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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I love him but I think he's going back to the woman who cheated on him. How can I prove to him she cheated?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4179 days ago

11 June 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - This is really weighing on my heart. I'm confused about whether my friend is going to get back with his ex wife or if he wants to. My big question is, I heard that she has another boyfriend and she cheated when they were married. I feel like it's second hand and I shoul... (615 words)

Planned a vacation with a friend but her negativity is giving me second thoughts

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4178 days ago

11 June 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Here is the upsetting situation for me with my friend. More than a year ago we went to a bar with her and I met one of the most gorgeous guys ever. He was younger and really good looking. He took my phone number in bar, and kept texting me after we already left, asking t... (733 words)

I just want an answer from him -- are we done?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4178 days ago

11 June 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I was seeing a man who is 26. I am 37 with two kids who is recently seperated. We have hooked up a few times. text daily. The past week he seems cold and the texts are zero. He also was at my house and stayed over three times 2 weeks ago, but nothing since. I dont know what to ... (169 words)

He said he doesn't feel the same way, but I don't want to let it go

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4179 days ago

11 June 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - So I'm 16 and I've liked the same person for over a year now and still can't give in and move on. He's a very close family friend so he's mentioned in my family a lot however I hardly see him now, every 2-3 months. Last year it all hit me hard and I felt quite depressed, this ... (205 words)

I'm to blame for the way the relationship ended

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4180 days ago

11 June 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - Really can't see a light where I am, right 4 yrs ago me and my first love split up. Now we was together for 4 yrs and you tried to do anything for me. And put up with me, grief at home and smoking weed. We never really argued. Now this girl was cute, funny ,sexy ,rampant ... (317 words)

My much older husband treats me terribly. The only reason I stay is for the kids. How long will I have to live like this?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4172 days ago

11 June 2013 (?) age 36-40 - I have been married for 4 1/2 years now. For the past 3 years I noticed that my husband started complaining about every little thing in the house. Eg if I put my laptop on the table and my daughter spills water in it he would scream at me in front of our 2 kids and call me ... (444 words)

If I give her what she wants, how do I know I will get what I want later?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4178 days ago

11 June 2013 (M)

age 51-59 - My girlfriend and I have had an amazing relationship. We clicked right from the start and I have to say that I have never had feelings for anyone else than I have for her. We had a small issue earlier this year where she thought she didn't have feelings for me anymore, yet when ... (575 words)

I'm not ready for an exclusive deal and want to date other men. How do I make this clear?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4179 days ago

11 June 2013 (F)

age - I recently met a man online. We hit it off and dated several times. I had just recently lost my husband to death and was vulnerable and lonely. I have told him over and over that I was not ready to love any man right now. He has declared his love for me and it makes me ... (303 words)

Boyfriend is leaving after 7 years. Will he come back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4180 days ago

11 June 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend of 7 years decided he is moving out because he needs time to figure things out and to be on his own for a while. We've been best friends and have been together since we were 17/18, now 25/26. We always did everything together everyday and he never really got the ... (625 words)

Is he cheating on me with his roommate? Do I just break up with him or trust him? HELP!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4179 days ago

11 June 2013 (F)

age - I am going crazy about my boyfriend... He give me so many mixed messages and I dont know what to do. He tells me he loves me, wants to be with me but then in the next sentence tells me something that contradicts what I know to be a loving relationship. For example I found a ... (368 words)

Should I just go with the flow or tell him I'm worried about what I feel is distance between us?.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3460 days ago

11 June 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been single for about a year now. I had started dating again a few months ago. For the last I've been seeing just this one guy. A week ago he asked me to be his girlfriend. His a great guy. He seem to like me as much as I like him. the last couple of days we both been ... (124 words)

Boyfriend doesn't think before speaking and says very hurtful things. Should I dump him? Or see if he'll change?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4179 days ago

11 June 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, tomorrow will be me and my boyfriends six Monthiversary or whatever. Im not exactly super exciting because i think we arent doing so well and my boyfriend thinks everything is fine. Here's a few problems we have: He hates picking me up now because i Don't have a car (im ... (255 words)

