LDR--he's changed in the last 6 months. Is this common?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4162 days ago

28 June 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Ive been in a long distance relationship for 2 years now. He;s my bestfriend, my everything. whenever im having a bad day i call him. even though we have been dateing for 2 years, we've only been in love for a year. when i first fell for this man i was so happy, and he was ... (560 words)

Should I ask my guy if he ate alone or with a "friend"?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4162 days ago

28 June 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - Dear Aunts I need advice, I have been lied to by my BF over a year ago never sure if he cheated but was definetly keeping company with a friend, a girl that he has known a while. Well all was worked out and things have been great, lately very great, we have been dating for ... (474 words)

Do I ask my boyfriend about an old sex tape I found in his camera?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4163 days ago

28 June 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been living together for the last year. He is home for the summer and I'm staying here in the apartment. So, whenever he is gone, I always do deep cleaning. While I was cleaning the closet out, I came across an old camera that he bought in 2005. I ... (330 words)

My ex dumped me. why did he say he still loves me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4163 days ago

28 June 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - My ex dumped me and walked out of my life without any reasons two months. Recently he found out that I have a new boyfriend and contacted me. He told me he still loves me,but he can't stand to see me with someone else. He then unfriended me on Facebook.I broke down and cried ... (97 words)

Is this normal? Or am I just having a really good orgasm?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4164 days ago

28 June 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello! I have a question. I'm a 23 year old male and when I orgasm, my body seizes up and causes me to not be able to move much afterwards. It is not painful, but my penis becomes EXTREMELY sensitive (enough to cause me to post about it! Lol) and I have a difficult time m... (81 words)

My B/f keeps interrogating me about my past and if he were to ever find out I have lied, he will end things. What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4163 days ago

28 June 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my boyfriend for about a year and he is te type of person that just about interrogates me about guys in my past. I have nothing to be ashamed about and have only been with one person before him. He always asks about stupid things like did you dance with that ... (266 words)

I just want to find someone that I love and who loves me in return and I'm so scared that I'm never going to find the right guy.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4164 days ago

28 June 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - This isn't really a question asking for advice, more like asking for support so I'm brave enough to make the decision that I have to make. Please tell me that I'm doing the right thing for me? _________________ I started dating this guy a few months ago and i was so h... (393 words)

I think my friend has Post Traumatic Stress disorder stemming from sexual abuse as a child. It's affecting her life and I have no idea what to do about it

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4163 days ago

28 June 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - I think my friend is suffering from post traumatic stress disorder. She was sexual abused as a little girl by both her brother and her uncle on separate occasions. Over the course of our relationship I kind of fell in love with her, much to her chagrin. Says she loves me, but ... (576 words)

Why is my boyfriend ignoring me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4160 days ago

28 June 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - So my boyfriend hasn't talked to me in 6 days , he's been talking to literally everybody .. Except me. And he's going to the beach with 2 really pretty girls on Friday .. But I'm not going . I know I sound over protective but I don't know what to do ! I don't think he likes me ... (86 words)

My Ex asked me to marry him. I am happy but why do I feel nervous at the same time?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4163 days ago

28 June 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - Dear Cupid, I am a middle aged woman who loved this guy sometime ago we were in a relationship on and off for sometime but now our daughter is grown now he is in another state and so am I .Now that we are getting older there are no more babies he asked me to marry him now I am ... (185 words)