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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

My fiance's behaviour with the bosses daughter is out of line

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4177 days ago

13 June 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - My Fiancé is friends with his boss and the boss's wife. I really like both of them, but I noticed that the boss's daughter who is 14 years old has a huge crush on my fiancé. Which is fine and normal but at a group party at the boss's house she would only see him when no one ... (227 words)

How do I move on from being stuck and hurt at the same time? So I lost my virginity and was cheated on in the same 72 hours.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4177 days ago

13 June 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - I am on summer from my first year at university. Last November i started talking to a girl i met several years before when we were both underage. We met at summer camp and kept in touch online. After a few months i saw her changer her picture and was like wow. Started tal... (353 words)

Is it OK to tell my Bf that he sounds like a complete jerk because he is depressed? It's too much for me. His depression is annoying me, it's 24/7.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4175 days ago

13 June 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - I met this guy a while ago and he was always telling me how unhappy he was in his current relationship. I liked him a lot and eventually I started to love him. he told me he loved me and he was going to leave his gf for me. I told him no and to stop flirting with me because ... (545 words)

If she's only a friend then why hide their texts?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4178 days ago

13 June 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a trust problem with my bf of nearly a year now. things were never really..well great. A month after we officially were togheter, he texted his ex telling her he missed her that she should come to town. i caught him the day he moved and left him then and there. We got ... (465 words)

How can we make sex last longer?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4176 days ago

13 June 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together almost a year and a half now, and we recently became fully sexually active about two months ago. I was a virgin, and he was still healing from past catastrophic relationships. The last time he was active was almost 6 years ago, so I ... (273 words)

My g/f is a victim of sexual abuse. I don't know how to help her and I'm feeling depressed all the time

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4177 days ago

13 June 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - this is a very personal question, but i really need advice. does anyone have any experience dating someone who's been a victim of sexual abuse? or if anyone who is brave enough to talk about it and has survived cares to share, that would be great, as well. my girlfriend is a ... (233 words)

I don't have the guts to go up and talk to this guy!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4178 days ago

13 June 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello, I just discovered this website and I thought I might just give it a try. There's a boy in my school that I really really really like, I have liked him for 5 months now. Yet still I have never really had the guts to go up to him and talk to him. I am just way too sca... (123 words)

My ex has cancer. Do I help him secretly or tell my new boyfriend about him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4177 days ago

13 June 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - My ex and me have been broken up for a while now but we still talked every so often. He recently got diagnosis with cancer. He lives a few hours away. I've tried to help him as much as possible because his family lives in a different state. here is the situation I've been with ... (128 words)

Do guys stop calling me and asking me out because I'm not the motherly type?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4178 days ago

13 June 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been having this problem for many years now. I never had it when I was younger. I am in my late twenties. I meet cute, smart guys who seem interested when I go out. I go on a couple of dates with them. Well, we usually hang out together as a group of their and my ... (287 words)

Have I left it too late to make it clear about how I feel?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4178 days ago

13 June 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - This guy and I have been hooking up for several months (since we first met) but for the past few weeks I have realised I do really like him and want it to progress. We always get on really well and he has told me he likes me. The problem is that his ex has come to visit him for ... (183 words)

Boss says "I like you" - what does it mean?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4178 days ago

13 June 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Since I started working in my office 5 months ago I'm getting along quite well with the director. He's single, 7 years older and always very kind to me. He's very polite but doesn't flirt with me in an offensive way. Some days ago I noticed him staring at my bust. He was ... (101 words)

Love at first sight & Man of my dreams...Literally..

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4178 days ago

13 June 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay so I really need a Christians point of view because its the only way I can really get an accurate answer. Okay, so ever since I was a young girl, I dreamed of this boy who wasn't to tall, well built, beautiful skin complexion, a gorgeous smile, and the prettiest cu... (541 words)

How can I convince my ex that it was he who drove me away?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4178 days ago

13 June 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - My ex boyfriend split up with me six weeks ago he said he wanted a break. My and my ex used to argue a lot over him going out really. He has also cheated on me a few months ago so I feel like I can't really trust him. After my ex split with me I booked a holiday with my frien... (202 words)

How can I stop myself from sending messages to a man who isn't interested in me?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4178 days ago

13 June 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I met a guy who's 2 years younger than me in a dating site. At first, he was very much interested in chatting with me, in meeting me, and was even telling me that i was more important than his work, so he wanted to chat with me more in the middle of his work. it took us only a ... (343 words)

I've developed a crush on my boyfriend's childhood friend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4178 days ago

13 June 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm 24 female, and I have been with my 28 year old partner for 4 years. Just recently he's got back in touch with an old friend from his childhood who has moved back into our village and we often invite him over for drinks, the three of us go on nights out together, nights ... (311 words)

My husband has become very vulgar during sex

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4178 days ago

13 June 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been married several years and our sex life has definitely taken a turn for the worst!! It's was great and all the time in the beginning but now it's good but very far between. Over the years my husband has made very rude comments during sex, and now I cringe when he ... (109 words)

