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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

In love with my b/f but don't know how to tell him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4204 days ago

17 June 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - think I'm in love with my best guy friend We've been best friends since the end of our first semester in college . I've never mentioned the way I feel about him because I'm afraid of he won't feel the same way, and i don't want to ruin our friendship. I always feel nervous ... (127 words)

How can I deal with my insecurities?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4204 days ago

17 June 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - I've recently started dating this amazing guy, who to me is perfect in every way. It's early days but I really do like him and he says he feels the same way to me. The thing is though I can't keep a hold of my insecurities. I've had a really bad break up recently and before ... (150 words)

Why is she interested in sex less often now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4204 days ago

17 June 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - Back again for more insight. Since my last question, things have fallen into place and going well. The new issue that has arisen is, she seems to never get horny or want to have sex very often. We didn't have sex "all the time" when we first started dating but it was more often ... (252 words)

I'm absolutely ashamed of myself! I made out with a married friend

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4204 days ago

17 June 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - This past weekend, I was at an annual camping trip with a bunch of friends. We have been going for a very long time -- our kids all use to come but many of them have grown up now. There are about 30 of us. I still attend although I am single now. Many of us have been ... (441 words)

How can I forget about this lady?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4189 days ago

17 June 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - hello everyone, i need help or advice about my situation. well it's been 2 years now since i met this lady, she lives long way away from where i live, last year i told her about my feeling to her in the phone, and she didn't say anything at all. well, time passed away i tried ... (155 words)

Husband gets frustrated when I cry about his work hours but I'm pregnant and lonely!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4199 days ago

17 June 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 23 weeks pregnant and feeling very hormonal and emotional all the time. My husband works 12 hours most days and leaves at 11 and comes back at 11. It breaks my heart so much because I never get to see him and I feel so alone. He has two days off a week that I get with him ... (336 words)

Why am I always so nervous to see my boyfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4205 days ago

17 June 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - please, can u guys explain this to me? I dont understand why im always nervous to see my bf. Even at the sound of his name, i get this akward feelin in my stomach, it started from when we started datin. We have dated for 2 months now, and he has been a very great guy. But... (101 words)

This guy is stinking confusing and I don't know what to do!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4204 days ago

17 June 2013 (?) age 26-29 - This guy is really stinking confusing! I am 17 and I know I should know all the rules when it comes to flirting and spotting guys who are just flirts. I don't know what he wants! I even looked up astrology to see if it is I guess normal in their world and he's a ... (295 words)

Controlling Brother Over mutual friend.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4204 days ago

17 June 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - A few months ago my brother introduced me into his group of college friends, I was friendly and just acted mutual with them all. A few days after this my brother and two of those friends invited me to play a PC game with them and talk over skype as we played, I said yes as I ... (555 words)

My boyfriend's weird relationship with his 2 grown daughters disturbs me

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4188 days ago

17 June 2013 (F)

age - My boyfriend has a weird relationship with his grown daughters. They are 20 and 25. He allows the younger one to drink in our home when she is driving. He roughhouses with the older one and sometimes will intertwine his limbs with hers when they are on the couch. Yesterday, ... (275 words)

Gave him oral sex, he cumed quickly after around four minutes what does that mean ??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4204 days ago

17 June 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Last night i gave oral sex to my boyfriend. i sucked his dick. We've been talking for a while and we recently made it official. So I'm not sure what he's done when we were "just talking". Last night when i gave him head , he told me i was good. Thing is he cumed quickly like ... (81 words)

His ex is back -- should I even try to compete with her?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4205 days ago

17 June 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years, and before we were together he was with his ex girlfriend for 7 years, she broke his heart. When he started dating me, she said all kinds of really nasty things about my appearance, and that he could do better etc. We look complete... (657 words)

I'm 13 and I love my 16 year old cousin -- is that wrong?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4190 days ago

17 June 2013 (M)

age 22-25 - I love my 16 year old cousin is that wrong Why I love her I love her in so much and I want her bad, when our family has gatherings me and her always are together and make each other laugh, in my point of view she is smart and funny and very pretty. One time when eve... (185 words)

Wondering if I should leave my wife?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4204 days ago

17 June 2013 (M)

age 51-59 - My wife of 5 years is emotionally abusive and unstable. I don't love her anymore and my heart has become totally closed off to her. Should I stay, though, for our daugher? It's not horrible, but I'm unhappy and counseling hasn't worked. Thank you. ... (49 words)

Should I explain my insecurities to him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4205 days ago

17 June 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - I've recently started seeing this amazing guy, who I really do like, it's early days but still. We both really like each other and things are going good. But the other day we were walking through town holding hands, and I got a text from my ex (I had deleted his contact but ... (519 words)

Should I cheat on my girlfriend because she's overweight?

