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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I cant deal with this! My ex got married within 6 months of breaking up with me

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4189 days ago

1 June 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - I am in intense emotional pain right now. I found out today that my ex got engaged and married within six months of breaking up with me. I was still pining over him and he moved on with no issue. He never informed me directly. I found out quite by accident. I c... (180 words)

Every time I tell him of my feelings for him he stops contacting me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4189 days ago

1 June 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I am 34 year old woman, been single for 5yrs. Mainly it is because of trust issue. Well last year I find my self attractive to a young man at my job (he is 26). We became good friends but I never told him that I had a crush or had feeling for him because I was afraid of what he ... (312 words)

Why do I have to be his secret? He won't tell his family about me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4174 days ago

1 June 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - So my boyfriend is 25 years older than me, we've been together for 4 months, we're happy age is not a problem, my problem is the fact he won't tell his ex wife or his kids! When we started seein each other we always said my mum would be the problem with such a big age gap but ... (162 words)

Why am I feeling sad for leaving my university for the summer?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4189 days ago

1 June 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I feel like i'm being silly letting myself get upset and affected by this, it's inevitable and I know it's not the end of this road for this. But i'm still sad and don't know how to think positively about it and just accept it... I'm in my second year of university and I... (362 words)

How to trust my boyfriend again after he cheated with his ex a year ago?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4190 days ago

1 June 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my boyfriend for 20 months now. I honestly believe he wholeheartedly loves me and only me now. However, we may have met at a not so good time, he just broke up with his first gf of 5 years for 3 months. We were also not so serious in the beginning, I sti... (1441 words)

Are my husband's threats real or a bluff? What can I do to protect myself?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4190 days ago

1 June 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - my husband is living in the same house as I am with his girl friend. He threatened me yesterday saying that he will not give me alimony and I will either be going back to my country or living n jaiL if I do not work and move out and he will be filing for a divorce. what should ... (67 words)

Is he counting the cost, despite refusing my offers to go dutch? He now says I order pricey food all the time

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4188 days ago

1 June 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi all. I've been dating this guy for a couple of months, we both go to graduate school and work at the same time. The other day we were talking during dinner and he said that I always ordered the most expensive thing in the menú and drinks! I am sure he did not mean anyt... (529 words)

How do I accept I can't be with her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4189 days ago

1 June 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - Hello Dear Cupid, I don't know if this is the right place for this but I really need to write this as I really don't know what else to do? So I've read a few stories on here and this may sound like the usual broken heart, but I feel my story is a little different.... ... (495 words)

I'm not having sex till I get married. Why do so many friends criticise me for this?

This question has 23 answers - newest was posted 4187 days ago

1 June 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm a girl, at university and I've decided I'm not having sex till I get married. I'm Christian, but that's actually not the reason why - I'm really liberal and fully in support of gay marriage/pro-choice etc. It's because sex means a lot to me (though I appreciate it might not ... (426 words)

Is it really that boring to play board games with girls?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4189 days ago

1 June 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Dear readers, I'm a little confused about the situation I encountered a few days ago. I really like to play games that require some deep thought, including both traditional card games (no gambling though) and more recent tarding card games. So we were having a walk, me and m... (300 words)

am trying to ignore him and the situation but should I get another job to make sure he won't come there?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4189 days ago

1 June 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - So me and this guy dated he broke it off with me after we broke up he is being a complete ass I am trying to ignore him but I feel as if he's harassing me since our break up in a one month period he has brought not one but two different females to my job and I don't understand ... (148 words)

Why would she say 'yes' to a drink and then not text me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4188 days ago

1 June 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - Probably a question mainly for the ladies on here , so I've been working in a new office since January, and I have noticed their is a cute girl that works next door. Of which I've grown to like and wanted to get to know more. I've lightly flirted and got the hint she may like ... (177 words)

Why does this girl at work look or stare when in a long-term relationship? Am I crazy to ask?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4189 days ago

1 June 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - Ok, I'll try not to make this too long as I have no idea whether to pursue this or...get a life!!:) There is a girl at work I really like and I'm getting very confused at how she feels about me. We have been looking/staring at each other for the past 3 years but she stays wi... (511 words)

She never told me she was married, and she's destroyed my life

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4190 days ago

1 June 2013 (M)

age - I have been Dateing a women for about two years who I met on line she never told me she was married and she even set a date for us to be married and now I found out she is married still liveing with her husband, she has been lieing to me for the past almost 2 years, I have made ... (142 words)

