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female
age
26-29,
anonymous
writes:My close friend introduced me to her friend on a night out about six months ago and ever since then we've been flirting, texting, meeting up and sharing kisses and at first I didn't like him but now I really do and I'm worried the feelings aren't mutual. He tells me he likes me, however my friend and her friends have told me he's a bit of a man whore however they genuinely think he likes me. She said he needs someone who will change him for the better, as he always used to kiss girls on nights out and only want one thing. There's a lot of prettier girls then me out there and I always doubt, that he doesn't really like me and only wants one thing. Also, he hasn't spoke to me properly for the past 3 days and i don't know why. We were out last night in a club and we kissed, we hardly spoke as we moved on to another club shortly after and he usually texts me after a night out and he didn't today. So I have two questions that I would like help with.How do I find out whether he likes me or not and whether he is willing to change? What do I say to him?and How do I change him? I don't want to completely change a person, he's a lovely guy with a brilliant personality and everything. But changing the bad things, like the way he treats girls and making sure he deffinitely wants me?
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (2 July 2013):
 You can't change anyone. Only people who want to change for themselves can do that. He may fake it for a bit but that's not a true change.
IF you meet up and kiss and have not after 6 months been integrated into his life with family and friends then I doubt he has feelings for you that you want him to have.
If he has not spoken to you for a few days, that says it all to me. Men who care about women move heaven and earth to be with them and make them happy.
I would not get my hopes up that he will change for you. In fact, I'd stop kissing him and other things because that will just make your feelings grow. Relegate him back to just a casual friend.
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