My boyfriend is distressed after meeting his birth mother

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4178 days ago

13 June 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I would appreciate any help you could give me. Here goes: My boyfriend has been searching for his birth mother for years. (She gave him up for adoption and he never met her) A few months ago, with help, he tracked her down. So anyway he met her a few days ago for lunch. I... (161 words)

I won't steal a woman from another man, but where do I go from here?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4164 days ago

13 June 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - About two years ago I met a couple in one of my classes. I got close to the woman because she just seemed on my wavelength and she actually tried talking to me more than the guy did. I stayed friendly with her, never having more than friendly banter and the occasional hug; even ... (587 words)

I want my mother to respect my choice to remain with my boyfriend

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4178 days ago

13 June 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my boyfriend around 5 months. It has not been the most perfect relationship, he has a short temper which has caused a number of arguments. I know that he is probably not my life long partner, and have considered leaving the relationship a few times, but at the ... (331 words)

I don't want to have sex at this point and this upsets my girlfriend

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4177 days ago

13 June 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - i have more of a circumstance that i'm unsure how to address rather than just a question. my girlfriend and i have been together for nearly half a year. casually we engage in physical activities but not sex. i can tell just by the way she suggests things that she is eager to ... (386 words)

Husband stays out until 4 am..........and wonders why I am upset about it

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4178 days ago

13 June 2013 (F) age 51-59 - My husband went out last night with some work colleagues for a work dinner. He said he would be home in a few hours. Well, he came home at 4 am this morning drunker than a skunk, no keys and lost his $700 cell phone and had the nerve to ask me this morning to drive him back to ... (145 words)

Why Is His Interest in Me Inconsistent?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4178 days ago

13 June 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Last summer I met this guy. He had a girlfriend at the time, so I certainly did not put myself out there. Nevertheless, we hung out in a mutual group of friends and I couldn’t help noticing that I did find him attractive. In addition to that, we did seem to have nice bantering ... (820 words)

My husband is jealous of my ex husband and acts foolish

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4178 days ago

13 June 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - I have two boys from my ex husband he is a good dad provides well for his boys, truck for 16th birthday we didn't pay a penny no insurance, we help when and if he needs some. Child support is paid early...our boys are loved and taken care. We recently had a graduation party for ... (168 words)

Is it wrong that I'm a chubby chaser? I don't want them to get thin!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4178 days ago

13 June 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - please help i want alot of opinions hopefully professional opinions, heres my question- i love dating plus size women over 300lbs but heres the thing, if a plus size woman wants to lose weight all the attraction is over and the relationship is dead but im not saying she has ... (76 words)

Being introduced to crush through a mutual friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4178 days ago

13 June 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - A month or so ago I was in a class for work that lasted all of about a week. In that class there was a particular guy I grew the biggest, most ridiculous crush on. He was cute, funny, seemed like a lot of fun to be around. And not one word was exchanged between us (well, ... (364 words)

Boyfriend takes me for granted and is encouraging me to move away

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4178 days ago

13 June 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend of two years and I had a big fight today. I'm an unemployed teacher because the job market for teachers in my city is really bad right now. Before I met my boyfriend, I was contemplating a move to Massachusetts (I'm in Missouri), so I got my teaching certificate ... (468 words)

what does it mean when you are invited out for a coffee?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4178 days ago

13 June 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Soo this sounds insane, but I basically broke up with my boyfriend a couple of days ago. I'm not looking for another relationship for ages, I'm not over him or anything. But a kind of guy today who I've met a f... (279 words)

Should I pay to lose my virginity?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4177 days ago

13 June 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello I've been thinking about this alot recently. I am a male virgin who has never kissed a girl; nor have I been on a date. I'm not handsome in any classical sense, and I'm a big husky guy. Not to mention, a giant geek (read comic books etc) on top of that. I'm not bitt... (172 words)

Can skinny men protect their women?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4178 days ago

13 June 2013 (F) age 30-35 - I am dating a guy who is 6ft 4 and thin.I have not been dating lanky men since i was in sixth form.but he is just so different. However. my mum who I am very close with has mentioned I might get bored or feel unprotected as he is not muscly in build. I am not sure what to mak... (75 words)

My wife cannot have sex because of a medical problems and I need relief!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4125 days ago

13 June 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello, My problem is embarrassing, but it is affecting my life very significantly now, and medicine seems not to be of help. My wife is everything to me. We met in college and fell in love, and everything went okay. We didn't have sex before marriage because my count... (323 words)

Why is it that he decided to be with her, but won't leave me alone?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4160 days ago

13 June 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I was dating a guy for two years (not exclusive, no relationship) and about four months into it, he also began dating another girl. She's two years younger. Anyway, we started to become even closer around the middle of our first year of dating. Everything was good. Then around ... (1006 words)

what exactly did he mean by we shouldn't see each other anymore?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4179 days ago

13 June 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - There's this guy that I dated briefly many many years ago...we have called it quits romantically because of communication issues. When we were together though whew the chemistry we had. hehe But we stayed good friends. We were hanging out buddies you know. We got even closer ... (422 words)