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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Feel confused. Do I go with my gut feelings or forget him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4203 days ago

18 June 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi i've know this guy for some years now. About last year we have been together almost everyday. Throughtout this whole year i have seen this guy open up and want to be around me, and then act like he just wants to be my friend. Everytime it seems like he's digging me, I ei... (1077 words)

Should I go back to my old job? I worry that the store manager does not like me and I suffer social anxiety. Or should I look for something else?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4203 days ago

18 June 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - For 3 summers I have worked at a retail store, and then leave when I go back to college for the year. When I work there, I always feel very unconfident because I worry that the store manager doesn't like me, and I always feel like I am under surveillance by the higher-u... (242 words)

Do I bow out for the sake of my boyfriend's children?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4203 days ago

18 June 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I need help as I am having a serious dilemma! I am with a wonderful guy...been together 2 years and are happy together. He has 2 kids, we want them together as I don't have any. When we met, we decided to save for a house, marriage etc. I love his kids to bits. We both wo... (478 words)

How to go in for the first kiss

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4195 days ago

18 June 2013 (M)

age 26-29 - I'm 15 and I've been dating this girl for 4 months now and I'm really starting to like her and I want to go in for the kiss but I don't know when to do it.... (36 words)

Is it possible to love someone without trusting them?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4204 days ago

18 June 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi guys ! Me and my boyfriend had been in a on and off relationship for almost 3years , on top off that he was my first love.... During those 3years Ive been good girl that always get hurt ! I was faithful to him never derespected him ! But him on the other hand had a chi... (171 words)

She shows no interest in me except pushing her arm against mine when standing close. Is this a sign?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4199 days ago

18 June 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - In my experience, if a woman is interested in me, she flirts heavily with me, laughs at my jokes and all the other usual things. In this case, there is this girl at work who seems a bit cold to me in general and hardly even responds to my flirting. However, whenever we are ... (124 words)

I am so sick and tired of losing out in love and being the lonely one.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4201 days ago

18 June 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I feel absolutely hopeless. I love my friend more than I have ever oved anyone. If he goes back to his ex wife or doesn't lvoe me now is there some hope that maybe he'll fall for me in the future? I am so sick of the loneliness and pain I feel because he used to be reall... (278 words)

How can I figure out how this boy feels about me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3927 days ago

18 June 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - There is this guy I like that I have known for 4 years. He is 16 and I am 14 turning 15 this October. Before I began to like him again, we hadn't talked for around a year. At first, it was just a crush bc I thought he looked like a guy from this popular band. It was just a ... (197 words)

Need help, girlfriend spending too much time with a new male friend, I'm abroad.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4204 days ago

18 June 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - Dear guys, I have a problem right now that I hope i can get some help with, first of all, sorry if my english is not so good, I am from Brazil. I have been in a relationship for 4 years with my girlfriend, we love each other very much and care for real, however in the pa... (545 words)

He needed a break and doesn't want me back.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4203 days ago

18 June 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been split up with my ex 7 weeks today and I just can't seem to get over it! I've seen pictures with him and other girls and its really getting to me! I have phoned him and asked him if he is with someone but he said its got nothing to do with me! We were together for ... (105 words)

Is he still into his ex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4203 days ago

18 June 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi and thanks My bf and I have been together for about a yr. Its been a roller coaster at times. Hes got different rules for him and I. Don't text men don't email men but he texts his ex and hangs out with her. He swears hes over her but I get weird feelings hes hanging on a... (254 words)

He said to keep an open mind about things -- that makes me worry

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4204 days ago

18 June 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been seeing this guy for several weeks now - we met via online dating. Things have been great, our first date lasted for a weekend and met up again. We have also expressed our fondness for one another and it is clear that there is attraction between us. We discussed a... (216 words)

They're both friends, she cheated -- I feel caught in the middle

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4203 days ago

18 June 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone, I have friend that´s temporarily abroad for work - she´ll be back in one month. She confessed to me that she´s cheated on her boyfriend with some man there...And she begged me not to tell his boyfriend, that is my good friend too...He is very good guy and he smells ... (149 words)

He's the only one I'll ever love. How can I find a way for us to be together?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4203 days ago

18 June 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - My heart is broken. I'm so afraid that I've lost hope of winding up with the person I know in my heart is for me. I love one of my closest friends, and I know in my heart that I'll NEVER love anyone else like I love him. I'm afraid that he's lost interest and that it's... (538 words)

Friend has given me an ultimatium--either be his girlfriend or we no longer talk

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4203 days ago

18 June 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm really close to my friend who told me he wanted to be more than friends about a year ago. Initially I said I didn't feel the same way and we tried to carry on as we had been before, talking everyday but I was seeing other people. Since then we've got even closer and flirt a ... (154 words)

Details about my wife's past have made me feel our sex is not new or exciting or different!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4200 days ago

18 June 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - I recently found some details of my wife's sexual history and I'm now disgusted by her. What can I do? I mean I know it is "the past" but we're talking about her saying and doing the exact same things she says and does to me. This bothers me a tremendous amount. It makes... (86 words)

We're using each other for sex so why are my friends so against him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4204 days ago

