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*londyking
writes:Hello all,So I'm trying to figure out what is going on with this girl that I'm starting to have a thing for, I can't tell if she likes me at times or not, because there seem like signs for both.About a month ago, she asks me out to dinner with her room-mates before we were both going to a work-related party. We have fun and talk and drink, and then drink more at her place, but when we get to the party she eventually ended up taking care of me because I got sick,even though another friend had taken me somewhere else she followed me to make sure she was taking care of me. The next day we go driving to meet with co-workers and just talk about random stuff like music, etc. We part as I have to leave early and I tell her I will take her to dinner to repay her kindness the night before, she laughs kinda and says ya sure.Since then, we talk on and off, hardly text and even then when we talk, most of the time it's low key, no real flirtation signs. We signed up for a gym together a little while ago and got lunch after a workout and talked about family and exes. and other stuff...I'm basically confused and trying to figure out if there are signs or not, because at times it seems like it, other times she seems indifferent.
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reader, Blondyking +, writes (29 June 2013):
Blondyking is verified as being by the original poster of the questionTo add, I'm planning to ask her to dinner to repay her for saving me at the party, I told her I would and she seemed to like that
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reader, misLadYd..  +, writes (29 June 2013):
 spend more time with her.. If there are more signs then you will have to act on that..
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 June 2013): Why don't you ask her?
I think she will tell you the truth.
You might be surprise, she might say yes.
Voila you got a gf yourself.
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reader, helpathand6  +, writes (29 June 2013):
Hi,
It sounds to me like she may be confused as well or she had feelings for you but didn't think it was going to happen so has started a new relationship? Its best to be honest in these situations ask her out for dinner and tell her you have feelings for her yes you are putting it out there but at least if she says no you can move on and find relationship and keep a good friend because if you go on not knowing and trying to guess you may loose her as both friend and possible relationship.
Hope this helps good luck.
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