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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

My boyfriend wants me to change

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3430 days ago

20 June 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear cupids, My boy friend finds most of my acts wrong and wants me to change, while he thinks that nothing is wrong with him and that he do not have to change. Some of the changes he requested i was convinced with; and others not, but i promissed to do anyways for him ... (255 words)

Should I give this jerk who dumped me a piece of my mind or not give him the satisfaction?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4201 days ago

20 June 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I would love your opinion about this. I was dumped today by a low life, cheating prick. He came to my house to tell me. I am really upset by not only the fact he did it but by how he did it and how unfeeling and cold he was about it. He came to see me to talk with his ... (375 words)

He confessed he was married then deleted his email account! How do I get over the shock and heartbreak?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 4198 days ago

20 June 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - How do I forget this guy?! He emailed me yesterday confessing that he was married and hadn't been fair with me the past 6 mos. He then deleted his email acct so I can't reply to him. I have his cell number but don't want to appear desperate so haven't called him. I'm so hurt. ... (158 words)

How long does it take for your friend to come back to you after ditching everyone for their girlfiend? Does it ever calm down?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4202 days ago

20 June 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Will I ever get my best mate back!!?? Hes been going out with someone, his first serious relationship since his actual first one was long distance and didn't last very long and hes never had much luck with girls. When this first started we all understood he wanted time with... (474 words)

I've been seeing a man who was a friend before we began dating and I'm devastated that he just ended it after 7 weeks of dating!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4201 days ago

20 June 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi people. Just need some straight forward advice,ill give you some background,I am a single mother out of a messy relationship about 2 years ago. Ive come to the time now,where I feel I can move on. Ive been seeing a man who was my friend before we even considered dating. So ... (174 words)

I feel like I threw away a good thing and now don't know how to contact her, after 8 months. Help?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4201 days ago

20 June 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - a while back i dated a girl who had been a friend for a good six months before we got together. we only dated about four months. the relationship was rocky (she had just broken up with her ex) and both of us were extremely insecure. we jumped into something so fast and i think ... (363 words)

I've heard numerous men say they don't want a woman who is "perfect" or society's standard of beauty for a partner. Yet they admit to lusting over this type of woman saying it's "fantasy". And they talk with their friends about how "hot" these women

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4198 days ago

20 June 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I am curious to get a man's perspective on a few things. I've heard numerous men say they don't want a woman who is "perfect" or society's standard of beauty for a partner. Yet they admit to lusting over this type of woman saying it's "fantasy". And they talk with their friends ... (409 words)

How can someone say 'no communication' and then have the audacity to come and take a phone back that you lent them in the first place?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4201 days ago

20 June 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - my ex boyfriend broke up with me 4mths ago, we didn't talk for a month, then he began talking back to me. we had arguments till he felt we shouldn't communicate, I will say fine and respect what he said, then he come and try talk again when I don't communicate at all, I will ... (467 words)

was wondering when is the right time in a relationship to talk about the "serious future things"?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4201 days ago

20 June 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - OK, I was wondering when is the right time in a relationship to talk about the "serious future things" I mean like: "Move In, Marrying, have kids, etc" ... Like I don't want to freak him out or anything. Soon it's going to be 9 month of being together, and I was planning to do ... (104 words)

Is this a FWB arrangement?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4202 days ago

20 June 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone i have been having (protected) sex with this man i met 3 years ago was had sex last night all night the last time we had sex was 6 months ago as i met someone in that time we had broken up when i slept with this man i was wondering is this a fwb arrangement and is ... (67 words)

Boyfriend asked me to give him his own space?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4202 days ago

20 June 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, so my boyfriend of 8 month went over to Colombia to visit his family for 2 month (all summer). The funny thing is that none of us currently have a phone (Well I do have one that i use with WIFI but I haven't activated it for more than 1 YEAR , and he didn't brought his ... (273 words)

I know it's unhealthy to hate someone, but I just hope my ex dies. How can I get rid of this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4196 days ago

20 June 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - My ex dumped me with no reason two months ago. He's my first. He cheated on me twice and I still forgave him. We were together for 4 years and the last two years were long distance. We were serious. He talked about getting married and having kids. A month before he dumped me, ... (164 words)

What am I supposed to do to reassure my brother that NOTHING is ever going to happen between me and this boy

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4202 days ago

20 June 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - A few days ago I asked advice about my brother being too overprotective and bossy about me talking to his friend that he introduced me to because apparently he was flirting with me and I with him, when my only intentions where to be friends. Hes a cool guy im just NOT ... (478 words)

Do you need to be attractive in order for people to talk to you. Please help me I feel invisible!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4201 days ago

20 June 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - hi this is not a relationship advice question however i need some help. Im currently studying in uni, iwould consider myself a less attractive plus size gal. I have always had issues with weight and have very bad hyperpigmentation on my face. Im not attractive and i dont ... (450 words)

Help!! Who do I choose? The one who makes me his world or the one who gives me goosebumps?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4202 days ago

