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writes:I've been skeptical of my girlfriend's fidelity to me for a while and have reason to suspect that she may be deceiving me and cheating. Recently, I returned home to visit family and I decided to Skype with her to see how she was doing. When we connected her expression seemed bummed out. We were typing instead of talking since there were people around but I noticed she seemed a bit distracted. The camera was only on her face and her eyes kept glancing around the room as if she was watching someone because she would smirk or let a sly smile go by. There were also some very faint extraneous noises going on in the background that I had never heard before. I know the typical noises of the room because prior to coming home I was living in that room with her on our college campus.It went on like this for sometime before I finally told her that I had to use the bathroom. She replied, "ME TOO!" and waited until I left the shot to get up. I didn't have to use the bathroom, it was a ploy to see if she'd reveal anything. I stood by the computer out of shot and I saw her place the laptop down in front of her and then lift the bed cover high enough to block her lower body. I managed to catch a glimpse of her wearing very short shorts and there was some muffled noise around the door then a loud slam. She was gone for about 5 minutes and came back in to the shot wearing yoga pants. I never heard the door open more than once. She was smiling a bit and I asked her how long she had been holding her pee in. She replied, "...15 minutes..." and when I looked up at her she reached behind her ear uncomfortably and looked away. For the rest of the talk she would just lightly touch her noise periodically: both obvious tells of a liar.So I proceeded to have a regular conversation with her and while I would speak she looked as though she was being pleasured but attempting to hide it. I finally asked her to turn her laptop around and she asked, "Why?" with a smile. I asked her to just do it please and she turned it to show a quarter of the room and held it there. I told her to circle the room and she asked, "Why?" again but did it anyway. Then I asked her to show me under the bed from both sides and open the closet doors. I guess her strategically fixed camera positions allowed whoever was in the room to leave quietly through the door because I didn't see anything but did hear the door open and close very lightly. She asked what I was looking for and I told her that I could have sworn someone else was in the room with her. She flashed a smile and said no one is here and showed me the room this time from the vantage point of the door. I told her I must have been mistaken. She proceeded to tell me that she was on the rag and incredibly stressed out from work and that she wanted to sleep. She disconnected without another word from me and now I'm incredibly worried about this whole ordeal.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (4 August 2013):
 Well, now you know, she wasn't a Keeper, she was a OH MY GOODNESS I DODGED A BULLET!
What a cow.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 August 2013): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI just found out that she has been cheating. We Skyped again a few weeks later and she didn't realize that I was awake and fucked someone while Skype was on. She didn't bother to mute or turn off her video. She just fucked someone for me to listen and watch. When I confronted her about it she denied, became overdramatic, and made the decision to never talk to me again. Just so you all know...
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 July 2013): God talk about paranoid. If you are so sure of this and so insecure on this relationship maybe you should not be in one at all. I would be offended if my bf was aacting like this.Unless she has done it before???If she has then you have your answer.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (29 June 2013):
Honestly I think if she was busy with a guy she would make up an excuse and get off Skype.
I think you have a VERY active imagination and you need to learn how to trust. If you think she would cheat the minute you are out the door, then maybe she isn't for you.
Give her the benefit of the doubt, if you can't do that, you need to end it.
Nothing you wrote really implied that she was doing anything wrong.
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