Why do guys like my accent when its nothing special?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4180 days ago

11 June 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I live in Wales and I've noticed since I've moved there a lot of guys comment on my accent and the sound of my voice! I wanted to know why is it that they like it so much, some even tell me they could listen to me speak for ages and that and english accent is very sexy, but to ... (145 words)

My wife spent over 37 hours talking/texting/sending nude photos and says I'm selfish because I can't move past it!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4177 days ago

11 June 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - My wife and I have been married for 10 years. 6 months ago I caught my wife talk to a guy she meet on a online poker game. She told me they're just friends on a game but when I checked the phone bill and it was more than talking. In a month they talked for 37 hours, more than ... (99 words)

I cheated on my g/f with 8 women and finally broke it off wanting better for her. Did I do the right thing?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4180 days ago

11 June 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - Firstly, I know i'm a scumbag. I have been with my girlfriend for about a year and I do love her. I don't know why but over the last 3 months I have been cheating on her with about 8 different girls. I love her but I just couldn't stop myself. I know there's no excuse. It wa... (279 words)

After 4months my ex girlfriend who broke up with me sent an SMS. What does she want from me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4180 days ago

11 June 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - hi After 4 months my ex girlfriend that broke up a four year relationship with me sent an sms asking me if i knew the price of a good laptop. i didn't reply her, after one hour she sent another sms saying "i sent you a message but you didn't reply, if we are not dating a... (164 words)

If you are female and single would you wear a wedding ring on your ring finger??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4179 days ago

11 June 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - If you are female and single would you wear a wedding ring on your ring finger?? I have dated girls previously who have and they have been single, I have on the odd occasion but how many other women out there would have? I'm asking as I like this woman, who I presumed was m... (97 words)

Caught cheating with his ex..what do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4179 days ago

11 June 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I were having problems because he is obsessed with his cell phone. I broke up with him because nothing else would show him that im serious. well we got back together in a matter of days,decided to work on our problems. and yesterday he couldn't come see me on ... (177 words)

Husband refuses to prove that he isn't texting other women!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4178 days ago

11 June 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - My husband has been texting/facebooking other women. When I realized he was I asked what they talked about and he couldn't remember and he deletes all messages. After seeing hundreds of messages I was making myself crazy wanting to always check the website, I made him put ... (125 words)

We will be long distance while in college and I'm afraid b/f will cheat on me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4180 days ago

11 June 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, everybody. I have my first boyfriend, and I am the first girlfriend of my bf. We have known each other for about 3 years, and we have been currently been dating for 3 months so far. We r going to different colleges, and our colleges are 5 hours away. I am really scared that ... (112 words)

Moods ruining my relationship.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4177 days ago

11 June 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my boyfriend for 18 months now, and for the first year in our relationship, we never argued, never bickered or got annoyed with each other. I know that is not too healthy, but it felt amazing to be so compatible with somebody. We have moved in together and ... (235 words)

We are fighting because we don't spend enough time together but I can't help it!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4180 days ago

11 June 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - i'm so so confused about everything that is happenin to me now. Me and my boyfriend of two months have been havin a fight. The fight is all about how much time we spend together. Not that im not spendin time with him, but since school resumed i've not been havin that time to ... (198 words)

He cheated, dumped me, and now won't leave me alone

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4180 days ago

11 June 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Why won't my ex boyfriend leave me alone? My ex boyfriend won't leave me alone. I loved him so much. (I've never felt that way about a guy before) He was the most perfect bf when we were together. He was sweet, gentle, passionate and I thought he loved me. He was t... (169 words)

Why did I fall out of love with her so drastically?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4179 days ago

11 June 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - Why did I change? Why did I fall out of loves with her so drastically? I was in a relationship for just over a 1 1/2 years. I never really felt like she was the right person for me, but I stuck it out because we were having a lot of fun together, it seemed like a good rela... (250 words)

Doesn't anyone date anymore?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4180 days ago

11 June 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I just became single again after 3 years relationship. Started going out and meeting lots of guys. We exchange phone numbers, then they call or text. Never with an invitation for a date. It's ussualy a little after we met: did you get home alright? And then texts very late at ... (345 words)

