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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Play hard to get or wear my emotions on my sleeve?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4165 days ago

25 June 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - dear cupid, Its an exciting time of my life, I was introduced to a man about 2 1/2 weeks ago and I'm totally diggin him. Let me share with you though, I consider myself new to the dating scene since the last man I dated was my ex who I was in a relationship for 3 1/2 years th... (257 words)

Why is this being taken out on me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4160 days ago

25 June 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - i'm really hurting a lot right now and i don't know what to do. please help. my ex and i have been off and on so many times in the last couple of months. it's been killing me. when we were on, we were amazing. i could see how much she loved me just by the way she looked at me. ... (1002 words)

Is the purpose of sex to orgasm or to feel close and intimate with your partner?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4165 days ago

25 June 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so I'm 20 and recently started having sex with the guy that I'm seeing (he's 21). I lost my virginity to him, but we have only had sex about 3 times since that. Before we had sex, he would play with me down there. Now he doesn't, I think he thinks that because I've... (308 words)

I have not been kissed in decades! Just pecks on the cheek, why?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4166 days ago

25 June 2013 (F)

age - Hi. Hope everyone is doing well. My one question brought another to mind for me. Why would my husband not want to kiss me at all, or sit and hug me at all? I have been married decades now, and i am not braindead LOL, but it has taken me all this time to ask that question. i ... (274 words)

Would it be possible that it could be STD?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4164 days ago

25 June 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been seeing this guy for a couple of months and a few weeks ago we tried to have sex, in the sense he tried to enter me but couldn't, his penis touched my vagina but he didn't enter me, I think it was me being too dry but that isn't the problem. A week later my vagina ... (161 words)

Right person, Wrong time?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4165 days ago

25 June 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey guys I have a question more for all of you. Is there such a thing as meeting the RIGHT person at the WRONG time. I met who I am pretty sure is the love of my life or at least I want him to be, 2 and a half years ago. We were in a long distance situation (not relation... (379 words)

Doubting myself after an encounter with an ex-friend, am I doing something wrong here?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4165 days ago

25 June 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I ran into my ex-friend "Karen" at a mutual friend's party. All my ex-friend did was brag and make snide remarks. She was also smug because she brought a date and I came with my sister. (My sis was invited though and received a separate invite.) I was polite, but acted like it ... (226 words)

Overreacting to a Missed Happy Birthday?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4165 days ago

25 June 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a really good friend that lives in another state. Overall he is a really good guy and his birthday was a few months ago. I sent him a "birthday" package with a few items. I also made sure to wish him a Happy Birthday as well on his special day. He seemed to like what I ... (220 words)

I'm happy to have her as just a friend but I really don't want to see her with someone else

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4165 days ago

25 June 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok, long story short. A little while ago I told one of my friends that I liked her as more than a friend but she ended up telling me that she didnt like me in that way which after a while I finally accepted and am really happy to still have her as a friend. However, recently I ... (254 words)

7 years and I'm still not over my ex, help?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4165 days ago

25 June 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone, This might be quite long but I'm in dire need of some advice...i can't really talk to anyone else about this situation...Here goes: When i was about 17 i randomly met a guy at a gig, i can still remember it like it was yesterday, it was like he was the only guy... (919 words)

Married man dumped me and I am feeling so used and stupid!!

This question has 63 answers - newest was posted 4152 days ago

25 June 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I had a fling with a married man. I posted here not long ago but I think my question reached a max with 27 answers because I tried to post a follow up and the site would not allow me. This is my follow up. You can say I TOLD YOU SO and I had it coming to me. He pretty much u... (578 words)

My best friend was molested as a child and has deep emotional issues because it. I'm in love with her, but don't know how to help her. Please tell me what to do!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4164 days ago

25 June 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm struggling with a problem that's destroying me. I'm helplessly in love with my best friend. She's everything I ever wanted in a girl. Unfortunately, she's extremely broken. She was molested on different occasions by her brother and her uncle and no one believed her, not ... (785 words)

I like her but I'm afraid of being turned down.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4166 days ago

25 June 2013 (M)

age 26-29 - Hi everyone...well my problem that I really want to know if a girl likes me...okay I like that girl and I want ask her to Go out but I don't want to hear a "No!!!"....That girl she always want to talk to me and She ask for my phone number...she always ask me about my ... (204 words)

Should I just ignore my ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4166 days ago

25 June 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I broke up with my ex of 4 years two months ago. We were long distance for 2 years and were very serious about our relationship because we've been through so many difficulties together. We had a huge fight because of his female friends before the breakup. I was mad that he ... (240 words)

I've fallen for one of my students

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4159 days ago

25 June 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm a 24 year male teacher. I work in a college I have been looking for love for quite some time. The problem is that I always end up with the wrong person. I know that I'm a good person. Nothing in the world hurts me more than injustice or seeing someone suffer. Lately, for 4 ... (207 words)

Should I stop hanging around clingy male friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4166 days ago

25 June 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I tend to hang around males FAR more often than I hang around females. I've always been this way, even way back in elementary. This particular male friend admitted to me about two month back that he really liked me and thought I liked him too, so we should be in a relationshi... (384 words)

She tells me that her relationship with this guy friend is normal for her culture but I'm not so sure

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4166 days ago

25 June 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - I got in a relation with one of my employees. Now as if that's not enough risk already. She also moved in with me 2 days after we got into the relationship. She told me, I am in this for the long run and I don't want to get into the relation if its not that serious. ... (1284 words)

Why is my ex contacting me and even wanting to have a pajama party??

