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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Not sure how to read this girl - does she like me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4167 days ago

23 June 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - I've known this girl for about 2 years, we originally met as she was a co-worker of a very good friend of mine and has joined us (among others) for the occasional night out. Almost the entire time I've known her she has been in a relationship but became single a couple of ... (763 words)

Should I give up or approach him about hanging out again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4167 days ago

23 June 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - This is such a stupid question.... I've known this guy a very long time. He is 29 now and I am 21. I met him when my brother dated his sister in highschool and that was a long time ago considering my brother is 28 now. Well.... I have always had a crush on him. Butt... (189 words)

We both have someone else now so why did we get close to each other again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4167 days ago

23 June 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - So here I go. I just don't understand a certain situation or how to handle it. Although there is a lot that goes into the background of this, I will just try my best to condense it. About 5 years ago I had a male friend who was in my life at a horrific time. My husband was ... (551 words)

I love my b/f as a friend but I'm not in love with him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4168 days ago

23 June 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Background story: I have been dating the same guy for two and a half years, with ups and downs and we've broken up once, in which I cheated on him. In theory I have always been happy with him as a friend, in fact there have been more times than not in our relationship that I ... (229 words)

I'm almost 30 and have never had a proper relationship. Is something wrong with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4168 days ago

23 June 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm almost 30 and i've never been in a long term relationship. Actually if honest i've not really been in a proper relationship either. The closest i came was a guy i saw every day for 8 months who was my absolute best friend (he adored me and I him) but at the time i was ... (308 words)

My ex wanted to know about my boyfriend. Does he still have feelings for me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4167 days ago

23 June 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - My ex called me yesterday and said that he needs my help on a computer. He isn't good at using computers, but he knows that I am. He also asked me what I was up to. I told him that I was going to a family party. He also asked if I was still with my boyfriend. After we hung up, ... (87 words)

Is it possible to make somebody love you?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4167 days ago

23 June 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - I've been dating a girl for some time now and I can fairly say that I love her. I've known her for more than 6 years now, but we started dating only recently. We used to be very good friends back in high school and I had a crush on her. I'm 100% certain she knew it but didn... (508 words)

My girlfriend says that she has put a barrier up. How do I get through it to her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4168 days ago

23 June 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi there , my girlfriend and I have been together for 6 months . I we've fallen out a few times and she's said I need to make more time for my friends etc . She tells me that she has put a barrier up and it will take time to get that back down . We were very affectionate ... (106 words)

How much space is too much?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4167 days ago

23 June 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - okay so I'm dating this guy we have been dating for about 4 months. He lives with me. I know he shouldn't be living with me with us only being together for . Months. Anyway, there for a while we was spending every single day together we was together 24/7. We got into a huge ... (335 words)

Are we over before we even had a chance to start?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4159 days ago

23 June 2013 (?)

- Hi all! Please help!!!! I am in dire straights.. I came back to a company I used to work for just over a year ago and ran into a guy I had had a very intense fling with 5 years ago. Long story short, I left the company and moved away from the area - I was too young at th... (354 words)

In love mattesr, should you follow your heart or your gut instinct?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4168 days ago

23 June 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - That's my question really, ii love matters should you listen to your heart or your gut and what do people generally listen to? There is a guy I really like whom iv been friends with for years and we.ve been getting close and talking a lot via texting and there is a defin... (201 words)

He's a shy guy and I can't tell if he likes me or is just being friendly

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4167 days ago

23 June 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - I've always liked one of my close guy friends, who is really shy, and all our friends are constantly trying to set us up because apparently we are cute together but he only likes me as a friend which I was fine with. But last night stuff happened and im not sure if anythings ... (147 words)

Do I leave my b/f alone for a night to go out with my friends? No males are invited!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4164 days ago

23 June 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi. Currently I’m away at my uni town, and am planning on going home for 2 weeks with my boyfriend who is from my uni town. A group of my best/longest friends from home want to meet up, but they don’t want any boys to be there. One of the girls I’ve not seen in over a year a... (269 words)

Our sexual relationship is all just one sided. Is this right?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4166 days ago

23 June 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, I have been in a relationship with my girlfriend for about 24months or 2years and in that time we both have not had sex. We are each others 'first' boyfriend/girlfriend, we started dating in our 20s and both virgins. Though we have not had sex, I very often perform or... (238 words)

Should men stand up and get involved for their partners?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4166 days ago

23 June 2013 (F)

age - I have a question about men standing up for their partners. My husband today told me a story about a woman at a wedding who was being picked on by another female guest. The woman went on and on but the lady who was being picked on's husband did nothing. I asked my husband ' ... (189 words)

I am confused: I don't particularly like the guy but don't want to break contact either ....

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4168 days ago

23 June 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey All, I posted this question before and it was basically about this guy I met on a dating site. I did not like him too much but I think he liked the date, and me. I didn't want to judge too early so I decided to take it forth. We are in different states and I'll be gone ... (275 words)

Did I do the right thing here? Should I stay in this relationship?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4167 days ago

23 June 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi aunt and uncles :) It's been a while since I have had to post as I have been really happy up until now. I have been with my boyfriend for 1 and a half years and we were really happy. He lost his job in November and was sent to prison. I stuck by him for the 5 months he ... (731 words)

Should I break up with my girlfriend? We don't seem to have that spark.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4165 days ago

23 June 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - My and my girlfriend have been together for nearly three months. She is 18 and im 22. My problem is that we dont seem to talk very much. I am naturally quite quiet and she is too I suppose, but I just wonder if this is normal. I see my friends with their gf's and they are alwa... (259 words)

Is this really cheating?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4161 days ago