Is it ok to reconnect with my friend that I haven't talked to in over a year?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4180 days ago

11 June 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a really unique situation here. I met this guy more than one year ago on the internet. We were pen pals and wrote back and forth for over 6 months. I was traveling to NYC and we decided to meet for the first time there: best day ever. Two weeks later, I decided to meet ... (423 words)

Will my boyfriend's constant texting with his ex die down or should I worry?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4180 days ago

11 June 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been dating for around two years and have an apartment together. We have been very happy together. Recently, my boyfriend's ex came back from a study abroad program in Europe. When they split up after dating for 4 years, they mutually decided they cou... (469 words)

Is he jealous or just think I'm being inappropriate?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4180 days ago

11 June 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I work at a sports bar and all my male co-workers really like me. I never thought of it as a problem, they're all very nice and I'm nice to them back because I have no reason not to be. Usually it has never been a big deal, they just compliment me by telling me how pretty I am ... (260 words)

Does anyone have experience in dealing with a bipolar partner?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4180 days ago

11 June 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - i've got a bit of a problem and would appreciate some good advice. i've used this site a few times in the past and had some really great responses. my girlfriend is bipolar. she was just diagnosed and is currently taking meds to stablize her mood, but it's a work in progress... (392 words)

Do I help my sister with her meth addiction???!!!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4180 days ago

11 June 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - My sister is an addict. She had done everything; pot, heroin, cocaine, mushrooms, acid and meth. She is now currently struggling with meth addiction, diabetes, two skin disorders and addiction to alcohol. She has expressed to me that she wants help, so we've been setting up ... (320 words)

Should I tell my friend about his wife's betrayal?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4178 days ago

11 June 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - I have a close male friend. Years back his wife cheated on him, and he knows that. But since then he let that behind him. I was really impressed the way it was handled. However, in the past year I have known the guy his wife cheated on, through a friend. Now, I know that my ... (145 words)

Is he losing interest and getting too comfortable or am I being a little insecure?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4180 days ago

11 June 2013 (F) - My boyfriend and I are 29 years old. We have been together for almost a year and I can honestly say I know he is the one for me and I am pretty sure he feels the same. He tells me he will love me forever, sees me in the future, we are very caring towards each other etc Som... (438 words)

He says he REALLY like me but does he LOVE me? this ones for the uncles please

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4179 days ago

11 June 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - Hello aunts and uncles really need some advice. here goes.....I have been seeing my boyfriend for a month now BUT he was my second boyfriend over 20 years ago, so we know each other extremely well. Back then he was too nice for me, I wanted a more of a bad boy so to speak,... (201 words)

IS there a reason why a guy might apologize for not speaking

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4174 days ago

11 June 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - yesterday he came up to me and said I'm sorry for not speaking to you today i was busy" i then told him that he should not worry as i understand the school year is coming to an end. I notice he stares at me, smiles anytime he sees me, and also shares with me like his fears and ... (63 words)

IS there a reason to why this guy has began ignoring me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4180 days ago

11 June 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone I Would please appreciate some advice. As I’m unable to understand why a guy suddenly begins ignoring a girl. I have known this guy since September of 2012 and we would chat in science class every time but then we did not know much about one another but then the... (387 words)

Boyfriend has had a history of cheating, and the paranoia has gotten too much. Help?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4175 days ago

11 June 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Me and my boyfriend have been together for 5 months now and tbh i'm now wondering where I stand and in general what to do. In the first 3 months of this relationship, my boyfriend cheated on me. It started when I c... (1070 words)

Have I ruined a wonderful relationship by putting pressure on him to commit?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4180 days ago

11 June 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I would like some advice about my relationship with my boyfriend. Apologies in advance as it's quite complicated. We met 3 years ago at university and dated for a year. But he was an exchange student and had to go back to his country after that year. I was sure he was th... (1218 words)

Should I do something for my b/f of 6 months on father's day?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4179 days ago

11 June 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost 6 months and he has a young son. Should I do something special for him for Fathers Day? I'm pretty sure his ex wife will get some something for him from their son but should I do something too?... (48 words)