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51-59,
anonymous
writes:We have a new person at work, she is very friendly and has mixed in well with our small group.Over the last month we have started to flirt with each other quite a bit. For instance, i've touched her arm and the small of her back in conversation several times without any obvious signs she didn't appreciate it. She always smiles when we speak and glances across the office at me during the day.When we are alone she flirts more, touching my forearm with both hands in conversation to emphasize a point and when she passes me things, like food, keys, etc, her hands seam to linger on mine.Recently she has started squeezing my hand and letting our legs touch for several minutes when we are sat next to each other, for instance when we have been out to eat with the rest of the office she has put her leg against mine under the table. She does however appear to flirt less when were in a group compared when we're alone.I'm not really sure if she likes me as a good friend or as something more. I did however let our hands meet and squeezed hers - she looked at me and squeezed mine right back before letting go. Although my friends say she is friendly that haven't been on the receiving end of her flirting to the extent i have described. I think she generally is just a friendly kind of person.Id really appreciate any thoughts on finding out without asking her directly since i want to avoid awkwardness if im misreading the signals completely.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 June 2013): She likes you ! Ask her out
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reader, misLadYd..  +, writes (29 June 2013):
 aaah.. If you dont ask her directly then how will you know?? I suggest you keep reading the signs and guessing because if you dont ask her straight up then you will never know
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 June 2013): She really likes you!
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