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4166 days ago

25 June 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I havn't seen my ex boyfriend who dumped and left me alone in another state for nearly 3 months though he has phoned me regularly like once a week since leaving. I have now returned to the same state as him and been here for 3 weeks. He has done his usual weekly phone call and ... (166 words)

Could this mean we both want to get back together?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4166 days ago

25 June 2013 (M)

age 26-29 - My ex and I broke up 3 years ago. We are both in high school. She just broke up with her boyfriend of two-three years. She is really shy, as am I. We never talked much until recently, only over text.. The other day, she "accidentally" texted me. She didnt fix it right after, ... (94 words)

My Boyfriend thinks I'm a masochist! Am I???

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4166 days ago

25 June 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Please don't judge me. I am 18 yrs old. Im a very quiet and shy person. I have only had sex with one guy which is my boyfriend. My bf and i have sex alot and its always the pain that turns me on. My favorite is the neck biting. I like for him to bite my neck really hard to the ... (224 words)

How can you tell someone theyre being unfair without it descending into a massive argument.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4166 days ago

25 June 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Im going through a custody battle right now and I have court on friday so this whole time is quite stressful for me. Well my boyfriends been going out on weekends staying out all night and I dont know where he is. He keeps talking to is ex who he split up with a decade a... (330 words)

How are things in a relationship after the honeymoon phase wears off?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4166 days ago

25 June 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone, I may sound a litle paranoid or probably worrying for no reason! Let me just give u an insight I'm dating this guy for 2 months now and things are just perfect to the point I think its a fairytale,he loves me,cares for me,looks out for me..I cldnt ask for more... (118 words)

I'm cheating and should leave my marriage but I can't! I'm selfish!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4166 days ago

25 June 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I should leave my marriage but I can't! Husband very fond of me and I do my best but its gone for me and I don't want to cause pain to my grown up child. We get on but NO lust any more.I have a lover of 8 yrs and needless to say I love him tho he's not settling down material! ... (83 words)

I want to feel close to my husband sexually, please help.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4166 days ago

25 June 2013 (F) age 30-35 - I posted the other day SVC gave me good advice. Although I should have explained more. My husband no longer wants sex as often. I originally said that he would like sex at least once a week, but its been over a week. We are voth in our 20s. However he works a regular job and ... (215 words)

Should my friend's children be allowed to walk around nude at the ages they are?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4166 days ago

25 June 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - I have a friend who lets her kids (a boy age 12 and a girl age 8) walk around the house naked. I have watched the kids on occasion, and they had been naked when I got there and their mother never told them to get dressed. Is this a problem? It didn't make me uncomfortable and ... (80 words)

My boyfriend blames me for losing his best friend!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4163 days ago

25 June 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I need some help. im gunna jump right into this. Ive been with my bf for 4 years now. he had a best friend he use to do everything with and i was ok with him till i started figureing out what kinnda guy he was. ever since my bf fell in love with me, hes change his ways,... (545 words)

My boyfriend can't enjoy sex when we use condoms

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4166 days ago

25 June 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a problem, my boyfriend cant seem to enjoy sex when we use a condom he even gets soft, and if i was on birth control would be a good fix if i could do it, but the hormones don't do me good, i get really sick, i also cant afford to get the none hormone 5 year thing, what ... (85 words)

He has ignored me so should I bother to tell him I'm going to be near to his city?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4166 days ago

25 June 2013 (F) age 30-35 - I like a guy who lives in another city. We usually talk on Facebook, but lately, he's been ignoring me. This hurts my ego. The last time I saw him was almost 2 weeks ago, when I traveled near his city for stuff unrelated to him, but we hung out and he was sweet and all, he said ... (216 words)

I'm not looking for anything serious but I don't want to be lied to

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4166 days ago

25 June 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - My fiancé and I have decided to part ways 3 months ago. We were together for 10 years. We argued way too much that the love and respect slowly faded. I am not ready for commitment at all, but wanted a little distraction. I recently started seeing a cop, we've been hitting ... (203 words)

We've only met once, in a LDR..do all men lose interest?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4166 days ago

25 June 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - We've been dating for over a year now and met only once (different countries). I love the everyday talking (chatting on facebook) which usually lasts 30 mins-an hour but sometimes when we aren't busy I want to talk more but he says it's too much. How can it be too much since we ... (93 words)

Married for 20 years and been feeling alone for the last 5! Is it time to get out?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4166 days ago

25 June 2013 (M)

age 51-59 - Another night of being ignored. Together almost 20 years, and feeling alone for the last 5. I have gotten the excuses "I need to be in the mood (emphasis on I)".....I'm too tired, the proverbial headache, yet her addiction to Facebook and games will keep her up 2 hours a... (241 words)

Sister in law won't take care of her kids and my husband and I are expected to

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4165 days ago

25 June 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband and I are expecting our first child. It seems as if my MIL likes to blame me for her grandkids misfortunes in life.His sister and the kids dad wants to party and MIL wants us to care for the kids. It's putting a strain on our marriage as we are taking care of her t... (94 words)

How can I convince him that it is so hurtfull to me to have no idea what is he doing and with who??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4167 days ago

25 June 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear cupids, my perfect boyfriend of about 1 year have one little triat that can drive me crazy most of the times and i get to the piont where i find it so irrespectfull that i do not like him any more and do not want to hear his vioce anymore. When you are busy you can not ... (280 words)