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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I think my crush on an actor is getting out of control

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4204 days ago

10 June 2013 (F) age 30-35 - This is going to sound really, really stupid, but I've recently developed a huge crush on an older Austrian actor... guess who? I don't actually find him that attractive per se, it's more that I like his voice, his films, his one-liners etc. and from watching intervie... (267 words)

My boyfriend is still in touch with his LDR ex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4211 days ago

10 June 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I just found out that my one year boyfriend is still contacting his most recent ex-friend. They were in a long distance relationship before we met , he broke up with her and we got together very soon after. Seems like that she wants to still remain friends and text /FB him once ... (129 words)

Are we getting too close in our FWB relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4211 days ago

10 June 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi all just needin some advice.ive been in a friends with benefits relationship for 7 months now,we have such fun together. Been ten pin bowling and to the pictures together, things that friends should do.i like this. This is ok for me. Recently ive caught him staring at me, ... (165 words)

I'm afraid to make new friends because I don't want to get hurt again!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4212 days ago

10 June 2013 (?) age 30-35 - I used to be friends with a group of girls who treated me like their doormat and who only wanted to hang out with me when no one else was around. Eventually, some of them asked to hang out again, but I said no because I knew they would only end up ditching me. Now if I happen ... (212 words)

Is it normal that I'm worried about my boyfriend being in the air force?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4211 days ago

10 June 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey y'all. My boyfriend is in the air force, doing special ops. And this requires field training where he goes in the woods and try to basically survive. Well, when we started dating, he was already in, so I couldn't change his mind if I wanted to. My question is, is it normal ... (90 words)

Why would he want a LD FWB relationship with me when he can just go down the street and have sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4212 days ago

10 June 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - So recently I just started talking to an ex of mine. We live states away, so basically the only thing that we do is text for right now. I'm fairly content to be on my own at the moment, since I got out of a long relationship not too long ago and feel I just need some time to ... (479 words)

G/f can achieve orgasm only by herself not through sex. I'm starting to love her less and less

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 4145 days ago

10 June 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Thanks in advance for any replies. Basically my girlfriend rarely achieves orgasm when we are together. We've tried the obvious things from me going down on her for a long time, to putting a pillow under her hips for when I am on top. When she masturbates she uses a techn... (242 words)

She isn't interested so why doesn't she back off a bit to help the guy forget her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4211 days ago

10 June 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - My group of close friends is made out of 7 guys and 2 girls (me included). The other girl just recently joined the group. She was my ex's friend (he introduced her to me) and, within a week of me introducing her to the group, a guy fell for her. She is very pretty (long blo... (499 words)

Could this man's answer mean that there is more than friendship on the horizon?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4211 days ago

10 June 2013 (F)

age - Met this man about 3 months ago and while we haven't gone out on an official date I see him and speak to him everyday. Myself, my son and this guy were in the store one day and a lady asked him if my son was his son. He answered her question with a YES. Could th... (78 words)

How do I stop from being obsessed with wanting to have a baby?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4198 days ago

10 June 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been married to my lovely hubby for a year. We met in our 40's and it is our first marriage for us both. As soon as we married, we started trying for a family which we both dearly want. As I am 42 now - I have been seeing the doctor and fertility specialist to se... (287 words)

Am I not good enough for these guys?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4212 days ago

10 June 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 19 years old. I've never really dated much except for the past two years I've been dating more and trying to find a nice man to have a relationship with. Well there seems to be a problem. The guy's I've started a relationship with or dated were all either unfaithfu... (292 words)

I'm devastated after an affair and he will not leave his wife for me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4212 days ago

10 June 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I decided to reach out to the users of this site because I am in desperate need of guidance and advice. I have been in an affair with a married man for exactly one year now. We used to live in the same town and his wife used to live in another state. After Xmas he moved to... (509 words)

Men: how reasonable is it to think that they sent over 500 sexually explicit messages in a month, that they were only together twice?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4211 days ago

10 June 2013 (F) - I am in a very difficult situation. I found out after 9 years of being with my husband he cheated. He didnt come clean, I just so happened to find out one day and confronted him about it. At first he lied over and over until he decided to "come all the way clean". He told me ... (341 words)

Attempts at anal sex cause extreme pain. What can we do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4211 days ago

10 June 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I apologize in advance if this gets to be too gross or weird. It is for me but I figured some answers might be helpful since past posts have always been. My boyfriend has tried anal sex a few times but I've always stopped him immediately because it hurts so much. I'm talkin... (139 words)

He won't tell me if he's gay and neither will anyone else!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4212 days ago

10 June 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm 24, and gay, and there's a guy who I like who drinks at a local gay bar - the only one in our small Northern England coastal town. I've spoken to him a few times, seems like a nice guy, but how can I tell if he's gay or not? I know he comes to the gay bar as he has some f... (253 words)

My husband cheated told me 10 months later and I can't get past the bitterness and hurt

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4155 days ago

10 June 2013 (F)

age - Husband of 26 years got approached by a prostitute when he was in Makati City, Manila. She asked him if he was alone and would like some afternoon company. He said sure and then go back to the New World Makati Hotel and have sex using a condom. He said that 5 seconds "in" he ... (266 words)

How can I get past my first love?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4211 days ago

10 June 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - This is a repeating question of first love, how can I get past mine? It's been 4 years since we ended now, we did keep in contact which didn't help. Anyway it ended with her with another man but she kept me holding on for a bit after. So now I'm picky I don't find that many ... (214 words)