18 June 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, I've been sleeping with this guy on and off for just over a year. When it all first started out he had a gf, so as you can imagine my friends don't have a very high opinion of this guy. I know it was a crappy thing to do but I didn't care, it was just sex. He's now split... (205 words)

What to make of a woman who has confusing behavior

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4204 days ago

18 June 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - I've been giving (hopefully useful) advice on Dear Cupid for a while, now I have a question myself. When I walk my dog I occassionally bump into this woman jogging. This has happened at least five times. The first time she actually saw me having fun with my dog. After that... (393 words)

Do girls have relationships so young? I'm only 14

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4200 days ago

18 June 2013 (F)

age 22-25 - HI, my name's Olivia and recently, I went for this competition where I met this boy who I talked to. And afterwards, we talked on facebook for a couple of weeks and we met once after that for a movie with some of our mutual friends. He confessed that he had a crush on me. I ... (246 words)

In the western culture... who pays the bill on a date?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4203 days ago

18 June 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi Dearcupid, I came from asian background and i was on the dating website. Recently i meet a guy on line and went for a coffee date and one dinner date. Now i have a little question to ask " for the western culture, what should happen with the payment? is guy should ... (88 words)

How can I stop my clingyness to a guy that is already involved? I am in love with him!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4188 days ago

18 June 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm hoping someone will help me I love this guy so much but unfortunately I've made the usual mistakes clingy too emotional etc Ok he's with a girl he's been with her 5 years We got close and kissed twice last year please don't judge he said after it shouldn't have happened ... (196 words)

My gf left me over a silly mistake... what should I do from here? We love each other!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4204 days ago

18 June 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - Thank you for reading... I have been with my girlfriend for about 2 years and we are very happy together. We have always been good but she left me last week and i can't see what to do from here. I was at a party a few weeks ago and there were a bunch of people taking ph... (459 words)

My friend is behaving as if my other friends are her best friends... I'm not sure how to deal with this. Please advise?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4204 days ago

18 June 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Ive known one of my friends since I was 6 or 7 years old, we are very similar in both looks and personalities but now 11 years later we have changed a lot in personalities and now I dont know how to deal with her, this is my situation: My friend is a very sociable person ... (478 words)

To move or not to move?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4202 days ago

18 June 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I yet again turn to you dear agony aunties and uncles. I am a 33 year old women who lives at home with her parents. My family has certain rules that I have to follow, they are not comfortable with me coming home late (my mother basically stays up till I am home) and sleepi... (356 words)

She is projecting her eating disorders on to me. Why would she do something like this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4204 days ago

18 June 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm truly at a loss at the moment. My girlfriend just told me tonight randomly through a text that I've gained a lot of weight since we met and that she's worried about my health. That she felt she needed to tell me. Thing is, I'm almost 100% certain that I haven't gained any ... (191 words)

I'm going on a date with my former school teacher. What do you think of this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4204 days ago

18 June 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I've just recently got back into touch with one of my teachers from high school. (Classof2012) I'm in university now. He was my 12th grade English teacher and when I was his student I had the biggest crush on him but kept it pretty well hidden unlike my more immature friends ... (561 words)

What are your opinions when it comes to friends having surgery

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4202 days ago

18 June 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - If someone say an ex girlfriend, someone you're friends with, or know really well got a nose job what would you think of them? Taking into consideration that their nose was bumpy, hooked and too big for their face... Would you think any differently of them, as in would you ... (153 words)

Every guy I date treats me like they don't care about me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4200 days ago

18 June 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Last year I started dating and I've been through crap every since. Every guy treats me like I dont even matter. Being a gay male it's hard to find someone. So i turned to a dating app and I have met 10 guys on there and they all do me the same. Make me feel like that won't me ... (534 words)

Why did I find condoms when I cleaned up his room? Was he cheating?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4203 days ago

18 June 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my bf are together about 3 years. First 2 yrs was in the distance, I was in Europe, he in America. About one year we are living in same city, but not together yet. In fact we don't have a time to meet often, we are both working to save money for together living. We did... (314 words)

She says she has a sexual addiction. Does that mean she is cheating?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4204 days ago

18 June 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - I recently was told by my GF (of 2 yrs) that she has a sexual addiction. I've gone on many websites since she admitted this to find out how to deal with it. I know she's had a wild past, but the websites I've gone to (Posarc.com is a good one) say that acting out is part of t... (254 words)

Do you think I should even try to have a friends with benefits relationship with him or is that just setting myself up to get heartbroken again?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4204 days ago

18 June 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi all, 3 years ago I started dating a Marine. We grew up near each other and were friends for several years before we started dating. We did the long distance thing for about a year when he started asking me to relocate (across country) to marry him. That meant giving up ... (537 words)

Ghost of relationship past

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4204 days ago

18 June 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together for a year now and he's been struggling with how many past partners I have. I was date raped in my bed and have obviously had other sexual encounters in it. One day at random my boyfriend told me he doesn't want to lay in my bed because of ... (127 words)

Is it wrong to look at glamour models?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4204 days ago

18 June 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Is it wrong to look at glamour models? Hi guys, I am a 23 year old male, who likes to look at girls on websites such as zoo and nuts Is it wrong because I do it everyday? I try to stop it but its like having an addiction and to be honest I'm interested in meeting an every... (357 words)