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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Do parents who coddle their kids actually love them?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4173 days ago

14 June 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I was dating this guy and everything was going good and it seemed we were becoming serious until I started finding out more about him and his family dynamics. A few months in I found out he lived with his mother (he was 36 at the time). I was shocked but he convinced me it was ... (586 words)

No physical attraction?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4176 days ago

14 June 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Can a relationship work if you get on well with a person but don't have much physical attraction?... (18 words)

Did I get played? Was this my fault?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4176 days ago

14 June 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I was talking with a guy for about a month. We really clicked well and liked each other but I wanted to take things slowly and not really rush into anything. It was neither one of our faults, but we both went kind of distant from each other for about 4 days. He was busy with... (325 words)

My brother's girlfriend is out to get me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4177 days ago

14 June 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear cupid, iv got a huge problem with my brothers new girlfriend and i dont no what to do. the bottom line is that she hates me all because of a misunderstanding that she wont forgive me f or. My brother is 21 and she is 39, and has 3 kids, one who is nearly as old as him. To ... (380 words)

Roommate is bringing cats into the home -- but I already have a dog

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4177 days ago

14 June 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I need your advice yet again agony aunts. Its not a relationship problembut rather a friendship problem. Ok, so I have 2 roommates and 1 is my best friend since I moved here. I also have a dog who loves people but can be picky with other dogs. Well long story short my friend is ... (174 words)

I feel like my ex is my soul mate -- but I've since gotten married

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4177 days ago

14 June 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - When I was seventeen, I met a guy and fell very deeply in love with him. Everything about him was ideal and we were together for three years. We broke up because he got a job in another continent and I was going to university and it didn't make sense to have a long distance ... (316 words)

I'm pregnant but want out of the relationship

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4177 days ago

14 June 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I am 4 months pregnant with my fiance's baby, but i want out of this relationship, i have found conversations from emails and facebook that are just inappropriate and disrespectful, where the conversations are sometimes about our personal relationship. The first time i saw a ... (247 words)

Do I end my long term relationship overseas due to homesickness??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4176 days ago

14 June 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I moved from the US to Australia to be with my boyfriend over 2 years ago (he's an Australian citizen). I am currently debating ending my 7 year relationship with him, whom I love very much, because he doesn't want to move back to the states with me in the future, yet I miss ... (386 words)

I counted his viagra pills and of course I thought the inevitable

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4176 days ago

14 June 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - I had to attend a conference that was out of state that lasted over a week. I got a nagging feeling and before I left I counted my husband's Viagra pills. When I got back I counted them again and 1/4 of a tablet was gone. He halves them and doesn't use a whole one but ... (306 words)

My LDR of over two years just stopped talking to me

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 4173 days ago

14 June 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - My long distance boyfriend for 2 1/2 years stopped talking to me just like that. We had such a good relationship and love each other so much. He live in different state which is about 3000 miles from me but we see each other every other month. We always had the best time. We ... (195 words)

Our sex drives are totally mismatched -- is he being honest about why he has so little interest?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4177 days ago

14 June 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend is 44 years old (45 in a few months) i have hit my sexual peak am in my early 30s. He has never been oversexed since we got together. Had problems with performance a few times in the beginning - losing his erection etc. He really loves me and I can really tell. I ... (331 words)

My menopausal mother is taking the joy out of my life

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4177 days ago

14 June 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - This is a relationship question focusing on my mum. I am nearly 20 years old, I am in a three year relationship and recently engaged, I am looking for a house with my boyfriend although we have no firm plans to move out yet, she is going through the menopause. My... (562 words)

My bf cheated with my best friend. How should I handle this?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4176 days ago

14 June 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been going out nearly a year now, and he visits me at my university halls. Last night he cheated on me with my best friend at university. We were drinking in my halls, and about 12am I went upstairs to bed, as I've just had shoulder surgery I was pret... (266 words)