20 June 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I have to choose between two men. #1 is kind, loving, considerate, caring, sweet, faithful, would do anything for me and makes me the centre of his universe. BUT he is boring, predictable there is no chemistry or spark between us and the sex is dull and uninspiring. He ... (240 words)

How can I show my gf that she is beautiful and that her scars are not as bad as she thinks they are?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4202 days ago

20 June 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend is beautiful to me and anyone who has ever met her but she refuses to take off her clothes during sex or without the room being dark. I know she has a pretty bad scar on her torso just under her ribcage because of a burns accident which she was in when she was 14. ... (247 words)

Are these signs of interest or am I reading too much into it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4202 days ago

20 June 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Just asking knowledgable people's opinion. There are two girls i have an interest in. Both seem to be interested in me. One works in a shop I frequent and the other at a place of work I do deliveries to. I come to both these places at random. What is interesting, bot... (141 words)

Should I lose my virginity to a webcam girl?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4198 days ago

20 June 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi all, I'm a 26 yr old male virgin. I saw this girl on one of her online webcam shows and found out she's a flight attendant flying into my city. She made a proposition that she will offer sex for money. I am a virgin and want to know what sex feels like. I just wanted p... (162 words)

Should I give my bf time to get over his ex so that he can be happy with me again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4201 days ago

20 June 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my boyfriend for nearly a year and living together a few months now. Start of our relationship was great however I asked too many qn's about his past and ex girlfriends and I found out that there was one girl In particular that hurt him a lot. They broke up two ... (396 words)

G/f said we should take a small break. What do I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4202 days ago

20 June 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - we've dated for 2 years we had a "breakup" about 8 months ago as a result of a fight, but we made up the next day and we have been together since. we haven't had a major fight like that again, and I took time to address my issues related to it so we haven't had any huge arg... (599 words)

Benefits of an accounting degree?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4202 days ago

20 June 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - I am currently studying accounting at university. However, I failed two important courses which each add a year to my completion date. Right now I am considering quitting the degree and going to study CIMA or switch to another school and change majors. What are the benefits of ... (64 words)

Why did she wait 2 years to break up with me after our talk about having children?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4200 days ago

20 June 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - My girlfriend of 13years (fiance for 3 of those) left me 2months ago. Its a really tricky one this. We always agreed on not having kids. We were very happy together. No fighting, no cheating. We always gave one another space when we needed to do our own hobbies or hang out with ... (471 words)

Why doesn't he want me as a woman ever?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4202 days ago

20 June 2013 (F)

age - I have been married for over 31 years. When the children got older in high school my husband cut loving way down. really way down. 4 times a year- then we went to nothing. we do not kiss at all-peck once awhile. no embracing. no loving for over 2 decades now. we go places... (239 words)

How do you keep yourself from falling so easily?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4200 days ago

20 June 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - So the thing with that guy didn't work out. I have a problem with falling too quickly in love or having a huge crush on someone, then it ends up sucking. All the guys I've liked have only liked me for a short period of time or not at all. They lead me on, treat me so sweet and ... (136 words)

My Boyfriend Won't Stop Confiding in His Ex...Who Is Still Interested!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4202 days ago

20 June 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I'm a college student in a 2 year relationship with my current boyfriend. Before me, he was dating this girl for 4 years. They remained distant friends after things didn't work out and would occasionally text/call to just update each other about their lives, but live far ... (295 words)

I have moved on and have a nice boyfriend so why a I missing my ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4202 days ago

20 June 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - my daughters father and i broke up march 15 2012, it took me forever to get over him! I started dating my current boyfriend Feb 15. Me and my boyfriend got into a fight and he went back home he lived 30 minutes away. I have my own place and he stayed with me everyday for 3 ... (197 words)

A girl that my b/f used to be intimate with is in our circle of friends. She's always around, how can I deal with it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4202 days ago

20 June 2013 (F) - I am in need of some advice..my b/f and i are 29 years old and have been together for almost a year..i have no doubt that we truly love each other and we see a future together. We are both currently staying with family members in order to save money. We also only see each other ... (1177 words)

What does it mean when my mate doesn't sleep in the bed with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4202 days ago

20 June 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - What does it mean when my mate sleeps on the couch or sometimes living room. When my mate wants sex he would sleep in the bed with me?... (28 words)

Its been 3 weeks since I've heard from him but I don't understand his Houdini disappearing act?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4200 days ago

20 June 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi I would like some advice.I was in a relationship for 6months. We took it very slow at the beginning. He told me he had alot of wounded damage from his previous relationships and he was hurt in the past, but his ex was no longer in the picture. so we took it slow. We had... (280 words)

We've grown used to each other but I'm tired of the games!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4194 days ago

20 June 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - So this guy i know has always had this strong connection and we both confirmed we felt it. He's been curious about me for years and finally one day we were able to call each other and then started making time to actually hang out.We both have trust issues, and are prideful ... (615 words)