This question has 31 answers - newest was posted 3568 days ago

17 June 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Should i cheat on my GF? I know its wrong and everything, but i have been talking to this girl lately and i feel i have a connection with her, like its crazy how similar we are. Im not 100% sexually attracted to my current gf, she is over weight, thats not me being nasty, i m... (121 words)

Why did my husband leave me after 6 years of marriage?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4204 days ago

17 June 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Why did he leave me? My husband left my son and I after 6 years of marriage. He wanted his freedom and to be able to do as he pleased. He was having "the grass is greener" issues. He was verbally and emotionally abusive and generally not a good partner. I know it's better... (183 words)

Should I dye my hair blonde because b/f likes blondes? I am worried he might go for a blonde if I'm not one too!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4205 days ago

17 June 2013 (?) age 26-29 - hey, i have been in a relationship with my boyfriend now for a little over a year (let call him r), we have fun and love each other so much, but one thing he does hurts me. basically we went out for a bit before and then we broke up because we were too younge and silly for a ... (382 words)

Will I always feel like an idiot because I ended the relationship with my ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4204 days ago

17 June 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - Right a quick question as its bothering me, If you could please help, a few years back I was with a girl of 5 years. We was in our teens, and had a nice relationship got along, was nice and. Very sexually active. Anyway towards the end I got depressed and went self centered a ... (167 words)

Boyfriend refriended his ex. Do I believe the reason he gave me?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4202 days ago

17 June 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - So boyfriend refriended his ex on Facebook a couple of months after unfriending her because I had asked him to. I had insecurities about her even though they broke up about two years ago. He says it was weird that he unfriended her in the first place and decided that he would ... (226 words)

I want to lose my virginity with her but will I regret it later because of the circumstances?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4203 days ago

17 June 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, I'm a 26 year old male virgin. I was offered by a air hostess to 'be' with her next week. I do have to pay so she is offering sex as a service. I am seriously thinking about it and was just wondering if I should do it. I just want to get this off my shoulders so to ... (105 words)

Do I really need all this Baby Mama drama? What can I do about this situation?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4205 days ago

17 June 2013 (F) age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together for six months. I'm in a baby mama drama situation, and I'm not sure how to handle it... Please help. I'll give some background... He and the mother of his child were never married. Their relationship was rocky and she was very manipul... (1022 words)

HELP! How do I tell my flatmate she rude, without being rude myself???

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4205 days ago

17 June 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Moved into a great new place 3 weeks ago. My new flatmate is a 45yr old Russian and I am 25yr old British, so I appreciate that perhaps there could be a cultural thing with the difference of how things are said/done in our different countries. But I am starting to feel... (903 words)

Am I really over her so soon?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4205 days ago

17 June 2013 (M) age 30-35 - My gf broke up with me over two days ago. . .yet I think im already over it. We were together for over a year and we sure did have our fair share of problem. I did like her alot. . .even potentially could love her. Somehow though, somewhere along our relationship, it felt like ... (234 words)

Am I being too pushy because of my past relationships?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4204 days ago

17 June 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - This is a question related to my other question: Why is it, that when I see a girl I like, she replies back to my message, she texts me, that I go over the top and text her with multiple messages? It's only human nature to try and rush things. Is it because I have had bad r... (72 words)

Should I wait until the divorce comes through before I pursue things further with her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4205 days ago

17 June 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - After a 6-year wait for a possible relationship, 3 months ago I finally got a reply from the advert I placed on Match.com, one thing I liked that she mentioned in her profile was B movies (and her advert seemed a little keen: it said: if you think you have what it takes, I'd ... (570 words)

I feel like life is dealing me a bad hand and can't see a way out. Please help

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4205 days ago

17 June 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm feeling like such a failure in life. The last time I felt truly happy was 8 years ago and I've been dragging on ever since. I graduated highschool early at 16 and back then I saw a bright future. My grades were good and I'd received acceptance letters from several colleges ... (596 words)

Am I overreacting or was it just the drink making him be like this

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4205 days ago

17 June 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I am confused over the actions of my date the other night. It was a first date and we went to a baseball game together, he initially seemed very sweet, smart, good conversationalist. We went to several bars after the game where we contined talking and had at least 4 more d... (200 words)

Is the friendship platonic or does she see it as something more?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4205 days ago

17 June 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi just a quick question. Is it possible to have an emotional relationship with a member of the same sex? I am a straight female but lately I have been rather close to a woman who is older than me. She has become a sort of friend, she confides in me about life and lo... (435 words)