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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Return a gift after breakup?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4202 days ago

19 June 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello Everyone, I have been seeing this guy for over about two months now. He was away for a while so I couldn't see him but he brought me something which I thought was really sweet. After he came back, we went on dates. On our first date I paid. No big deal he offered the n... (239 words)

No trust in boyfriend right now... ruining a 3 year relationship

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4202 days ago

19 June 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm having a major issue with my boyfriend of 3 years. He's 35 and I'm 31. He's the first person I've fallen in love with, and sometimes I wonder if that's the problem. My being too in love. Let me state that I don't know if this is MY issue or stuff he's actually doing to make ... (860 words)

I don't like feeling like a maid, or taken for granted. Am I being unreasonable?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4202 days ago

19 June 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Just a question about cohabitation: My boyfriend works 50 hours a week, and I am currently unemployed (but looking) I contribute economically, and do all the cooking and cleaning except for one night where he makes dinner. Usually he does his own laundry, because he like... (369 words)

I don't think I can handle seeing her with her boyfriend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4203 days ago

19 June 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, bit of a long question here. So about 2 years ago I told this girl whom I had been friends with for about 2 years (at that time) that I had feelings for her but she told me that she didnt like me in that way and just saw us as friends which took a while to fully accept but ... (198 words)

I don't understand why he wouldn't simply deactivate these accounts!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4202 days ago

19 June 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, My boyfriend left his email open on my laptop once, and already having had previous trust issues we are working on, and have been getting there, I couldnt help myself cast an eye....(the previous problem was him trash/sex talking with a 'female' friend) What I found wa... (269 words)

In an LDR, his live-in son asks for money, will this relationship last?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4202 days ago

19 June 2013 (F)

age - im in a long distance relationship he comes for me every wk end we are both widowed he has 6 children i have 5 all grown up it takes him just over an hr to get here then an hr to take me back to his house , he has a son in his 40s living with him works night and asking every ... (106 words)

Ex partner apologises after 2 years apart!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4202 days ago

19 June 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - I split with my partner 2 years ago. I had 1 young child with her and she had a child from a previous relationship. We had been together for about 12 years! We have stayed in touch due to me seeing my son weekly, of course, and she has often had a bit of a bitter attitude ... (280 words)

Cancelled wedding...but can we sort this out and stay together?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4203 days ago

19 June 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - where do I start..my fiancé told me 8 weeks ago he wanted to cancel our wedding. He didn't do it. We thought we could work on our differences and see what came about. We were due to get married in seven months. I feel like he has not made any effort to sort things out and spent ... (290 words)

Do you believe a person can do/achieve whatever they want if they want it enough and work hard enough for it?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4202 days ago

19 June 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Do you believe a person can do/achieve whatever they want if they want it enough and work hard enough for it? I'm asking this question in reference to my dream career but I'm interested in all general opinions on this too. Thanks!... (42 words)

How do I get over that he is expecting a baby with my ex friend and they will be getting married!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4203 days ago

19 June 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I broke up with my boyfriend about 14 months ago. We had been in an open relationship for just over 2 years. He had been seeing another woman(who was actually a close friend of mine)for the last few months of our relationship until he decided he loved her more so broke up with ... (183 words)

He told his ex that I wasn't his g/f but I scary room mate he had to babysit!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4201 days ago

19 June 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi everyone, thanks for reading. I met my ex from riding, we meet on Easter weekend, at the time I was looking for a place to move, and so was he, so we decided to shared a place, few days before we move in to the house, we became boyfriend and girlfriend, and we still decided ... (371 words)

How can I trust my husband when he texts a girl from an escort service all night?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4202 days ago

19 June 2013 (?) age 41-50 - Dear readers, I find myself here again and I have only been married a month. I wass here to weeks ago. Because my husband joined a sex site and still denies it. But know I am here because my husband has been out of town for the week and I looked at our phone bill and found ou... (183 words)

