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Dating a co-worker... should I avoid it?

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Question - (30 June 2013) 1 Answers - (Newest, 30 June 2013)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I am VERY attracted to one of my coworkers. We do not work directly together but do work in the same company at the same location. After a party we found we have a lot in common and he asked if I were interested in getting together sometime.

YES!

But... I don't know if I should.

You see,. other co-workers may eventually find out we are dating which in turn can make my life a bit awkward. Particularly so with ANOTHER coworker (we'll call him guy b) who I turned down after he asked to go on a date with me. Guy B was at the party too and I can tell he was annoyed that I was talking to this guy (at one point I swear he sat at the next table over, alone, just to get a peak into our conversation) even though I told Guy B several times I was not interested. Guy B continues to flirt with me and I continue to blow him off... Anyway.

But on the plus side I REALLY like this guy and it is very rare that someone I've been "eying" actually has a mutual attraction to me right from the start.

But like I said, he's a coworker. I always hear bad stories about dating coworkers...

Advice? Thanks in advanced!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (30 June 2013):

Lol, i married my co worker ! we now have a beatiful daughter, if u like him that much then go for it, unless its against company policy then dont worry !

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