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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Boyfriend can't let go of former lover

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4072 days ago

26 June 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I have been together for a few months and are in our late 30's; somewhat older and wiser, you could say. Unfortunately with age comes more baggage. From the beginning there was a "red flag": his very close friendship with another woman, which had spanned ... (329 words)

Why have I Been alone this long?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4195 days ago

26 June 2013 (M)

age 51-59 - Ive never had anyone in my life say the like me, Ive never had a girlfriend, Ive never Had a passionate hug, I fought in the army, Served 12 years, And when i was just a kid my mom told me i'd find someone, all the way through school no one ever told me they like me or asked me ... (163 words)

How can I learn letting them in my life without being negative?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4195 days ago

26 June 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I never thought that I would be asking advise from strangers, until now. i really need a second opinion. I always push away, people who cares for me. I push away my friend who did nothing but being a good friend to me. I broke up with my ex-bf without a valid reason just caus... (229 words)

Is he trying to tell me something, or am I reading too much into this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4194 days ago

26 June 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I am pretty much into my boss. We get along so well and in the entire office, we're the only two people who share the same interest in films, music and whatnot. There were instances in the past where I could not identify if he was into me but didn't want to be obvious about me, ... (297 words)

Should I stay or go? My husband has no clue how to love.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4195 days ago

26 June 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Should I stay or should I go? Married 11yrs, together for 21. we've always been off and on. Only stayed cause I thought it was the right thing to do. He is a good man, we have 3 children 7,9,11. But he's never been "with" me, "for" me. we've never been close. We both have walls ... (201 words)

My cheating ex is making me feel bad because I had a one night stand after we broke up. Am I in the wrong?

This question has 23 answers - newest was posted 4196 days ago

26 June 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Me and my boyfriend broke up around about 3 weeks ago due to him cheating on me. He's cheated on me multiple times, and now I've had enough, we broke up and ended and the break up has been challenging to say the least. Now you see..I made abit... (430 words)

My friend assaulted me, should I report it to the police?

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 4194 days ago

26 June 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi guys. Not a relationship question, but I could really do with some advice here! Last week a friend bit me. Hard. It was completely unprovoked, and I don't know if he just thought he was being funny or what. We were sitting on the couch, just talking, and suddenly he grabbed ... (587 words)

PMS blues. Should I talk to my mom?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4196 days ago

26 June 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi, I'm 16 years old, and I suffer from awful PMS. I've had my period for about two years now, and despite hours of research, I can't seem to find any information on how to aid my symptoms. I get severe breast tenderness. I can't even wear a shirt when I sleep at night be... (363 words)

Single, pregnant, and moving out from my parents. Where do I start?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4196 days ago

26 June 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - hello everyone, well i am 7 months pregnant and single and soon im going to start my maternity leave as i work full time and i get abut 8.90 an hour. i currently live at home however i would like to get my own place as we don't have enough space at home. therefore i am l... (125 words)

Getting extremely depressed over graduating - university feels like home!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4196 days ago

26 June 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm on a four-year course and due to graduate uni next year. Before I came to university, my life was completely different (single mother with abusive boyfriends, often had nowhere to stay, no social life at home to speak of). This affected me when I got to uni, but this has ... (377 words)

I'm feeling rubbish about myself because I can't get my girlfriend to orgasm!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4196 days ago

26 June 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm good at getting girls off and always been very confident about it. My new girlfriend acts just like the others getting closer and closer until its like she's about to orgasm when she pushes me away saying everything is too sensitive. I'm used to girls being too sensitive ... (84 words)

No longer sexually attracted to my husband! Should I leave him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4195 days ago

26 June 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 24, and married to a 25 year old. When I first met him, I couldn't take my eyes off him, and same with him to me. We dated for a year, then got married when I was 21 and he was 22. He still feels just as attracted to me as when we met, even more so actually. Howeve... (292 words)

Boyfriend and coworker are too close for comfort! She's trying to break us up, and she might be successful...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4196 days ago

26 June 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend work for the same company but different departments. We have now lived together for almost 2 years which is how long we have also been going out, I know we moved in really fast. Anyways there is this girl who works in the office next to him who he se... (743 words)

She left me because I don't want kids

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4196 days ago

26 June 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - I've been with the same girl for 12 years. She would like to have a baby. I really don't want kids. She has left me now to carry on with her life. It was a really painfull breakup. And I feel really guilty about my choises. She chose me to have a baby. And I messed up her ... (108 words)

How can we wear these corsets?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4196 days ago

26 June 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello ladies of DearCupid! I have a question for you all. My friend and I have a costume party coming up and we are wearing corsets as tops. These are fun corsets not proper lace ups to change our shape. The issue is we bought them online and they fit but we both have ve... (108 words)

Is it common for men in committed relationships to engage in behaviors like this with another woman? Why is he doing this?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4196 days ago

26 June 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm a single female and a few months ago, had a chance to get to know a male colleague of mine who's located in a city 4 hours away. We hit it off immediately and very quickly became friends though common interests. After our first meet, we have not seen each other again but ... (276 words)

I am addicted to chasing men and I don't know how to stop

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4196 days ago

26 June 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi there. I am a woman in her early thirties, and I think I have an addiction to chasing men. I know that many people will read this and want to give me the advice "just stop" but if it was that easy I would have done it a long time ago. I really want to change now. ... (472 words)

I can't orgasm during oral sex

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4196 days ago

26 June 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay. So my boyfriend and I have been getting more intimate for the past month or so. When I say intimate, I mean to the point of oral sex and nothing further. He is the first guy I've ever gotten this far with, and I'm the first girl to ever perform oral on him. I have had ... (132 words)

He gave me chlamydia and wasn't upfront with me about it. Is withholding information the same as lying?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4196 days ago

26 June 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm 3 months pregnant and through the series of required blood tests, I tested positive for chlamydia. Totally shocked, I told my bf what the doc said and asked if there was anything he needed to tell me (I tested negative at my last visit in February and have been totally ... (327 words)

Being the peacemaker in this disfunctional family has stressed me -- I want out

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4195 days ago

26 June 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok so my parents have been married for 17 years now and let's just say it hasn't been good times at all and i had to grow up FAST. My parents started their family very young and got married because of it (as many people do today). My father had to leave his studies to work ... (878 words)

Help dealing with teenagers in a blended family

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4196 days ago

26 June 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - My fiance' and I have a blended family. We have 7 kids residing in our home. We have a wonderful relationship the two of us that is. However,sometimes the kids cause friction between us. Last year my 17 year old son and my fiance' couldn't see eye to eye. They appeared to run ... (188 words)

Think the best thing I can do at this point is to just stay silent for "a couple weeks" like she originally said, and then maybe try to call her and see what's up... what do you guys think?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4196 days ago

26 June 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - I've been with my girlfriend for two years recently she's been being a bit distant, she tells me she's spending time with family/working on career/etc. which is all totally fine, because everyone needs time for themselves, but she's been seeing me a lot less than is usual fo... (540 words)

I joke that I'm guy repellant, but it kind of hurts. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4196 days ago

26 June 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - There's a guy that I work with that seems like he likes me, but he's hot and cold about it. If we're around people, he'll try and say hi or talk to me. Otherwise if we're alone together he'll tense up and avoid me. I'm shy and quiet, but friendly. I smile and say "Hi". I'... (130 words)