I get so panicky when he doesn't respond right away to my texts

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4200 days ago

19 June 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - i visited the guy that i really like and we got along great, had lots of laughs etc. when i returned home, we texted and everything was fine.i got on twitter and started tweeting about my guy friend that passed away and then I tweeted "random I love you's make my heart melt" ... (206 words)

How do I end this? I don't love her but don't want to hurt her

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4203 days ago

19 June 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - THANKS for reading...but friends i am in a great difficulty...i met a girl on social network site and we did long chats and also did talk on the phone and now it has been over a year of our such relationship but before a couple of months that girl proposed me and i myself ... (196 words)

Is this reverse psychology or what?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4203 days ago

19 June 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - I work in two places. In one place there are mostly married women in the late 30's up to 50 and more. They adore me, especially one-let's call her "Helen"-who is head over heel about me. She even says things like she wants sex with me tonight. Although I don't find her ... (345 words)

I made a mistake and it hurts so much I don't want her to leave me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4204 days ago

19 June 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - Thank you for reading... I have been with my girlfriend for about 2 years and we are very happy together. We have always been good but she left me last week and i can't see what to do from here. I was at a party a few weeks ago and there were a bunch of people taking ph... (607 words)

He keeps breaking up my relationships, I'm in love. I need to stop him!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4202 days ago

19 June 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - There is this guy who I am completely inlove with but everytime we start dating he just stops talking to me and then months pass and he comes back and then he leaves again and that just keeps happening. I told him im tired of him doing that and that I want more I want to be in ... (339 words)

Is marriage the right thing for me to do?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4202 days ago

19 June 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - I just want to share my story and I would Love your opinions. it was about 8 or 9 months ago I was walking into church for a revival when I laid eyes on the most beautiful creature I had ever seen. He was well dressed, the cutest smile with perfect straight white t... (701 words)

How do I go about initiating a no strings relationship with this man?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4203 days ago

19 June 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - I hooked up with (not had sex with, just made out) a guy last weekend that I'd never spoken to before with mutual friends. We were both very attracted to each other, but haven't really spoken or texted since then. I would really like to talk to him/become friends/hook up again, ... (107 words)

Do I talk to him next time I see him and tell him how I feel?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4202 days ago

19 June 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, So I met this guy back in January. We immediately hit it off, spoke, exchanged numbers and hung out like 1 month later. We talk maybe like twice a week via text. Sometimes not talking can extend to two weeks. When we talk and hangout there is just some kind of connecti... (319 words)

How does she really feel about me? I'm so confused

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4203 days ago

19 June 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Am a guy of 22 ,handsome and very jovial with everyone espercially with girls which makes them to be fond of me to an extent that whenever they are doing something they will always want me to be by their side for jokes. There is this particular girl that am having feelings for ... (653 words)

Can elocution lessons really change a person?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4204 days ago

19 June 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I haven't seen my friend in 3 months since she was at university, having seen her I was very taken back by her voice. Turns out she did online elocution lessons to lower her voice a bit and speak properly over the months, even when i saw her she was learning then too! She ... (216 words)

My ex-girlfriend is trying to get back to me, am confused!!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4203 days ago

19 June 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - My ex girlfriend that we dated for four years left me for another guy, four months later she started sending sms to me just for us to get talking.I ignored all, recently she sent this one which got me very confused . She sent this " hello, how is work. please just try ... (138 words)

How can I make him feel more at ease around me after what happened between us?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4203 days ago

19 June 2013 (F) age 26-29 - I knew this guy two years ago but he didn't give me the time or place. Just recently he contacted me and wanted to be friends. He's been going threw a hard time, so I have a lot of empathy for him and want to be there for him. I have to admit I live him, and already see him as ... (326 words)

Where is the blood coming from?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4203 days ago

19 June 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello! I'm 22 and my boyfriend and I have been dating for quite awhile. While we were on vacation, we were having sex much more frequent than what normally happens at home. YAY! On one of those days it was kind of rough, and later on when I used the restroom I notic... (163 words)