23 June 2013 (M)

age - I'm separated for 3 years now. I ran into my high school sweetheart a few weeks ago and made a lunch date. At our lunch we discussed everything. I told her about my cheater wife and she told me about her bad marriage. Long story short, she asked me for sex. Oh I want her, but... (354 words)

Single Mom, please help - why is my daughter behaving like this?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4161 days ago

23 June 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - I am a single mom... I have a daughter who is 13 yrs of age. For the past year her behavior has been really unusal. She walks around the house with a robe all of the time...And its like 80 something degrees, it seems she uses this robe as a clutch she evens sleeps in it... sh... (413 words)

Will I measure up OK for upcoming one-night stand?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4167 days ago

23 June 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, my mates girlfriend is coming to visit him in a week (she lives in another city) and we are going clubbing when she comes, she is bringing her mate with her to set her up with me (just for a one night stand), now I'm just a bit anxious as I think I have a small dick, I have ... (114 words)

Take a Break or Break Up?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4168 days ago

23 June 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my boyfriend for 6 months next week. From the start of the realationship, he really through himself in: I became apart of the family fast, he told me he loved me into a few weeks of being together. We had some really great times, he made me really happy, but at ... (340 words)

Has she just broken up with me? I can't get in touch with long distance girlfriend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4168 days ago

23 June 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - I used to have/currently have (really dont know) a girlfriend whom I love a lot. We were in a relationship from past 4 months and everything was going on good between us. We use to chat every day because she is far away from me, on phone, social networking sites etc. So as usu... (262 words)

Is this normal to feel like this? My ex would not speak to me at a friend's wedding and it made me feel horrible.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4168 days ago

23 June 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - Yesterday I attended a friend's birthday party and ran into my long-term ex girlfriend and her new(ish) partner. We were together for many years and hadn't seen each other in quite a while. We knew each other would be attending but her partner hadn't been invited so it wa... (314 words)

Will I be able to find a girl to date? I'm not interested in sex!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4167 days ago

23 June 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - I get plenty of attention from girls and even occasionally some even ask me out, which from what I hear in not the usual. My problem is that I am not interested in sex, namely penetration. I would very much enjoy foreplay, cuddling, kissing and everything else and can do it for ... (164 words)

Deep friendship or electric spark - Should I settle for either one?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4167 days ago

23 June 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I was in a relationship with my high school sweetheart for more than 9 years.It was a safe sweet comfortable relationship - too comfortable. But as usual career ambitions and growing up got in the way. Both of us were unhappy for the last 2 years of the relationship and in ... (528 words)

I like my best friend don't know how he feels about me but don't want to ruin our friendship if we date!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4167 days ago

23 June 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - I know this is just like those stupid teen problems that are really stupid and shallow, but I really don't care. I don't know if my friend likes me or not. He's told me that I'm his best-friend, and my other friend, who has known him a lot longer than I have, say's that he's ... (254 words)

Would it be wrong of me to contact her, considering my position as a teacher/adult in her life?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4168 days ago

23 June 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - I used to student teach at a local high school. While there, i fell head over heels for a junior (now an upcoming senior) in one of my classes. Over the past month, after my internship finished, i found myself falling more and more for her, and i found her on one of the soci... (135 words)

I think I'm too short to get a date!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4168 days ago

23 June 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm terribly short for a man - 62 inches / 157 cm. I never thought of it as a problem until I was 18 and people started pointing out that women prefer tall men. I work out, so much so that recently I've lost about 20 lbs and I'm in the best shape of my life at 27, but ... (316 words)

My husband doesn't want sex as often, what can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4161 days ago

23 June 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi all. My husband no longer wants to have sex regularly and Im not sure about what I should or can do about it. Im 24, we have two children together ( toddlers) He works a regular job and has a side job as well. Im currently a stay atvhome mom ( not thrilled about it) but I ... (225 words)

I'm falling in love with my older brothers girl friend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4168 days ago

23 June 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - Well let's start of by saying that I'm falling in love with my older brothers girl friend, I don't know why. But I just started to feel some thing for her. I don't know what it is because, I don't wan't to say it to her because I might p off my older brother for one thing but ... (164 words)

My boyfriend has a very weird relationship with his cousin?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4167 days ago

23 June 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I apologize in advance if I sound silly and immature. My boyfriend and I have been dating for a little over 2 years, and everything goes great aside from a few fights here and there. Keep in mind that he's 19, and I'm 18. One thing I've noticed is that his female cousin (w... (213 words)

Am I missing my ex or the end of our relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4167 days ago

23 June 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I was wondering if anybody could help. I broke up with my little girls dad, due to constant arguments and the fact I feel like he isn't mature enough. He's really lazy works 2.5 hours a morning, and was procrastinating looking for anything else. Never helped out with the nig... (667 words)

How can I be this in love with this man? Is he my soulmate?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4164 days ago

23 June 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - I have a crush so big I stay awake wondering if this is my soulmate. Then one day I'm sure he is my true love, but the situation is so odd that most of friends have begun to pity me, or think I'm a little crazy. I'm open to the idea of dating someone else but no one I've ever ... (343 words)

Has our relationship really ended?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4165 days ago

23 June 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone. Pls help me ... Me and my guy statrted dating a year back.we work at the same office.everything was fine and good betweeen us.I fell for him .but he told he doesnot have marriage ideas with me as for that time. i did not take it to my heart and continued bieng ... (552 words)

Crush and I don't know what to do help!!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3896 days ago

23 June 2013 (F)

age 22-25 - im still young but i have liked this guy for about 4 years we used to be really close like secret close he said he trusted me with his life at one point but now were not as close we dont even talk really but i. just found out hes moving and lately i see him looking at me when ... (150 words)