He cares less and less although he used to want to spend time with me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4190 days ago

1 June 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - my boyfriend keeps staying out all night and its really upsetting me. I told him he needed to let me in after work as I didn't have a key and left me waiting on the doorstep and never showed up. I rang and text with no luck. This morning he text saying sorry, I had to stay ... (177 words)

Are guys really that lazy? He's so random about texting!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4189 days ago

1 June 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I am really confused with this guy. I've known him for about 2 months. I don't know whether we are dating or not. We went out for about 4 dates. We kissed on our last date and did a little bit more (neck kissing, boobs groping) but we didn't go all the way. One major reason is ... (209 words)

Will having sex with him prove that I love him? I don't want to lose him. What should I do?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4189 days ago

1 June 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - I just had a new boyfriend ane he want me to have sex with him to prove that i love him,i told him that i am a virgin but i am not,i dont want to lose him,what can i do?... (40 words)

Intimacy issues with my girlfriend! Help!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4189 days ago

1 June 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - Me and my girfriend, we recently moved on to the physical phase in our relationship. She's a virgin and wanted to go things slowly so we took things very slowly. Didn't even undo both our pants for weeks. After that we slowly moved down. I love her and respect her so I never ... (281 words)

I have that constant feeling in my gut telling me "He's not the one"!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4167 days ago

1 June 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, I've been with my boyfriend for a year now, we are in a long distance relationship. I've noticed that lately he's getting very distant, he'd rather spend his time playing video games with his friends, we can go for days without talking to each other. We already have fut... (299 words)

His ex keeps in touch. Should I be worried that my Bf sends texts to his ex sometimes?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4190 days ago

1 June 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I saw a simple "hi, just dropping you a text to see how you're keeping" text on my boyfriends phone. We had been talking previously the day before about knowing phone numbers by heart and he mentioned a couple of his exes in his list! There's one that broke his heart. He says ... (112 words)

"He wishes he has met me when he was older?" What do his words mean? Is it a bad thing that he said this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4190 days ago

1 June 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I'm just looking for some clarification or an opinion on something my boyfriend said to me. We have been together for over 3 years now, and we had a conversation a few nights ago where he said that "You're the forever girl, you're the one where I went, yep she's the one.... (189 words)

Do I ignore him completely, in the hope he'll focus on her??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3896 days ago

1 June 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - I need advice on how I should go about setting up two friends. First of all, my BEST friend, who is so beautiful, sweet, smart and amazing in everyway, has a slight crush on one boy in our school. He had a crush on her, too. But, I'm not sure if he still does. You see, my ... (247 words)

Will she ever love me? Any good advice on what should I do, to make things better?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4187 days ago

1 June 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Its been a year now since i have been with her. She was in a relationship with her bf since 5yrs but their relation was having a very rough time! Now they have broke up and its been around two months now, i am still with her supporting her caring for her. Yeah i am in love wit... (247 words)

I couldn't attend a works team building night but didnt tell my boss, help she may hate me now??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4191 days ago

1 June 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I have mild social anxiety, (I am normal and am not intellectually impaired and I DONT have aspergers!!) I am just a little shy and awkward at times, like many people are.. Please no hate. Im worried. Yesterday my work had a "team building" evening, where 15 (not a... (581 words)

I want to leave my boyfriend but feel guilty because he is in such a mess!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4190 days ago

1 June 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Am I a bad person for wanting to leave my current boyfriend? We have been together two years, I care about him deeply and I think he is a great person with a lot of potential. But he is constantly making bad decisions and doing things that end up landing me in hot water. I have ... (137 words)

Fried Chicken was my birthday gift:(

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4188 days ago

1 June 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been dating this guy for nearly six months. Things have not gone so smoothly, but we worked through our differences and we both like each other a great deal. My birthday was last week and as a gift, he brought me a big bag of fried chicken from a place he remembered I ... (142 words)

She says porn is cheating, but she'll pull out her vibrator right after sex!?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4189 days ago

1 June 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - I made the mistake of not deleting my internet history after watching porn one night recently, and my wife discovered what I'd been up to. She was annoyed about it and said porn counts as cheating unless we watch it together. At the time I didn't retaliate but now, a couple of ... (148 words)