Dreaming about "another" guy. Any advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4177 days ago

14 June 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - I have been dating my amazing boyfriend for almost 3 years. However, for more then a year I have been dreaming about this "other" guy a lot, and no matter what this "other" guy always happens to be brought up in conversations and seen in places I don't want to see him. The ... (362 words)

My husband and I are not on the same page about how to raise my kids. Please advise?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4177 days ago

14 June 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been married for 8 years it has been pretty tough. My boys are from a previous marriage. my husband came into this marriage knowing how I was as a mom. I do everything a mom would do for their kids, have I made mistake absolutely!!! My boys loved him, everything was a ... (206 words)

My husband looks at other women in front of me. Is this normal?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4177 days ago

14 June 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I just have a quick question. Am i wrong for feeling a certain way that my husband looks at other women in front of me, he says he dont but I look right at his face and catch his wondering eyes, i take that as disrespect cause i know that men look at other women but to do it in ... (83 words)

My address and personal info is listed online. What should I do? Does it matter?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2319 days ago

14 June 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - How do I remove online information about myself? I admit that I'm quite the curious person, and have searched many acquaintances by their name and city. All that have come up are social networking websites and old blogs which are harmless. I was bored and searched my own ... (103 words)

Any advice on how I can find my real father pls?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4177 days ago

14 June 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I am 27 and I would like to find my real father. My mother or anyone on her family won't tell me anything about him, other than a first name and the location I was conceived. I know when I was about 4 or 5 I attended a wedding as a flower girl, he also attended that weddi... (160 words)

So lonely even though in a relationship. My boyfriend says I drag him down when I come to him feeling sad. Are there solutions?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4177 days ago

14 June 2013 (F) age 36-40 - Hi everyone. I am in a long term relationship with a guy and we currently live together. I've been having some personal issues that have made me sad, but I try to keep it to myself and don't bother him with my issues. He wants me to be more open with him because I do ... (335 words)

BF says I drag him down when I try to open up to him. Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4177 days ago

I met my online date, but do not like him. How do I let this fade away?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4177 days ago

14 June 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been exchanging messages with this guy I met online for the past two weeks. We basically wrote lengthy letters to one another, covering a variety of topics. He's basically an open book, and a genuine guy from the "research" I've done on him. (He uses the same username ... (213 words)

Is it abnormal for my 20 year old girlfriend to sleep in the same bed with her mom regularly?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4172 days ago

14 June 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend is 20. We've been together for two years. She told me something that totally caught me off guard and when I think about it, it seems somehow wrong. We were talking about our parents. She was telling me some happy stories about her mom. Then she says: "You ... (439 words)

I gave in and told him I love him, but I didn't mean it the way I should

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4177 days ago

14 June 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I am in relationship wih this guy for over 2 months now,and he has told me he loves me and I dint say it back and he said I can take my time and he'l wait! But a few weeks ago he brought that up,saying he's scared I won't fall in love! When we met we had the perfect 2 days I c... (246 words)

Lots of attraction but mixed signals too

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4177 days ago

14 June 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - One of my guy friends is confusing me! We met a few months ago and admitted a mutual attraction right away. We never refer to one another as a friend because there is just so much sexual tension. We have even gone on a few dates (as recently as Memorial Day weekend). My problem ... (166 words)

Do I keep fighting for love or pull back?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4150 days ago

14 June 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - My 9 year relationship with my boyfriend just ended 6 weeks ago. The first 5 years were great. The last 4, not so great. I gained a lot of weight and pushed him away. Wouldn't have sex with him. Wouldn't even let him touch me. I was mean to him. I have 2 kids that he raised as ... (506 words)

He left without saying goodbye...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4177 days ago

14 June 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - So I met this guy at work. He started working there a couple months I started, I'm 19 he's 23. When I first met/saw him I wasn't automatically infatuated, but I did consider him as good looking. We started to get to know each other more through work and I gave him a couple ... (512 words)