After years of pornography I have no desire to date

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4206 days ago

10 June 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - I was addicted to porn and masturbation for years. I decided to stop doing engaging my habits and I am happy that I have succeeded. The problem is that I have no interest in girls or relationships anymore. Before I was too afraid to try and date, now I just don't want to. There ... (109 words)

I want to hear from his ex why they broke up!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4212 days ago

10 June 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone, I'v been dating this guy for about 2 months now,things are going great between us..during the initial days of our dating we had discussed about our ex's..he ex happenes to study in my class I was aware of it but when she broke up with me she said 'he wanted t... (169 words)

After cheating and a break up, my ex friended me on facebook. How do I respond?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4212 days ago

10 June 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - My ex and I were in a LDR. We broke up last month. It was a bad breakup. I asked him for closure, but he didn't say anything or contact me. I was heartbroken and cried to bed almost every night. I defriended him on Facebook after the breakup and trying to move on. A month ... (155 words)

My bf's attention to his ex is hurting me. Am I being unreasonable? Help.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4211 days ago

10 June 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm getting really down in the dumps about my boyfriend messaging his ex behind my back all the time. They split up 10 years ago but he speaks to her more than any of his other friends. He knows I find it uncomfortable and its starting to hurt me. He says they never argued ... (163 words)

I am going through a lot right now and need some advice on how to pick myself please?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4212 days ago

10 June 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I feel so trapped and unhappy right now and I don't know what to do. I am 27 and have been with my boyfriend for just over 3 years. In that time we have had more than our fair share of problems (him putting his friends first, smoking weed, texting his ex etc) and in the last ... (394 words)

Does it look like there's any chance that we'll get back together?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4212 days ago

10 June 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - hi, okay, so nearly 4 months ago, me and my girlfriend of 2 years split up. She split up with me, at the time her dad had got into a terrible accident and was in intensive care, and was told that he would be paralysed from the neck down, also she had to move into my parents ... (358 words)

I feel like I'm out of the loop on his life

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4211 days ago

10 June 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I am 27 and have been with my boyfriend for 4 years next month. The problem I have with him is he hardly ever tells me things he is doing and I feel that I am left out of a lot of his life. For example, this weekend I saw him on Friday night when we went for a meal. He ... (342 words)

I want to interpret these as positive signals but I have no idea about her sexuality

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4210 days ago

10 June 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - So, I'm near to the end of my first year at university (my last exam is on the 11th!). It's been a rollercoaster of a year, but I think things are looking up. Here's the thing. For the last six months I've had this crush on a girl, that I've been trying to ignore/put off b... (185 words)

Is it strange, or just a part of life?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4212 days ago

10 June 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Why do i feel like i want a boyfriend? Its fustrating because i don't even have feelings for anyone, and i haven't for quite a while. Is this just part of being a teen? What can i do about this? ... (40 words)

Husband's female work mate told him theres a guy try to flirt with her, should I worry?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4212 days ago

10 June 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone, Im here for asking a question. And wish I would get advice and answers. Thanks. My husband tells me a lot of his work, but I have never go to where he works, so I havent meet any of his workmates. But he tells me a lot of his work and his workmates. And ... (263 words)

It hurts me that my dad is cheating on my mom. How should I deal with this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4212 days ago

10 June 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok so i think my dad is cheating on my mom and she knows. I think this because i read a txt message that said "ever since ive told you i wasnt with her you've changed" also one night i heard a conversation involving "you were with her!" And "you call her and txt her!" And more ... (111 words)

Can you come back from bad fights and make it new again?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4211 days ago

10 June 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - My man and I have split up twice in a short amount of time and gotten back together. We had a few knock down drag out fights. Emotionally anyway. We just got back together today after a couple of days apart. We love each other and want to work out, and be together but we are ... (110 words)

Do I give up and move on to try to find happiness? Or do I stay? We have 2 children together.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4205 days ago

10 June 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Please help! I will get straight to the point. My husband and I have been married for 6 years and together total for 10. In the beginning of our dating and married relationship I tried my best to be the best wife I could be. Obviously I know I didn't do things right a... (228 words)

Is it charming or tacky to give daily Online updates about your relationship?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4212 days ago

10 June 2013 (M)

age 51-59 - OK, so my friend and I got into a argument today. He started dating this girl, a real looker. I'm subscribed to his facebook and in the past two months it's like every post is about her. Her photo, stuff she said, places they went. He's my buddy, right, so I'm not gonna un... (257 words)

Possible Peyronie’s question? is it normal?? How can he make it straight and why did it become askew?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4212 days ago

10 June 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Mmmmmm i don't know if my question is stupid or it is fine because i really don't know if it is normal or not My boyfriend and i are having a little problem while having sex We want to do many positions but the problem is with his dick It's not straight ....little sloo... (84 words)

Help me deal with my longing for my absent girlfriend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4212 days ago

10 June 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I'm currently in a really happy relationship but my girlfriend has gone away for a couple of months and I can't cope. I have been seeing her a couple of months but we practically live together and we are pretty much the same person in different bodies. Since she's be... (191 words)

We're on our third try at the relationship

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4212 days ago

10 June 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - My ex boyfriend and I have been on and off for almost 3 years. Over that time we broke up twice and we are currently back at it for the third time, but we are not "back together". He constantly flip flops his feelings about us from one week to the next, I really just think he ... (198 words)

Trust, once lost can you give it to anyone again?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4212 days ago

10 June 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - Quick background info: been married since '99 and have two children (9 and 12). Wife stopped being intimate with me Jan '09 citing many reasons (thyroid, loss of her father to cancer, mother getting cancer, subsequent loss of her mother, depression) along the years to ... (248 words)